Optimall:
Like someone said op you obviously have been looking at wrong places...

There are girls out there who are good, and others who are bad as well...

Just don't be like that..

That still doesn't change my opinion about you girls. I've seen what you girls really are. I've lived in Nigeria long to know that they all the same. If I eventually meet one that is different I will eat my head.

obiak4:

I doubt if you have even traveled to Togo because if you had really been to Canada you would agree that divorce rate there is 75% of all marriages that said.
your generalized statement that all Nigeria girls cannot show unconditionally love is false.
how could you generalized?
how many Nigerian girls have you meet in. your lifetime.
smh for you bro grow up
was your mum not a Nigerian when he married your dad?
#proudly African

you're in a social media and you're very free to say what you want. That still doesn't change my mind about Nigerian girls

OliverQuinny:
Dear Nairalanders, I am in a relationship with someone that hurt me when I needed her most. We met a while ago while I was still hustling on the streets of PortHarcourt. I was working in a small firm then, but I was doing all I could to make her happy. The job wasn't well paying, so I had to quit to pursue my Masters Degree and professional qualifications. The money stopped rolling in and we both started having issues. She became very difficult and eventually she left me sha, for no concrete reason. But I strongly believe its cos I quit the job.

I still loved her, and wished she wud change her mind. Some years later, I got a job in one of the multinationals and was sent abroad on an official assignment. I met her again at the airport in London and we became friends. We started chatting and she visited me on a saturday. One thing led to another, and we were intimate. The feelings started rekindling, but I just couldn't forget the way she treated me when I needed her most and I am afraid that shez back cos of my wealth.

Recently, she told me shez one month pregnant and am contemplating marrying her, but the way she hurt me when we were in Nigeria keeps taunting me. I keep having these flashbacks. Am actually scared that she will repeat the same behaviour in d nearest future even though it seems she has changed.

Please ur advice is needed here. Mature minds only.

you'll be the greatest fool ever know to man if you marry her. Tell her to terminate the pregnancy or better still you get a good lawyer and take custody of your child or better still pay her off as soon as the child is born. A woman who cannot appreciate you in your littleness does not deserve to have you in your time of greatness. Don't allow her to reap from where she didn't sow. She will use it to boast to her friends and say that after dumping you that you still came chasing after her. Do the needful and do away with this leech. If you truly have money like you said then go on a trip. Europe, Asia, The Middle east, North America or any part of the world except Nigeria to search for your missing rib. If it's true live you seek you will find it in these areas I just mentioned to you. Thank me later when you do.

bisous:


At least you know her flaw I.e not dating a broke man....
I know it must hurt knowing you couldn't count on her when the chips were down..but truth is it could be that at that time you were also not lovable.....you know how a man gets when he has lost his means of livelihood......that may have been the case and since she says she was immature she may have learnt her lessons .....now she is pregnant for you not marrying her won't be a good idea.....especially because the devil you know is better than the angel you don't know

hey sharrap. Birds of the same feathers flock together. You girls always wants reap from where you didn't sow. Oh now cos he has money it's now she knows she was immature? Woe betide your hopeless life for even advising him to marry her.

Skillfullulu:
Chai... We're all Nigerians, don't bad mouth our ladies. Some good ones are still out there.

there's none. Truth is bitter and I've just said the truth. Bro wake up. The earlier you realise that these girls are shit the better.

A friend of mine whom we both Schooled together in Canada came around recently. He hasn't been to Nigeria for like 8years but decided to come back due to family pressure and reasons best known to him. He was so freaked about Nigerian girls and he said he would love to date one of them and even marry one of them. I laughed cos I knew he was going on a wild goose chase and I was about to let that happen. I asked him what type of woman he was looking for and he mentioned the qualities. I laughed even louder than before cos I know no Nigerian girl possess such qualities. The worse thing that could ever happen to anyone is dating or marrying a Nigerian girl. I told him they're ex and potential prostitutes, hungry, cheap, dirty, mannerless, shameless and future home breakers. A Nigerian girl is only interested in your pocket and not your heart. They ask you for stuffs they can't ask their parents. A relationship in Nigeria is a job and a financial bail-out from poverty. I told him to try and talk to like 10 random girls to see if any of them is different. I told him to try and act broke to see if any will even given him a listening ear. When he did none and I mean absolutely none even answered him. They were like he can't take of them. One of them even went as far saying that his mates are driving cars while he's here chasing girls with no money in his pocket and speaking with a fake accent (he probably couldn't hide his Canadian accent). After the insults and scorn he received from these girls,he now believes me that nothing good can come out of a Nigerian girl. I told him to date a Canadian instead. I told him if he's looking for true love he should seek it outside the shores of Nigeria. True love cannot be found in Nigeria. These girls want to reap from where they didn't sow.

