naijaboiy:

You see now bah!

naijaboiy:
What's with all these silly and useless trends of some low self esteemed guys posting pictures claiming to be celebrity look-alikes when in reality they look like impoverished abòkis?

Nigga go back to your pure water hustling business. You don't even look like my gate man.

oye9ja:

Thanks bro.

Mekzmoney:
Beta... So u mean among all ur male pals,no one has visited u and u haven't visited any of them? not talking abt d guy ur dating ooh or d guys u ve dated.

Mekzmoney:
Hav u ever seen cat and rat being friends? If u wanna be my frnd den dnt visit ma house and I won't visit urs. We go meet for road or joint and gist then go ur house..... because if I hav interest in u and u visit ma house with d mind set dat we're frnds, then ur looking for Thomas problem.

naijaboiy:

[b]Your thought process is really pathetic though and I'm really shaking my head and laughing at the same time for your myopic mentality.

Can you kindly settle down and take a look at what you typed up there?

That he wouldn't get anything from her?how can a guy who has turned you down still want something from you? Is it not clear that he doesn't want anything to do with you in the first place,hence he friend zones your ass.

With what you stated it seems you are one among the girls who place so much importance to that part down between your legs so you think when a guy gets that coochie then he has gained something great from you. In other words that's all you have to offer and nothing else.

Also you seem to forget that we guys will actually not lose anything if we don't want to. If you ask a guy out or show him green light and he makes a move on you it doesn't necessarily mean he likes you. So he can use the fact that you like him as a very big advantage to fùck you and dump you.

So in all honesty you should really be grateful to the guys who just friend zone you without trying to take advantage of you.

Finally if you know you have friend zoned a guy but you decide to keep eating his money because he decides to stick around,have it in mind that the enjoyment is temporary. Don't come and rant on Nairaland when he rapes you or does something worse.

Win-win situation kor?

Madam change your mentality because you are beginning to sound like that teenager I just talked to. [/b]

Deejavuu:


Smh for you and your mentality. Same you that was arguing when ronald4lif was trying to explain to you in plain terms. Y' all should stop using guys as a means to an end, stop giving the classy girls that don't see guys as a means to a meal ticket bad names. What's a win win in "magaing"a guy. It's shamelessness

Umm am startin to get confused ere whoz side r u on abeg abi is ur moniker beginning to affect ur sense of judgement....if a guy is being " magaed"he shld knw is it not hismoney? will d gurl force him to buy her tins?.hes only buyin her tins to c if she can change her mind......

naijaboiy:

You sef know na.

Girls dey wey boys don friend zone steady and e still dey happen sef.

What are these girls talking about the power of friend zone being in their hands.

So what will they call the ones the guys friend zoned?

Deejavuu:


True that, she's clearly still not experienced with the real world.

See fine babes getting thrown in the zone everyday

Estharfabian:
Really?? You know where to go??

LoL! Yes, I'm not A guy but I do know that if I actually liked someone that I couldn't be with(Romantically?)...I'd sure as hell settle for friendship! and I wouldn't come lamenting daily on Nairaland!!

LoL! fyi...Guys don't frienzone girls! they can't afford to..

PS--if it's really more HEARTBREAKING/PAINFUL to girls..how many posts on NL have You seen about females complaining bout being friend-zoned? how many? what's that? NONE!!!!!!

Diddyydiva:
Arguing with you is like taking water from ocean with a spoon


The fact still remain ladies are hardly friend zoned


Take it or leave it

naijaboiy:

Nobody is chopping you.

You simply don't have a defense.

naijaboiy:

And when a guy leads you on what is he testing?

Stop sounding ridiculous.

naijaboiy:

Thank you very much for explaining things clearly.

I actually didn't open this thread as a friend zone complaint thread. But from the way some of the girls are talking I think it's good we bring some things to their notice.

Some girls actually lead a guy on and make him think they are into him and then when he pops the question they turn him down. That,to me,is a wicked act and if a guy laments about that,then there is no problem about that for me.

Nevi12 hope you gerrit now?

ronald4lif:


There are different categories of friend-zoning. One of such is where the lady has bluntly told the guy that she's not interested in him and would never date him and another is where she keeps stringing him along and giving him hope that she might consider him so as to continue fleecing him of his scarce resources.

The former is justified as the guy is stupíd to have maintain a friendship thinking it might lead to a relationship someday even after being told it can't happen. But the latter is callous and act of wickedness and yes the guys who complain about it even though they're silly their agitation is justifiable. Why should she be giving hope and allow him spend on her when she's aware she would never date him?

Cutehector:
u are right.. so I shouldn't be judged for deleting all d babes I wished to date.

naijaboiy:

Just let the nigga go when you turn him down. Don't try keeping him as a friend.

If he decides to stay then it's a different thing.

naijaboiy:

[fontonlyif]The thread title is clear. "Eight[8] sure ways to know you are in the friend zone"

More like "ways to know a girl is not interested in you."

What's the complaint there? [/font]

naijaboiy:

But nobody was complaining.

Rollar:

Lolz! Babe you no nice, I swear. Who hurt you?