justwise:


You really need to calm down.

Ok oooshe JW am d ONLY person that need to calm down. Ok Kontinu n I will but tell everyone to allow people n their truth. Tnx n God bless.

LadyGuinivere:

Bless you. So please take heed lest u become a bully. With all due respect, you get all upset and hot tempered when u wanna make a point.(Uploading your baby girl's pix for example) and being quick to laabel a diverse opinion cyber bullying.
Were I easily cowed, I woul not want to comment further to avoid your scathing comments because u so unwittingly labelled me a bully by ur follow up comments to mine without taking into consideration my pov and the fact that no malice was intended.
My point? Sister please let's be calm and take it easy on the exclamation points and labelling.
Thank you for understanding (hopefully)

I will keep standing up for my self and the people still researching mmkay n btw; uploading my girls pic that I carried 9 months should be my headache n that of hubby! I won't go back n forth with you but people should allow people tell their truth without people attacking them. anyways them never still born that person that want to bring bullying or mouth near me I will CLOCK d person..so hope u gerrit " hopefully"

[quote author=LadyGuinivere post=39711947]
May I join issues with u here.
Last person labelled an agent WAS AN AGENT.
She admitted to marketing her house for'naira and dollar reasons' and was told to be upfront about her marketing. Apaart from the fact that like 5 pages were dedicated to it, what's wrong with pointing that out?[/quote

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olokings:
This thread/forum is constituted of ADULTS.

Noone held another's hands here just like no one will hold another's to their final destination no matter how close they might seem along the way.

You come here, you learn, you use info gained to achieve your goal. If afterwards you decide to stay and add value to others gud and nice, If not no qualms.



@Tvegas (nice name again) u became the veteran you are today by researching and acquiring meaningful info and not by sitting around to be spoonfed.

Check out the trend, we are becoming lazy to a fault. ..we just wanna file to one lain sourced out by a veteran until we sap the quality outta that point then trash it.

Chief to be sincere I'm off the character where of I enter a place I know houses info and there's Noone or refusal to direct me. .I tk it upon myself to find my way around.

C'mon chief even you ignore until it's very important t then u wade into a matter that's y u may ve noticed anytime u comment then it's know a cap is about to blow.

If the so called cliques don't toss out d bitter pill of directing we newbies how to fish in the ever changing waters then you will see ppl making mistakes because due diligence is such hardworking these days.

Like I said before, 99 percent of members here are adults n patents. ...this is not bullying I won't totally agree with that. ..

The innocent doctor F papers has been tossed so much at VO because of ppl who don't wanna work buh milk him for his correspondence.

Once again weer need the hard n bitter pill...

People go and source new areas oooh....

You source new info n ur ass is labeled as " agent" and the bullies will cheer to fishing out a new agent! You can never win with BULLYING!

TVegas you are my fave!!!! Me I don't know dr F personal but I was so disturbed how people here who used his correspondence to enter n didn't use him came here to bash him. God will judge all faceless or no faceless! Leave them Agents to JW for control! U guys will end up scaring people away from this forum Tbh

bbaby84:


Seconded.

Seconded oshii when u are amongst the bullies taa

TVEGAS preachhh preachhh that gospel! About time seriously.

ozycy:

Lol, I guess the security deposit before arrival is a form of commitment to be sure you are serious about using the accommodation and to secure a space for you. Cos some pple will ask to reserve a space for them even when they ain't serious or haven't finalize their plans yet or even still looking for other accommodation options. The money will be refunded before you leave. I didn't pay before arrival dou, guess this is a recent development due to inflow of pple.

Oh kk! Was getting scared tho. Tnxx

ozycy:

The distance is far o but I made it lol. Contact SoulCr if you want to use Dr E cos I was d first person she took der and d distance no be here o. You can use Google to check d distance

Hi dear Pls did they send u any acct to pay for security deposit prior to arrival? Pls let it not be that I'm entering one chance !

firsttymum:
When I hear bullying I'm like seriously? Bullying on a thread like this?

Babe that one dey!! It is happening here live n direct mbok!!! I've been a victim n so many others too! Just that some people will just swallow chill pill but some of us stubborn people will not!! It is happening here

Mumof2boys:


na we full ground gidigba!

Kontinu

olokings:
it's not just about naija docs...
its particular practice with obgyns around the texas area given the law standing.

