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*EFFECTS OF SEXUAL ISSUES* The major problem with sexual immorality is that *it ruin your fellowship with the Holy Spirit* It is first about YOUR SOUL Followed by The emotional and psychological effects which leaves you with emptiness, depression, feelings of worthlessness, regret, shame, low self-esteem, frustration and dissatisfaction, etc For instance, Pornography and Masturbation can ruin your marital sex-life if you don't get healing on time. Masturbation makes you self-serving in sex with your spouse as your focus is only on you You look forward to masturbating than looking forward to sex with your spouse; which destroys true sexual joy and fulfilment. I read of a married man whose wife caught masturbating. He said *I used to masturbate as a bachelor... After I got married I do enjoy sex with my wife but I discovered I always fantasise about having sex with any woman that I get attracted to, this gives me arousal and I wrap it with masturbation leaving my wife out. Sex with my wife doesn't appeal to me but masturbation...I leave her on the bed at night to masturbate in the bathroom* *The fuel of masturbation is lust* Pornography corrupt your mind and thought life. It could turn out to be a psychiatric issue as the compulsive thought dominate and controls your whole essence. I remember a guy said he could UnCloth any woman in his mind through a mere look. SEXUAL PURITY IS A NATURE Being sexually pure has to do with your *Spirit* *Soul (mind and thought) * and *Body* Sexual purity is a nature, a nature of Christ bestow upon you when you totally surrender your life to Christ. He regenerates your soul and implant His Seed in you which is the Word of God and the Holy Spirit to help you live a life pleasing to God. You carry on the nature of God for a holy living. God wants to heal your spirit, broken spirit, your mind and body. Friends, You are assured of God's love. Smile. Your struggles are over when you surrender to Jesus. You have cried. You have been used and abused. You have given up on yourself. But God's outstretched arms are out to receive you. His love will bring you through and establish your feet in holy living. #praying in tongues You can cry for help right now I'm praying for you YOUR BODY AND HOW YOU USE IT IS IMPORTANT TO GOD 1. God gave you a body. Your body makes you a human being, an existing being. 2. Your body is for the Lord, His property. 2. Corinthians 6:13 3. God is Spirit. Your body houses your spirit with which you communicate and relate with God and carry out God given assignment 4. Your body is a tool for the fulfilment of life purpose. Your body and its wholeness is important. Hebrews 10:5-7 5. Your body is a member of Christ. Vs 15 6. Your body is God's temple 7. Sexual sin and immorality involves the use of your body 2 Corinthians 6:16 8. Sexual sins doesn't only corrupt your body, it affects your spirit with which you connect with the Holy Spirit. This could bring about emptiness and spiritual dryness. 9. Sexual sins doesn't leave your body the way it meets you. The way we use our bodies is the way we have it. SEXUAL HEALING The battle cry of the devil since the time of Adam and Eve is to destroy ones fellowship with God. Before the devil could penetrate your life, he must have cunningly tried his scheme on your *spiritual health* This implies that poor spiritual health could open you up to immoral acts. *It is the power from within that quenches the temptations from without* When your spiritual health shut down, you begin to love and take pleasure in what God hates. *ROAD TO SEXUAL HEALING* 1. Kick start your spiritual health The first step to your sexual healing is your relationship with God. The focus should not be on *fighting* those sinful sexual acts, your total deliverance lies in building your fellowship with God. Why is this so important? In your fellowship with God, your spirit which is inside of your body is quickened OR strengthened and your body is impacted upon. A fervent prayer life keeps your spirit on fire. It directs your longings, desire and burden to God. A regular Word Study feeds your soul and your mind. "Make them holy—consecrated—with the truth; Your word is consecrating truth." John 17:17 Msg "To make her holy and clean, washed by the cleansing of God's word." Ephesians 5:26 The Word of God ingested into your spirit takes chaff off your life, it changes your thoughts processes, mould your spiritual muscles, and revitalise you. Your inner man has the full capacity and power to supply you the strength needed in the face of temptation. A life of worship gives you joy in the Holy Ghost. Engaging your Spirit by Praying in the Spirit which is praying in tongues enfires you. Fellowship with other Christians. Feeding on godly literatures and movies What you feed your spirit with determines your thoughts processes and what you brood on that finds way into your heart inform your actions* Erotic novel and magazines, pornographic movies and soft porn movies, music audio and video, sexual suggestive conversations and plays, etc must be done away with. 2. Openness and Accountability. *The strength of sin is secrecy* The second step is to open up your issue to someone who is trustworthy and has the ability to help you out by providing you spiritual and moral support. Such a person will be your accountability partner. This person could be a counselor, your pastor or anyone who has spiritual authority over you. You can share your struggles with the person, get counsel and strength in your vulnerable moment. The truth is, if you are not truly accountable to the person, you are likely to fall without anyone to hold you