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Akshow: hilariousyeah, funny but true |
So dats it! This dude started with the promise promise approach and when i told him that i was too young to get married, he now switched to the situational approach. There i told him i wasn't every body, i was me! Now he's taking me on a guilt trip. Telling me that i've rejected him. Hmmmm am grateful 4 this post cos that guilt approach was really getting at me. But now that i knw its all a mapped out plan, i wil knw how to handle it. Thanks op. U jst saved a life! |
Zedric: 16) write it down, @least u didn't say iti am with one that writes it alot cos i don't believe him when he says it. I don't knw why bt i jst don't believe him when he says it. |
Dygeasy: The female gender still seeking pity.what u need to do is accept gender equality cos its here na stay. U can even pretend it's cool even though i knw thats not possible. |
theplanmaker: this is a man's world......u can't fight itwe are not planning on fighting it but what abt change it to something that wil accommodate both sexes |
Kalvan: A woman's place is in the kitchen.and ur place is in the backgarden |
Miscellaneous: how come the op... just created this & it was on fp automatically?cos women too deserve an audiance. |
mstik: *sigh*i refuse to accept that. I believe its a free world n every1 has got equal rights. Atleast the constitution said that. |
balash: yes exactly!! u sounding more like he is ur first love and u cant do without him why not give ur heart to someone elseyap, he z ma first and with him i've learnt one thing. How to let go! and now i give up, on him, and on love itself. |
balash: Have u tried going into a relationship with someone else!!someone else? As in apart from the guy am with? |
shidof: ua notin but a congenital fool with this ur dumb analysis. Islam is not a divided religion lyk urs, as a muslim, we ol believed and worship only one God( Allah)and belief in ol his prophet jesus inclusive, one book(Quran) , same and the best ways of greeting, greetings of ol d prophet, jesus inclusive(salam alaekum, peace be unto u) and best of ol, i cn pray in any mosque i want, wether tijaniyat, sunnis or Ahamdiyyah mosque unlike xtians where deeper life cn't worship in catholic churchs and islam doesn't tolerate bid'ah(innovation) unlike xtianity where ur men of gods ve removed ol d part dt doesn't satisfy dere worldly desires frm bible by condeming most of the commandment from old-testament even some in new testament.And my own islam doesn't tolerate or aids killing of innocent souls nd terrorism.just read, digest and do try to ask or learn abt oda pples religion b4 u'll start typing rubbish cos of free 5Mb nd do tell me any religion dt is as uniform as islam.i'd rather be an atheist cos its more uniform than all of these religions. Religion is the problem of today's world. |
It seems just like yesterday that she was but a kid jumping here & screaming there and having not a care She then grew to stop screaming instead of it some her emerged a her that yell & bang & hiss an carried on with so much fuss Then, her family she despised she cared for no one safe herself some days she'd stay out late or better still stay locked up in Her folks went thru lots of stress skipping tantrums,avoiding fights her siblings knew the golden rule Dn't cross my path,i wn't cross urs She grew the more to stop being rude. Her folks became the next best thing after herself. she embraced life with open arms Alas! in the twimklin of an eye, the woman in her has evolved the one who brightens other lives the one who dishes out smiles This girl is gone & in her place a woman stands, full of grace,charm & poise! |
[quote author=zikclassiq]@Natifa, what kind of guy is that you love but has no respect for your dignity, virtue, even your personality as a Lady? How can he be "angry" at you for not allowing you have s*x wit him? He's not your husband, he doesnt even respect you your person, your stand for a virtous woman! A he's "angry" ? FOR WHAT? How many ladies have this sense of chastity and moral strength of yours? Kai, Let him GO! GO! GO! Continue with this stand of yours and you'll NEVER regret it when the REAL MAN comes, who will DIE for your character! Angry ke? abegi![/quote]i jst hope u r ryt cos am beginning to doubt my stand already. i jst hope that mr right wil be worth the trouble. thats if he even exist |
[quote author=Neyoor]That's not selfishness if there is no other thing attached to it. You're just trying to protect a priceless gift, Your precious dignity. Try and persuade him to convince him that you are not keeping it for any other person than him. He just need to be patient with you.[/quote]once i get in touch with him, he will think i've changed my mind and once he discovers i've not, he wil get angry some more. i'd rather left things the way they are cos i hate the pained look on his face anytime he tells me i'v rejected him. it saddens me. i can't keep hurting him and getting hurt the process. |
vict505: you must meet me malike seriously? |
Neyoor: Thank God you still believe it's your dignity and I salute your courage for not giving in.tnx neyoor, my friends jst think am a silly lil selfish girl to want things done my own way in the relationship. |
vict505: Yea but I need to see u and that will determine if you need my advice or not. So show ur face? Or id entification.with all due respect sir, i'd rather not meet anyone. |
vict505: Can I help you blow it out.??hey, thought u wil offer some real advise. Lyk how to get ma mind off sex |
Sometimes love is not jst enough. There are oda things involved and in my case it was dignity. I was jst 20 at the time while he was 27 already. The bone of contention was sex. And since at the time my dignity mattered more to me, i had to walk away. I'v not stoped crying ova him yet, i'v not bn able to quite connect to any oda heart as with his. My! I stil miss him and i keep wondering whether walking away from him was a mistake. |
Am 20 and its getting increasing difficult. Somtimes its lyk i should jst blow it up. |
It felt like some part of me was missing. Am glad its back. Feels like home again |