Q-Tips to identify VBAC friendly docs:
1. they have conducted LOTS of successful VBAC with patient testimonies and reviews.
2. their office practice are usually housed in the same building complex / facility as the hospital.. or at most less than 5 minutes walk/drive from the hospital.
3. the hospital is most likely to be highest level NICU facility.
4. VBAC friendly docs is not a matter of certification, its more of a matter of choice that's all..

reminder: research them well and check out all your options ontime because some of them who are true VBAC docs even go the extra mile of insisting on getting copies of your med report on the previous C-Sessions to enable them make a good decision if / not you are a positive VBAC candidate.

if the doc is so quick to tell you YES to VBAC without proper background checks and med history, bekoo just pick race or ready to be knifed...

gud luck again.

Tnx for the insight!

Firstty pls go an sleep dear! Rest that pretty head for my baby ahh ahh!! Chaii pls hurry up n born!! Loll

brokewaist:


Thanks

Lol I was once in your shoes tbh! Even at 6 weeks I don begin dey scout for docs!! Nice u r planning ahead.

FinanceFitness:
Hmm, please check this very well o, just to be sure Dr Amajor isn't just luring you in. Follow Olokings'advice on reviews on whether or not she has handled vbac before and all.

The reason I ask that you thread with caution is that while I was in the US, my flatmate used Dr Amajor and Methodist - she wanted vbac, went into labour and was about 6cm dialated or so. When she got to Methodist and told them that it was vbac, they didn't agree. They called her doctor and her response was that she was going to put her in trouble. Long story short, she had another Csection despite her dilation.

Now, this is what she told us herself, we don't know the other part of the story.

But check to be sure o.

Wow you don't say? These naija docs r scaring me o..

modath:


No way, PDP must rule Abia.

It doesn't matter if alex Otti will benefit the state more.

What is good for the goose is sauce for the gander.

NB.. What will happen to that Ngwa argument, I don't get it & no one has provided a satisfactory & clear insight.

Ehhh this na my zone now o!! Quite unfortunate that Alex lost today at the tribunal !! Abians where really hoping that APGA will get the "stolen " mandate according to them... FEedeeFee Ndi oshi vote " hides"

modath:


That politics is another ballgame entirely, na kolomental & fully done were full dia ooo, dem eyes red dia wella, so woman pikin too gat to pour ata rodo for eye to stand the misogynistic MOFOs dia...

Pls point me there lemme release some of my hormones for them there smal lmaoo! I'm a die hard APC girl! I hope they don't chew me raw cod politics is so passionate ehh

bizzle6:

Now that the whole wahala has died down can someone please answer me mbok. Or do I have to be an agent here to get attention hahaha

Maybe Methodist sugar land because when I reached out to Dr Amajor n told her I had CS previously that is why I want to repeat cs she said I could give birth via Vjayjay if I don't have any problem when she examines me.
s/n: I don't plan to use her again nor have I read where she did that. I'm giving da info based on her email to me n I don't plan to USE her n her HOSPITAL cos I've made up my mind where I'm goinG. so Goodluck n hope they don't accuse me of marketing for her.. U can reach her n ask for your self shaa
Attached is my receipts lol

modath:


No one is putting anyone on the hot seat missy.

This matter has been killed & buried, now let's move on to the next...

Allow them to be feeling themselves. I'm here now till school runs time n ready

bbaby84:
How come neks31 and bbiz answered Fehinebony's post. It was only for neks31.
Okiedokie.

Any new stories o? Poe,visa?

Hey hey what's that What r u talking about?? Asin pls help a "lay woman" out with this kweshion? 0_o another accusation or what?? You people play too much!! So I should apologize for a answering Someone that asked me a question.. Pls pls pls I hope u r OK!!

modath:




Now this gat me real LOLing,

You just waka pass, no needd.. U get ?

Lemme sleep lol

olokings:
modath wayayu doin lak dis na...
you haf dislodge all your HCG abi na wetin be d hormone sef.. buh she still got it pumping plenty thru her veins...

beko' nu
NO FIGHTING...

No fighting with a " mischievous smiley emoji" hmmm

Fight that have ended n you people still want to troll.. Some of u were in d background lurking around n now wey we said lets make peace!! Una wan troll una selves hmmmm!! Pls yall should move on o cos me I be one man mopol. Enough already Pls cos anyone that want to troll me u r in for it coz I'm d queen of shade n my hormones won't be in check maybe UNTILL daddy JW block me.

olokings:
kindly go and and MODIFY the post.

delete what you dont need and leave d rest.

I believe I did that already Mr Justwise

ebonychic18:
please oh no personal info here!!! This is a faceless forum let's not get carried away. Horrible things are abound all over the world. Biko nu. @neks u need to chill though..... @modath chai I jump and pass I no fit @ bbiz please all that talk was unnecessary just do the needful. Nobody here is hungry. Any mama or papa that is genuinely here for birthing in the USA purposes is supposedly okay financially. So pocket that sour story of mamas here being cheap et al.

