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Make una keep updating your enemies till they strike and win. Marriage that haven't gone any where fa

SHOULD WE TELL THEM

Nobody should shout Fulani here ooo

Those killings must have been the handwork of AMOTEKUN as you people have labelled IPOB and ESN Gun men in SE too

Let's see who gets tired of these Nonsense.

Since he is very brilliant he should try fully funded scholarship routes. It's the best for him. Let him get his transcript, recommendation letters... et al

Also Make Google your friend.
Check twitter for scholars dishing information on how to package application letters and you're good to go. He will surely make it to any part of the country of his choice without spending a dime.

Sorry about that my dear. I understand how you feel right now as I'm on same shoe with you but mine isn't school issue shaa.
I applied for family reunion early this January but haven't heard anything till now. I don't even know what to do again but trusting God for good news soon.
I will advise you search for "students in Cyprus" on the search bar and hopefully you'll get some info. Unlike mine that I searched and got the group but no one wished to answer my question. Seems I'm the first woman to do Italy family reunion visa on Nairaland.

I don't know why people hoard information as if they'll die if they share. It's well!

If it's university of Sienna, I was told no need for toefl or ielts. You can use English language letter from your home university or WAEC result.

Check this thread from the beginning to see other people's comments about Universities in Italy requirements.

Austinnedo:
Please, do I need an English language certification exam; like TOEFL test scores or IELTS test score for pre-registration?

My TOEFL of 2019 that I used in application in December expired in December.

Please throw in more light on this.

With my little knowledge, it's better you check the schools you wish to apply for their IELTS score requirements. That'll serve you better

If you're a twitter user, go check people with high followers and comments under their tweets with your question, you'll be noticed quick and get answered.

Hope this helps

If you accept his proposal, do you think he will treat you different from your sister as time goes on?
Also:
Becareful with the path you're treading, it's not going to be smooth, every action has consequences.
Secondly, don't do things out of Desperation, it always end in Premium Tears!

It was Nnamdi Kanu that sent them cus it's FG headache now.

Well, Bubu and FG should continue chasing rat while the bush will keep burning

And FG is busy with Nnamdi Kanu while Bandit and Bokoharam sponsors are walking and smiling freely.

North will continue to burn with unquenchable fire as long as FG keep targeting the wrong person.

Use Google to help yourself. I believe most universities in Italy offer undergraduate studies

They'll have many offices in phc. Just use Google and type "DHL offices in Portharcourt" you will see the closest near you

captainking:
OK.. Thanks..
Any idea if they have an office in phc

Has anyone recently got a reply from Italian Embassy? Please share

How Zik take help Igbo people abeg? I want to know

Quite disgusting! Devil has already possessed and living in them

What do you expect from someone who benefits from the loan once it's approved?

Metrofox:
To go school good o , see wetin a finance minister of a country dey yarn.. Can you have a debt problem without a revenue problem or voice versa? this woman suppose dey teach economics for secondary school

So who will help Nigeria clear all these debts bayi?

I guess the Creditors will soon come to claim Nigeria if we fail to pay

What if he visits Nigeria the same way he has been visiting other African countries?

My humble suggestion though

For your relocation plans, open twitter account and follow @waka_waka doctor, @kiarawinners, @tundetash etc
You'll get enough info.

Steps to use twitter account:

1. Search and download Secure VPN on your
appstore

2. Open and connect

3. Download twitter and create account.

NB: always disconnect VPN after using twitter.

Agako:
Hello all. Please I need some advice, I have this desire to move me and my family to Canada or UK but I intend to go via the student route because it's the easiest way, please I have a land that I already built but yet to be completed just to put the roofs and things are getting harder for me please I really want to goto this Canada and school so I can work to sustain me and my family. Am married but no kids yet, one of my wish is to grow my children abroad. And I have 2m setting in my account and I have this uncompleted building which can raise me upto 10m or more once sold, but it's not easy for m, e on my kind of job is very risky job. Please don't laugh or insult me. My wife won't want me to take this risks of selling this land. Am not going with her, just me alone once things are fine over there she can come over. Please advice me, admin please help me to push this to the front page please I really need it as it will help me better my future, Nigeria is getting harder.

