HaneefahRN:


Ur start up was way off.

Toks2008:


So i am advising every Nigerian parent to ask their son(s) this vital question before spending a dime on his tertiary education and beg him to tell you the truth...

"Are you ready to go to school and acquire a degree to become self reliant financially or are you nursing the thought of going to school and latter come out to start Y+ or other illegal business"?


Be observant to the way he answers and make up your mind.

Odiegwu.

doveda:


Are you also forgetting the fact that men are getting married in their late twenties and early thirties and that is when they actually become financially capable. However most of them end up getting married to younger women. If a woman should wait that long, tongues will start wagging and the possibility that her bf will jilt her is also high.

So can you blame her if she settles for a man who is financially capable instead of a man at her financial level? Who no like better thing

cc Amberon
cc Toks2008
cc Mznelly

Amberon:
Okay, sorry.

HaneefahRN:


So true. They are the same ones crying abt Linda Ikeji, and the likes o. Talk abt a successful and rich woman and the next thing u hear from most male folks is, 'is she married?'

brandnew3:

A bottle of Hennessy for you.

#NotKidding.

Gerrard59:


Thanks. . I just had to pour it out. OP own don too much, you could easily know he's the one by the topic.

Toks2008:
It is no longer a new thing that after graduation of a male child from a tertiary institution,there is so much expectation from him especially the one whose parents are from a very humble background and had to make huge financial sacrifices.

After graduation,this male child is expected to do his best as regards the ability to provide for himself,his aging parents and also prepare to start a family and we all know the financial demands that come with marriage ceremonies.

As if this is not enough for the male child,the female folks who have spent years in tertiary institutions to have a sound intellect and ought to be a succor in terms of encouragement and financial support have become an additional burden.

Please understand this...there is absolutely nothing bad for a lady be a graduate or not to want,hope or desire a rich or financially ok guy...which lady will not want that?

But it gets even crazier by the day cos most of those ladies who have no opportunity of bagging a degree are unbelievably hard working as we can see many of them doing one thing or the other legitimately to be financially independent while many acclaimed graduates just hope for one unfortunate maga to buy them..how sad.

Ok lets take a look at this..In Nigeria,both the male and the female child go to the same private or public schools right from nursery to tertiary levels,we had the same educational qualification because the last time i checked the University as well as polytechnic degrees are awarded to both male and female...

We go through NYSC together and start looking for jobs in the same labor market in the same country.It is even easier for a female graduate to get jobs compared to the male folks yet these same ladies expect these same guys to be "financially ok" enough to take care of them HABBA!

What happened to equal opportunity to be financially ok since we are faced with same economy conditions. What sought of magic are these ladies expecting the male folks to perform? It even becomes more unrealistic and wicked when ladies are looking for financially ok guys in their 20s and early 30s.


This has made me conclude that its gradually becoming a waste of money and resources for some parents to send their daughters to school since they are likely to come out and dump the zeal and qualification just to start scouting for "financially ok guys" before they can think of making a headway for themselves in life.

So if that is the case,there is no need to get a degree since they don't need that to get a rich guy as they can use their natural body degree to achieve that thereby saving the parents hundreds of thousands of naira.

So i am advising every Nigerian parent to ask their daughter this vital question before spending a dime on her tertiary education and beg her to tell them the truth...

"Are you ready to go to school and acquire a degree to become self reliant financially or are you nursing the thought of going to school and latter come out to start looking for a rich guy or financially ok guy"?


Be observant to the way she answers and make up your mind.

Odiegwu.

ENIMONEY:
did I come in search of u? Or ur brothers? Or ur father?? The people am searching for, are they complaining?? Shut ur poverty stricken hole and let us hear word! U lack home training and respect for the female Gender! You don't bite the hand that feeds u. Omo Ale

Orikinla:
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Odiegwu indeed.
While majority of guys graduate and start looking for dream jobs, majority of babes graduate and are desperately looking for their dream men.

banmee:


You are probably the most chauvinistic prick I've ever had the displeasure of meeting. What's with you and male dominance? You need to start travelling and explore other normal societies and your perception will improve. You seriously need to address your superiority complex.

ENIMONEY:
brain dead like every female in your generation!!! Rich Men are getting married everyday and poor boys keep whining... Better goan think.

Toks2008:


My broda this is nairaland not pound or dollarland.