up. Should there be a relapse, I mean if you fall, don't keep it from the person if you do, you are back to the cage 3. Build healthy environment Association: Are there friends who entice you directly or indirectly to lust? Do away from such. You might need to wipe some friends off your social networks if their content are always sexual. Note and Avoid the triggers What triggers your desire to watch pornography? Internet! In getting your head up, some of you might need to uninstall your browsers App. If you are not yet sure of your ability to control the drive to visit porn sites. Places I have counseled many people struggling with masturbation. Many of them confessed that certain atmosphere stir up lust in them. Like being alone in the house, the bathroom, at night, early in the morning, in a dark room etc Avoid these situations. Bathroom door must be left open, get to sleep in the room with your friends or family. Take right decisions. 4. RELA-PAUSE Simply put a pause to relationships for now and heal up first. This is very important. Starting a relationship when you have sexual issues unresolved is not healthy for you. You should give yourself a break from relationship. Take your time to heal up so that your lack of self-control will not ruin good relationships. 5. Celebrate your victory A day free from falling into error is worth your celebration. Rejoice in the Holy Ghost. Don't give up on you! Be determined to stand God is calling you unto a life of holiness He's seen your struggles. He's calling to himself Why don't you invite Him into your heart Tell Him you need Him *Can we join the prayers now?* We are free to make comments |
*WHAT ARE THE SEXUAL ISSUES AND WHO NEEDS SEXUAL HEALING?* 1. You have a history of sexual abuse 2. You were raped 3. You are addicted to pornography 4. You are masturbating 5. Memories of past sexual experiences haunt you 6. Hatred for opposite sex 7. Affection for Same-sex. You are a male and have cravings for intimacy with your male counterparts, same goes for lady-lady 8. No interest in sex or hatred for sex 9. Fear or hatred for marriage 10. Your thoughts life strongly revolves around sexual acts and it controls you with an effect. Sexual behavior dominate your life. 11. You are engaging in pre-marital sex. You hate doing it but yet keep doing it 12. Guilt is ripping your heart apart following the abortions you have done. 13. You have sexual issues when you are engaging in persistent sexual act despite increasing negative consequences to yourself. Like you passing through the pain of abortion, yet you go back to your sinful relationship despite hurting yourself, the excruciating pain, your tears, health risks, psychological and emotional stress etc 14. You have observed that your sexual libido is unnecessarily high and it gives you worry. All these and more are sexual issues. You need help. There's help for you this morning in the name of JESUS!!! *EFFECTS OF SEXUAL ISSUES* The major problem with sexual immorality is that *it ruin your fellowship with the Holy Spirit* It is first about YOUR SOUL, Followed by The emotional and psychological effects which leaves you with emptiness, depression, feelings of worthlessness, regret, shame, low self-esteem, frustration and dissatisfaction, etc For instance, Pornography and Masturbation can ruin your marital sex-life if you don't get healing on time. Masturbation makes you self-serving in sex with your spouse as your focus is only on you You look forward to masturbating than looking forward to sex with your spouse; which destroys true sexual joy and fulfilment. like to join our What's APP group? 08125268957. God bless |
*WHAT ARE THE SEXUAL ISSUES AND WHO NEEDS SEXUAL HEALING?* 1. You have a history of sexual abuse 2. You were raped 3. You are addicted to pornography 4. You are masturbating 5. Memories of past sexual experiences haunt you 6. Hatred for opposite sex 7. Affection for Same-sex. You are a male and have cravings for intimacy with your male counterparts, same goes for lady-lady 8. No interest in sex or hatred for sex 9. Fear or hatred for marriage 10. Your thoughts life strongly revolves around sexual acts and it controls you with an effect. Sexual behavior dominate your life. 11. You are engaging in pre-marital sex. You hate doing it but yet keep doing it 12. Guilt is ripping your heart apart following the abortions you have done. 13. You have sexual issues when you are engaging in persistent sexual act despite increasing negative consequences to yourself. Like you passing through the pain of abortion, yet you go back to your sinful relationship despite hurting yourself, the excruciating pain, your tears, health risks, psychological and emotional stress etc 14. You have observed that your sexual libido is unnecessarily high and it gives you worry. All these and more are sexual issues. You need help. There's help for you this morning in the name of JESUS!!! *EFFECTS OF SEXUAL ISSUES* The major problem with sexual immorality is that *it ruin your fellowship with the Holy Spirit* It is first about YOUR SOUL, Followed by The emotional and psychological effects which leaves you with emptiness, depression, feelings of worthlessness, regret, shame, low self-esteem, frustration and dissatisfaction, etc For instance, Pornography and Masturbation can ruin your marital sex-life if you don't get healing on time. Masturbation makes you self-serving in sex with your spouse as your focus is only on you You look forward to masturbating than looking forward to sex with your spouse; which destroys true sexual joy and fulfilment. |