I've never heard about them though cus I always use DHL. You can try searching for their page on other social platforms like Twitter, Instagram or Facebook. You can also use Google to search for their office addresses in Lagos and Abuja.

bondito2016:
I used Parcelforce to send a parcel containing a passport to my wife from the UK to Nigeria on the 8th of December 2021 but she is yet to receive it.
They said the parcel is in Nigeria but hasn't been cleared by customs yet. It was exported from the UK on 10 December and there is no update till today. Parcelforce seem to have a hands-off approach once a parcel leaves the UK. Really worried about this.
I so regret using Parcelforce, I was assured that the parcel would be delivered to the recipient within 5 working days by Royal Mail . Please does anyone have a contact I can get in touch with in Nigeria to resolve this issue.

Sorry Op. Keeping enduring while thinking faster on what to do.

When they say, "character before beauty" men will not listen Now see where we are.

Imagine a good guy will go for beauty and brain then end up with a troublesome and careless wife. Also, a good lady, because of wealth or good dick end up with a wicked man. We have failed to use our head when choosing spouses.

I saw one posts made on IG some time ago about what guys want most in a lady before wifying her and most guys placed big boobs, ass, brain and light skin over character and God fearing.
Imagine marriages filled with ladies with such qualities, then what kind of home do you think they will keep?

You guys should fear God when choosing spouse.
Think about your children upbringing when choosing spouse. Some men will say, "I want beautiful and handsome kids" because of that, they go for beautiful ladies discarding other important qualities. At the end, you have beautiful kids with bad moral upbringing.

Gradually, we are leaving those days when we had women that stood by their husbands in good and bad times. 90% of women these days only want to stand with you in good and leave only you to face it in bad times. That's why the rate of divorce is increasing everyday.

May God open the eyes of our understanding......( someone shld help me and quote that scripture in full abeg) that we may know the right spouse to marry. Amen!

Rtk5:
Men you need to hussle and if possible avoid marriage. The worst thing that can ever happen to a man is going broke. Please i am not trying to poison anybody's heart. It is good to fall in love and marry the right partner. I tell you most solemnly, until things get bad, you will never know the real attitude of your partner. I remember when i lost my job and things became so bad that i planned to kill my self on a certain day, what stopped me from committing suicide was i fell into a deep sleep that i didn't wake up till the next day at around 8am. On waking up i relaized that God did something to me that i couldn't explain till today and the thought of suicide vanished.

Back to my topic, there was a day during my times of trial and hardship that my wife told me she wanted to go and visit her male friend in his house, i stopped her by saying why will a married woman do that and you even have the guts to tell me. It ended in a fight, anytime we have any slight quarrel, she will pack her things and leave to her mum's place and the family always support her actions without knowing from me what happened. There was a time when our child was just barely few months old, i left the house for an interview,
i trecked about 3km to the venue, she left him at home and went to only God knows where, only for her to call me that she has left the house and my son for me, that i should get home before he wakes up from sleep, i couldn't wait for the interview to get to my turn, i begged a random person on the road and he gave me #1,000 that was after i begged more than ten different people with other refusing to answer me not to talk of helping. I ran home and thank God i met him just waking up. I took him back to the interview and a kind lady helped me with him until it got to my turn and i finished and went back home. In the night at about 7pm while i was preparing to bath him, she entered the house and carried him to bath him, i didn't utter a word and i forgave her. Guys, you need to see how thin i became during those trials, no single food to eat. I became a shadow of myself, i became so shy of walking in public because of how frustrated i became. I have many experiences but i rest my case here. The sad reality right now is that we are still married, while the good is things have improved 10times better than it has ever been but i've placed her where she belong. The only thing stopping me from divorce is what people will say and my image. Do you know that honestly she hasn't learnt her lessons as she is still a problem to me, always nagging and i don't have peace in my own house. Right now i'm on the process of divorce and i'm building resistance to whatever people will say.

Una never see anything

doubleE70:
God forbid .. oya put your hand all men in the house . now repeat after me : vagina will not kill me , no woman will kill me , I will never be a simp.

We are reading it whether they tag us or not ��

But I thought men agreed that women like money and material things so why the rejection? Now you all know that even with all your money, a lady can still turn you down.

