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OP, your topic is flawed just by using the words 'main cause'. From an academic and intellectual stand point, you should not have listed your points as if they are facts, no social survey, no research backing etc. It's better written as 'your opinion'.

My take on this is that 'MUTUAL RESPECT BY BOTH PARTIES' would prevent domestic violence on either party.

Reading your back and forth arguments with people is really sad. You did not 'educate/inform' people you sounded as someone who would like to impose his views on people and get angry at suggestions/or other people's views.

To the mods, this is not front page worthy, so much generalization without notable social survey on a very depressing social issue.

Haters will always talk. People fail to understand that education is not only about subject matter, concepts/topics. There is more to it if you come out tops in any field. Skills like determination, persistence, resilience, self-motivation etc are learnt. It simply shows that energy can be channeled to positive outcomes if one is interested. Psychology or any field of study. I wish people can learn.

OP, don't be hard on yourself. I had similar experiences but I just developed a tough skin. I find small talks and chit chats very dumb and really can't deal with people who gossip. I have changed jobs several times, and I have met people like me and also met people who complained about me, my I don't care attitude has been working for me.

I just focus on learning a lot, getting the job done and looking for opportunities. Every other thing or person can chill.

Take it easy OP. Your wife is perfectly normal.

For me it started with crying. I was quite emotional pre pregnancy. And my husband goes Pele, did I offend you, okay I am sorry. And I must sleep before him, (at home or not at home), if he is not at home via phone call or Google hangout.

The first day I told him I wanted burnt party jollof rice and ileya meat, he laughed so hard that I got really mad, we are not in the country so that was not even possible. I was not eating anything so I was in a pitiable situation. We ended up driving 3 hrs to the nearest Nigerian restaurant and all I did was eat mostly the meat.

I have also asked for custard about 2am and for him to go to the store to get just salty snacks but that was mid day.

I appreciate all the running arounds he is doing but I can't help it. He knows my trouble is not intentional.

Now I only crave Swallows / solid food provided the soup is okra or Ogbono and very peppery.

It's really not easy especially if you partner is not always around.

banmee:
Here we go again. Another chauvinistic article from a chauvinistic prick. You can never end up with an assured and confident woman. I pity the slave you end up with. I strongly believe you should emigrate to Afghanistan or Iraq. You'll fit perfectly over there. At least they think exactly the way you do in matters relating to women. This muthafucker is justifying staying with a philandering husband. Really? Come and say this same shiit in an organized society and see if they'll not throw you out head first. There is something seriously wrong with you. I wonder what kind of environment you grew up in. I really wonder. I will keep bugging you till you receive sense.

Thumbs up bro, I am glad this is coming from a guy. just as my blood bro would have said it. I am glad!

I once asked a fellow classmate after graduation to send the title of the textbook she used to prepare for TOEFL since I knew she had done it. Till date, I am still expecting the title. I just went into a bookshop, got the TOEFL texts they had and that was it. I guessed she later realized it 'cos she has been helpful on other fronts.

Life is not a biggie, help others with information and things will go smoothly for everyone.

The guy should be jailed no doubt. Please alert all health agencies and let them do something about it. Callous human being.

The OP seems silly. I bet it's immaturity at it's height. This is 21st century, it's sad that some people still think like this, well, your environment largely determines your exposure. But truth be told, there are a lot of female icons you could train your female child or children to emulate. They are everywhere even in our great country Nigeria. A child should be inspired/motivated to do well in life regardless of gender....Who are you moving with OP?..check your company,..it's a pity.