Introduction You are a sexual being. Sex is a beautiful gift from God. Yes, God created us as sexual beings with needs and capacity for tenderness, compassion, love and Friendship. There's a natural pull that connects us to the opposite sex. It is a natural desire wired into us by God. It is natural for you as a guy to feel attracted to a beautiful lady and vice versa. God didn't only create us as sexual beings by building sexual hormones in our system, He also carved and built us with sexual organs for our pleasure. All these are pointers to the fact that God is interested in our sexual fulfilment and satisfaction. Sex is for intimacy, comfort, companionship, pleasure and procreation. *God created sex for you to enjoy with your husband or wife till death do you part* *What a great God! What a license to explore our sexuality. Inside of marriage, you can have sex in the morning, noon, night, morning, round the clock as you wish Wow. BACKGROUND OF SEXUAL ISSUES.* Sadly enough, sex has become a control tool and force in our generation. Rather than a sacred token of intimacy as ordained by God. Sex is employed in marketing campaigns of common commodities,to promote music videos, novels and magazines, TV programs, the internet has also provided a vehicle for *sexual chaos* All these has contributed directly to the emergence of a society whereby our children, teenagers, youths and singles are warped in the web of sexual sins..In our line of work with young people, we've been privileged to handle thousands of sexual cases. To the glory of Jesus, many of such people are standing in Christ. I am a Christian Minister, my work is about souls for Christ and that is the point of view from which I counsel. To join our Whatsapp group, send a.message to 09025268957 |
Introduction You are a sexual being. Sex is a beautiful gift from God. Yes, God created us as sexual beings with needs and capacity for tenderness, compassion, love and Friendship. There's a natural pull that connects us to the opposite sex. It is a natural desire wired into us by God. It is natural for you as a guy to feel attracted to a beautiful lady and vice versa. God didn't only create us as sexual beings by building sexual hormones in our system, He also carved and built us with sexual organs for our pleasure. All these are pointers to the fact that God is interested in our sexual fulfilment and satisfaction. Sex is for intimacy, comfort, companionship, pleasure and procreation. *God created sex for you to enjoy with your husband or wife till death do you part* *What a great God! What a license to explore our sexuality. Inside of marriage, you can have sex in the morning, noon, night, morning, round the clock as you wish Wow. BACKGROUND OF SEXUAL ISSUES.* Sadly enough, sex has become a control tool and force in our generation. Rather than a sacred token of intimacy as ordained by God. Sex is employed in marketing campaigns of common commodities,to promote music videos, novels and magazines, TV programs, the internet has also provided a vehicle for *sexual chaos* All these has contributed directly to the emergence of a society whereby our children, teenagers, youths and singles are warped in the web of sexual sins..In our line of work with young people, we've been privileged to handle thousands of sexual cases. To the glory of Jesus, many of such people are standing in Christ. I am a Christian Minister, my work is about souls for Christ and that is the point of view from which I counsel. To join our Whatsapp group, send a.message to 09025268957 |
LOVE, A DUTY BEYOND EMOTIONS Wives version I watched a movie yesterday. There was this lady with a very comic character in the movie. The mere sight of a lovely couple even in ordinary paintings or image would make her legs womble. Laughs She's so fascinated by the "Love" thing And finally when she met her *Mr. Right* her attitude is another thing. On their first meeting, she looked at the guy in awe and admiration, lost her breath and acted like a statue and in the twinkle of an eye she womble. Smiling The love thing kind of take her breath away. Her breath became stable and she stopped falling down after they started a relationship. Love is a very beautiful thing. Falling inlove with someone is a fantastic experience. But the truth is Love is beyond *beautiful feelings* Fine, that beautiful feeling can help you connect in a way at the beginning of your relationship but I am confidently telling you that love in actual fact is beyond a beautiful feeling. Feelings are very very fickle. Feelings don't last. I was inspired to write this post during our Read The Bible Challenge on whatsapp. We read in Titus 2:4 in which Paul wrote to Titus that the aged women should teach the young wives to LOVE THEIR HUSBANDS AND CHILDREN. While meditating on this instruction, I thought of the need for admonishing wives to LOVE. You will agree with me that naturally women are COMPASSIONATE in nature. We are self-less and can go to any mile for the man we love. We are natural love-dispensers if you agree with me, nod your head where you are. Smiling A woman is said to share God's trait of being the great Breasted one because they are compassionate Yet the scriptures admonished them to LOVE our husbands and children. The Holy Spirit just dropped a word in my heart. Singles, please read carefully. When you are to take your marital vow at the altar The officiating minister would ask *...WILL YOU LOVE and nurse him as long as you both shall live...* Why such a question? Why is it not like *...DO YOU LOVE him?* The reason is not far fetched, Obviously you love each other enough to want to spend life together But *Will you LOVE?