Ermmmm ermmm huh? Neks is chilling tho

LadyGuinivere:
@neks hm! I recognized o! I kuku save the pishure!
I musto tell oga!

I knw u r trolling me shaa!! But in case I take God beg u,, unless u want me out on d streets with big belle.

nefertitiram:
Ohh nooo! Neks dear.
She didn't mean u were not genuine when she sed ingenuity. Ingenuity is actually a good word. Now I see why you are so ticked off. Miscommunication is the problem here

Nerf chai u don finish me shaa! I was about venting in your PM earlier as I noticed she was ur Chicago people I just said lemme not disturb u n our babies this am.. It's Ok shaa. I tot she was trying to say I was lying.. Anyways no qualms I no no how to quarrel for a long time!! Anyways lets kiss n make up.

modath:


Firstty, nah.. What isn't right?

Please let her free her mind, I have never been on any flight prior to TA's , I gree, .. She'll send me baby formula & food for myself, no argument from me & any other thing, no bady gat tym to catch feelings..

We can be here proving nothing to anyone, anyone is free to make any conclusions.

Misogynist & chauvinists don't get to me, neks just playing..



@neks31,

Even though I promised to let you have the last word, I'm sorry for breaking my words but

1. You didn't just notice my moniker ydy, you were heckling me about the justwise thing the other day despite not even getting what the crux of the matter in context is.

2. Stop asserting that I climbed up & trying to remove the ladder to stop others, it is not a cool move,of what benefit is it to me Am I being asked to fund the trip ? Or will the US withdraw my baby's passport.?


I'm not going to apologise, no bueno but " The reference to "ingenuity" is not about you not being a genuine traveller but trying to explain away the airport as being small !

I don't have anything to prove but I've been in major terminals in the ME, Europe & NA & that airport though may be extremely busy, it isnsmall

I am not one to make assumption in real life not to talk of online.. I have a a very well off family that has been to many countries in the world, still has serious village accent & looks like a Farmer!!

Ok ma'am we've made up in my head!!! But truthfully that day u weren't d person I was referring to about giving birth n going home,, I tried to even read about your post n saw pdp n APC stuff n respected myself n didn't read further! No wahalA let bygones be bygones as firsttymum said .

[quote author=firsttymum post=39634112]Neks31 Oya it's okay...
Let's make love not war. It's war against agents and "liar liar" agents not ourselves.
We are e family o... Alot of people have benefitted from this place...

Lemme give u an example
My hubby went to get pta at d bank... And met a nairaland person... Guess what dey went to same school plus he's friends with her cousin. He's not on nairaland... I just munch or copy posts for him to read. But conversation led to another an dey realised d pta info was gotten from this thread. Wasn't on this same thread I realised my DH cousin was really active. What of mamas that were really in need of drugs and d likes? What if it's someone u had an ish with that has d drugs to give.
People have formed strong bonds here too.

It's a small world o... Lets take it easy with our utterances...yes It's a faceless forum but u don't know who you r talking to

Oya comman hug ... Donno how d hug will work but just comman hug. Xoxo [/quote


No qualms dear na true shaa.. U never knw. I'm even scared that someone might recognize my baby n tell hubby, I will be in plenty soup for that... Anyways it's ok!! I wish I was u right now cos my fave show is starting in d Us on sunday ( real housewives of Atlanta ) Pls watch for me Kikikikik. Tnx n God bless lemme go n bath n go out n huzzle..

You people love durama!! See a lot of people lurking around sipping tea n enjoying d show!! Don't blame una lol

fehinebony:


Dear, You quoted me in your post, I have directed anything to you?

Sorry My msg is for the lady, I think she prolly quoted u that's why.. Anyways she knws am talking to her

firsttymum:
Neks31
Naaaaa that's too much.
"Ingenuity" triggered ur anger I gerrit... But mehn this isn't just right... No no no... Haba nooooooooo.

Firstty read in btw her line n decide what this woman is trying to say I have a shop n travel there to buy stuff n I hate d turkey experience but I can't help it cos my customers love their clothes!! So I was just trying to advise the lady cos I knw the Turkish r not friendly n being preggy n on dat flight won't be that good for her sanity!! So why should some one say I'm not being genuine because I said my truth!! And it's not fair that she has her baby n prolly back to naija n antagonizing people here!! That's not cool!! Aren't we meant to be our sistas?? Maybe I missed d memo sha!! I had to even behave stupid by uploading my girls pic out of annoyance!!