LMAO--- heheheeh.

@OP:

lol @ she's getting fatter and fatter.

You shouldn't have married her! Obedient son gini? Are your parents around to feel your pain now? No. You have a kid with her? You complicated matters bro.

Anyways--you don enter am, but E never spoil. Hope still dey.

Happiness and Love can't be forced. That being said, you need to dig deep and find something you like about her; even if it's just one thing. Capitalize on that; build on that, and the love will grow eventually. There're happy days ahead. As for your Ex, get her out of the picture asap. You don't want to be a cheating husband.

In a mature and clever way, tell her to lose weight and start looking more attractive. You two should work on things. Spice it up! Go for counselling, if you have to.


@ women: Pls take care of yourselves for your respective husbands. The OP's wife doesn't know what "trouble" she's in now. She's busy eating all the "edibles". Oga!















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Re: I Am Very Unhappy In My Marriage
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Y dont u take a moment, get a pen and paper and itemise whatever u hate about the marriage/u'd luv to change or what u miss about your ex . . . . then discuss your points with your wife. Get her to understand the way u feel without being harsh. Dont blame your wife for your parent's decision . . .rather, make her understand that her weight gives u growing concern and help her work on it. She has a child for u . . . not all families can boast of their own child . .

Try and see the good in your marriage always. A positive attitude will help boost your happiness



Experience is the best teacher when it happens to someone else.
Kudos to u guyz, this is the right counsel for the poster, End of Discussion!
Remain blessed.

How can u love a man that u're not married to?
U're a sinner and u need to repent without further waste of time!

U live ur life with him without Christ so crisis must definately set in -QED

Anyway, i'm not crucifying u but know this 2day that a true test of a man/woman
is not how many times he/she fails but how well he/she rises after failure.

Pls, all the singles should get this clear that LOVE & SEX should only be
put into practice in marriage not in any other relationship be u a sinner or
a saint else u face the consequences that are certain like this young Lady.

GENESIS24 vs 67
And Isaac brought her [Rebekah] into his mother Sarah's tent, and took Rebekah, and she became his wife; and he loved her: and Isaac was comforted after his mother's death.

Stop saying u love this guy, this is lust pls. The only type of love that singles can display should be The
Christ's kind of love called AGAPE love.

Pls look out for any Bible believing church and start to grow spiritually, u will succeed as u do so IJN!

All the best!

Most poor men's wives are full time housewives so what do u xpect?

Of course Babies in abundance, in fact some born yearly in the name of

" Its God that gives babies as blessings" as if they dont use to KEREWA

b4 babies are given.

Povert is more dangerous than any deadly sickness u can imagine or think of,

funny enough, most poor people are generally comfortable with their status that

the rich are born rich so they are destined to be poor.

I've heard that from so many people when couselling them.

May God help all the poor people in the land.

Display simple maturity, take a walk of course!

But wait a moment, what on earth will make
a sane guy (i mean a guy in his right mind)
argue or get involved in anything that can
bring quarel or such things that can lead to
assault on him by a lady?

If for any reason at all it happens, walking away
is the best option. As a matter of fact she and even
people around will salute & respect your courage for life.

Those of us that are HAPPILY married will
draw better wisdom & understanding here.

Goodluck everyone.

Tomorrow, u may b in another country for a training and may be meet another girl lets say a sudanese! Is that how u will act? U will dump this Uganadan girl just like u want to dump the Nigerian girl now!

Pls, be a matured man. Travelling abroad for training should be a breakthrough for u and ur Babe and am sure she must be praying for u so don't allow lust make u break ur original relationship for just no excuse.

Discover ur weakness and deal with it on time, this is not too good in my own opinion.

All the best man.

HOST!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

People should stop bringing quarels here.

People who don't understand or know what and how to say should keep off this thread.

As a matter of fact, if u're a BOKO HARAMIST and don't underfstand English shut up pls!

COVENANT UNIVERSITY is a Christians university, pure and simple.

IF ANY ONE WANT TO B ADMITTED INTO COVENANT
UNIVERSITY AT ALL COST THEN, LET HIM OR HER GIVE
HIS OR LIFE TO CHRIST, QED!

CU has a VISION and MISSION by the founder so if u can't find your feet in it, then don't lobby unecessarily.

Pls this is no descrimination, don't try to force urself into a system that can not accommodate u only to attract sympathy.

Let NIGERIA be, stop knokcking heads here and there!

Thank you all for ur understanding & Remain blessed!

Is it really true that Alimosho is 1 if not the biggest LGA in Naija?

BRF, pls visit Alimosho urgently especially

Jimo Akinremi axis along Egbeda - Akokwonjo.

