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SAMBARRY:
Op face your front besides if she knew this and still entered she should live with the consequences of her choices. She's an adult not a child. It's obvious that it is better to live with rams and sheeps than some kinds of men



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If you guys say I should mind my business. Well fine but we should know at some point in time, we 've made wrong choices. I already told her to come here for advice and see what she can do to remedy the situation

saaedlee:
stay off your friend's marriage, you might even be the cause of these issues... who knows?

Let them fix their martal issues themselves! #AWordIsEnough

I don't say anything to her. I try to encourage her as I don't want to be the reason for their break up but she calls or pings. Am trying to help her find out what she can do to be happy again and tame his cheating habit. All I want is her sanity. Imagine someone crying profusely over the phone and I just can't help her. She used to be a happy fellow all thru. Even now some people ping to say my friend doesn't reply their pings and all. I don't want dis to drive her to do the unthinkable.

My friend visits nairaland a lot and she will see all ur advices.
My friend has been married for a year now. Although during the courtship I warned her about her husband. That everybody knows him as a chronic flirt. They were both in different states. But she still went ahead. And now they are married and she has been miserable since the first day of the wedding. My eyes saw the unspeakable on their wedding day. In fact the husband is so immature and proud. No respect for her family. And he displayed it on the wedding day. Well I kept mute cos he didn't disappoint me in the character aspect as I heard they were already married and what God has joined together let no one put asunder. That was when my friend began to regret the marriage but it was late.

Fast forward to two months after the wedding, the husband started keeping women outside d home. My friend couldn't tell anyone but she confided in me. I tried to encourage her. Now it's has turned to the worst.
My friend travelled for a while for treatment and the husband wouldn't call and for days. When she calls, his phone was usually busy sometimes and he won't call back. The next morning she calls and he will bluntly say he was asleep or tired.

then during Easter they travelled down to their hometown, then she noticed some changes. Out of curiosity, she checked his phone. My friend got the shocker of her life. He has been travelling to meet his girlfrnd in another state and other girls. He sends them money, he doesn't call his wife pet names but called the girlfriend all kinds of pet names. And he really downgraded my friend in the chat, that her sex was so disappointing and even went ahead to laugh at his wife that she wasnt virgin when he met her and a virgin was even better. He was referred his wife as "that girl" to his mistress. The girl never forced him to marry her.He was the one that told her he will marry her. This is some one that do ask the guy how her intimacy life is and he would say it us fine by him. When it comes to hygiene I rate my friend 9/10. We schooled and served together.

She confronted her husbad. He could not apologize instead he blamed her for going through his phone. And says she is a baby. You knew she was a baby and still married her. That she doesn't act her age. I know that is wrong. My friend is so mature even by the way she handles his infidelity. When the reverse is the case. How can you claim to love a woman and then you downgrade her. Everyday you make cry and yet he passes by like the she means nothing.

Imagine they had a huge fight now night and in d process. He hit her. She was upset and called her mum and told he mum about his infidelity, the husband replied and said d prostitutes are better than her. My friend called me the next morning and was crying. I live far from her so I couldn't visit her

recently, she told me about the frequent night calls he makes while he is in d parlour and she was in d bed. She decided to trace the call through the help of a friend. Got the number, lo and behold it's the same mistress which she found out sometime ago.

She told me sometimes she may just need cuddling and not intimacy at night and he will just ignore her. No hugs, no kisses, no play time as couples. My ears have heard a lot.whenever I call her she sounds depressed and most times break down in tears over the phone. Sometimes she pings me and tell me she is depressed.I knew her ex and they were perfect just that parents were not in support of the relationship.

She told me this morning she was tired of the marriage. I tried to encourage her that he may stay. But on a second thought. Why will u be unhappy in a marriage and decide to stay while the unrepentant cheat is happy with the other women. The worst is that he doesn't even care and is quick to tell her she can leave. I know the guy in question well and he comes from a single parent-home so he doesn't know what it means to be a family. This hurt me. Other people warned her about this. What pains are more is that she had to fight to ensure he was accepted by her family and now the person she fought for has turned her to a filth.

I still keep asking her what drew you closer to this guy in the first place. Her reply was that wheneva she came to visit and probably makes a mistake in the cooking, that he corrects her nicely and made her laugh with jokes. And she wasn't aware of his cheating skills.that she thought people were just talking. Now d scales are off and things are upside down.

