₦airaland Forum

TheUpsetGirl1:
When it comes to romance, Nigerian men are known to be actively engaging. Apart from their culture of carrying the financial burden of relationship with women, they harness every opportunity to appeal to their lovers, be it on social-network sites, in their respective offices, religious organizations, clubs among others.
Now I'm going to list 6 reasons why Nigerian men run from marriage


1. No wife materials
Common among some men is the reservation that there is scarcity of ‘wife-materials’ in Nigeria.

2. They get sex freely without marriage than in time past
Realizing now that they can get sex more easily than in times past, when ‘virginity’ for women was a pass value to marriage, some men now feel lot of women today have lost it when it comes to keeping themselves whole.

3. Nigeria weddings are expensive

In a country where a man is expected to marry a woman in three different kinds of wedding- Religious, Traditional and Court, the cost of marriage no doubt is something men find very intimidating. Presently the average Nigeria wedding cost something like N700,000 and the it goes upward from that to more unimaginable cost.

4. In search of a ‘working class’
Today, most Nigerian men are in search of a wife capable of sharing financial responsibilities with them. Gone are the days when men marry ‘full-house-wives’, the increasing cost of living has tilted most men in favor of ladies who have a means of livelihood and willing to share with their man, the burden of building a home.

5. Unrealistic Expectations from In-laws
Some parents have set certain standards for anyone who will marry their child, either way be it that such expectations are from the groom parent’s or bride, the regulations sometimes affect relationships.

6. Trust issues
Most times, people fear to get committed into a relationship because of trust issues. Some men have been bruised in their past relationships and therefore they don’t want to put themselves out there.

nice write up.. most ladies just want to eat their cake and have it. they want the respect their grandmothers had and the perk of a modern lady.

AustineCJ:
Enough is enough...How can the president be insulting its citizen's with no respect,how did we end up here??
2019 is either buhari loose or I leave this country.one must surely happen so help me God.

safe trip bro

with all our education most youths are still Jobless.. I agree with the president. we want awoof money. work smarter, worry less.

fake news...fake source

npowerng:
Npower is an employability enhancement, Fair and transparent.

it seems u are selective in answering your questions
.I have quoted you and asked questions but you keep ignoring it. well I should expect nothing less from a dullard under this regime.

npowerng:
The Npower programme has no redeployment. I would advise you to wait until you have been selected. Then you would consider your chances and next step.

this is the major issue some people face..we don't want to loose this chance.. you guys should have that option and am sure less people would disappear after the final verification.

never believed it until I confirmed from a dealer...so.guys based on my research her are ten facts about the new sassy decoder.

10 Facts you should know about TSTV Sassy Decoder
1.TSTV Sassy Decoder sales date is set for April 1st, 2018.
2.TSTV Sassy decoder including a dish and remote will be sold for ₦3500.
3.The sassy decoder has up to 70+ Channel.
4.It is embedded with the Pause subscription feature.
5.Subscription can be paused for only seven days.
6.Pause Subscription is only available in a monthly subscription plan.
7.The Sassy decoder has the PVR Function to record videos and play later.
8.TSTV daily subscription fee cost ₦200, 3 days subscription cost ₦500 while weekly subscription cost ₦750.
9.TSTV Sassy Decoder subscription can be paid for using Quickteller.
10.TSTV Sassy decoder is not internet enabled.

With these features, one can see that TSTV Sassy Decoder is the downgraded version of the old TSTV decoder that was to be launched last year. Like I said, let’s sit back and see how things will go

CodeTemplar:
Who say refinery should be built in a day? To quickly define it, Forex Reserve is forex reserved for the purpose of meeting forex needs like import, profit repartriation etc
Optimum forex level is equivalen of 3-6 months of a nations forex needs. Stop announcing what you don't know to all.

at least u "sound" educated... apply it more positively

CodeTemplar:
Stop deceiving yourself. This forex growth is cosmetic economic growth. What's the point increasing forex reserve by $20bn but suffering hardship and huge capital loses because we can't build a $12b refinery to stop petrol import? Stop celebrating cosmetic growth. It is like a 16 year oil who rubs pancake and starts feeling fly.

lol..so it takes a day to build refinery? or do u expect a country to use its foreign reserve for mainly that? it seems the term "foreign reserve" isn't clear to u. study more, judge with ur head and not ur hearth

Oduwils222:
How do they intend to explain this to a common lay man? All we(common people) knw is that clappa tin tomatoes and sachet power price has reduced to 40 and 50 naira respectively. Take ur big grammer and go.

lol...finally an honest view..in summary what this means is that we are moving in the right direction, though we aren't there yet

Esseite:
Dont be deceived...