Its hurrible there!

mouth can't explain d trouble in that area

as a result of drainage problems.

Ordinary 5 mins rain drops,

no 1 can pass thru that area.

Real Men don't cheat!
As a matter of fact am 6 yrs into the
my marriage but i never cheat my wife
4 once.
Temptations due come but thank God 4
the presence of Holy Spirit.
'That has been my secret to overcoming all
sorts of temptations.

Am sure som1 out there, especially
the doubting Thomases like d few earlier posters
will b saying am lying.
Well, no human being can bear me witness but
my conscience does.

I've concluded in my heart b4 going into marriage
that satisfaction in marriage and in life
generally is not out there,
in fact, its not going to be gotten anywhere,
U HAVE TO MAKE IT HAPPEN - QED!

Afterall, what are the reasons for marriage?
- Its God's idea
- 2 are better than 1 cos they have better reward 4 their labour
- sex (sex is either fornication or adultery outside marriage )
- u can only multiply/have children legally in marriage
- for comfort, etc.

If u're stil cheating on ur spouse, pls stop it,
Nemesis will catch up with u or ur children or even ur grand-children
or even ur generation and u knw what,
The repercusion is hurrible, Do leave a good LEGACY.

What u want in another woman, make it happen to ur wife so
She can attract u, send her out to participate in alot os activities,
take her out to functions, Behind her up to ur taste,
Those so called babes don't just drop from d sky.

The wife of ur youth can stil happen men!

U can make greatness common if only u can be faithfull in marriage!
It has worked 4 me, its stil working and will continue to work as The Lord Liveth.

Goodluck to u all.

As a believer, here are number of Reasons that motivated me to go into marriage:

~ 2 are better than 1 because 1 - they get better reward for their labour,
2 - it takes 2 to warm when 1 is cold,
~ For multiplication,
~ For Completion -remember bone of ur ribs,
~ For sexual fulfillment,
~ God said it, etc.

Any Relationship that Lack Trust is like a soup without salt.
No 1 can ever get the best out of it!
As a matter of fact, i encourage ppl not to go into any
Relationship until they make up their minds on the issue of Trust.
Pls know it that Trust is not automatic,
u build it gradually before it can be bestowed on u.

The debate is a serious comedy already,
if Basket mouth & Alibaba will anchor the program then
its gonna b a rib breaking drama o!

Well, 'All The Best to My Main Men of CPC -BB"
I 've no doubt, they're going to unfold the plans of
Progressive Change for a New Nigeria.

Parents should think of d implications of d names they give their children,
even d so called Nicknames. ~Cassano, I hope som1 gets my msg!
He's nothing but a disgrace to Humanity,
possessed he-goat! Is that his calling/purpose on earth?
What is d gain after all.
Let me also advice d NL Moderators to post
Topics that we can benefit from,
this very 1 has no gain.
because of our human nature,
we 're after WIIIFM
-(What Is In It For Me).

I want to appeal to all Nairalanders to b mindful of
the kinds of comments we post,
it is not a must to say something.

Ladies and Gentlemen, This is a worldclass forum, pls.

IBB has NOT and CANNOT convince us.
Let the old man forgive himself and stop imposing himself on
Nigerians in the name of trying to come and Right the Wrongs
which He intentionally did.

Its so painful that we're all afraid to die for something
which is far better than to die for nothing as most
of us do in this part of the world.

Lets join the Campaign for a New Nigeria.
In fact i want to strongly suggest that we should
stop critising so much that we dont even remember
the right things we're supposed to say again not to talk of doing them.

Lets not allow Monsters to distract to the extent
of loosing our senses of Right thinking.

Let IBB stay quiet somewhere and stop threatening himself for nothing!
Empty and wayo Threats,
When the Right Candidate emerges,
no one will cinvince anyone to know but Remember,

Your Vote Is The Highest SAY that U have, Its gonna count this time around.
Goodluck to You all!

Has anyone seen Yar'Adua?
why was he picked up at the Abuja Airport with ambulance, midnight for that matter according to the rumour-mongers?
a whole/so called President!
How shameful will his state of health look like that Turai can't allow even people that put him in power to see him?
Jonathan should ride on CONFIDENTLY pls! Nothing do You Sir!
The fact remains that the truth will soon be unveiled, its happening already.
There shall be no peace for the wicked,
All the evil doers should better repent now that there's stil a level of Grace to do so.

Ahsan's Virus is showing my Laptop shege! Pls, my fellow Nairalanders, i need to b rescued or else i'll loose so many documents in the Laptop. I had formatted it once but it reoccured. Now am like, i don't know what to do again.