* question is a question of TOTAL LIFE COMMITMENT That's why the scriptures says *LOVE YOUR HUSBAND* Inside of marriage LOVE is beyond feelings but A DUTY! LOVE becomes a DECISION and COMMITMENT. Let me drive my point home; Things will happen after your wedding day.. STILL LOVE YOUR HUSBAND This lovy dovy guy/would offend you ...STILL LOVE YOUR HUSBAND I tell you this is why sometimes forgiveness is a DAILY MEAL IN A MARRIAGE In years to come you will see people who *appear* to be more handsome than your spouse... STILL LOVE YOUR SPOUSE Contrary winds will blow in this journey of marriage...your feelings will disappear but LOVE IS YOUR DUTY Storms of life will rage... LOVE IS YOUR DUTY Some issues of life will happen and try to threaten your love for each other... LOVE Health issues, financial crisis, in-laws interference might want to tear you apart etc... LOVE AND STICK TOGETHER till death separate you. I'm sure the husband of The Proverbial wife in the scriptures is not flawless yet she will DO HIM GOOD AND NOT EVIL/HARM ALL THE DAYS OF HER LIFE. Proverbs 31:12 I recently counsel a lady who said she finds it hard to stop her boyfriend from having pre-marital sex with her. I asked her if she would open her laps if the guy has HIV/AIDS. She gave me a look like that issue would mark the end of their relationship. I thought you said you love him. Kikiki. I just laughed. Inside of Marriage LOVE IS A COMMITMENT, A DUTY. A DECISION I pray for someone here, overtime your spouse has given you enough reason to tell you he doesn't deserve the kind of love you shower on him, hate is finding root in your heart , I pray for your emotional healing in the name of Jesus I declare fresh love flow through every marriage and relationships here in the name of Jesus I decree a fresh spark of love in Jesus name I believe when you allow bitterness in your heart it has a way of building hate in your heart towards your spouse and hinders God's work of breakthrough in your marriage That's why the scriptures says *LOVE* and trust the Holy Spirit with your issues. The Holy Spirit taught me a wisdom tip in the early days of MY courtship When there's any misunderstanding and I am very annoyed, I noticed my heart would just kind of *shut my husband out* I knew that feeling wasn't from the Holy Spirit so the first thing I do is to start singing in my head *I LOVE MY HUSBAND* I LOVE MY HUSBAND I LOVE MY HUSBAND! I would keep saying it in my heart till we are able to discuss and trash out the issue It is a great wisdom for me. Let no root of bitterness settle in your heart! Guide your heart with all diligence for out of it proceed issues of life Try it out and come back to me with your *Offering* "Love is a decision to care for someone without expectations for the rest of his/her life" Late Dr. Myles Munroe "True love is not a strong, fiery, impetuous passion. It is, on the contrary, an element calm and deep. It looks beyond mere externals, and is attracted by qualities alone. It is wise and discriminating, and its devotion is real and abiding." Ellen G. White Your Marriage Must Work! I call you blessed I have love in my heart for you. |
LOVE, A DUTY BEYOND EMOTIONS Wives version I watched a movie yesterday. There was this lady with a very comic character in the movie. The mere sight of a lovely couple even in ordinary paintings or image would make her legs womble. Laughs She's so fascinated by the "Love" thing And finally when she met her *Mr. Right* her attitude is another thing. On their first meeting, she looked at the guy in awe and admiration, lost her breath and acted like a statue and in the twinkle of an eye she womble. Smiling The love thing kind of take her breath away. Her breath became stable and she stopped falling down after they started a relationship. Love is a very beautiful thing. Falling inlove with someone is a fantastic experience. But the truth is Love is beyond *beautiful feelings* Fine, that beautiful feeling can help you connect in a way at the beginning of your relationship but I am confidently telling you that love in actual fact is beyond a beautiful feeling. Feelings are very very fickle. Feelings don't last. I was inspired to write this post during our Read The Bible Challenge on whatsapp. We read in Titus 2:4 in which Paul wrote to Titus that the aged women should teach the young wives to LOVE THEIR HUSBANDS AND CHILDREN. While meditating on this instruction, I thought of the need for admonishing wives to LOVE. You will agree with me that naturally women are COMPASSIONATE in nature. We are self-less and can go to any mile for the man we love. We are natural love-dispensers if you agree with me, nod your head where you are. Smiling A woman is said to share God's trait of being the great Breasted one because they are compassionate Yet the scriptures admonished them to LOVE our husbands and children. The Holy Spirit just dropped a word in my heart. Singles, please read carefully. When you are to take your marital vow at the altar The officiating minister would ask *...WILL YOU LOVE and nurse him as long as you both shall live...* Why such a question? Why is it not like *...DO YOU LOVE him?* The reason is not far fetched, Obviously you love each other enough to want to spend life together But *Will you LOVE?