₦airaland Forum

that awkward moment when you are the best man at your best friend wedding and you just noticed you are having a terrible boner... @Byvan... I read the news... Congrats.

Yomieluv: Work on yourself,as in build yourself,you will definitely see a lady that would approach you,and like you for whom you are.. Just be real.

Nigerian girl approach a man?, good Lawd!. I must be dreaming..

joechima: The problem I have is the fear of rejection and how do I continue or handle those feelings there after and most ladies refuse to say Yes or NO which I barely understand their decision

Like someone earlier said... Show some cash they will accept you (though I don't like it).. But never you go for a matured woman (you can go there later but for now... Stick with 18-24).. Learn the ropes.. Or better still just fashy girls untill you are ready to settle down.

ogugua88: Leave the child and look for a woman.

18 isn't a child.... Why should he look for a woman when obviously he's just starting... He should start from scratch..

A little...

Two scenerios... 1). You forgive him/her, he/she still cheat on you again, you don't know for how long, untill you contact an S.T.I's or he/she finally dump your a s s for the other person.. 2). You forgive him/her and he/she remaind faithful to you... As for me, I don't think I could forgive... I have never been in a situation like that so I am not that certain of my reaction..

Naomixy: Online dating! Why should a guy or a girl go online to find a patner? Low self esteem or wat?.... What happened to the people around you that you can see and talk to? Its not bad really as long as you get to exchange numbers and maybe see physically. But do be cautious all the same. You never can tell what kind of person is lurking around on these social networks waiting for unsuspecting victims. Afterall we've heard of dates and meetings gone wrong wit friends met online.

And tou think all offline dating is safe?.

Kairoseki77: Let's be reasonable, normal human beings can vote for PDP.
The unbelievable part is that Nwoye would beat Obiano by so much.

APGA is the SE version of ACN. It is the Igbo party.
PDP is a national party run by Northerners, SS, SW, SE, and Middle Belt.

Why would so many Igbos abandon APGA and vote for a man that only campaigned for two weeks? A man that is a nobody in Anambra? Who is he? What are his policies? What are his plans about important issues? No one knows. Not his enemies, or supporters. We haven't had time to hear from him. I just find it hard to believe that after all the debates and MONTHS of campaigning on APGA and APC sides, that everyone would just abandon their preferred candidate and vote for the nobody that joined the race two weeks ago. It just doesn't make sense.

I don't live in Anambra, so my only concern is that the election is not rigged like the NGF election. If this election is rigged, that means 2015 will be rigged. Not just the Presidency, but every election right down to LGA. It is very scary.

National and regional which is the strongest?.... When P.D.P wins any election, the oppositions will say they rigged, but when the opposition wins, they will say the people has spoken through the ballots boxes... This is a wa.

Giyerte: Dos that nkuruma extension makes sense

compared to Aminu Kano hall C, extension makes a whole lotta sense.

God of sun!... Too much movies... Nice stories though..

NTA why?..... Whats wrong with the signal?.

Married women?... Many Nigerians lack morals... 2011 thread on fp!.. Miracles do happen

Is the sales of basic form still on?, if yes, when is the closing date?..

[quote author=my.name]i ws given aminu kano hall A..i nid u guys to tl me abt dx hall[/quote]Hall A is good.. It's closer to the engine room (generator house).. There is water and lights.. If you are lucky your room might have a ceiling fan.. It's a nice hostel.. Just that there are thieves in ALL the hostels so you should learn how to be careful..

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nikdam: i always respect your sense of reasoning, showing maturity in your comments.

Thank you

It's wrong... I call my father "daddy" till date... When he calls me, I answer "sir"... Calling him by his name is wrong..

mitchyy: Mehnnn. i'm totally confused on this issue. I work hard to earn a lot so i can support my siblings. Does that mean i should drop all that or i should hide my earnings from every guy i come across? I've met some guys who love the fact that i'm independent while others are standing by the door because they are scared i'll be proud.

*sighs*

Are you proud?.

cheche98: coz she aint feeling the man he said he is anymore!!!! In her eyes she only sees a ******.btw she's got the money,fame and her problem solved to her credit. He's basically not doing anyfin for her. There's absolutely no void to fill in her life coz she's a man. SHE IS IN CHARGE. Lol the sweetest part is offering him money(men that tag women "gold diggers". Everyone is a man as long as being "independent "is concerned.

So you meant to say that women only respect men because the men gives them money?... This is serious

simpleseyi: Give your life to Christ and stop planning to be the husband like Dame imPatience Jonathan.

If you are what you preached (born again), you wouldn't distort someones name even if you don't like them.. Do you practice what you preach?.

chess guru: You mean by use of slaps and punches
Not all men are cavemen na. Btw, uroboh girls are one of the most aggressive girls in this country.
While serving, I witnessed an ss1 girl pull out a cutlass on an ss3 boy almost twice her height.
There is a difference btw aggressiveness, and independence bro

My mom is an Urhobo woman... She's very quiet... I take after her.. Not all Urhobo are aggressive... Don't generalize, it's very wrong.

BoboYekini: @OP, you forgot to put 'Nigerian women' in the title. All the bad bad tins for dis life, na their hand e full.

Your sister(s) from Mozambique?

kulyie: sorry,i already have a baby through artificial insemination which i am already nursing and will obviously continue from where i stopped.being a grandma is still a very lonnnnnngggg lonnnnggg time,who says i wont live life to the fullest.thats why i am at home on maternity leave and can nairaland because good enough someone is helping out with my baby

Congrats... I am truely happy for you..

Dannyxy: I have noticed that women who are very succesful and have attained an appreciable status quo, never get married on time? At times they never marry at all, and according to them, the guys are running away.. Why?

The guys aren't running away... The women are running after men higher up... They wouldn't want to settle for "less"...

Depends on the character

Idowuogbo: U won't go home to food if ur woman has a bad character.

At all... That's what they don't know..

Good Character gives you peace of mind, you will be looking forward to return home on time, you can expect her to understand with you, you can have a good conversation with her, laugh over things... The merits of a woman/man having a good character is numerous..

Food: Well I can cook (seriously I can).. If she can't cook there are catering houses everywhere to enroll in and start learning.. Even if it's only saturdays that she's chanced to attend then on sundays she will practice what she learnt on me.. Within 6 months she might have learnt how to prepare some dishes.. There are even dvd's on cooking.

Sex: Practice makes perfect.. We have all the years ahead of us to perfect the act of love making.. I am not good in bed and nobody was born great in bed, so I don't see this as a criteria (to me)..

Two of these can be managed, but a woman with a bad character will find it hard to change.. My opinion.

faakay: Sure they do but they must have something to sustain it, jobless guy is different from a broke guy. A jobless could still have some kinda of source of income from either family or somewhere, but a broke guy has notin to offer, can't even afford to take d girl out, I mean sustaining himself, so for a broke dude to go into a relationship is really going to be hard.
Cost of maintenance, person wey never chop wan dey carry babe abeg lol. Babe go jst dey laugh u

Thank you... I know of a girl that rejected a guy advances, when I told her that the guy loved her, her reply was "na only love I go chop?".. I was kinda angry but wasn't suprised.. I have even come to terms with it that in other for one to date a Nigerian girl, money must be involved in one way or the other..

Ishilove: And I pray God in His infinite mercy gives you the grace to serve Him with all your heart, soul and spirit

Amen...