NnolimNzubechi:
Hello Nairalanders.
It's A Long Read But Please Bear With Me

Am the only child, Am A Boy,my mom died when I was 3 years and am the only child.so it's been only me and dad since and his girlfriends..

Recently I started smoking, He noticed it..My dad too smokes but only cigarette,He has been smoking past a Decade Now But He looks very Healthy And Chubby Too So You won't Know He Smokes Unless Your Saw Him smoking.

So He told Me To Stop Smoking,And He Was Angry With Me For A Week plus,Later The Anger Reduced..He Taught I Smoked Only Cigarette but I Smoke Both cigar and Arizona Weed,Jus those Two.i Don't Take alcohol.
I Stopped Smoking Though,It Was on Saturday Being Feb 4,That I Relapsed,I Smoked A.Z,So My Dad And Her Current Girlfriend Came Back,She went To The Backyard And Saw the Aches and The Brown Rizzla..Then she went and Told My Dad,My Dad Came Into My Room And Started Saying Plenty Things,Lastly He told me To Leave His House Tomorrow Being Sunday Feb 05. He then left My Room, I Was Shocked,I Didn't What To Do Or Say To Him

So in The Morning I went Out To Buy Something,When I Came Back He Locked The Back Door From inside,So I Couldn't Open It With My Keys.I Knocked And Told Him It Was Me,He Told Me To Go Back To Where I Come From And i Should Not Knock Ever Again.This Made Angry,He Didn't Even Give Me The Chance To Apologize,I Used Vex And Told Him Oya Let Me Carry My Property,He Said He Will Throw it For Me,That He Is Already Packing My Belongings,Few Minutes Later He Threw It for Me,I Was Down So He Threw It From Up...So I Left to Stay With a Friend in another State.


So My Question Now Is what My Father Did The Right thing?My Telling Me To Leave His House Cos I smoke, Am 19 Years Of Age, I Will be 20 This Year.I heard too Many ulcers and Helicobacter pylori Which Leads To Stomach Cancer,Yet He Told Me To Leave, He Was The Buying Medicine For Me But He Knows The Ulcer And Helicobacter pylori Hasn't Healed Final.He Knows I Don't Have Money To Fend For Myself Yet,i Always Go To His Shop To Help Him With His business.

What He Did By Telling Me To Leave Is It Right?I Don't SMOKE Outside,I only SMOKE In Our Flat,Cos I Don't Want People To Know I SmokE,My Dad Will be Ashamed When People Tell Him I Smoke ,He is a Very Popular Man Here..


Today I Chatted Him And Told Him Am Sorry For My actions,The First Thing He Told Me Was (you will never see good In your life)..I Didn't Mind Though The Curse though, I Begged Him,And He Told Me To Come Back,But Am Really Not Happy With Him,What if I Have Accident?what if I was Kidnapped?He didn't Think Of Those ones instead He sent Me Parking, I Have always Be A Good son which he tells me Frequently,I don't give him Headache.Just Only That Smoke

Even Though He Told Me To Come Back Am Still annoyed With Him,Instead of Him to Help Me To Stop ,He Told Me To Leave His House And Go continue Smoking.Those Words Hurt Me....

Should I Go back To Him And Start Planing To Save Money And Relocate?Cos I don't Have a Dime Now,And My ulcer Hasn't Healed Complete...I haven't even Eaten Good Food since yesterday,Just one okpa
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My Main Question Are (Did My Dad Do The Right Thing By Telling Me To Leave,Should I Go Back To Stay With Him??Or should I Stay Here At My friend Place and start Hustling For Myself??

Please Moderators Should help Move to Front page,Am in Deep confusion Now.Thanks

Oga repent!!! U have all these ailments, u dnt HV money to buy food or drugs but u HV money to smoke

If u live in asaba, u wil always see this man at joints looking unhealthy.
He was always drinking around my area beside A division police station, asaba.
I went to another joint around Maryann babangida, saw him there smoking uncontrollably, looking very unhealthy.
May God help him

Explorers:
Arnold Schwarzenegger was involved in a car crash on Friday afternoon in Los Angeles that saw his enormous SUV slam into another vehicle, leaving the other driver badly hurt.

The former governor, 74, was driving a GMC Yukon SUV along busy Sunset Boulevard, about half-a-mile from his home in the Brentwood, when he smashed into a red Prius at 4:35pm.

The impact of the crash was so severe that the Prius' airbags deployed as a result of the collision.

The star's SUV then started to roll onto a white Porsche Cayenne that was directly behind Schwarzenegger's.

Law enforcement say they believe the accident was the fault of the Terminator actor, who was attempting to make a left turn but did not wait for a left-turn arrow at the intersection of Sunset and Allenford Avenue.


Photos

Arnold Schwarzenegger could be seen standing next to his SUV following a crash on Friday

The actor can be seen standing next to his GMC Yukon SUV and a red Toyota Prius with its airbags deployed.