* question is a question of TOTAL LIFE COMMITMENT That's why the scriptures says *LOVE YOUR HUSBAND* Inside of marriage LOVE is beyond feelings but A DUTY! LOVE becomes a DECISION and COMMITMENT. Let me drive my point home; Things will happen after your wedding day.. STILL LOVE YOUR HUSBAND This lovy dovy guy/would offend you ...STILL LOVE YOUR HUSBAND I tell you this is why sometimes forgiveness is a DAILY MEAL IN A MARRIAGE In years to come you will see people who *appear* to be more handsome than your spouse... STILL LOVE YOUR SPOUSE Contrary winds will blow in this journey of marriage...your feelings will disappear but LOVE IS YOUR DUTY Storms of life will rage... LOVE IS YOUR DUTY Some issues of life will happen and try to threaten your love for each other... LOVE Health issues, financial crisis, in-laws interference might want to tear you apart etc... LOVE AND STICK TOGETHER till death separate you. I'm sure the husband of The Proverbial wife in the scriptures is not flawless yet she will DO HIM GOOD AND NOT EVIL/HARM ALL THE DAYS OF HER LIFE. Proverbs 31:12 I recently counsel a lady who said she finds it hard to stop her boyfriend from having pre-marital sex with her. I asked her if she would open her laps if the guy has HIV/AIDS. She gave me a look like that issue would mark the end of their relationship. I thought you said you love him. Kikiki. I just laughed. Inside of Marriage LOVE IS A COMMITMENT, A DUTY. A DECISION I pray for someone here, overtime your spouse has given you enough reason to tell you he doesn't deserve the kind of love you shower on him, hate is finding root in your heart , I pray for your emotional healing in the name of Jesus I declare fresh love flow through every marriage and relationships here in the name of Jesus I decree a fresh spark of love in Jesus name I believe when you allow bitterness in your heart it has a way of building hate in your heart towards your spouse and hinders God's work of breakthrough in your marriage That's why the scriptures says *LOVE* and trust the Holy Spirit with your issues. The Holy Spirit taught me a wisdom tip in the early days of MY courtship When there's any misunderstanding and I am very annoyed, I noticed my heart would just kind of *shut my husband out* I knew that feeling wasn't from the Holy Spirit so the first thing I do is to start singing in my head *I LOVE MY HUSBAND* I LOVE MY HUSBAND I LOVE MY HUSBAND! I would keep saying it in my heart till we are able to discuss and trash out the issue It is a great wisdom for me. Let no root of bitterness settle in your heart! Guide your heart with all diligence for out of it proceed issues of life Try it out and come back to me with your *Offering* "Love is a decision to care for someone without expectations for the rest of his/her life" Late Dr. Myles Munroe "True love is not a strong, fiery, impetuous passion. It is, on the contrary, an element calm and deep. It looks beyond mere externals, and is attracted by qualities alone. It is wise and discriminating, and its devotion is real and abiding." Ellen G. White Your Marriage Must Work! I call you blessed I have love in my heart for you. |
*God's Emergency Response Squad (GERS)* In every security formation there is always an elite group of security men/women that are specifically created to respond to emergencies, they are always battle ready and can in minutes deploy to whatever location they are needed in the world at anytime. They have been trained and disciplined for these assignments. They are sold out and ready to do everything to carry out their assignment even unto the point of death. Yes, you guessed right! Watching some American action film painted a good image in my mind...lolz. But seriously speaking I have met quite a few of these guys in real life and I mean the real security forces and I have also seen them in action. 2011 during the rerun election in Delta State, I was an electoral officer in a village and we conducted a free and fair election which a particular party won but the other guys were angry, they surrounded us and we had to stay in a classroom and waited for whatever it is would happen. Suddenly the secret service sweeped into the school compound with all these automatic weapons and all the thugs scattered into the nearby busy. The DSS picked us and the electoral materials into their truck in a commando like manner and within some minutes we were out of the village, escorted with these plastic automatic weapons and fierce looking men. I must also note that their leader was a lady. In the spiritual as well, God recruits men and women into squads like this, they are the emergency response squad. When God needs an assignment done, he contacts them. We can see some examples in scripture; - The servants in the house of Abraham were trained to respond to emergencies. Even though they weren't going to war every day, when there was need to go to battle, they defeated armies of kingdoms. - David's army also had these groups of men. - The woman at Zarephath was also in this squad, God knew he could send Elijah to her and she won't begin to argue or resist. Some people can never give up their meal no matter who you are. - We can go through other examples in the Bible where God gave an emergency assignment to someone and the fellow responded with speed but the example I like most is the one of Philip the evangelist, he was just minding his business and the Holy Spirit said to him "Join this chariot..." The Holy Spirit was already working on the heart of the Ethiopian Eunuch and needed one of His servants to seal it, the only member of GERS available was Philip, he has an effective squad member carried out the instructions to the letter and when he was done the Spirit of God dispatched him to another location. God delights in His GERS, he relies on them. He trains them specially as well. He takes them through some lessons that toughen them and make them fit. That we may have many GERS in this generation. Are you one? Can you be relied upon to deliver at the shortest notice? ...to be continued. |