Babygal4eva:


Trust me hun you can't afford me

I can not only afford you. I can also afford your mother. I can buy your entire village with your family living in it. Olosho.

ronald4lif:


Hey bro, your comments about Nigerian women sometimes make me laugh, it's just hilarious the way you analyse them. But sorry to ask; are the Nigerian girls you may have dated in the past based in Nigeria or are in Europe where you reside, and also don't you think there could be some exceptions to your generalisation about Nigerian girls? Thanks as you respond

there are no exception.

Nothing good can come out of any. They are hopeless, hungry and have refused to be useful to the society. They spread their for virtually everything even for a toothpick. They are ex and potential prostitutes.

Babygal4eva:


Think about it tho if it's maggot infested how would the dicck pass through #justsaying

Anyway Thanks and peace out I won't feed your illness

how would they pass through? It's easy. The way you manipulate your way into the beds and lives of men, why do you think manipulating a maggot infested alum protected vagina would be an issue? On a more serious note, how much do you charge for your services?

Babygal4eva:


Thought you said you would never banng a Nigerian girl? how intelligent you r /s

the time you use in replying me if you use it to look for customers you might have slept with 30 men by now. By the way, how much do you charge for your services? I can pay in cash or cheque. Which do you prefer?

Babygal4eva:
Troll

Actually went through your profile just to see what went wrong with your life and saw all the posts you've made... your case is in court because you were there when we were fucking 30 guys abi you dey watch and count for all of us abi mtschew been a long time since a post made me really annoyed, Please please and please don't date a Nigerian girl cause I won't want a curse like you in any of my sisters lives, stick with ur Canadian and bless her life.

Arrant illiteracy

whether you talk from now till tomorrow I've said it before and I will continue saying it. Nothing good can come out of any relationship with a Nigerian girl. You're all ex and potential prostitutes and you're not an exceptional. You've slept with more than 20 men in your life and I know I'm correct. You can hide behind NL and start claiming mother Theresa when it well known that you're an olosho. A retired one for that matter. Like you said I will get my head examined. Why? Because I tend to possess what most people don't. You on the other hand should go for a HIV test cos you don't know if you're carrying the deadly virus. God knows how many dicks have passed through that your maggot infested alum protecting vagina of yours. Harlot.

prettythicksme:
ANIMAL!

same to your father ex prostitute. The time you use in replying if you use it in looking for customers you could have had like 20 guys cos your alum protected vagina can accommodate them and even an entire community. By the way, how much do you charge? I can pay o.

prettythicksme:
see ur head like triangle shape #how dare u mention my father,u are so rude idiot

is it a lie? Your father sold the weed to me. Retired olosho.

Nneka123:
shut up! admiring you? how can i admire an animal like you filled with hate over Nigerian women?! you are ugly! i told you that before

too bad. It's obvious you're inferior. As you are now and till you die your entire body will never be as clean and presentable as that of a white girl's comb. Even your generations too. Retired olosho.

EgusiSoup:
Let's call a spade a spade!

They have all shown the same qualities. All the soups I've tasted from Otueke to Ijebu-Ode, From Crystals in Abuja to Crystals in Portharcourt.

I have tasted about 80% of the soups and after careful analysis, I've come to realize that they only thing they can offer you is SEX.

I'm yet to see a Nigerian Girl with brains, I'm yet to see a Nigerian girl that looks at your personality before looking at the Car you drive, the list goes on and on.... Buh seriously, Nigerian Girls need to change their way of thinking.

For all the money, time and energy that'll be spent today by the Men out there today just to please a "Nigerian Girl" because of some burrowed tradition called VALENTINE, it'll all end up in SEX. That's the only thing they have to offer In return.

May God help us.









Please do not quote me or else it won't be funny.












Egusi Soup

nothing good can come out of a Nigerian girl. They are all the same. Looking for a girl with such qualities you mentioned is like roasting an egg.

Nneka123:
you're so ugly do you know that?

Having all those tattoos on your nasty body did you no good.

you're short too

i so love all those nigerian girls who treated you like trash! cause you looked like one. hahaha

why didn't you say you were admiring me earlier? So you like my tattoos and you couldn't say it. By the way, how much do you charge? I can pay o.

prettythicksme:
so are a nigerian,ur own don finish u today.pls what is actually ur problem with nigerian girls cant u just keep shut for once#weed at work,son stop smoking!

Yes I smoke weed. Your father is the person I get it from.

Henix:
@OP, there is element of truth in what u just wrote, but ur generalisation is wrong. What baffles me a lot, is that most of them see marriage as the peak of their life, no ambition. Majority of them have nothing to offer, except how to spend money. And if u dont spend as they wish, u will become stingy in their context. U will know the definition of arrogance, if u ever meet the few of them who think they are beautiful. The one am currently dating, said i will be paying her salary, if i should marry her. That is a Nigerian graduate talking oh!

