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tearoses:

If she puts that DP up, the man no go gree eat the better soup with plenty meat the wife cooks

Sambarry has plenty plenty quotes she can lend the woman
Mama Wura!!!!!!!
Where art thou?

is it not how he made the wife feel? he will get the cure 2 his madness na.
All she needs is a dp, he thinks he is the only one dat can get hurt?if he doesnt want 2 eat the better soup with orishirishi,make she eats it alone na with a bottle of stout or abi gulder.then if he doesnt surrender,she posts this one.

ijeshaboy:
am also not that neat but am still better than her, all the good cloth I bought for my daughter has turn brown, including the one sent by my sister, I bought her 3 phone within 6month all spoilt, the last one was techno l7( u nw the price when it came out) am just confused.

there is no confusion here,she doesnt want to improve on herself and it is not ur job 2 change her,u better decide now or u will live the rest of ur life in regret and confusion.u will forever fight with her,despise her and this is not a situation u want 2 be in or ur kids.this might seems light 4 now but when she finally move in with u,u guys will have it rough.

ijeshaboy:
am not around, she schools in our hometown so she stay with my mum, wen she came visiting, my toilet change colour from white to brown, infact am confused, I wish well for her but how do I handle dis.

u let her get away with it for far too long and she is used 2 it.Like I said tell her that u tried 2 accommodate her lack of hygiene and u don't think u want 2 live the rest of ur life like this OR Make her uncomfortable anytime she visits, clean after her each time she uses something while murmuring,wash ur daughter clothes when she is around,even the clean ones,talk about hygiene more often to ur daughter,she is a baby but ur indirectly referring 2 her,this will trigger something in her and watch her reaction.If this doesnt work,u are the one 2 decide coz nobody here will help u more than u can help urself as u will be the one 2 live with her.I dislike dirty people especially women!

u see wetin i talk about social media? mad people.
why is she troubling herself na? let her find a dp and put it there,end of the story.After dat make she cook better soup and plenty meat.

it either u take charge of the hygiene of the baby or u let her know that u won't be settling down with her because of dat and see what happens.

that what happens when u are an attention seeker and don't keep ur privacy.everybody have 2 know about everything in ur life,needy much?

JOYOSITA:
get back into ur cage please

shut the Bleep up with ur forehead like an hippopotamus.

JOYOSITA:
What's that one saying

I am saying u should shut up and not talk about beauty when u are not dat beautiful urself.

JOYOSITA:
She is just there n not drop dead gorgeous

How u be? Dbanj asked your help?uwey dey drop dead gorgeous(rolls eyes) u maried?

After sampling all the big and independent girls in Nigeria,SA na 25 univerisity humble girl this bad boy don marry
hahahahahahah Men and their ways.na mary amaka they want 4 house o

witch.

Tell this story to the baboons, mtschewwwww

she is an idiot, a very big fool.I can't even do it 4 a husband.

ikbnice:
Women may nag, frustrate you and be a pain in the ass atimes. They are not meant to be beaten. There are many ways of dealing with a woman that are even more effective than beating. Women are FRAGILE, fragile than they look.

yes women r fragile but they claim equal to men, so what should we beleive?

That girl is evil, very evil.
there is nothing 4 u to contemplate other dan walking away. If u have a contagious terminal disease,u need 2 let the person u are in a sexual relationship with know immediately.It is not fair nd such a person can never be trusted.

Ewuro4:
My name is Ewuro and I approve this message.

And I concur!

Ewuro4:


Happy Sunday Nasha!

Happy Sunday mumy mi
the mods ban me o, na so dey keep banning for her... I am not a trouble maker o,i just detest people wey no get common sense.

How are you? and family?

MRBrownJ:
5million /yr for 5 yrs, thats 25Million bro.... @50Mill thats overbilling of 100%. lol!
where do you think that this woman will find such amount? she thought the grass was greener abroad but nobody there wanted to settle for a woman like her.... so after 19yrs, she is back at the source, as a last desperate resort.

yes because she didnt want 2 be married to a nigerian man that will want a traditional marriage and in turn be a slave according 2 u.
so she wanted to go where men dont treat woman like slaves.