"THE LORD TOLD ME TO MARRY YOU" I think some of our born again brothers need to be taught how to propose marriage or relationship to sisters. # spice it# Some "spiritual" brothers never cease to amaze me. The way some born again brothers propose with the tone of "Thus saith the Lord" is becoming alarming. I believe most of us do watch movies but I don't know if you ever notice and compare the way guys in hollywood, nollywood etc present their marriage proposal in a very calm and sweet way. # I don't want to use "romantic" winks# Oh my God! The sight is always beautiful especially when the lady had been waiting for such for a long time. # Don 't jump o# Honestly, I must say, it is annoying to walk up to a sister and say "...The Lord told me you are my wife" Only baby Christian sisters will jump at it. Some who have no hearing ears for themselves will start crying and become too afraid to say NO because God has spoken. I remember a case in which a sister said she was afraid of disobeying the Lord because the brother told her "...the Lord said" she is to be his wife and that she has prayed and waited on the Lord but there was no green light. Panic gripped her at the thought of turning down the proposal # Olugbala gba mi# Brothers, I am not in any way disputing the fact that God speaks to you but please my uncles and brothers, God didn't send you to the sister. It wasn't a prophecy, a commandment or a decree. You have only received a conviction for your choice so know it for yourself (till when it is required to share it with her, reasonably after acceptance). Allow the sister to make her decision voluntarily not under coercion, tension or the fear of the Almighty with which you are wrap the proposal # so many sisters too do disappoint me...many of us do take eternity to reply to a proposal..we will talk about this later# Well my focus today is on sisters. Please open your Bible to Judges 13:1-24. The story was told of a couple: Manoah and his wife(name witheld); they were expecting parent. One day, an angel appeared to the woman and told her about how she would conceive, birth a son, instructed her to check her diet and all that. On the arrival of her HUSBAND, this woman SHARED the REVELATION with him. Guess what he did? # I doff my hat for Mr. Manoah# Verse 8 "And Manoah intreated the LORD, and said, O my Lord, LET THE MAN OF GOD which thou didst send COME AGAIN unto US, and teach us what we shall do unto the child that shall be born." Note: This happened between a HUSBAND & WIFE yet the man CONSULTED GOD FOR A CONFIRMATION and further instructions # How much more someone who is just proposing to you# Manoah prayed a correct prayer. It was like saying "Ok o my wife said you have spoken to her IN MY ABSENCE but please I want you to COME AGAIN but not when I am not around, appear to the TWO of US and give me further instructions" # happy mood activated# This is a big lesson for single sisters and brothers. Manoah and his wife had a relationship with God to the point of KNOWING HOW HE SPEAKS TO THEM. # Know God for yourself# A sister who has deaf ears will most likely jump at "Thus saith the Lord" Likewise brothers too. We sisters do sheepishly share revelations with brothers. It is wrong. # exexperienceOfLife Brothers, please learn how to propose without "Thus saith the Lord" Make it plain, express your love, comport yourself well (memorise the lines if need be. Laughs) but please be genuine about your feelings. If God has spoken to you then ask God to speak to her too. If the Lord had told you a lady is your wife, propose to her expressing your desires to make her your wife. Sisters, learn and understand how God speaks to you so that you won't put your marital destiny at risk. # repetitionContinuesTillWeGetItRight |
*This is my new story* He looked at her with indignation, a part of him is angry and the other part is afraid. "How could she be so careless again? I can't father a child now...I can't even take care of my own bills." "Felix, what should we do?" She asked crying. "Abort of course!" He shouted back at her. "I will look for some money and will take you to that nurse on my street." "Hmm, I am afraid of abortion. I don't want to die. This is the third abortion I am doing for you." "Are you now counting it? When you knew that, why didn’t you take the pills I bought for you before we had sex? Abeg free me jare." "Felix it is not your fault. I am the one that is so foolish to be allowing you a so called brother to be sleeping with me." She sobbed uncontrollably. Felix looked at her and apologised. He hugged and expressed words of love to her. Wiped the tears off her face and planted a kiss on her lips. Within some minutes again they were on the bed again having sex. She finally went for the abortion. .......................................................................... Doris couldn't stop weeping. Everyone around tried to calm her down. Even some people wondered maybe it was a matter of demon possession. It was around 12:30am. The only thing she kept repeating is let me see the woman that ministered this evening. "I want to see her o...I will die if I don't see her." Finally the ushers had to go to the hotel to inform the guest minister and she told them to bring Doris to her hotel room. "Ma, am I one of the people you preached about today? Did God choose me too? Or is it too late for me? Is my life too messed up to amount to anything for God? Is this how I am going to die?" Doris was full of questions amidst her loud sobs. After Mrs Williams was able to calm her down, she asked her "What is your story?" ......................................................................... Doris couldn't sleep that night. After her discussion and prayers with Mrs Williams. She went to the field at the back of her hostel, sang and danced all through the night. The song she repeatedly sang was "I am a chosen generation." by Sinach. At the morning devotion the next day, she was right in front at the hall, running all around during the praise hour shouting *"I am chosen.This is my new story"* .......................................................................... Even though this is fiction but it is typical of any National Ladies Campmeeting of SOV...God is in the business repairing and moulding lives. He is in the business of preserving His daughters and commissioning them into their destiny. Like Mrs Williams asked Doris, I am also asking you "What is your story". |