I forgot to add this. The husband thinks as long as he provides for her and the family, she should not complain when he keeps his mistress. I know marriage isn't a bed full of roses. Am married as well but my husband doesn't disrespect me d way he does to her. This should also serve as a warning to the single. Please know ur spouses well before you say "I do". Your future happiness depends on that decison. Please advice my bestie because she is depressed. Ways to handle a cheating partner
I am dropping off now cause I need head for home from work..

blym:
It's kinda hard to imagine how we youths comprehend wat we c or heard. . Clarrification of the so said sentence by buhari is needed b4 peepx start castigating buhari b4 takn d oath, thank God A.p.c have said sumfin abt it. . Dis bias media'ouses r it again, he neva said he's gonna make 1dollar to 1naira, bt most editors of newspaper twistd wat he said just to favour their choices. .

Why didn't Buhari say this before the election. Why disprove it now that he won the election

Jhayeahsam01:
thread for shoe makers in abba

Are u based in aba

Xiadnat:
Tilted uterus should not affect conception provided the reproductive structures (Fallopian tube, uterine wall) are relatively functional.

Besides, if you have conceived before successfully, then nothing to worry about.

I have never heard of uterus repositioning. I doubt there is a thing you can do about that. If your baby is breech, there is massaging to reposition baby, but that's all I have heard of remotely close.

Tnx doc. My fallopian tubes are fine

[quote author=Xiadnat post=32392802][/quote]Gd am. Pls doc I was told I had a tilted uterus to the right. Does it mean retroverted or anteverted uterus. And does the tilted uterus to the right affect my chances of conceiving. Although I gave had a baby before. I heard a massage can help to reposition the uterus well. How true is this. Thanks

marc99:
On a lighter note, I have a doctor friend who's operates as a hotelier. I know of one who delved into commercial agriculture. I read of one who went into the make-over business. We all know of webmd who does his stuff online. All these are entrepreneurial ideas.

All I do is take up health complaints and make the complainants understand what their problems are and proffer effective solution, treatment line, recommendation, but get discreet with rx. I run a consult, that's my entrepreneurial idea.


I could have quit when the allegations came up, but because I'm not a wimp, or a nerd to chicken out on semi-literate fellas, I stood my ground. If I erred, I'll humbly apologise to those who deserve it.

I am who I am, what I am, and I'll be what I'll be in time to come.

Half baked fellas. In ur heart of heart you wish to be in our position. Broke ass. And to think dis drop out, rapist still has his useless mouth running. I told you before to go get a job like your mates are doing. Even the pple u talked about dt read medicine. At least they are not practicing bt delved into something profitable and are not deceiving client with one senseless consult.

Jst show us your bsc certificate or nysc to prove us wrong

marc99:
You, and cionon already made a threat to my life. That fact has been established already.

Whatever happens to me, well you know the rest.

Shame on you. At the end you are so exposed. Ur wickedness will catch up on you soon. It has just begun. Your existence is a shame to humanity. Had to guts to scam on health section

https://www.nairaland.com/104493/doctor-house-obstetrics-gynecology/150

Please ladies be careful with your dealings with marc99 outside this forum. I am nt stopping anyone from asking for advice here. It's a great forum but desist from paying money. Except it is your freewill to give. Even foreign websites will always tell you to consult a gynaecologist who can see you.

A word is enough for the wise.

marc99:
Excerpt:

Dial 32123 to join our medical professional in a conference chat as we discuss BLOOD SUGAR CONTOL from 9am-5pm. Service cost #30 per/minute. T&C Apply

If a minute costs N30, how much will all the time I've spent here attending to health complaints cost? Should be more than 20million naira I'm sure.
Yet I do this liberally, everyday.

The problem is that some ordinary ladies are subconsciously inconsiderate. They love freebies. They go to a mall, pick up an item, head straight to the counter and pay for the item. But these pseudo-learned ladies expect free consultation, they don't actually see advice as having same worth as the groceries they pick up and pay for.

Maybe it's time I started packaging health advice in a bottle, tag a price, then place it on a shelf for sale.

Left to me, I really want to quit and focus on forging ahead. But a friend made me realise things like this are bound to happen, and it shouldn't discourage me from the doing the good deed on this thread. The opinions of 30 local chickens do not add up to that of 3 eagles.

Broke ass. Yes package it in a bottle. Coming here to tell us crap. Package your advice in a bottle. Then we shall buy. You know you are living in penury that's why you are coming here to extort from innocent and desperate ladies. Go look for job in the hospital as ur colleagues have done than living ur life on the internet.


Well that's my last piece and if you want me back, I ll come back for more oniranu.

[quote author=Yetoonde24 post=31419801][/quote]I also blamed my frnd. We just met on nairaland. I wud have adviced her not to continue. I added him bt I noticed something didn't feel right about him and deleted him after our first chat. I just came to warn pple to keep their money in their pocket and visit a physical hospital.

What pains me more he never told her to do any test, he was after money. All the tests she did, I was the one that advice her to do them. We even live close by so I gave her directions to where I did my own tests.

