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Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Acidosis(m): 9:00pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
cococandy: What happens to supporting humanity? I don't want you turning to a man-hater yunno. 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Femi8586(m): 9:07pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
nwajesus12: Smh, just pray say make hand no touch you. Cos if dem(you know who I'm referring to) reason your matter ehn.. If you dey OP shoe, u no go talk laidis. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Acidosis(m): 9:11pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
oldienavie: Whoever, whatever and wherever you give don't matter, so trying to validate giving to the poor as against other forms of giving isn't necessary. The poor man that gifts the rich and the rich that gifts the poor have both applied the same principle. The way we idolize giving to the poor is the reason many poor people have remained poor all their lives because you have conditioned their minds to only receive. Na why many of them have taken a permanent sit in different bus stops. The poor should also give and how do you teach the poor to give?? If I have the opportunity to buy Dangote, Oyedepo, or Adeboye a wristwatch, I will gladly do it. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 9:15pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Femi8586:Abeg, dead that nonsense! If you ever start thinking like Op, please run go see a psychiatrist fast. 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by oldienavie: 9:19pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Acidosis:My post is not a physical one, I am talking from my own personal experience. Why do you think all regions in the world, be it islam, christianity, budhism, hinduism, every religion, will tell you to give to the needy. Just like the law of Gravitational pull, you dont see it but it exists. There are some supernatural laws that works for you , and if you happen to key into them you will experience unprecedented breakthrough. I speak as someone who graduated from a Nigerian university and roamed the country for 5 years looking for a job, no help, no contacts but surprisingly today I hold the citizenship of one of the top 3 most powerful countries in the world. Again, I don't expect you to understand me, some things are beyond physical and trust me, the world around us exists beyond physical. 10 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Acidosis(m): 9:28pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
oldienavie: It is no longer a personal experience the moment you instruct someone to avoid tithing in church. Your personal experience should be limited to the principles you've directly applied to your situation. Some people paid tithes and got citizenship in 10 countries within few years. 7 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 9:30pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Acidosis:God no send you or anyone tithing in your churches at all. Instead totally decree comes to you straight from your Pastors and mogs. Giving, as directed by God Himself has absolutely nothing to do with what you practice there in your churches, and you invoke God's name in vain in your rituals. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Femi8586(m): 9:31pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: I won't engage you tonight. Cos your comments usually sound clownish on this forum. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by oldienavie: 9:31pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Acidosis:Ofcourse the poor man should give, every one should give to someone they are better than, the fact that you are giving does not mean you dont have challenges. I am not sure how you got to the conclusion that I said it is only the rich that can give, as a matter of fact, me telling the OP (who claims he is poor to give ) means that I actually want him to give even if he doesnt have enough. So how does that mean that I am saying only the rich should give ? 3 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 9:32pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Femi8586:Again... Abeg, dead that nonsense! If you ever start thinking like Op, please run go see a psychiatrist fast. 4 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by oldienavie: 9:33pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Acidosis:Seems the tithe triggerred you. I dont care if you give your money to someone richer than you in the name of tithe. What I am saying is that op should not include tithing in his classification of giving. Tithing is not giving cos you pay tithe and dont give tithe. Those that tithe believe it is an obligation to do so, that is different from giving, where you don't have the obligation but still do it from your heart. I hope you get my point. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Acidosis(m): 9:36pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: As far as the money goes into solving people's problems and expanding the gospel, who cares? 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Acidosis(m): 9:40pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
oldienavie: The rich make their money because someone gave them and bought into their idea, dreams, or vision. If you think your money and resources are meant only for those you consider as bottom barrel and down trodden, then good luck to you! The rich will always take from you whether you like it or not. You will buy their products and use their services, you don't have a choice. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by oldienavie: 9:45pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Acidosis:I am not sure what your point is, you made a wrong assumption and I just corrected you, yet you keep going on about something totally unrelated to the clarification that I made. I am not trying to convince you , I was just letting you know tithing is not giving. And provided a robust explanation. Neither did I say anything about the legality of tithing, but you seem to be forcing that arguement but thats not my objective. You can tithe if you want, but like I said, I was educating the OP not to wrongly classify tithing as giving thats all. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Needadvice200: 9:48pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
oldienavie: I'm a giver bro and I don't think it's related to this sir |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Needadvice200: 9:50pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
cococandy: There's no smoke without fire. I don't think those 5 thread are all normal. What do you think |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Acidosis(m): 9:51pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
oldienavie: Giving, tithing, and prayers are all obligations to a Christian. The act of praying, giving, or paying of tithe however is voluntary. No "sane" church will eject anyone for not paying tithe or fasting and praying. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 9:57pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Acidosis:God no follow you talk that one at all at all.... you are just regurgitating the schpeel fed you by your Pastors and mogs as explanation for why they fleece you in the name of God. ■ It matters to God that you give to your neighbor when your neighbor asks of you. So much so that He even used a parable in explaining to you who your neighbor is and who isn't. ■ it matters to God that you give, not to organizations/businesses and men who already have, so much so that He made it clear that only those who give directly to those who have less will enter into His Kingdom at the end of the day. ■ it matters to God that you give directly even to your own enemies that He made it known that it is by doing that you become even more like your Father in Heaven. God cares who you give to so, if you truly love Him, you will obey His commandments - John 14 vs 15 - 25 |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 10:00pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Acidosis:Wrong! Tithing has absolutely nothing to do with Christians. Also, the Christian obligation/mandate is instead obedience of the almost 100 commandments of Jesus Christ who is God's New Covenant Law for those who are of the Kingdom of God - giving and praying are only a few of what is commanded of Christians by Jesus Christ. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 10:01pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Acidosis:You don’t want me turning into a man-hater? Why don’t you achieve that by calling out misogyny when you see it? What happened to supporting humanity? I believe women are part of the human race. You can’t support humanity by ignoring or even supporting anti woman beliefs. The issue of witch hunting is anti woman by origin. Read up more on it if you did not previously know this. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by yuping(m): 10:01pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
na who wear shoe no where dey pain am, elders handle this. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by cococandy(f): 10:02pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200: Whatever their problems were, the wives weren’t witches. That’s it 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by sundaygray(m): 10:02pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Oga behave, this na yeye talk. There's no evil cult/spirit that's dragging your business down. These are tough times most businesses are suffering. No talk am for public again. 2 Likes |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by intruder15(m): 10:03pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200: I can refer you to someone that can help if you are in Lagos |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Kobojunkie: 10:04pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
intruder15:So what he needs is to consult a 5th medium regarding his wife? |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by TechspeciaIist(m): 10:06pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
[s] neonly:[/s] shut up, no dey believe nonsense 1 Like |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by Acidosis(m): 10:06pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: You already know I won't discuss the Bible with you, Kobo. Bible twister aye |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by buckeyemedia: 10:06pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
thorpido:419ers, you will drop more money for that washing. |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by RiyaGoddess(f): 10:06pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Needadvice200: Uhmmmm! Chai I can relate much chai My people perish because of ignorance / lack of knowledge. I'm very busy but for your wife & kid sake I will create the time, Op chat me up if you don't mind. Let's Talk! |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by manunitedbabes: 10:06pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Hmmmm this one be like Russia and Ukraine ohhhh |
Re: I Love My Wife & My Kid, But I Want To Leave The Marriage. Help! by gaby(m): 10:06pm On Feb 25, 2022 |
Nitwit |
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