MRBrownJ:
you think you can come on NL, quote me while claiming A then Z, and expect me not to call you out for the nonsense you write?! if you claim that men with richer wives are all abusive then, i dont need to live your life to say, YES you are narrow minded and negative. if you think this is an insult then so be it. why get mad now that i wish that you become like your idol here?! dont you wanna BE like her any longer? bwaaah!

are you going through a middle life crisis? it s like u just married a woman who is treating like trash and u are taking it out on nl.
or did u lose ur job?

MRBrownJ:
again, these are the questions, a YES or NO will do
- does this woman, married the traditional way, has the choice to decide when she will cook and clean?! (meaning cook/clean somedays and not thers)
- can this woman, married the traditional way, decide that she wont cook a certain week?
- can this woman go against the authority of her husband?

YES YES YES

fancyupage:
@Nasha1 and MrBrownJ please let us remain civil with putting our positions across.

I agree with most of your points nasha1.

@MrBrownJ, you seems to think all employees are slaves because they have to follow the company's guidelines if they want to remain an employee.

I am sorry but i cant help it when a grown up man (educated) reasons like this,then i cant help it.
postmann ur attention is needed.

MRBrownJ:
- does this woman, married the traditional way, has the choice to decide when she will cook and clean?!
- can this woman, married the traditional way, decide that she wont cook a certain week?
- can this woman go against the authority of her husband?

whether she decides to enter such marriage on her own freewill or not is irrelevant to the fact that her status in that union is to be under that man's authority, and cook/clean as her daily duty, whether she consent to it or not. just because today many desperate women gladly accept the "slavery" due to social/religious/peer/family pressures of being married at all cost(and seemingly be happy), is irrelevant here... as soon as she enters such union, she becomes a SLAVE (willingly or unwillingly). i know many of you dont like the word but thats what a wife in a traditional wedding is. she is ruled by her husband, and whatever he says, goes.

This is the silliest comment i have read on nl. If this is what happened 2 ur mum,then ur father needs 2 be shot.
A housewife has a choice 2 cook anytime she pleases nd any food she pleases.she can sleep the whole day nd cook when her husband return from work,she can clean at her own convenience,she can travel whenever she wants nd go to parties with her husband.she can go shopping with her husband money nd enjoy a massage when hubby is working.she can watch tv the whole day because the remaining food she cooked yesterday will still serve the family for 2 days.she can decide 2 do laundry on weekends only. I am with a housewife right now doing her nails and left her 1 years old with her hubby at home because they have a reception this afternoon.
jesus where are u from? wow
what is the definition of slave? Wait, what am i reading? why did u choose 2 sound this dumb all of a sudden?

MRBrownJ:
again, back in the days of our forefathers, mothers had NO choice and their JOB was to cook and clean and care for the household. today women are gainfully employed, and therefore they have a CHOICE... but if a woman today decides to live the TRADITIONAL way, then yes she will remain the "choiceless" slaves that our mothers were.... thus cooking and cleaning will be her enforced duties.

smh a woman who decides to live the traditional way
decision: a choice that you make about something after thinking about several possibilities

is a slave because she will remain choiceless because she CHOSE it ? i am done with u. Please take care of ur mum,she needs it.

MRBrownJ:
so "network" had you posting this msg on 2 different threads that AINT the thread where i wrote that above post?! ok....

again, if what your mother is doing isnt her choice but her DUTY, meaning that even if she decides one day that she doesnt want to do any of it, she still MUST, then yes, a slave she is... no matter how much she is comfortable doing her duty. same as any housegirl's duty.

ps dont confuse enforced duties with responsibility

lol so cleaning ur house,caring 4 ur kids nd a man u love while ur husband do the same with job nd all the financial responsabilities is a duty?i must say it must have been very hard 4 ur mum,poor her.Was she forced 2 care 4 u and ur siblings? i mean a woman taking care 4 her OWN kids is a duty? a woman cleaning where she lives is a duty? because the man goes out everyday,morning till night,who spend more time at home?smh
that means all the single mums are slaves,wonderful!

MRBrownJ:
i am just gonna copy and paste my reply since your are asking the same question all over my posts...

any women who lived the traditional way were slaves to their husbands, yes!!! doing ALL the chores wasnt even a debate, it was their JOBS, whether they liked it or not. husband's only job was to go to work and make money. if thats what your mother does tday then yes she is a slave indeed.