Nobody can intimidate me to speak the truth. I be wafi girl. marc9 take note

chaz007:
I've known marc for quite awhile, and I know him in and out. I took the liberty to ask him what really happened. From what he explained, I can categorically say your friend is so inconsiderate, and cruel. Ask your friend if he owes him for the service he rendered or not. Nxt tym, don't come here posting things u knw nutin abt. Any1 can also come here to warn ppl that u're a prostitute, or an adulterer. So don't say or do things u won't want ppl to say or do to u. There are 3 sides to a story. For u to come slander him based on one side of the story, that tells u're a grown up kid.

Shut up fool. U are the same marc. Why didnt he come out plan and ask for his money. Why tell her u were buying drugs wen u want to collect her money. Even collected more than.

Oh did he tell u wen he told her misoprotol which is 600 is 8000. Deny it marc9 and let thunder strike u blind. Idiot. I just had to get my mouth shut untik u twart quote me. Is your name not charles.

Marc9:
I'm tempted to call you a "nitwit", but I won't do that.

Is your friend a handicap that you had to come make a slander on her behalf?

Well, it's one of those things though. "To every action, there's an equal and opposite reaction".

Wow o. I won't trade insults here cos I am mature. I am just warning people here to trade with caution cos she trusted you and you both have been friends for long now. I can't understand why you would ignore her calls and pings for days. All she wants is her money.

Pls you all should be careful of marc9. Just got a report from a nairalander friend of how after paying some amount for drugs, he didnt get it and has refused to pay back. Worst of it all is d money was borrowed and she has been calling him, he doesnt pick but i just sae he updated today.

Please if truly you are the good guy she talked about before now, pay and clear all doubt from her

Fertility blessings to all.
Please all, how long do I need to take ACV and BSM to see results. Tnx

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So somone will drink all these drugs for staph? Is there no particular one for staph? If yes, which one

@goldengift, u just abadoned us in the middle of the sea. been waiting for you to reply others. as u ve nt replied them make i join the queue of asking. how much is serrapeptase and ACV braggs wt mother.

abeg do quick come back o

I met my husband on Facebook. Then I was just coming out from a broken relationship of 4years I needed to get over the break up and I started accepting friend requests that I had ignored and after a while, a pop up message came in. He was and is still a comedian. We started as friends and ended up married after one year of Friendship, and two years of dating. I have no regrets marrying him.

My Dh Did his semen analysis last year after a frnd told him to go for it and it came out fine so I feel the issue is from me but my doc isn't taking it serious

Marc9:
You can check my profile, my pin is on it. Feel free to add, I'll refer you where you can get the best of help.

"To solve a problem, one has to understand the problem very well".

God is in control!

Hello Dr, I have bn on ttc for a year, december. My doc still wants me to keep trying on my own but I can't keep waitin. I feel I don't ovulate but he disputed d fact. I did a scan on my own but I wud be seeing him on Monday as he is not around. The sono said I ovulated bt I read your reply to diegs post. So I am having a second to if I really ovulated. Pls this is the last scan I did that confirms ovulation. Did I ovulate or its regressing. I am really curious. Tnk u

diegs:
I have been monitoring my ovulation on ultrasound since November. I do ovulate but I don't get pregnant. I went to my doctor to know if it's the d&c but he said it can't be as it was the sacking tube they used and it can't block the tube or cause a scar tissue. Is that true? And what could cause me to ovulate and not get pregnant


Then secondly I started my scan this month on cd 10 then on cd 12 it was 1.96 cm, cd14 was 1.8 cd 16 it had reduced in size to 1.6 and had irregular border with ET of 13.5mm. The sonographer said I had ovulated on cd 16. Am still confused does it mean it released the egg on cd 16. Because I didn't bed on cd 16 but did a day before. Please help a confused lady

Googled and saw this. I have been monitoring since cd 10 as well but my sono didn't say it has irregular border. It just said it reduced in size and told me I ovulated. Maybe I should post it here.

diegs:
I have been monitoring my ovulation on ultrasound since November. I do ovulate but I don't get pregnant. I went to my doctor to know if it's the d&c but he said it can't be as it was the sacking tube they used and it can't block the tube or cause a scar tissue. Is that true? And what could cause me to ovulate and not get pregnant


Then secondly I started my scan this month on cd 10 then on cd 12 it was 1.96 cm, cd14 was 1.8 cd 16 it had reduced in size to 1.6 and had irregular border with ET of 13.5mm. The sonographer said I had ovulated on cd 16. Am still confused does it mean it released the egg on cd 16. Because I didn't bed on cd 16 but did a day before. Please help a confused lady

Google and saw this. I have been monitoring since cd 10 as well but my sono didn't say it has irregular border. It just said it reduced in size and told me I ovulated. Maybe I should post it here.