I am actually confuse and I don't really know if it's normal or it means she not going to be a good wife material?
Most time am always washing cloth when she comes visiting and she never attempt to assist me instead she will just sit down beside me and be looking or gisting, though even if she demand to assist I won't allow her but I feel that at least she should show the zeal.
Please kindly advise, I pray u won't miss marry too......

What should I say.....

Is she your washing machine? Dont be lazy and wash your clothes yourself

pictures are not real life dear

pictures are not real life dear, I've had to learn that the hard way

so you want that babe who got dressed and try to look fancy, did her nails, make up and hair for hours to come visit you... and when she gets there, she should bend down and wash your clothes?! funny....

btw how long have you guys been dating? how often does she stay over the night at your place? how often you cater for her needs?

SANDOSKI:
What should I say.....

what you can say is to tell me who you cropped out of your profile picture

Hmmmm. Courtesy demand she @least do eyes service ke

juhan:
Is she your washing machine? Dont be lazy and wash your clothes yourself

Close to 7month and she come often, I take care of her expenses...

MRBrownJ:
so you want that babe who got dressed and try to look fancy, did her nails, make up and hair for hours to come visit you... and when she gets there, she should bend down and wash your clothes?! funny....

btw how long have you guys been dating? how often does she stay over the night at your place? how often you cater for her needs?

Why not ask google?.... He knows everything

jaksabbey:
Hmmmm. Courtesy demand she @least do eyes service ke

she have her own reason so she doesnt help you with anything?

Ta lo fe se asedanu?

U get bad mouth sha...... gimme d address Mtweeeh

pinceprinz:
Why not ask google?.... He knows everything

jaksabbey:
U get bad mouth sha...... gimme d address Mtweeeh

Sorry sah, I've moved on... So what did u say your problems are again?

jaksabbey:
Close to 7month and she come often, I take care of her expenses...

then here is what you do: next month only pay half of her "expenses", when she ask you why, tell her that you cant be cleaning clothes the way you do any longer as it is tiring and time consuming, and need to buy a washing machine (or pay for someone to do it), thus you dont have enough for her expenses.

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MRBrownJ:


then here is what you do: next month only pay half of her "expenses", when she ask you why, tell her that you cant be cleaning clothes the way you do any longer as it is tiring and time consuming, and need to buy a washing machine (or pay for someone to do it), thus you dont have enough for her expenses.

a woman who desire the traditional route must accept to become a husband's SLAVE... because thats what our mothers were.

Was ur mother a slave?my mum wasn't and is not.so a woman taking care of her OWN home nd her OWN kids is a slave?smh with this kind of mentality.

nasha1:
Was ur mother a slave?my mum wasn't and is not.so a woman taking care of her OWN home nd her OWN kids is a slave?smh with this kind of mentality.

any women who lived the traditional way were slaves to their husbands, yes!!! doing ALL the chores wasnt even a debate, it was their JOBS, whether they liked it or not. husband's only job was to go to work and make money. if thats what your mother does tday then yes she is a slave indeed.

jaksabbey:
Close to 7month and she come often, I take care of her expenses...

Why should you take care of her expenses in the first place?That's somehow believe me!

atleast if she loves she, shez suppose to mke attempt or join u n wash

@op run for your life.. these are signs a lazy woman would give to you.. I wouldnt like to say I told you so.

Bro wat u see is wat u will get, I pray u understand me

Well understood bro. Saturday to ba ma da lati friday lati ma mo

Hillzy:
Bro wat u see is wat u will get, I pray u understand me

I didn't see anything wrong washing your own cloths by yourself

some gals r open to d idea of performin wifely duties b4 marriage n some r not. D tyn dere is once she assists u,u wil want er to do it evrytym for u, she hz her reasons tho.

That is not a true test of being a good wife or not

jaksabbey:
I am actually confuse and I don't really know if it's normal or it means she not going to be a good wife material?
Most time am always washing cloth when she comes visiting and she never attempt to assist me instead she will just sit down beside me and be looking or gisting, though even if she demand to assist I won't allow her but I feel that at least she should show the zeal.
Please kindly advise, I pray u won't miss marry too......

To be frank with you,that lady does not really like washing.It may be that she likes pressing clothes. So why don't you ask her to press some of your clothes and then watch her reaction

Great bro.... tanx

Mypeople2:
To be frank with you,that lady does not really like washing.It may be that she likes pressing clothes. So why don't you ask her to press some of your clothes and then watch her reaction

@OP let me realistic with u and to all other guys who cares to listen.
DON'T EVER MARRY ALL THOSE POLISHED LOOKING GIRLS JUST BECAUSE THEY LOOK SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE AND HAS NO HOME TRAINING.... coz after marriage, u will get tired of all those beauty and end up feeling frustrated.
DON'T MARRY A GIRL WHOM YOU LOVE MORE....RATHER MARRY A LADY WHO LOVES AND RESPECT YOU THE MORE....pls guys don't ever date a feminist talk less of making her ur wife. MARRY A VEGETABLE AND NOT A FLOWER

Whatever u experience in ur dating or courtship life is a fraction of what u are about to witness for the rest of ur wedding life.


OP...abeg us ur head

Jah bless u gwritter, that's just d bottom line and what I actually want our ppl to know, I rise this topic just to let us knw d world we are now, ladies no longer care for any thing and most of them never get the rite home training again, courtesy demand a lot as human being....

ghostwritter:
@OP let me realistic with u and to all other guys who cares to listen.
DON'T EVER MARRY ALL THOSE POLISHED LOOKING GIRLS JUST BECAUSE THEY LOOK SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE AND HAS NO HOME TRAINING.... coz after marriage, u will get tired of all those beauty and end up feeling frustrated.
DON'T MARRY A GIRL WHOM YOU LOVE MORE....RATHER MARRY A LADY WHO LOVES AND RESPECT YOU THE MORE....pls guys don't ever date a feminist talk less of making her ur wife. MARRY A VEGETABLE AND NOT A FLOWER

Whatever u experience in ur dating or courtship life is a fraction of what u are about to witness for the rest of ur wedding life.


OP...abeg us ur head

ghostwritter:
@OP let me realistic with u and to all other guys who cares to listen.
DON'T EVER MARRY ALL THOSE POLISHED LOOKING GIRLS JUST BECAUSE THEY LOOK SEXUALLY ATTRACTIVE AND HAS NO HOME TRAINING.... coz after marriage, u will get tired of all those beauty and end up feeling frustrated.
DON'T MARRY A GIRL WHOM YOU LOVE MORE....RATHER MARRY A LADY WHO LOVES AND RESPECT YOU THE MORE....pls guys don't ever date a feminist talk less of making her ur wife. MARRY A VEGETABLE AND NOT A FLOWER

Whatever u experience in ur dating or courtship life is a fraction of what u are about to witness for the rest of ur wedding life.


OP...abeg us ur head

so marry and settle for a woman that you dont love?! what kind of miserable marriage would that make? any man must find a woman that loves them and that they love, NO compromise! this isnt a race, this is LIFE! the gal you marry must have ALL what you desire in a spouse. BEAUTY is just as important as CHARACTER because nobody wants to wake up every morning next to a partner with a donkey face.