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Good Morning

Are you into loan Lending Business in Lagos
Are you into Ajo contribution Business in Lagos
Do you have Customers base
Do you have Market Focus
We are into Loan Lending and we do B2B business and we provide the necessary funding's.
We partner with these agents to disbursed loans to their customers and at the end of the month, we share interest on loan disbursed..60% to 40%.
It is a good opportunity to grab, it is another way of making good money.
If you are in this category and interested, kindly drop your contact and you will be call for further business discussions.

Warm Regards

Robertkenny:
Mrs. Juliet

I was with my husband on March 31st, it was 3 or 4 o’clock in the afternoon and I took a phone call from the owner of my company, the president and COO. He informed me that my position was being eliminated.

Significant changes had to be made to the small, family-owned business I worked for due to the coronavirus pandemic.

Coming from leadership, I understand. I worked for Skymack communications, a publishing company here in Lagos, for over 13 years. I was senior vice president of operations, client service and account management. The majority of the clients I worked with were in the airline space, so Covid-19 had huge impact on the area of the business I managed.

Even though being let go is not a personal issue for me, when you get that call from your boss, it’s quite a shock to the system.
I love the people that I worked with. And I have never been unemployed.

This was a first for me, and I had to tell my kids.
The first person I told was my husband. We went for a walk because I just wanted to takeout bad thought and feel free. It’s so overwhelming that you don’t want to think about the “What if”.

I cried when I told my husband, but it wasn’t sadness that I felt. I didn’t feel a connection to my job title such that it was a loss of my sense of self. It was more, “Well, what am I going to do now?” Or maybe it was because you have to say those words: “I’ve been laid off.” I never said those words before.

But I didn’t actually tell my two girls, who are 12 and 16, for almost a full 48hours. I just sat with it first. I was thinking, “How am I going to tell them that I have been laid off”?.

My girls have seen me get up and go to work their whole lives. I don’t believe they tied me as a person to my job, but they do understand that my job provides money for the family to live.

I was really trying to figure out, how do I tell them without scaring them? And how will I keep a level of composure?.

The third day I told them. Schools in Lagos were closed, so my daughters were homeschooling. I called them into the living room, sat down and told them that I had been let go from my position at work. I was crying while telling them.

They both sort of looked at me and they said, “Well, what does that mean for us?”

How you handle yourself is everything when it comes to how they’re going to respond, so I immediately composed myself.
“Well, we’re probably going to have to make some changes initially, but as a parent let I and your dad focus on that. I don’t want you to worry about that” I said.

My eldest daughter got angry and frustrated at my employer. “Aren’t you important? Don’t they think you’re valuable?” she asked with a sad face.

“I am valuable” I said. But my value has nothing to do with my job. I’m valuable for a lot of other reasons.”

“I will find a job that makes me happier, a place to work that values me, a place where I want to be” I said. The girls asked questions about money too. I have a loan to pay and other bills. “Yeah, we’re going to have to make some changes, for me to be able to pay back” I said.

“I’m going to have to really work to get another job or figure out what my next move is” I said.

For now we’re good. My girls and I are stable and we’re happy. We have made some changes towards managing most things around us. For instance with food shopping, we are not particularly frivolous, but now we are much more careful.

Also there is no “I need does cloths just because they’re beautiful or I want to do online shopping for me and my girls”. They know they need to be conscientious about what they ask for. And they have been fantastic without reminder.

And I have not stopped my job search, but I am not obsessing. Right now everything is fine, but that won’t last forever. So I am trying to determine what my new normal is going to be.

Thank you Bogger for sharing my story

Have you ever lost any job that makes you think twice? Please share your story.

