cococandy:
Some long suffering good women who stay with and support broke men get accused of being behind the poverty. This might be the 5th thread on this forum I’ve seen where the man says someone saw a vision about his wife being responsible for his misfortunes.
It’s sad.

There's no smoke without fire. I don't think those 5 thread are all normal. What do you think

oldienavie:

When was the last time that you gave someone a gift without expecting something in return.
Your perspective is very narrow, unfortunately many people are in your shoes and so they tend to suffer.
Do you think you dont have forces from your generation to also contend with ?

Anyway, learn to give to people regardless of how much little you have, that solves 95% of the problems humans face.
It is a potent recipe for survival and breakthrough but very few people understand it as a weapon.

When you give to the needy (not tithing in church) but you give people in genuine need support and your heart is pure, the forces of the world will align in your favour.

I talk from experience.

I'm a giver bro and I don't think it's related to this sir

infogenius:
op
This is a very serious issue and it shouldn't be taken lightly.
What you are going through is not new and it's still happening till tomorrow.

I had a friend that was into big time business at the trade fair, this was someone that
spent about N20m for his marriage without batting an eye lid.

By 1st year wedding anniversary he was in big debt.
When things got so rough for him , he waka small and his wife was handpicked
as the source of his business downturn.

To cut the long story short, the woman attested to the fact that she sees herself in
strange places when she's asleep and usually reports her husband to an unknown person in her
dreams.
Well that's them, over to you.

You don't have a good reason to divorce your wife. You and her will need deliverance, prayerfully
ask God to guide you. However, labour in the place of prayers at night, infact you and your wife
can engage in prayers together at midnight without clothes on. Do this for 7 days and within that
time, God will definitely show the way to go.

Spiritual issues are real and we only need God to help us through it all.

Thank you bro. I appreciate and I hope your friend is doing well now

Kobojunkie:
Your topic points to it as an option you are considering or did you not write that?

Your post reminds me of a thread from some months ago. A guy who came on here to announce he chased off his wife and eventually kicked his almost 2-year old toddler out of the house too because he was told by 3 pastors that his wife was a witch and that the child inherited the mother's powers.

He blamed the woman and the child for the failure of his business.....a clear case of mind-fuckery if you ask me. I can try pull that thread up for you so you can maybe read through his life to understand that you have been hoodwinked and probably should seek a professional mental health counseling if necessary.

What I was thinking is for me to leave not abandon them because I will take up their responsibility but I will reconsider based on people advices I've read so far.
Thank you

Kajaard:


You are an illiterate. Very daft and shallow. Continue believing these useless pastors and fetish JuJu people.

I can't believe I share the same country with such dull people. Pathetic

Can you imagine. Bro you don't even know me and you are passing insult like this?

Kobojunkie:
Your wife is to blame but your wife is not responsible?

Having sex with an infected individual is where it all starts, this according to your mediums, but you and your wife enjoyed sex as a couple before marriage and had no issues of any kind during all that time?

You then, in defense of your mediums, claim that these type of problems only show up after marriage, even though the same you admit that when you don't have sex in your marriage, all seems to go well and when you are outside of the country, business seems to go fine... this all while you remain married to the same woman.

You claimed a pastor told you all that was needed was 3-day fast, and your wife willingly submitted to the ordeal, only that too didn't pan out.

Isn't it time you consider the possibility that the problem has nothing to do with your wife and all the imagined ideas you've been fed by conmen about her? Imagine what you claim here.... she has what you call a spiritual husband but she doesn't know it however somehow you do?.... this is mental illness level stuff we are talking here of.

It's well bro. God no go shame us. Thank you I appreciate

Kobojunkie:
Your ideas are so pagan and bound in ignorance that I am afraid that it may be best to let you alone. -\

So, what do you plan on doing after you have abandoned your marriage?

Am not abandoning my marriage bro. Thanks anyway

Acidosis:



And your wife?

She into fashion

Richy4:



I'm really sad that you were passing through all these... But in life we humans experience ups and downs... This might be the down part of it( business wise)..

The only problem here is Finance... Assuming u were outside the country, this is where financial planners comes in to play.. u won't even need fasting and prayers.. they will just help revive your business by working u through it all...

I would have even liked for you to tell us the confirmed source where they told you that your wife was the reason why your business we not moving... But I think it is irrelevant...

Please my brother... Stay close to that woman.. if u guys put heads together, u can figure something out...A lot of prayer houses are staying relevant today because they are in the business of destroying families and disintegrating relationships...
Do not let your family be among the statistics....if u leave your wife, there are chances that u might end up with Jezebel's great grand daughter.. all the best buddy...

Thanks man. Really appreciate

Esthered:
Why do prayer houses label women as the cause of their spouses problems?
You've been in business for years as you claim, are you still using the same strategy as at when you started and expecting same results in this dynamic world of today?
You said she prayed.....the fervent and effective prayer of a righteous man availeth much says the holy book. How fervent have you been praying for your deliverance?
You were asked if you've been applying, you're saying you're a business person. What if this business is not adapting to 2022 and you're too stubborn to change strategy.
I just think that Africans always relate their mishaps to spiritual....but if na Oyibo e happen to, he'll restrategize....consult.....explore different businesses and bounce back.
If after she leaves, you're declared free by the vison seers and the business doesn't bounce back nko?
OP abeg check what you're doing wrongly in business and it's not bad to apply for jobs.

It's well bro, I get it.
Thank you

Kobojunkie:
1. Was your wife also to blame for your being sick for many years?

2. You claim you visited mediums and all 3-4 of them pointed at your wife as the source of your failures in your networking business, you didn't tell us what solutions they each prescribed in your case.