What do we then do with the N20tr debt profile in same 30months?

Fools paradise....

to bring more light to the issue an improved foreign reserve means our economy is stable both in its agreed payment of debt and also other aspects of economic growth. so as long as we still have a steady rise or fall our economy is stable and developing. this current government deserves our support for at least putting us on track for development a country's development takes years to see and I believe most haters here are only tribalistic and religiously motivated.

Thegeneralqueen:
God-fearing,slow to anger,not that wealthy,caring,romantic....lets just leave our lives like the best of friends no trust issues give me this anytime any day honey I'll be forever
submissive to you

wow...same thought as yours and ur dp is one of my favourite status.. let's hook up as friends.

its funny that it is this same "online warriors" that clamoured for Biafra now they say buhari won't come 2019...lol hope u guys are ready for another disappointment.

hello traders, is xm a good broker?

SternProphet:
Thank GOD finally. 4 MORE YEARS to finish and consolidate on power generation agriculture, education, FOREX Reserves, SIP, agro allied industries, priority projects like Ajaokuta, Mambila, Lagos Ibadan Rail, Ibadan Kaduna Rail and many others

that's just the truth...let those who don't understand economics go and vote for the people that brought our economy to where it is now.illiteracy is really a disease. they come and argue without logic. how long do they think it takes a country to leave recession, the recovery period and then growth stage. its true that this government isn't perfect but its at least people oriented.

Man U!!!! we go use the secure point like APC use looter's list

Nutase:
Why can't you guys leave the church alone and mind your business? You're just drinking panadol for another mans headache.

hmmmm...am sure u belong to the right side of the fence

npowerng:
Kindly drop your email address, sir.

I saw this in a whatsapp group. the person that received it said its from u guys and he stays in sokoto. is it real?

Biglittlelois:
Especially 1 and 2, some partners will use it to insult you when there is misunderstanding, some things are better left as secret

lol...naso them plenty

docus:
Watch for breakout to the upside

hi,are u using ichimoku analysis..If not wat tools are u using?

its sad that this is the reality. let's join hands to change it.happy Sunday

schoolmaster:
There have been a serious uproar among the ranks and file, officers and civilian staff working with d Nigeria police force as February salary has been grossly debited with huge deduction by IPPIS in d name of Fed govt new tax policy.

Yes huge disaster because of d fact dat people are already complaining dat salaries are no longer enough in dis (Buhari) regime and require upward review, but all they could get is huge deduction is dis fare APC. imagine deductions as high as 10k, 20k & even >30k, how can we survive dis? please affected personal share ur experience, mine was 23k. what do we do? Also is dis new tax policy also affecting other civil and public servants?

I just pity the people that would believe a news that don't have a valid source. wise up

kevd4all:
I have a Sony PS3 slim 500GB for sale it comes with 4 games installed (PES 2017, Dishonored, DOA5, ) and 7 cds God of war, Hitman, FAllout, Fifa 15, Prototype, Need for Speed and sleeping dogs. Contact me if you are still interested. 35k

location?

Kobicove:
With computer graphics anything is possible these days

A time is coming when photographic evidence will no longer be admissible in a court of law

that's just the truth.. that was an epic work even me fear

nice gesture

kynbasil01:
God will never forgive Arsenal for what they did to me today

I sense ticket cutting here

TwoBottles:
There are exceptional ladies who are worth everything good that a man can give them. I have one of such and I'm ready to go to any length to give her all she needs.

remind to give u "two bottles " when she breaks ur heart.

SnakeXenzia:
Fake

guy this isn't fake. I know guys that have done this stuff. it pains me that most girls are materialistic for how much? their future is destroyed and even the guys involved no fear of God in them. I earn below 50k a month (sometimes less) but am working harder to improve. no material stuff is worth your soul.

Dayvey:
Wow,Naruto Uzumaki on nairaland

I'm honoured to be in the midst of such a legendary Hokage

BTW,greet Hinata,boruto,sasuke,Sakura & everyone else

lol..yes oo even in konoha nairaland is popular

like my comment if u are very stupid

MhizzAJ:
That's his own cup of bitterness
All i know is that come 2019....The dullard will be kicked out

lol...he still has my vote.

when I read most of the comments all I see are peeps with personal beef for this government because if they have read through the statements logically they would understand the reasons for such a scarcity.. and to those who are tired of this country plz leave.