I do quite understand with you madam and I share your same story. I lost my job since last year March and as the bread winner of the house with three kids, it's something I will not pray for anyone. Life has been so unbearable to the extent of providing food on the table. As a matter of fact, as day breaks, I always say thank you God. My house rent expired since last year August and I am living at the mercies of God. It's so frustrating seeing other tenants going to work as early in the morning and all you could do is sit down in the parlor. The worst is when my kids cries for food and you don't have a penny in your wallet. My kids have been asking me, daddy when are you going to work and it's makes me become so emotional with little years dropping. With my Msc, I have applied for lots of jobs, nothing forth coming and I am not tired of doing so as it is now a routine. I always put my faith and hope on God as I know one day, he will answer my prayers. Stay strong madam, keep searching and believe in God. You shall soon sing a song of great testimony.

Manq:
No.. been expecting mine.. please keep up with the update

Let's be hopeful

Manq:
My beneficiaries have been receiveing their 30k for 2 months now but not all though. Myself being the CEO, has not gotten an alert.. let's keep on updating

Let's be hopeful

idris646:
people have started receiving the money oo.
just relax, your's will drop in a day or two

Really

Really

Hi guys, please do you have any idea of when the Federal Government of Nigeria will commence payment of 50,000 survival fund for the category of CEO and others after finishing paying the category of 30,000 payroll.

Let's share.

Hi guys, please do you have any idea of when the Federal Government of Nigeria will commence payment of 50,000 survival fund for the category of CEO and others after finishing paying the category of 30,000 payroll.

Let's share.

kikelomojessy:
Where do u reside?

What's is Ur field of study?

What is Ur line of work?

I reside in lagos, line of work is business development and field of study is finance.

Dear good Samaritan
I decided to come online because I am fed up and really down. I lost my job early this year and really been putting my best searching for job but all to no avail. Things have become worst that I can't even pay bills at home, can't even pay my rent, even food has a problem, the worst thing that can ever happened to a family man. I am really frustrated, life has been so unfair to me
Can't stand my 3 children cry, I always feel so down. Please I need a job before it's get out of hand. I have an msc.
God will bless my helper, God will bless my helper.
God bless you

funkmrflexx:
We Have Been Dating For 1 Year and 6 months now. I’ve met her parents, we wanted to get married last year but her dad told me to wait till she finishes school which is supposed to be next year. I’m 25 years old and she’s 22 .

I live alone in the city while my mom lives in the village. My younger sister who I’m sponsoring through school sometimes comes to my place during holidays and weekends. My girlfriend practically lives with me because she comes from a type of an Abusive family. So she lives with me and I even assist her with school fees and house rents sometimes. I’ve spent even more than her father for her school.

Everyone In my family knows her and she’s a very wonderful girl. Typical wife material. She supports me every time even when I’m broke. I’m not the type of guy that dates a lot of girls . I don’t even cheat on her. Since I met her I’ve done away with a lot of ladies. I’m 100% committed to the relationship

But the problem is that she Has very bad anger issues. I mean she can destroy your property when she’s angry and I’m the quiet type. I don’t like hitting a lady execpt once in a while a general brain resetting slap. When she starts she doesn’t listen to anyone. Not me, not even her parents. So anytime she’s angry like this I will just find a way to make her laugh. Both of you can just be eating and she will get angry if you ate the fleshy part of the meat and left oily part for her (we have quarreled because of that I mean serious quarrel) . Sometimes I get tired of the whole situation. At the end even when she’s wrong I’ll let her for peace to reign. So I try to manage the anger at home so it shouldn’t go out

So we went to visit my mom in the yesterday. Because of curfew we slept over. So my mom bought us mangos this morning and told us to carry.

My girlfriend then said she doesn’t like mango that if I want to eat my mango I should carry it myself. Then my mom (she is the type that always shouts at every body. The real wahala woman) told her that if she can’t carry the mango then she should just put it on my head for me to carry na (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na).