TheGidRedpiller:
Dear men viewing this, DO NOT quote females in this thread pls. Thanks

What I said isn't meaningless. Just telling you the honest truth if that lady is from SE, especially from my side where we don't give out a child to his father if born out of wedlock. There's nothing you can do.

My advice is based on the situation whereby she's from other states or tribe which you and I may not know their traditions, you can take what I said earlier.

T0T0fucker:
you said something meaningful, na you coming up with something meaniless.
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The fact that it's not acceptable in your own state doesn't mean it's not acceptable in other Igbo states.

If you impregnate any Enugu or Anambra lady without marrying her properly, then forget about the child. He/She belongs to the parents of the mother. Go ask well before you make that mistake of calling my comment "meaningless". Never argue what you don't know.

A child born out of wedlock automatically belongs to the parent of the girl, I repeat myself again. I didn't say he/she belongs to husband of the lady.

If you like go pregnant one Igbo babe and come back later to claim the child without having done proper traditional rite, you'll fight in vain.

Emaprince:
So you as an igbo lady will have the mind to deceive your husband and give him another man's child as his.

So you think igbo tradition also forces the husband to accept a child that his wife conceived through another man?

Your post is stupidly manipulative. Don't come here to dirty igbo name with nonsense paternity fraud common among you women.

This is applicable to our Igbo custom and tradition.
@totofucker, you don't have any right to claim the child even if the DNA says it's yours. A child born out of wedlock automatically belongs to the girl's father. He/She will bear the father of the girl's name. Nothing for you as the father of the child unless you decide to marry the mother.

So, hope this your lady is not an Igbo girl, if she is, then forget about her and the baby. Don't start a fight you can't finish.

jasminer:
I looked up what Nigerian Family lawyers have to say about this:

In the course of the divorce proceedings, the court may make an order as to the maintenance of a child. Pursuant to the provisions of the Matrimonial Causes Act, any child below the age of 21 is automatically entitled to a maintenance. However, the maintenance order may be made in favour of a child above 21 years in exceptional circumstances. The maintenance order the court may make include welfare support, education advancement among others.

Meanwhile, an unmarried couple seeking an order of a child maintenance in Nigeria may do so pursuant to the provisions of the Child Rights Act or Child Rights Laws of the various states. The domicile of the parties is not required to institute such action like divorce proceedings, as by virtue of residence in such state will qualify the party to institute such action. A married couple not seeking a divorce, but just the maintenance of the child may institute an action pursuant to the Child Rights Act or Child Rights of a state.

• CONCLUSION
It is noteworthy that in the award of custody of a child by a court, the paramount interest of the child is the main key. However, it must be understood that[b] the welfare of a child is not only the material provisions in the house, good clothes, food, air conditioners, television, but it is more of the happiness of the child and his or her psychological development.[/b]

Written by Family Law unit of the Resolution Law Firm
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Thus a child who is denied the necessary maintenance can make a formal report to the relevant Law agency to enforce his right. For instance, there are instances where single mother will be unable to get financial assistance from the father of her child, it is usually advisable that a single mother who has found herself in such quagmiretic situation, should take full advantage of the aforementioned section and seek help at the gender section of the police command Ikeja, Lagos, for immediate prosecution
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• CUSTODY OF A CHILD BORN OUTSIDE WEDLOCK
Under the Common law, a mother has a right to the custody of an illegitimate child to the exclusion of the natural father of the child. For a father to be awarded custody in such a circumstance under the common law, he must establish that the mother is unfit to look after the child.
Under the Customary law, if a woman has a child by a man to whom she is not married, the proper guardian of the child who is entitled to custody is the father of the mother and this is so even if the child has been legitimated by acknowledgement of the father.
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Don't worry, you're welcome

Op I advice you to wait for the baby to reach certain months when the true resemblance will be revealed. Resemblance of a baby can't be determined at 2 days. So you can't ascertain that the baby is yours at this time considering the fact that she sleeps around. Friends telling you to act now don't mean well for you cus it's too early to start fighting over 2-day old baby.
If you're finally convinced that the baby resembles you, politely ask the lady for DNA test. Try as much as possible to avoid fighting with her. Fighting will never solve your problems, instead it'll create more cus by the time she decides to change things for you through the child, she will ruin your entire life, even the money you claim you have will finish, you'll go bankrupt.
I doubt you know what is involved in childcare? Billings upon billings. You'll wish to turn the hands of clock.

