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HiDee2:
In case you haven't heard, the biggest story on Nigeria's cyberspace in the past couple of hours has been this episode of theirs. While I am not interested in who was/is right or wrong as I do not have all he fact, neither am I in a position to even try to apportion any blame, my real concern is that there are many other pathetic stories of countless women/men whose child(ren) was/were forcefully taken from them by richer, more powerful and more connected estranged ex husband or ex wife. For those unfortunate, unconnected ones, no one is talking about their predicaments.

I once heard of a case where the husband retrieved the children from school without their mother's consent and flew them to South Africa; the distraught mother, left with only one child, could only haplessly look on. About 7 years after, the other 3 children have yet to return, the complicated court system in Nigeria couldn't help matters. Lawyers, human rights activists, NGOs, volunteers etc. can be of help, a great deal, to countless women and men in this area.

As we enter the new year, what measures can you take as a young man or woman to avoid such future heartbreaks for yourself and your loved ones? Here are seven simple steps:

1- Inculcate the right values and stay true to them;
2- Don't be in a hurry to get rich quick;
3- Don't be in a rush to be married;
4- Before entering into a relationship, "shine your eyes well". As much as humanly possible, know (in advance) what exactly what you are getting yourself into;
5- Know when to call it quit with a disoriented or an abusive relationship/marriage;
6- For those who are asexually active, ALWAYS use a condom; it not only saves you from unwanted pregnancies and STDs, it also saves you from heartbreaks such as theirs; and
7- When you slip, mess up or act indiscreetly (like we all do sometimes, after all, we are but human), PLEASE, don't sweep it under the rug only for it to linger on or re-appear 10, 20, 30 years down the line. Be courageous and wise enough to admit your indiscretion and make efforts to clear your mess before it degenerates into a disgraceful public spat as theirs.

Finally, I hope Davido and Sophia, at least for the sake of their baby, Imade, can amicably resolve this impasse and find a way forward.

And to everyone, I say, Happy new year 2016 in advance (it's barely 12 more hours to go)...
A toast to your success .

Op, is dis ur new year guess u just copied d whole writeup from a blog nd paste it on NL
They had settled there scores for ur info, otherwise that's there cup of custard

Besides, always stay updated not outdated...u dig

Yeye post na im d yeye moderators dey put fp, dem no dey gree put beta news wey go beta person life for fp.

Any yeyebrity post dey make fp, ok...kip sharing dia post, dem go dedicate dia 2016 Headies award to u

chumakk:
Tell us the truth. Is he poor? It is only poor men that are ugly

God bless you for me bro.... I just believe that ladies and contentment are sworn enemies...

You are ashamed of walking with him in public... Pls, do u always close your eyes whenever he wanna make love to u

If person like late STELLA can marry person like OBASANJO
If person like Almighty LARA can marry person like OSHIOMOLE
If person like TITI Tinubu can marry person like Ojuyobo TINUBU
And these women can proudly call these men theirs in public..

Pls, who the hell are you to complain one man is ugly for ur liking

Am very sure if he holds a very high profile in dis world, u be very proud to dance Shoki with him in public

Some ladies sef

Thank God for there life, non is missing among them.... Happy for them

OP.... U lack manner of approach, what good for u may be bad for others, so we need medical checkup if we don't laugh to ur yeye pishure u posted up there

Nigga....U are a baboon, I guess that's how miserable ur life is presently simply bcz u studied physics & astronomy for your info.... my cousin graduated from that school and same department with 2.1 grade yet, his life is meaningful than urs

Disadvantages of being famous, you can't hide any damn thing away from people especially all these Endtime bloggers

Meanwhile, Mama Bose is cheating with her husband buh no body knows

Who d hell is Mama Bose

That's leku leja.... Probably 4 Alfas, pastors, nd oluwo

Wetin natural for dis face ma'am??
Shey na her skin, customized face, or artificial dread wey she dey carry natural ni abi wetin

Anyway, over sabi dey worry ur artist sha.....
One man's food is anoda man's poison.

Him jail period even pass him age .....konji na bastard, make him sha no go rape female warders if female inmates no surface on time.

Happy serving nigga!

Amberon:
"list of money"
epic blunder

Stop criticizing nd correct him if u have any

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Rexhenrex:
No...don't use whatsapp try 2go!
Then kiss ur bride through facebook,then ur honey moon will be via twitter...how about that

Bro u no nice ooo....am sure there reception gonna be via Instagram

jeremiah771:
that's the diff btw cheap phones (tecno nd ....) with iphone

Mumu... No b Asha 200 u dey use As if we no knw

Anyway, by there words, u shall know them!!!

Urine:
Dear Mod, please this must not get to FP, there are more important topics. If you move it to the FP, I will go for holiday in Sambisa Forest.

Mods no like u at all....dey sha want u to go to sambisa, anyway safe trip to ur dream land cz dis thread is on fp already

ladyF:
this Niger Delta people sha. Only God can help them. Blowing up their communities without realizing they are bearing the primary burden. Please God, give them sense.

[size=15pt]LadyF[/size] is here again

Welcome back Lady F.....been a while!

Why does he have to stressed himself that much when he can easily sleep at Lagos-Ibadan Xpress way

SirJeffry:
Must they write on the buildings like mad men?

Why not use a ribbon to put up a barricade?
Mtcheew

Just bcz they didn't committed the alleged crimes with ribbon...
They all looted our money like mad men

Abeg how would they be treated when they are graduating

kossyablaze:
Please come and handle our dying economy!

Werey

See his bald head like half plot of land

funnyme:
Endtime dressing

For ENDTIME babes

Yustash001:
75 year old for real?...Mehn money is good o...

Forget abt money bro...only if money can buy beauty, OBJ & Osho baba could have afford one

celebgists:
For God sake how can this be Photoshop
Kilode?

Tor....I wonder oooo

coolitempa:
The budget has not been debated and approved by the NA just yet so withdrawing in order to make amends is fine....a stitch in time saves nine...

1st reasonable comment on dis thread....nice one bro

bluaero:
Iranu

Abasha

Subhanalillah

Now is this coincidence or he saw it coming

May his soul rest in peace... Inalillah wa Inna ilaehi Rojihun

neutrotoba:
Resuming skul by 9am and leaving with my gang to play PS2 by 11am every single day.

That actually started after I repeated SS1.

We were labelled 9/11 by the Department of Serious Students (DSS)

Lalasticlala come share your own too abeg

Olodo rabata

benedictnsi:
Hope you're good jor..... Leave dah mgbeke

Ayam Fine jawe and u

benedictnsi:
I like your way sha..... Difficult to understand

Ain't that difficult na buh jzt complicated

benedictnsi:
I dey my own ooo she come find my trouble.... say make i stop hating so that I leave poverty...... Pikin weh i fit keep for house d feed oooo.

Buh i didn't sound that bad, did iI

Ain't bad though buh too harsh

benedictnsi:
girls and fantasies thoh




Which award she don win with the shoes



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The infant (toddler) above me is exactly the type of girl back den in school whose CGPA can't flash or beep Mtn to Mtn....... Yet she expects a boyfriend to buy her a Brazilian or Peruvian Hair.... (Olosho) [/size] [/color]

Chai.... Bros u no try oooo

OKUCHI11:
hooray I am first to comment .... I know say this topic go make front page...

Eyah..... Pele