Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

chii8:



I address strangers as "dear" ooo, I hope it's not a problem?Op should exercise patience until he catches her red-handed and not based on mere assumptions.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

OdefaGirl:



If his home scatters because of a case that could have been handled in a subtle way, will you bring him your sister for replacement?
This is his home......he should be wise in whatever decision he's about to take.

Chuky7:


Lol he will have to filter the man that seems suitable

is that you on your profile pic??

Stephenomozzy:
It's hard to comment one's opinion o... This is a marriage. If it was a dating relationship now.. Men would have said something.

What you should do... Stop checking her phone for the time being so she's not overly on alert (deleting messages), put away your apprehension for a while and love her as your wife... Start showing her attention more than before that she will be so busy with you that she won't have time to be online to talk with figure 3.

Especially in this lockdown period.... Are you a boring person? She may not really be cheating (in the general sense of the word) but just having fun discussions with someone who makes her feel good..... Fill that void, engage her same way you engaged her before you both agreed that marriage was the next big step for your love.

She can't leave the house to go an "cheat" so wean her off from the guy before lockdown is called off!

Operation Win Your Wife!!!!


Everyone who has quoted me to talk BS.

If you know that everyone is entitled to their opinion, you would rather have shared your opinion to help op rather than countering mine.

All of you saying point blank that she is cheating....are you saying the Op should divorce her? Give her hell in the marriage? Cheat on her also?

One even went as far as saying na only women like my comment... One said his mother is a single mom. Lol... Who nairaland likes epp?

I just threw in my two cents. Op can do whatever he likes. Naim go say "I do"

James4bright:


Even the Bible supports divorce and remarrying when it comes to infidelity. An unfaithful woman should be kicked off.

dinachi:

Na una type women dey stab to death! Ugly, low esteem man who has sold his integrity, self worth, intelligence to pussy!

Imagine trying to win back a serial cheat!

May your wife continually cheat on you until you kpeme from your stupidity!
Foolish idiot!

Romanoff:
I smell a rat sha. The moment one starts deleting conversations and coding contacts, na there e take dey start.

xendra:
That's bad; let her know it's also cheating and it's disrespectful (some people don't know, they think as long as they are not having sex they are not cheating)

find out if it's some kind of insecurities she might have, she may not even notice enough to mention but if you can find out on your own, otherwise it may never stop and you 2 may have to part eventually

Stephenomozzy:


Go beg for giveaway joor.. Don't vent your frustration on me. Rubbish

OdefaGirl:




I don't know....... that's what am thinking, if I am the one in the picture.....

Chuky7:



lol...you a funny girl aren't you....well when you do find out please let her know I think she's a fine lady

looks familiar tho

Aaaaarghmed:
don't tell her your findings yet...delete your contact from her phone also delete the man contact from her phone.save ur number with what she used to save the man number,Whatsapp her and confirm ur findings to really know what is going on between them.

DonJay95:


What if the man message his wife first? Lol the number will show as unsaved and the wife will find out. Lol

Correction: Block the man’s number and delete. Safe his own number as that of the man and immediately send a message and wait to see the response. Lol

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

OdefaGirl:


You look family though.....lol......shey na you be that

OdefaGirl:


You look family though.....lol......shey na you be that

greatme2good:


If you have a laptop, you can actually use WhatsApp web to get same message she's getting on her phone in the laptop at the same time. It's easy for you to do since you have access to the phone. Just to be sure of what is going on before confronting her.

Chuky7:



lol I no blame you...sha it is me before its an old pic I have grown beards now

make I no chop ur odefa


lol I no blame you...sha it is me before its an old pic I have grown beards now

make I no chop ur odefa

OdefaGirl:



You are right, but some people still settle the issue and amends.....
If we follow this particular scripture, with what is happening in marriages (men feeling that they have the entitlement to cheat), 90% of marriages won't stand.

Aaaaarghmed:
don't tell her your findings yet...delete your contact from her phone also delete the man contact from her phone.save ur number with what she used to save the man number,Whatsapp her and confirm ur findings to really know what is going on between them.

Nelso2:
Saw a contact on her phone late last year, saved as aa1 and each time he wassup her it's either he calls her my friend or my love.

Confronted her but she denied, saying it's her customer that is owing her money. Been searching for the contact but couldn't find it again after then.

Recently, I searched on her phone while she was sleeping, went through her wassup again, saw a number saved as 3, had to checked on it, behold the profile picture is the same man. Funny part of it, each time she chat wit him, she deletes the chat at the end of it. Been mad since and about to confront.

The man in question is almost 54 and I am in late 30s.

James4bright:


My love is way too deep. Nothing like assumptions here.

Iblad0994:


Let me teach you a trick to catch her if you’re doubting her. Since you have the means to get to her WhatsApp.

You would have caught her but she always delete her WhatsApp chat so the best thing to do is to enable a WhatsApp Web on her phone to see her chats in real time. Even if she deletes it, you would have seen it coz you’ll be monitoring her chat directly.

Find another phone or laptop.

-Go to WhatsApp web and you’ll see a barcode
-Go to her WhatsApp settings and scan the barcode
-Then you can see her chat in real time.

Thank me later. You’ll know whether the man is just a friend or maybe she’s cheating.

chii8:


Lol...Oga you're not my husband oooo

wifeesnatcher:
this is touching



your wife is surely getting a romantic attention from the man. is your wife cheating? no she's not just cheating, she's enjoying the attention she lost in you from another man who give her maximum attention


my landlord his in the same fate with you but unfortunately the man didn't observed, there is this guy at his early 40's that he accommodated, the way the guy dey fvck his wife anyhow ehn. I counted it as rumour when I heard it not until I caught them



career men that focus much on work and not giving their wives some attentions are just short one, na another man go dey help you dey fvck her anyhow, she go still take the money you gave her prepare something for that man. do you know what, if the said man enjoy her much, he might put thunderbolt in her body to end your life so that he can have enough of her


Op, download another WhatsApp with another line add her or if you can get hold of her phone I will give you some app that will allow you to clone her WhatsApp, you will be reading all her chats