A MODEL MARRIAGE I can't remember how it started. My mom and dad had a serious disagreement. The image of that scene kind of stick to my brain. He didn't beat her. The argument was hot as both of them waged war with their mouth at each other, throwing up hands, pointing out fingers at each others face, voices high enough to attract the attention of our neighbors. The tension between them choke I and my siblings as we crawled and clung to a corner of the room. "You don't respect my family" Hurting husband "Your family don't love me" Hurting wife They kept yelling at the top of their voices. One of them made a way to the door, the other followed and the view became blur in my head. There was a struggle. The door curtains stepped aside and collapsed on the floor. The neighbors intervene. Each of them started narrating their part of the story to concerned neighbors. The World War in the house was arrested followed by grudges which lasted for a few days. He wouldn't eat her food. His sister would bring food for him in his matrimonial home. Mom couldn't stand it anymore. One day, as aunt stepped into our room with her food delivery for her brother, mom packed her slippers and threw it to the next compound. A fresh crisis started as she was set to make her leave. "This is where I put off my slippers" worried aunt Her brother helped her searched. Mom looked the other way. Long story cut short...She produced her sister-in-law"s slippers. How were they able to resolve the conflict? I can't remember. Both of them had no pastor, mentor, no *neutral* elderly person they are accountable to who could speak to them in the face of crisis. Only my dad's people who are the cause of the conflict. I forgot to mention that my dad was a MUSLIM and my mom a CHRISTIAN (at heart) she sneaks to church. Dad later followed her to church when there's a problem Divinity alone could solve. I tell you *You can't run godly principles with a spouse that doesn't know God" I was told that from an infant I am allergic to quarrel, tension and fight. Mom said even when they had a minor disagreement, I would shrink my face and start to cry. They were a happy couple until *in-laws interference* hit their Marriage a bad blow. In our session for the married, we"ll be talking about *Marriage and Conflict Management* *Building Healthy in-law relationships* *Sex, hot and sizzling* and lots more After dad's death, we started a new life as fatherless children. In our new environment, I studied the marriage of our neighbors. There was a Couple. They had a fight and my mom with other neighbors rushed into their apartment to rescue the situation. God really saved my mom on this bad day. The wife lifted a pot of hot water from the stove. She was about turning the water on the husband when my mom stepped in. The man escaped while my mom had a light splash on her leg. As young as I was, I kept yearning *Where and when would I find A MODEL MARRIAGE* I mean if this is all there's to marriage, I don't want to be a part of it. My last experience, this happened few years before I got married. A couple had a fight. The husband was on a towel. Before I knew what was happening, a serious fight ensued and the wife stripped her husband Unclad in our pass way. Oh my God! All the women ran into their apartments. I couldn't stand the sight. Thank God for the intervention of a man. These and more are the kinds of Marriages I saw while growing up. I went into the scriptures. There's A MODEL MARRIAGE! God has set up the MODULES! It is a marriage BUILT ON THE ROCK! JESUS! A union of Christ"s son and daughter! A marriage run on GOD'S PRINCIPLES! The storms will rage yet BUILT on Christ! There are Godly principles to control the winds. A MODEL MARRIAGE IS THE UNION OF CHRIST WITH THE CHURCH. *A Christian marriage is a reflection of the union between Christ and the church.* Ephesians 5 Your marriage is a reflection of the union between Christ and the church. This is the type of marriage God has ordained Singles, your life must be hidden in Christ, lay your foundation well Build it well. join us in our Whatsapp group to learn , share experience and discuss. |
A MODEL MARRIAGE I can't remember how it started. My mom and dad had a serious disagreement. The image of that scene kind of stick to my brain. He didn't beat her. The argument was hot as both of them waged war with their mouth at each other, throwing up hands, pointing out fingers at each others face, voices high enough to attract the attention of our neighbors. The tension between them choke I and my siblings as we crawled and clung to a corner of the room. "You don't respect my family" Hurting husband "Your family don't love me" Hurting wife They kept yelling at the top of their voices. One of them made a way to the door, the other followed and the view became blur in my head. There was a struggle. The door curtains stepped aside and collapsed on the floor. The neighbors intervene. Each of them started narrating their part of the story to concerned neighbors. The World War in the house was arrested followed by grudges which lasted for a few days. He