I wanted 2 post one nd if u know network,u will understand.Now u acting like a little girl,u didn't have 2 do what i did.
nope,u are emotional.was is a debate for their husbands 2 go hustling under the sun and rain,taking care of their kids and a wife?The man had a JOB too and i still maintain ur mother was the slave one,my mum enjoyed caring 4 her home and husband,she worked too and right now,she is enjoying her life because her 3 kids are grown nd dad still take care of her even tho she makes her money because he is used 2 it,she's still his responsibility.According 2 ur logic,any men who worked,put their lives in danger,having 2 wake up early nd come back late everyday was a slave because working wasn't even a debate.smh
Now tell us,how was it 4 her?

MRBrownJ:
then here is what you do: next month only pay half of her "expenses", when she ask you why, tell her that you cant be cleaning clothes the way you do any longer as it is tiring and time consuming, and need to buy a washing machine (or pay for someone to do it), thus you dont have enough for her expenses.

a woman who desire the traditional route must accept to become a husband's SLAVE... because thats what our mothers were.

Was ur mother a slave?my mum wasn't and is not.so a woman taking care of her OWN home nd her OWN kids is a slave?smh with this kind of mentality.

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MRBrownJ:
dont worry my brotha, we all know that when people have nothing INTELLIGENT to say on a subject, they start insulting to derail threads.
sadly, not with me, lowering myself to your level and throwing childish insults, would be only beneficial to you.

a woman who desire the traditional route must accept to become a husband's SLAVE... because thats what our mothers were.

Was ur mother a slave?my mum wasn't and is not.so a woman taking care of her OWN home nd her OWN kids is a slave?smh with this kind of mentality.

Acidosis:
Lol, I thought you said you'll empty your account for her without proper investigation?

Why are you shaming the so called bad people who called for investigation? The same investigative report you hurriedly referenced in your desperate display of ignorance? Why are you thanking timy22 for the same measure you kicked against? Don't you have shame?

Come here and tell people your grandmother is dying, as long as no investigation is done, ACIDOSIS & FRIENDS will not donate anything.

Let it go sister, and send her some funds (that's if you have any anyway).


@timy22 , thanks for the effort, I can assure you that great step would push many prospective scammers back to the drawing board (kindly forward her account number via PM).

No shame 2 you and the people who liked ur useless sarcastic posts. u came at me did i call u? u could have just say she needs 2 be verified 4 these reasons then proceeding at showing other threads as a show of concern but but u wanted 2 form wiser by telling me 2 go donate to those ones too,is it ur money? Did I force or begged any of u for money?.i am thanking her because i felt the story was genuine especially when she contacted 2 people who she sent her pictures with a protruding tummy. i said shame those who were saying she's online all the time how come she has a charged phone and went 2 ask her friends on facebook about her situation. When u read tearoses post u know,this is someone who reason.Oh u that have money,why didnt u just act like some men on this thread and keep quiet but as a little sissy,u joined the useless people here 2 act like u know it all.
i will let it go and if i choose to empty my bank account it's none of ur business,besides no be nairalander,most of people asking 4 verification only 1 or 2 end up giving something the rest are quiet donor.if u think giving is competition .
Now go and empty dat ur bank account (that if u have any ) and give this young lady u tried 2 shame.sissy.u can come and vomit on my post,i won't engage u again,unless u tell me ur name is sandra.

shame on bad people. timy22 God bless u abundantly,u are ur sister's keeper.Your children will never lack.

acidosis oya come and read.

DDeliverer:
why u dey talk like say u no know wetin conji dey do person... mature man for that matter.

so you think na sex the only thing a woman can desire in a man? if you think u can just sex her then you are a dreamer,na so you will continue meeting disrespectful women.if you talk about love then it's unlikely to find it in his state,he needs to hold body together.

DDeliverer:
Bros, get another gf...there are girls everywhere, one foolish ssce holder should not be talking to you anyhow..

cant him stay without a girlfriend? must he have a girlfriend? let him concentrate on getting a job and leave women alone for now.how e take get erection sef in poverty?