I no talk am? see as the man faiiine jare!!! abegi, no comot the foto at all o. we finally get to see the face of the man wey be true man. may God continue to rain blessings on your household sir. If I want already married, I for Marry u. Olori, well done jare. U do us proud as women. Wonderful couple

Oga Serubawon, e don reach make you post picture of yourself na. Am sure everyone want to know who the mysterious Serubawon is. Abeg, please na. After 13 years of this thread, allow us to see your face. Doesn't everyone agree?

Serubawon ooooooooooooooo. Haba, where are you naa? We have not heard from you for a while ke? Updates o........Please.

Hmmmmm.....

HBD serubobo. Na me 1st greet u 4 ur birthday so na blessin be dat o. 1st of Nov - Scorpio all d way!!!! Im wishin u a very happy nd enjoyment day. many happy returns ooooooooooooooo.

Serubobo, abegiiiii do quick joo, Plenty of us want to witness this union o

ThiefOfHearts:

Dont mind him. He's total orobo. Ive been telling him since last year to calm down with olori's pounded yam

Orobo ke? I can witness to d fact dat hes not orobo ooo. im not sayin anymore dan dat b4 ppl jump on me again

Serubobo, what is happenin? Haaaa....keeping us in d dark like dis is not healty 4 some of us o (espacially me). Dis page is where i come when i am feeling down or depressed. It inspires me 2 rise above my challenges. Abeg, speak ooooooo......

Serubobo, I am so proud of u. I talk bout u 2 evry1 i know & let dem know dat there are not only gud men but wonderfuly fantastic men in dis world. Men in general shuld use u as a role model. I cry 4 joy anytime i read ur tread and it just makes me feel very good inside. God bless u, ur children, olori and her daughter. May you union last forever. E ma lo ara yin gbo!!

@Serubawon. Am so sure dat all of us wnt to know if it is finaly happnin between u & olori dis year. Hw far naa?

I nominate Serubawon. His thread has just been awesome and neva seems to end. Also, only mature minds post there. No fighting.

@Serubawon. How far wit Olori now? I realy wish u guys d very, very best o. Ur story is just amazing.

I've gone tru a lot of threads in d family section nd the ones i feel shuld be d top 3 are:

1. Adjusting to life as Widower - Serubawon
2. Tell us about your marriage - Seun
3. Parental Guide: Bringing up a child - Tgirl4real

What do you all think? 4 me, dis 3 threads have had a very deep impact on me. Let's have some nominations jare.

Nice thread.

@Souldiva. As a sister I undstd u. Dont wory, things shall wrk out for u IJN.

@ ipio & svelte8. U think this post is gud abi? Go and read Serubawons tread (adjusting to life as a widower). it is soul renching.

@Analytical, chaircover.

I hope say am not starting anoda palava o. Howeva, I was describing serubobosky to someone and since I promise say I no go show anyone who know him this thread, how would u describe him if you wants to match him with somebody nice. Serubobosky, sorry o. I know say u shy small.

Wow! I've missed a lot. This tread neva seems to stop. Once again serubobosky, were all wish you the best. More grease to ur elbows.'m

women of NL i am sooooooorryyyyyy o.i am not tryin 2 b nasty or ecspose seru n any way.when i talk say i showed d thread 2 friends it was ppl who dont no him.i was only tryin 2 add some spice 2 d thread but it backfired nd im sorry 4 dat.d fact dat i know him & no one else is like intoxicating,but i can c dat im not helping him by dis.im sorry serubawon.ive noticed datu dont contribute dat much since i join dis thread.i will syop it.women sorry o.dat been said, some of d comments were not appropriate.

eyaaa.it is nice when u see ppl showing luv 2 a person dey have neva met.serubawon,always b ursef cuz dis is what ppl respond 2.see d way ppl rose 2 ur defence when dat nincompoop mobo started shooting blank bullets everywhere.i wish i culd post a pic of serubawon & my husband, but as much as i want 2, i no d poor guy wuld neva 4give me (& my husband wuld kill me patapata).anyway sha, me sef dey wait 4 wedding bells,since i go dey there personally.come 2 tink of it sef,where is pweetygirl na.it looked as if sometin was brewin b/w her & serubawon sometime ago.wetin come happen now?well,serubawon i wish u d best in ur future moves o.i copied dis thread and showed it 2 some friends of mine.u don become a little celebrity o.takia sha.

people don't worry.i'm married 2 serubawon's friend o.my hubby almost pissed on himself when he read d thread.i was having so much fun keeping serubawon in suspense, but ma hubby has already told d poor guy everything.men!!! no fun at all.jokes aside, i wish i had someone 2 introduce to serubawon.he is so sweet when it comes to his kids and it really broke ma heart hearing stories of him & his late wife.i never met her, but I wish I did.so u can unerstand why i hit back at dat turd mobo.
ok, o.i don talk enough o, b4 i go call d poor guy's real name by mistake.serubawon, all I am waitin 4 is when God brings dat jewel 2 u.u deserve it (dis man go call police 4 me wit all dis ma mouth wey no get control. ciao all.

