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Nigerian girls and entitlement mentality be like..

Jennyclay:
He must own a house
He must own atleast 3 cars.
He must have atleast 3 legitimate sources of income.
He must be earning minimum of ₦3 million monthly

What do you have to offer him in return? Please don't mention your kpekus.

StrongAlphMale:
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Olosho. You should be ashamed of yourself by now. Poverty has really dealt with you.

Dating is not employment opportunity. If you're broke, get a job and work not a boyfriend. Stop being a liability and a parasite. No man wants a liability and a parasite in his life.

Guy, Avoid that Jenny bitch of a girl abeg. Las las them go use that girl do rituals.
The girl na ritual material no be wife material... Just avoid her abeg.

DeathToAfonja:
Have you asked your friend why he thinks you and your cousin stole from him?
Did he provide any evidence or anything to back up his claims?

All this bar and hotel owners always think people are stealing from them

To be honest you can't blame them.... because people actually steal from them

What I don't understand is why he thinks you're conniving with your cousin

He can only think such he you've given him a reason to think so or maybe someone who doesn't like your friendship told him something behind your back

I've asked him what prompted his sudden change towards me even before he sacked my cousin. He won't even say anything.

When he sacked my cousin and I asked him why. He told me to my face that I'm conniving with my sister to steal from him without any evidence.

I can't imagine myself stealing from someone who has helped me financially. So why would steal from him? He's a good friend. But I don't know why he changed.

Iyaebe:
Go back and question your cousin very well because your friend is a good person based on what you’ve written about him and defend yourself only and not your cousin except she’s someone you can put your life on hold for, as in you know her too well

In as much I trust my cousin, I still asked her bia.. are you stealing from him? she said no and I believe her, if you call her a thief you're also calling me a thief.

There is no way my cousin will be stealing from him that I won't know. My cousin savings is about ₦210k when she showed me her bank balance and statements, and that's her salary she has been receiving and saving since she started working with him (January 5th 2021)

She need to go back to school for her HND by next year.

I'm from Abia state, I met my friend during our NYSC 2017 here in onitsha. We were in same CDS, he's based in onitsha, he's a nice guy, he has really helped me financially, his family are well to do.

I was retained in the company where I served, I wasn't having much savings to rent an apartment and I need to move out of the corpers lodge, So he gave me 90k to add to the money I had to rent an apartment for myself.

Fast forward to 2019, He said his father wanted to help him with a sum of ₦4.5M capital to start up a business, If only he present a convincing business proposal to him. So he told me to help him out.

I drafted a first class Lounge business plan for him, everything he need to know was well stated in the business plan. The goodnews was his father was impressed and sent the money to him.

He started the business and he's doing well. Very beautiful place and open space. December 2020, I called my cousin who stays in Aba to come and work at my friend's lounge, she's done with her ND and she need some money to further her HND. She knows how to cook, she can prepare asun and she's someone I can trust.

He has 4 workers including my cousin, he pays them 27k per month with free lunch. Honestly business has been growing well.

My routine on an average day is (my work & his bar) I close from my office 7pm, on my way back I branch at my friend's lounge, that's where I eat dinner and I must drink atleast 2 bottles of beer (Mind you I do pay), we do plan, gists and laugh as guys. My cousin stay with me, once she's done for the day we go home together. That's my daily routine.

All of a sudden (1 month now) he started acting strange towards me, I visit his lounge as usual he don't talk to me, if we're sitting with some group of guys gisting as usual he won't even utter a word to me.

On Wednesday, he sacked my cousin for no just reason. He lay false accusation on my cousin and I. He said we're conniving to steal his money. Mehn I was Sad and weak.

I may not have the money he has but I put in my strength and idea on that business, I have always pray and hope for the business to grow everyday, so why will I steal from him or run down him business? I don't know what to do.