Best thing for your own peace of mind is to let her be. You might be lucky her husband will one day ask for DNA test if God wants to fight for you.
And just so you know that no amount of fight will make that child be in your custody. That's the beginning of your loss.

You may want to get the best advice from legally divorced men that pay child support, compare your own case that aren't married to the lady. She'll just treat you with excess bitterness.

T0T0fucker:
good day all,

I really do need your mature opinions on this issue, I'm a young man in my early 30s. due to my personality am the kind of guy that flex alot. night life parties, clubbing and the rest.sometime last year I happened to be at the club, just like any other day..I took a girl home. (one night stand) we had sex and in the morning she left after I sorted her out.

She took my number though and from there we started chatting, due to how we clicked easily.. just like every other guy..I decided turn her to a friend with benefits...from friend with benefits....she started acting all up like a girlfriend. (coming to my house to pass the night and she can decide to leave whenever she wants) during this period, we had consexual sex raw because I was beginning to trust her a little.... that she wasn't really that bad.

Fast forward to the ending March this year, one issue led to another...and she stopped coming to my house...though we still talked sometimes on phone... later I got to know she got hooked with one rich yahoo boy.( which I didn't Care, because me na block on my own)

Next thing I saw on her whatsapp status was her traditional introduction rights, inviting her friends and well wishers, I congratulated her and moved on. after some time I saw her upload a pics of her baby bump.

Na wa o, na so it dey quick, fast forward to yesterday evening she just put to birth... which she also sent on her whatsapp status. retweeting her friends who congratulated her on her status.

Now, I haven't congratulated her yet, this has got me worried.. thinking.... "WHAT IF THIS CHILD IS MINE" I have every reason to believe it's mine.

1) calculating the month we broke up and had sex last to this December she gave birth is like few days pass 9 months.

2) the way she acted on the issue that made her stop coming to my place again... showed she already had this planned out (picked the yahoo boy over me because she knows am not going wife her...due to how we met )


3) the baby she uploaded is quite fair, and I also am fair in complexion. (her man is black)

With this I have every reason to believe that child might be mine.... but am really confused don't know what to do... have been thinking ever since yesterday night.

Can I fight this now or I should wait till the baby is grown?


Moving on when I know I have a child somewhere, my offsprings is not an option.. because I feel scammed already.

If you're financial bouyant, you can travel to any of the countries that is not on UK's red list, spend like 2weeks there then travel to UK from there. I had that's the newest option.

All the best!

kingvilleshines:
Hi
family please I need your advice am supposed to leave Nigeria yesterday but with these sudden restriction of travel wasn't able so I like to know what to do especially since my visa is valid till February 2022 and what if the ban not removed till then. Can someone please advise if I am to mail the embassy so they know not traveling yet isn't my fault. Please I need your suggestions. Thanks

Go to YouTube and search for International students in Singapore. Hope it helps

jeffmatt4u:
Hello friends, hope u are having a great time?
I will go straight to the point. I applied for an undergraduate study in a Singaporean university, all forms have been filled and documents uploaded.
Now I am being required to pay for application fee (not expensive though), I don't have problem with that anyways.
I just want to enquire from the good people of this forum who are enlightened and have knowledge about life in Singapore. How international students are treated, possibility of joining their workforce after studies, possibility of getting PR and all that.
I just want to know if I am making the right choice or if I should search for other countries.
So guys any little info you can contribute will be appreciated and I believe some persons here will also be interested in this same information .
Much Love

I'm also here to know if it's safe too

Yes it's needed accordingto what I heard. You can get it at police HQ here in Abuja for 10k. Just go with your passport photo, photocopy of your Int'l passport and 10k.

Choox101:
Pls, is police character certificate needed for post graduate study visa application?

Please can I get Mr. Danilo's number, I also want to translate my documents and I live in Abuja too. Thank you.

marwan123:
Depending on how many docs you are translating, last year my waec and birth certificate cost me 5k, from mr Danilo in abuja.