Bros take a trip outside and get yourself a better girl. You won't regret it

Beamborla:

I'm done with you. Can't you comprehend that?

how much do you charge? I can pay o.

unapologetic:
But why are the Olosho's attacking my man na. I'm giving una last warning o


I wonder why it's so hard for Nigerian girls to admit to the truth

God bless you again. Can they swear that they've not slept with more than 20 guys or that it's only one guy sleeping with them?

Beamborla:

Obviously, you have nothing reasonable in your block head except girls and prostitutes. I really blame myself for stooping this low to your low life level.

Just so you would know Nigerian girls are not all bad just like we have have the bad ones, we have the Good ones also.

You are way too inconsequential for me to care If you label me a slut or not.

whether you talk from now till tomorrow you're what I say you are, a slut. Can you swear before anything that you've not slept with more than 20 guys or that it's only one man sleeping with you?

seriousbabe:

If you post such rubbish again, it will only go to show the defalcation and paucity in your mental, psychological and intellectual eminence.

Do you know the wrong impression, that you are giving people about ladies. Don't you know that this is a free online forum and any 15 year old boy can come here and read this nonsense that you are writing. Do you know the ideology you would be creating in his mind?

Please be careful as well as wise

seriousbabe or whatever you call yourself Pls don't allow me face you. If I do you won't be active on nairaland for a very long time. Is it a lie? Everything I've said in my thread is the whole truth and nothing but the truth. I even want 15 and 18 year old people to see what I'm writing so that they won't settle for less and so that they can be aware of the dangers of dating a Nigerian girl. Keep your lectures to yourself and give it to someone who's interested in listening to them. If you want me to stop opening these type of threads then you guys should reevaluate your mentality and lifestyle. Maybe when you do then I will stop.

Beamborla:

Hahaha... is that all you've got? Cheap slut? Come on, you can do better. Isn't that what your life is all about? Ode! Alainironu!

it hurts you cos you're the one I'm referring to. Once a prostitute always a prostitute. Go and look for customers cos you won't see any here. The time you use in replying you would have gotten yourself like 10 by now.

seriousbabe:
Due to some laws prohibiting me to make direct insults at a fellow nairalander, I will just hesitate to lay heaps of insults on you because you really deserve a lot

May I ask what your premise was that you used in making this baseless, erroneous, counter factual and fallacious conclusions?
How dare you dent the dignity of the average Nigerian girl in such a ludicrous manner

The fact that probably most of the girls that you have dated have turned out to be what you didn't expect which I believe must be due to your indecisiveness in making right choices, does not mean all girls are like that or that the characters of those girls is a representation of the character of every other girl.

Perhaps you should listen to chimamanda's ted talk on single story

Op don't ever post something as impressionable and sensitive as this on a forum such as this ever again

and if I do?

Nneka123:
you're so ugly do you know that?

Having all those tattoos on your nasty body did you no good.

you're short too

i so love all those nigerian girls who treated you like trash! cause you looked like one. hahaha

in your dreams. I've got tattoos cos I can afford them and they look good on me. Your pussy is like a well. Anything can go in. I've never dated a Nigerian and have no intentions of doing so cos you're all disease carriers including you. Yes I'm short and I like it. While you're tall and you're a prostitute.

Beamborla:
I'm sure you possess all of the qualities you listed that's why you have those kind of ladies around you.
You are a serious gold digger! Did you send her Valentine's gift in Canada.


Amukunmeko!

I can't be a gold digger. See who's calling someone a gold digger. You this cheap slut whose pussy have been serviced by an entire community.

Nneka123:
This animal again!

i wonder who lets you on the Internet!

sick fellow.

you this ex olosho you again. Senseless unkempt being.

unapologetic:
I second that. They are like a Hungry Lion

God bless you and your household. You're highly favoured. Unlike those foolish girls who will soon come and attack me soon. Blind and stupid boys that's what they are.

Yes. It's called acaraje.

There's nothing you can do to ever please a Nigerian girl cos nothing good can come out of any of them. I've always said it and will continue saying it that the only thing one can ever get from a Nigerian girl is sex. They're a very lazy, dirty, bad mannered, hungry, cheap and ex prostitutes. Every Nigerian girl is a potential prostitute. Our mothers were not like this and that's why the only generation of women I respect in Nigeria are those of our mothers. They were the perfect example of womanhood and epitome of true love. My advice to any guy that wants to live long and know what it takes to enjoy a healthy relationship or marriage should never go for a Nigerian girl cos they are all thieves and future home breakers. One cannot begin to imagine how many guys they have slept with. An average Nigerian girl has slept with a minimum of 30 guys and a maximum of over a 150 guys. Is that the type of girl you want to date or marry? Guys let's be wise and leave these gutters and explore other countries. Europe, Asia, the middle east, the southern and northern of Africa and not these disease carrying creatures called Nigerian girls. My fiancee is not a Nigerian and ive never been in any relationship that is as good as this one. She even sent me a val's day gift all the way from Canada.