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That's too bad. This is what some on these hawkers face. God please provide enough for all mothers so they won't turn their children into child labour thus making them vulnerable.

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I salute your courage bro, is not everyone that will do this.

Please don't reveal her status to your family members, they might not accept her the way you do. Don't be afraid, as long as her viral load is below 20 and she is consistent with her drugs you will not be infected.

I am a volunteer with an NGO and this is the kind of job I do (seeing to the welfare of HIV caregivers and households in the community). Also I want to let you know that she can confidently breastfeed her baby as long as she wants, without the baby been infected. The major area where the baby will be at risk of been infected is during delivery, that is why some HIV mothers do CS during delivery so the baby will not contact it. However, many people still deliver thru vj and 99% of their babies are negative as long as she keeps taking her drugs, she should let the hospital know so they will assist her. Their is also a syrup that will be given to her to give the baby for the first 6 weeks. If she follows everything religiously I but you, all your children will be negative. So do not be scared.

But once again DO NOT reveal her status to your family please, cause it might shatter everything before you. Also do the necessary things by paying her dowry so it can be legal. Thank you. If you feel you need more advice you can chat me up on 08066985838!

This is very nice in order to encourage virgins and celibates. Me, my husband married me a celibate. I have been celibate for more than three years before I met him meanwhile I was in school when we met. Because of this he loves me so so much. He still prides himself of it and even tells me that he married me a virgin. I've been married for 7 years plus now, he travels a lot and have never for once suspected me. Wherever he is, he is at peace.

Hence there is actually dignity in being a virgin/celibate. Aside that no fears of: STI, being pregnant, above all you have complete peace of mind etc. Is not when your menstrual flow doesn't come out you become so scared. When you are a virgin if your date of menstruation skip, you have nothing to worry about at all. Unlike now that almost every month I tend to use PT strip. Abeg the advantages of keeping ones virginity as a girl is too numerous. If you are one please keep it up. Thank you

You said you had sex with your boyfriend and now you talk about rashes around your groin. That means you are gay. Let me tell you gay people are the people that carry so much, uncountable diseases. I hope is not a new disease you are trying to introduce into Nigeria.


All said and done, pls if God helps you to find solution to this, it means he is telling you to repent and seek him.

Yes ooo he can do it. I am a mother with children, doing three part time jobs, taking care of kids and home generally and still running my second degree. I'm even their course rep sef.

He should look for a school that will suit his time. Be it online or not. That's it.

Great write up!

Begged my big sister to give my guy money to pay his school fees as he said he was dropping out cos of money.

Same person, someone gave me an info that my guy impregnated another girl, infact he has gone to do introduction in her village while he told me he went for outside job. Hmmmm come see as I dry cry like baby on top my bunk. My bunk mate ask me what was wrong i told her, she asked me to forget d guy but instead my cry increased. When I called him and ask him he denied to d last.


Anyways grateful to God he has moved on (married) and me too I am married.

Op God will surely bless u for ur write-up, I also read people's comments on that topic when they were shouting is not possible.

As for me, I am happily married for 5 years now with two lovely kids. when I was getting married my hubby didn't even have a stable job, he was living in a one room face me I face u, though he has already gotten his BSC. I was just concluding my NYSC. He had some savings and also from my own savings (since I served in an oil company), I took care of the bride's side for the wedding while my hubby took care of others. Just similar to the writers own. Today by God's grace he works with a renowned construction company and I manage with an NGO for now. We live in a better flat today and we are stiľ progressing.

Ladies especially should wake up to reality, u know the things u are looking for in ur man, then go for it and stop looking at the present. I rest my case.

Hmmmmmm, this is serious.

But why is the man in the middle smilling, does he like the situation he finds himself, or am i the only one observing it?

I think most people do not understand her, according to her she made that statement in order to steer off the discussion, but instead of getting what she opted for, she got a squeeze on her nipple. I think that serves Iniobong right, as a deterrant to others.