₦airaland Forum

Finevv:
I've been dating Nigerian man (from Edo state) for almost 2 years now. Things were great to start with, he was loving and caring and a perfect boyfriend. Few months back I've found out he's been cheating on me but I forgave him and begged him to stop,  He said he's working on it as it's his biggest weakness, falling for women,  But they're not important, and it's only me he truly cares about,

Now I'm a white woman so in my culture this is something that you wouldn't normally accept but because of the feelings I have for him I do it - it is very difficult though.

The question is, is he just saying all this because he's using me and has never been serious with me? Or is it really that Nigerian men can think this way?

Odunnu:
See even Natasha dey comment for adult matter. Choi!

lolz what did I say na? no be seconding I just dey do

BlackLibya:
I think your right. What bothers me tho is the girl in your profile with hair that appears not to be hers. She is but a babe!

luvola:
i can authoritatively declare that u can't have a 1st class in law fac in lasu and they are yet to produce one since the inception of the sch law programm in 1983.every law student in lasu will tell u this.*truith is bitter*

Johndoe100:
Young lady, I am only as dumb and deranged as your parents. I have children your age, if you address me , which I would really prefer that you didn't . Please never address me again

From your profile


Gender: Female
Age: 17

Go do your home work adults are talking.

HMM NO WONDER MATURITY DOESN'T COME WITH AGE , ITS A PITY THAT AT YOUR AGE ''DON'T CARE HOW OLD'' YOU REASON LIKE A FOWL

And they will be the first to call the name of their institution even when you dont ask them.

I schooled at Madonna university my school fees then was 250k.
nasty people

LMAO

silvertuke:
I will disfriend her Immediately,

lol are you sure? you no go book ?

milehigh06:
we dont have any cos we have no file with efcc and we have not stolen from the country coffers
when will people look beyond this silly complex thing,the facts are not about complex issues but the fact that all nigerian political thieves are being given awards left and right,dont care if its  1 or 1 million as long as the receivers are worth the awards

oyb:
give her an award for defending the awards 

I will gladly take it

MRbrownJAY:
@Natasha
life is about fulfillment, if she wants more then let her have more. would you rather that this person be se[b]x[/b]ually miserable for the rest of her life? would you rather that this person indulge in her fantasy in your back? she clearly said she wanted no contact with the guy and also that she wanted the husband's help in fulfilling it.

Yap but things are different when it comes to sex, that's why the poster is not pleased its not like asking for a new car or whatever its sex [size=1pt] although sometimes I get to ponder on getting married and having to sex just 1 man for the rest of my life gosh [/size] Anyways like you said the guy should also get a lady too I think this will help, so he won't have to think about his wife getting banged by another man too much. The wife must have been getting this feeling since God knows when and one day she will definitely fulfil it cos sex comes so easy.

Yorisb:
So u now admitted to have lied knowingly

@OP
Fake Lie Dictator Machine!

Fancier:
HOLY FREEZE!!! Looking like Cartoon, In fact everything about her is too artificial for my liking before now so am not surprise, From the crown of her hair to the tip of her toe nail is ARTIFICIAL.

abeg gerrout jor hypocrite

MRbrownJAY:
@thread
there is absolutely NOTHING wrong with what this wifey asked, at least she want to indulge in her fantasy with her husband fully aware of it (rather than sneaking around like a thief). let us all be honest, how long can you suppress your fantasies until you go for it? you may try as hard as you can but the day the love aint as ripe as it use to be, then you will be bolder to go ahead. it's just a matter of TIME. . . . . . . . and for those who say they aint got any, let me give you my condolences.

what the poster is feeling is the reason why swingers clubs are so common these days. there are MANY websites out there that cater for such "request". I myself have met MANY of these couples and one thing that is certain is that they LOVE each other very much. these people dont go and indulge in such fantasies after 3weeks of marriage, sometimes it takes yrs (it comes about when they have tried everything else in the s[b]e[/b]x manual). not many people are strong enough to say:" baby, why dont you find yourself a person that you fantasize about and indulge in your fantasies"

some women have fantasies of being humiliated, others fantasize about being violated, while many out there fantasize about being double penetrated (or being with multiple partners). i am not even going to mention 3 sum with another woman as it is the most common fantasy out there (if you havent indulged in it yet then you are seriously left out). it's all about bringing to life an idea that has been stimulating your mind for a while.

as for the ones who say that it is a recipe for disaster to indulge in your own fantasies, i will simply say: are you saying that people SHOULD NOT indulge in something that will satisfy them? isnt r/ships about understanding? how long do you think you can deprive your partner of something that she/he can easily get on their own?

it's called TRUST and UNDERSTANDING, and sadly many married couple dont have that between them (thats why they cant understand this request). whether good or bad, your partner should be able to let you know about ANY worries they may have, if they cant, then the union you are in is shiit (excuse my French).

btw if this lady asks such request then OBVIOUSLY, she will have no problem in letting her hubby try his own fantasies too.

ambelva:
She is not my friend but I do know her because she is my sister's friend. Plus d guy himself is not saying nothin to ma sister bcus they ususally talk every now and den. And no am not in nigeria am in d uk(for d person saying sis are sharin man in naija)I am only scared bcus his ex is not over him yet, nd she wil prob go mad if she realise he want to move on.

Johndoe100:
It is becoming clearer that you people never really wanted to help the family without strings attached (you decide everything for them), all you were intrested in was to play "god " with the guy's life.
Someone asked what he would do with 100k, he will rent a 1000 naira shanty where they pay per person in the room and use the rest to level himself. That is most likely what he wants. It is truly amazing how the true motivations of we 9igerians are brought to the fore when we cannot tell people what to do. Morally you people are bound to use the money collected to help the familly, I don't understand why the man wanting his own priorities makes him any more insane than anyone posting here.

Jesus are you reasoning at all? this man is living in squalor, hello no right thinking human will refuse the help coming from people, what the heck will he do with the money? rent an apartment and start a business really? IS THAT WHAT HE TOLD YOU? this man is clearly insane and he is subjecting his family to this ill fate, its unfair, he refused all the apartments given to him, how does he know that after a whole year he won't be able to pay the rent? why is he bent on cash? No body is telling him what to do, or are you saying for the fact that a guy was kind hearted enough to rent an apartment for this guy just to take him out of the gutter he is playing God with his life? So helping him get an apartment means playing with his priority, what stupid priority does a man living in squalor have tell me if not to get good shelter which someone has offered him.

Yorisb:
Fake Wig.

that's my sisters hair oh

Odunnu:
@Ifyalways and Olowotee: Dont for any reason go back in search of that man again before he calls the police on you claiming you guys have diverted all the cash meant for him.
To this Obuh guy N100k looks like N1B