wouldn't eat her food. His sister would bring food for him in his matrimonial home. Mom couldn't stand it anymore. One day, as aunt stepped into our room with her food delivery for her brother, mom packed her slippers and threw it to the next compound. A fresh crisis started as she was set to make her leave. "This is where I put off my slippers" worried aunt Her brother helped her searched. Mom looked the other way. Long story cut short...She produced her sister-in-law"s slippers. How were they able to resolve the conflict? I can't remember. Both of them had no pastor, mentor, no *neutral* elderly person they are accountable to who could speak to them in the face of crisis. Only my dad's people who are the cause of the conflict. I forgot to mention that my dad was a MUSLIM and my mom a CHRISTIAN (at heart) she sneaks to church. Dad later followed her to church when there's a problem Divinity alone could solve. I tell you *You can't run godly principles with a spouse that doesn't know God" I was told that from an infant I am allergic to quarrel, tension and fight. Mom said even when they had a minor disagreement, I would shrink my face and start to cry. They were a happy couple until *in-laws interference* hit their Marriage a bad blow. In our session for the married, we"ll be talking about *Marriage and Conflict Management* *Building Healthy in-law relationships* *Sex, hot and sizzling* and lots more After dad's death, we started a new life as fatherless children. In our new environment, I studied the marriage of our neighbors. There was a Couple. They had a fight and my mom with other neighbors rushed into their apartment to rescue the situation. God really saved my mom on this bad day. The wife lifted a pot of hot water from the stove. She was about turning the water on the husband when my mom stepped in. The man escaped while my mom had a light splash on her leg. As young as I was, I kept yearning *Where and when would I find A MODEL MARRIAGE* I mean if this is all there's to marriage, I don't want to be a part of it. My last experience, this happened few years before I got married. A couple had a fight. The husband was on a towel. Before I knew what was happening, a serious fight ensued and the wife stripped her husband naked in our pass way. Oh my God! All the women ran into their apartments. I couldn't stand the sight. Thank God for the intervention of a man. These and more are the kinds of Marriages I saw while growing up. I went into the scriptures. There's A MODEL MARRIAGE! God has set up the MODULES! It is a marriage BUILT ON THE ROCK! JESUS! A union of Christ"s son and daughter! A marriage run on GOD'S PRINCIPLES! The storms will rage yet BUILT on Christ! There are Godly principles to control the winds. A MODEL MARRIAGE IS THE UNION OF CHRIST WITH THE CHURCH. *A Christian marriage is a reflection of the union between Christ and the church.* Ephesians 5 Your marriage is a reflection of the union between Christ and the church. This is the type of marriage God has ordained Singles, your life must be hidden in Christ, lay your foundation well Build it well. join us in our Whatsapp group to learn , share experience and discuss. |
myquestion:was the person on the bridge or inside the water.lol |
myquestion:..na mammy water be that o. |
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Youth Aflamed For Christ is a youth and adult focused non denominational ministry charged with the mandate from God to raise a saved,sanctified and purposeful generation(Daniels and Esthers).The group is run by a team of believers called the amazingrace team with members from different churches and located in various cities around the world. we run a whatsapp program to fulfill the vision God has given us.We see young people serving christ in purity,fulfilling Gods purpose for their life.we have an active ministry,seminars and also encourage an active studying of the bible online on our facebook page and whatsapp.if you will like to become a member,kindly send a whatsapp message to this numbers, 09025268957.GOD BLESS YOU |
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Youth Aflamed For Christ is a youth and adult focused non denominational ministry charged with the mandate from God to raise a saved,sanctified and purposeful generation(Daniels and Esthers).The group is run by a team of believers called the amazingrace team with members from different churches and located in various cities around the world. we run a whatsapp program to fulfill the vision God has given us.We see young people serving christ in purity,fulfilling Gods purpose for their life.we have an active ministry,seminars and also encourage an active studying of the bible online on our facebook page and whatsapp.if you will like to become a member,kindly send a whatsapp message to this numbers,09025268957. or.drop your number and you will be added to the group.GOD BLESS YOU |
Youth Aflamed For Christ is a youth and adult focused non denominational ministry charged with the mandate from God to raise a saved,sanctified and purposeful generation(Daniels and Esthers).The group is run by a team of believers called the amazingrace team with members from different churches and located in various cities around the world. we run a whatsapp program to fulfill the vision God has given us.We see young people serving christ in purity,fulfilling Gods purpose for their life.we have an active ministry,seminars and also encourage an active studying of the bible online on our facebook page and whatsapp.if you will like to become a member,kindly send a whatsapp message to this numbers,09025268957. or.drop your number and you will be added to the group.GOD BLESS YOU |