When i write,i do so with a Nigerian perspective.

chimaobinelson:
this obsession is a long a long underlying trait in MOST undergraduate or graduated ladies,as their true essence of goin to Universities is to
1.experience that sweet freedom campus life they hv been seing in the home videos.
2. To come out to the world and show what they have got above their fellow female folks you notice it from their values(latest clothes)
3. to answer that name GRADUATES so as to give the an edge over other wives,especially when ranting in their women gathering
4. As lazy and cawordice as they are,haven tought ahead and seen how "hard" life is in their little brain,they need a rescuer to cling to n "graduate" accolade wil attract values to the in marriage..nt knwin dt education empowers u to carry onus wch dey r affraid to compete
men cherish zealous n industrious woman

banmee:

Even more ridiculous. Is that your excuse for perpetuating a flawed mentality? Every individual irrespective of gender needs an education. An educated society is an improved society. I just can't fathom how you reason.

Toks2008:


I can bet my left ear on it that you did not read that article and if you did then you certainly did not comprehend.

where did i ever write that a girl child should not go to school.

banmee:


"This has made me conclude that its gradually becoming a waste of money and resources for some parents to send their daughters to school since they are likely to come out and dump the zeal and qualification just to start scouting for "financially ok guys" before they can think of making a headway for themselves in life.

So if that is the case,there is no need to get a degree since they don't need that to get a rich guy as they can use their natural body degree to achieve that thereby saving the parents hundreds of thousands of naira[/b]".


It used to bother me why the govt neglects education in Nigeria. Now I know. Why invest in individuals with no capacity to comprehend? Are you sure you understand what you wrote? You are giving reasons why higher education should be withheld from the female gender. There is absolutely no excuse for it. Are you sure you are not confused?

killerman47:
stop this nonsense small boy, if you cannot understand simple meaning of articles written why not stay Clear? U are very ignorant.....

Rukkydelta:

I guess I don't have time for e-fights that won't profit me anything

Toks2008:


And this is the irony of life...the thread that makes no sensse to many ladies is making sense to you.

Toks2008:
It is no longer a new thing that after graduation of a male child from a tertiary institution,there is so much expectation from him especially the one whose parents are from a very humble background and had to make huge financial sacrifices.

After graduation,this male child is expected to do his best as regards the ability to provide for himself,his aging parents and also prepare to start a family and we all know the financial demands that come with marriage ceremonies.

As if this is not enough for the male child,the female folks who have spent years in tertiary institutions to have a sound intellect and ought to be a succor in terms of encouragement and financial support have become an additional burden.

Please understand this...there is absolutely nothing bad for a lady be a graduate or not to want,hope or desire a rich or financially ok guy...which lady will not want that?

But it gets even crazier by the day cos most of those ladies who have no opportunity of bagging a degree are unbelievably hard working as we can see many of them doing one thing or the other legitimately to be financially independent while many acclaimed graduates just hope for one unfortunate maga to buy them..how sad.

Ok lets take a look at this..In Nigeria,both the male and the female child go to the same private or public schools right from nursery to tertiary levels,we had the same educational qualification because the last time i checked the University as well as polytechnic degrees are awarded to both male and female...

We go through NYSC together and start looking for jobs in the same labor market in the same country.It is even easier for a female graduate to get jobs compared to the male folks yet these same ladies expect these same guys to be "financially ok" enough to take care of them HABBA!

What happened to equal opportunity to be financially ok since we are faced with same economy conditions. What sought of magic are these ladies expecting the male folks to perform? It even becomes more unrealistic and wicked when ladies are looking for financially ok guys in their 20s and early 30s.


This has made me conclude that its gradually becoming a waste of money and resources for some parents to send their daughters to school since they are likely to come out and dump the zeal and qualification just to start scouting for "financially ok guys" before they can think of making a headway for themselves in life.

So if that is the case,there is no need to get a degree since they don't need that to get a rich guy as they can use their natural body degree to achieve that thereby saving the parents hundreds of thousands of naira.

So i am advising every Nigerian parent to ask their daughter this vital question before spending a dime on her tertiary education and beg her to tell them the truth...

"Are you ready to go to school and acquire a degree to become self reliant financially or are you nursing the thought of going to school and latter come out to start looking for a rich guy or financially ok guy"?


Be observant to the way she answers and make up your mind.

Odiegwu.

Mznaett:
y