@mobo, who asked weda u r in england sef.u r so vain u want everyone 2 know dat, abi? WHO CARES!!! (im sure say na osodi u dey, miserable & wretched.olodo.

MOBO999:

^^^ Why will any good thinking and smart lady bother with a widower and 2 kids, tell me the ladies that dont love new or good thing and a widower is not a good thing or a smart move, am also disappointed in all the ladies on this post, this just goes to show how cheap Nigeria women have become, am loving my life in England and have sinced moved on.

jealousy go kill somebody.who u be sef? e dey obvious dat serubawon get class pass u.u know even near d guy sef.just reading ur ridiculous comments show say home training far from u o.i sure say women don reject u sotay u come dey vex 4 women.na we dey responsible 4 ur miserable existence?

@serubawon, abeg leave dis mugu 4 us women 2 deal with jo o.he is jealous because of d way ladies respond 2 u.ode of the 1st order.didirin osi.seeking attention 4rm people wey pass am.

Wislet:

Lol. ''u never know wat might happen''. Yes my dear, i agree with u- women sef. For real. U know u wanted to pique his interest wit your statement, so he'll go searching.lol. Admit it. Anyways dat was a not-so-smart strategy. Now de young man wil be jumpy cos he doesn't know who is snooping/after his privacy.

@wislet
nobody dey afta d poor man privacy jare.na public place i dey c am.serubawon where u dey na?i tot u would have joined d discussion by now ke.by d way,i saw u in church o. u wore a black suit nd its nice when a man fills out a suit nicely.im not trying to freak u out,but i needed to say that so u will know dat i really know u o.ur kids r really cute.good genes abi?

jennykadry:

^^^ I like you already.

Is he truly handsome? I can leave my husband for him?

@jennykadry. yes he is very cute nd no u cant leave ur husband 4 him.give us single ldies a fightin chance nd dont be greedy.i wish i culd post a pic of him but dat wuld be extremely out of taste nd wrong.dat reminds me,who is dis pweety girl sef.she is d only 1 dat looks like competition o.serubawon pls dont take dis personally o,but im really gettin a buzz with dis anonymous thingy.from what i know of u,ur a nice guy nd i wont disrespect u in any way.dats a promise.d chances of u knowing who i am is like a milion 2 one.dont worry,ur secret is safe wit me.ciao all.

Wislet:

As the name goes, it's NEMESIS. Like, ''your worst nightmare''. She claims to know you. Probably does, so wat does she wanna achieve? To catch your attention and probably get to meet her? Lol. Women. Someone will always know someone. Just move on wit your life dear.

@wislet. 4 ur info, i'm not afta serubawon.just happen to know him and y do u tink i want to meet him. na wa 4 u women o.if i decide to reveal masef 2 him,den dats my prerogativ.i just tink it will be fun watching serubawon trying to pick me out of a crowd.come 2 tink about it,u neva know what might happen

i am new to nairaland and dis is d 1st story i have read that touched my heart. initially i thought it was a fake story by one of dese crazy men, but guess what, i actually know serubawon.d story sounded so familiar that i started doing some investigations of my own. don't worry serubawon, i wont leak d goodies on u, however just to let u know i know u think about dis, u attend one of d rccg's in houston right? d 1 on bissonnet to be precise.i gues u get d picture. u might have seen me but i dont tink u know mme at all. also i know d lady u dated. her name start with a.

well since u dont have a picture, i can say with confidence ladies dat he is handsome oooooooo. dis is going 2 be a lot of fun. me'll be watching u in church dis sunday serubawon. takia!

Wow!!!

What if a woman would say "I prefer to marry a young boy because am goin to nuture him to grow and bcom the kind of man i want, he becomes compatibly mine 4eva"?

Somegirl, I wish you the best of luck o. Which young Naija boy you wan nurture to becomes yours 4eva. Maybe another nigeria dey that i don't know of sha

This place dey be like primary school sometimes. i didn't know say people dey fight here like this.

But it's interesting all the same. FIGHT OOOOON!!!!

cant blame her 4 being honest. nemesis here'

Personally, I love older women. The're more mature, more patient and trust me, they can teach you a few things you don't know about sex. They aren't always on your case for things and they sometimes baby you up a bit (which is really nice). Unfortunately, they are usually married or after you for things that would just shatter your whole existence. It's difficult to meet one with no strings attached. Sugar mummies (abeg, run from those ones o).

I'm dating someone 5 years older and i just want us to enjoy is as long as it lasts. It might never come to anything, but i hope we will always be friends

A woman will respect he who respects her ( I didn't say worship o). A guy could be handsome, rich, good in bed and a whole lot of things. however, i've noticed smething almost all women like. A guy they can look up to. Like a mentor or something. Someone she can easily approach with a question and knows that she will get a wise answer. Even if she has all the monet in the world, you'll tell her how to spend it. Get my drift?