3. If according to the mediums you visited, the magic only works against those who mate with people such as your wife, why then did this charm she has not work against you before marriage, and according to you, it also does not work when you are outside the shores of the country?

Of course not. She isn't the one responsible. What they said is she'll do deliverance. It's not that she's using charms or juju on me. It's like when someone has a spiritual husband/wife kind of but unknown to them physically. Am just tired bro because her situation is getting so obvious

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tensazangetsu20:
I really don't feel sorry for women but op I really pity your wife. I honestly feel she can read the nonsense you wrote. . Spiritual problem ko spiritual problem ni.

What you don't know is bigger than you bro. Thanks anyway

Richy4:

<<<<Before you got married to her I assume both of you had one little sex or the other right? And there was no complaint of business not improving before u eventually married her..

<<< U said that you were sick.. based on your write up, I assumed that you are self employed...I believe in high School, u were taught in business studies or Economics, that one of the disadvantages of sole proprietorship is that business/ finance nose dives in the event of death or sickness...

<<<Why would you allow people to brainwash you?... Assuming you were not sick, do you think your business would have suffered the financial crises it was facing now?... Even people that were not sick are suffering because of the pandemic...


<<<A lot of businesses have closed their doors to customers... The owners did not go about blaming their wives.. God gave you a good wife who stood by u, take care of her.. and stop starving her of sex...

<<<U can change your line of business... U can also dust your certificate and search for a job with a steady income... When things improves, u can start your own business again...

Yes bro we had sex before married but who knows. A lots of stuffs will be revealed after marriage sir. Ive been in business for years and Like I said my business doesn't require my presence. I can even travel outside the country and it'll going well.
I carefully observe this that's why I said it's obvious.
Thanks anyway

Acidosis:


How many job applications have you and your wife processed in the last 2-3 years?

How many interviews have you attended?

Bro am not a job applicant. I've been in business for years even before I got married.

LilMissFavvy:
I thought majority of you folks do say Cultism and witchcraft does not exist .

You didn't mention your religion, but if you are a Christian, you already know the two grounds for divorce. Meaning it's wrong to divorce her based on the cult allegations. So you have to manage her like that, keep praying and seeking help. That's why it's good to inquire diligently before choosing a spouse, which you didn't do.

You didn't mention how she got entangled in whatever group she belongs to, wether it was from ancestral covenant or she joined it willingly. if she joined it willingly, hope she has confessed her mistakes and seek forgiveness. She should be patient because sometimes deliverance takes time. Also, only God knows if she's genuinely interested in quitting that group. If shes truly interested, then you have to be patient. She should continue to seek help, pray more and join a deliverance ministry.

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Thanks sis. You knows it's like having a spiritual husband kind of. They call them emere in Yoruba. She herself didn't know how she got herself there but I noticed she always dreams of water and dustbin most times.

dawnomike:
This is seriously serious... Seems you are a christian; agree with your wife and pray as one out of this mess.

I am not discrediting what you said about her, but think twice before leaving your beautiful home for nonsense.

Thanks bro am a Christian but right now am in a state of unknown.

nwajesus12:
I pity you if you believe that your wife is the cause of your financial woes, I advise you to look for other things to venture into, networking doesn't really pay much and if you are really good in that, YouCan learn affiliate marketing. The world is now digital, desist from antiquated ways of thinking. It is not as if you had millions before you met her, it is just that your financial responsibility increased, rather than finding ways to increase income, you went on a voyage of sorcery consultations

Bro I get your point. The journey is about 6 years now. Before I met her my income is 80k above most times 6 digits. I carefully observe this and the signs are obvious bro. She herself knows because we been having issue on it for years yet I kept on overlooking. Am just tired bro. So tired and exhausted

Sorry I had to create new account to remain anonymous.

Please men of the house I seriously need advice. Straight to the point, we've been married for 6 years now and I love her so so much, our compatibilities is 100%. We have a beautiful baby girl and we are still currently living together at the moment.
Since we married things has been extremely bad for us unlike before we married. Though I myself was down with sickness for years that almost took my life but God revived me and she stays with me. My business doesn't require my presence (networking) because currently am still getting money but not much. let's say 20k average which of course not much for the family.

Now here is my problem, from 3 or 4 different CONFIRMED sources we were told that my lack of money it's from her that she belongs to a spiritual evil cult (Elegbe omo) that her own is spiritual rags group (egbe akitan, or alakisa) that whoever sleeps with them, their things will going down for them, finance wise and all. I hope I described it well tho and that even she herself is not aware but they do tell her severally. and she has been praying yet things keep getting worse for us.

in fact sometimes ago a pastor saw a vision for her that whoever sees her physically putting on a good cloth that she's beautiful but spiritually it is rags on her body. That she will Pray and fast for 3 days (deliverance) which she did yet things keeps getting worse for me in fact right now I am begging to feed.

When I realized this I stopped having sex with her for months and my business really really improved.
Throughout last year I can count how many times we had sex not up to 4 times and I did not cheat on her because I love her so much but for how long? It's not easy to be on the same bed with your wife and not want to have it but anytime we have it we must suffer for it for months.
The loan sharks on my neck are up to 7. Am just collecting loan to pay another to avoid their embarrassment. One is even threatening my life now (LCredit) as I could not pay the overdue loan.

My head is full with many thoughts. I love her and my baby which is just 2yrs. i want to succeed, I want my family. how long can we be staying without sex? am so so worried. Though I was told it's not her fault but what can I do because it has been affecting us for years now until now.

I don't know if anyone had a similar experience to please share. I need help because I am seriously considering leaving her but I will take full responsibilities of my baby.

I will be in comment section if case of any questions.

Thank y'all