Schwarzenegger could be seen holding his iPad while making a statement to police at the scene of the crash with his friend Jake Steinfeld (right)



https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-10429265/Arnold-Schwarzeneggers-SUV-smashes-car-Sunset-Blvd-injuring-female-driver.html?ito=social-facebook

so Arnold Schwarzenegger is older than tinubu?? Lol

Na wa

LoverJoe89:
Dear NLs,

I need help with my predicament. I just discovered a lounge where I normally hang out to watch sports and chill. Apparently the lounge also has a Spa that is managed by this beautiful married lady who is a mother of 3 children that are in University and one in final year of secondary school. I started crushing on this woman for some time now and I cant seem to take my mind of her. She is a tall, dark stallion with nice hips, ass and a very sweet voice.

We got talking the moment I went to her Spa to make some inquiries about her spa services and whether she runs home service as well. Along the line, she gave me her contact details and we have been chatting frequently. The thing is that I am madly in love with her but I don't know how to express my feelings and desires towards her.

I don't intend snatching her from her husband but I just want to have a romantic relationship with her but don't know how I will go about it.

I am a graduate in my mid 20s from Leed City University Ibadan with a degree in Engineering. I don't usually have issues in getting women but this has posed much of a challenge to me because I am deeply in love with a married woman.

Thoughts of her sometimes drives me to masturbation and it's driving me nuts. Please I need help on this matter.

Go and look for a job. Leave woman!!!!!

Hmmm

Congratulations to all those that got the mail.

Good luck!!!!

If u no get, God has other plans for u.

Congratulations to u all

zaraddin:
Even people that are giving us Information are no where to be found again.... May it Favour us, may we be among the Successful candidates

Amen

Ayammawa:


It can be trusted.
Because from reliable source, I believe that between last week and this all successful candidates would know their fate.

Thank you for the information

it can or can't??

ndyzeal:
Someone said that congratulations messages was send to people last Friday. That her friend is in ICPC office now. Is it true. Who has the information?

Send a tangible evidence

Ole and Maguire and Fred out

Xboy1993:
I was reliable informed that the list is coming up next week

Congratulations to the successful candidates

DoorMan:


We are one remember??

Every recruitment has thread on nairaland. Customs recruitment should be discussed in custom thread not here

Iliyasdass:


These are two different recruitments.

My brother tell him. Many of us here didn't do custom recruitment. His campaign will receive more attention in custom thread. It's just like going to nnpc thread and started telling people to tell icpc chairman to release final list

ndyzeal:
But don't insult anyone sharing any information

Haba, HV u seen me insult anyone here??

ndyzeal:
We need them back,

Please unbehalf of all those that insulted @cyberthief and @favourflavour. We apologise . Share with us what ever information you have. Information and patience goes together

Thanks

Whoever God said will make it, will definitely make it, with or without info.

DoorMan:
Guys please help repost

This place is for icpc. I believe we have customs thread.

ndyzeal:
Please get information for us

This man again

ndyzeal:
What is the situational report on the ICPC final list. has anyone has INFORMATION from any source?

lol. Are u not the one preaching patience??

Ayammawa:


They haven't range in thousand sir, it's in few hundreds.
Keep praying, you will hear something nextweek by the grace of God.

Amen.

snapdragon00:
I got a bank job in V.I lagos total pay is 180k monthly with pension, leave allowance and health insurance, but the bank will train us and we can not leave until 2years. what if i get an FG job before that 2years? also if i agree to work and get that 2 years experience, what level will i be given if i later get an FG job?

lol. I suspect one bank. I HV experienced this before, if u must leave before 2 years, u pay them 2m or so. Bank and FG job no get this same grade. Unless it's CBN Ur talking about which has similar grades with bank

VersatileK1:
These people matter tire me ooooooo. They have conducted close to 10tests in total on top 180 Post.

it's now 220

Cali4nia:


No they were told to wait for mails between Wednesday and Thursday, that they will be contacted

Meaning their interview is likely to be next week

Cali4nia:
I am also told that this exams has nothing to do with our interview that, state quota were not filled that's the reason for this exams, candidate have already been shortlisted from the previous interview, the reason for this is to fille the remaining gaps in state quotas.


I said that my friend was interviewed before and still shortlisted for this current exams he said, it's either the message was sent in error to him or he was not successful at the interview but is given another chance, since he had passed the previous test

I wonder wch states that the quota are yet to be filled. Are the senators no longer bringing candidates

VersatileK1:
How many people will they call for interview since highest is 13?

I wonder. They should just conclude this.

People HV waited enough.

Cali4nia:
I was advised to keep my fingers crossed as successful candidate from my state had already been shortlisted pending medicals

So they didn't conduct interviews for people that wrote today?

Ayammawa:


Maybe 30 to 40 from them will survive

Nobody knows wat next again. The whole thing is just confusing. Every day, different stories.

Well, congratulations to those that Will make the final list

Ok

Frostty:

I saw a large group of people sitting under the canopy at their headquarters this morning on my way way to office.

Lol.