That was the only thing my mom said. Then she sparked. Started shouting at my mom. That she should stop talking to her like that, that she doesn’t like it. In fact she’s going home. So she carried her bag and started going home. Every one in the compound started saying it’s ok (Na dat thing why dem tell u Dey make u Dey vex so) she was still shouting. I was even try to calm her down but no way. She was still shouting. Even my sister who had never seen her angry before became angry (na so you b? She said). I was really disappointed In her

The issue is what even made me angry is how she reacted. If she didn’t like what my mom said made her angry. At least she should have waited till we got home (this was the first time we were both sleeping over) then she would tell me. Or she could have called my sister and told her what my mom said. After all the fracas, she went inside the room till we left. I just told everybody to just leave her.

So when we got home I told her what she did was wrong that she shouldn’t have reacted like that. Na there war start. She started yelling and shouting at me that if my mom talks to everyone like that she won’t take it (my plan was to tell her that she should apologize to her. Because my mom already apologized that she won’t talk to her again like that. Which I know she will o . So we can just forget about the issue. But she never accepts she’s wrong ) She said I took her to my village to intimidate her in front of my family people, I was really angry and called her uncle and told him what happened. He said there was nothing wrong with what my mom told her (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) and that he would talk to her .

I even scolded my mom before I left that I didn’t like what she said what she did that’s she was just causing issue. My girlfriend said when my mom said the word (If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na) that I should have immediately rebuked my mom. But me sef no see anything wrong with what my mom said( If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

I just Dey follow her uncle advise and leave her be until she calms down and I talk to her

So my people what’s offensive in this word? If you no fit carry the mango u for kuku put am for e head make e carry am na)

But this her attitude don tire me. Break up is not on the card for me at least not yet. She always thinks that they are other guys out there because she has a lot of toasters but I know they can’t do quarter of what I’m doing for her. In this modern time it’s difficult to see a guy who will allow his girlfriend stay with him thereby losing his freedom to do certain things. A guy who doesn’t cheat, a guy who takes care of her does everything for her .

I just think the things she went through in her family is affecting her physiological. And sometimes when I think about leaving her I feel pity because she can’t go back to her parents house.

I wish you were my brother. The day she insulted our mother, I would have given you and that idiot of a girl the neatings of your life. So ashamed that a man I writing all this and scolding your mum because of one stupid in a girl. Oya ara

My brother, she is hiding something from you. She has another person she is having an affair with. I have once caught my girl before when I suspected her and I have to hack into her wassup and caught her red handed. She cried and confess after I showed her all the evidence.
Play smart with her and u will caugh her

DonJay95:
What if the man message his wife first? Lol the number will show as unsaved and the wife will find out. Lol

Correction: Block the man’s number and delete. Safe his own number as that of the man and immediately send a message and wait to see the response. Lol

Sure my brother. This suggestion will definitely go a long way.

Thank you all for all those words whether good or bad. I never knew we have smart guys and ladies here. After going through all the messages, I have learnt so many things here on how to caught a cheating wife red handed. I am going to adopt all techniques as advice so as to see to the truth.
After years of marriage and kids, after trying so hard to be a responsible man, nah nah.Will see to the end of it. It is just too obvious.

Biglittlelois:
Deleting chats is a big red flag, it's either she has started or about to.

It is obvious she might be cheating. Noticed too that she has been calling him through normal calls and wassup calls frequently. The man calls her too and they flow well. The call records are just too glaring.

xendra:
Yep its called cheating, even though they may not have had sex yet, she is definitely enjoying the wrong type of attention (that is also classified as emotional cheating.)
Are you cheating on her? or making her feel less in any way? it could be from lack of attention, feeling invincible to your man, feeling like you are not on his priority list.......and so on

usually a woman will only do this if she nolonger feels secure in her relationship.

Never cheated on her all years we have been together. I have always been a very responsible dad.

Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

600k is a big money. Please don't allow this case to die down. Make a report to the inspector general of police in Abuja. You have evidence and the will.be tracked down. That was exactly how they collected 100k from my brother at gun point January this year.
We all have to join hands for the call for the disbandment of SARS. They are criminals, muderers and at.robbers.

I have always known this guy to be a criminal. The law should take its course and he should be jail accordingly.