I'm just confuse which 1 should I get

I just told my gf that I don't want us to stay together again I want us to live separately
Because we need our own privacy and little space .now she fell bad .


This are my reasons for my decision
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*Space
*privacy
*i feel like she staying with me seems like I'm caging her and also caging my self
*we have been staying together since wen she was ND1 now she's ND11 .
* to reduce our everyday misunderstanding
*to test our relationship strength if we can cope with staying separately not seeing each other everyday

Easybela:
this "childish man" again , after all the advises I gave you the last time,you still haven't grown up.

what advice

chizpim:
Break up is not the option, try and resolve the issues and also learn from each other. I believe if issues are well handled in a relationship, it makes the relationship stronger.

it's becoming too much.

xendra:
mcthwwe men and hyping their asses

what have you done that you call heaven and earth??
what have you even done to deserve a siglet
men cry too much these days There are no more men just babies full of complains here and there because they can't do the right thing by a woman, and they think women are their problem

I believe you are not different from her or even worst than her

Imagine my gf said the only thing have done for her is money
Then I told her the only thing she did for me is sex. And truly have been dating this gal for 7months she never buy one thing for me even singlet she never buy for me and have done heaven and earth for her . sometimes it's not all about sex. What do ladies even think about their selves . this is a gal have been giving right now she done calculate all the money wen I dey hold her

Pls I need advice o

Have been with this gal for almost 7?months now but she's the very jealous she even feel bad sumtimes wen I go out with my friends . we both have misunderstanding almost everyday in a week we may have issues up to 5 times out of 7.this is someone I took serious but right now I'm thinking of calling it a quit because I can't take it anymore I fear same thing will continue if we both get married.



Even if relationship have ups and down but this is too much. Out of 7days we both have misunderstanding for 5days

Lol emeka don carry yam travel
Listen everyone this virus is created by scientists for a specific purpose .Until the purpose is fulfilled they won't be am vaccine just like a nairaand brother said.


The only reason I think they created it is to lower population. Imagine were it started lol. You can add your

Easybela:
If I were to be in her shoe,I will dump u asap due to the following reasons
1:you have concluded already that even in 2years time,you won't be financially stable.
2:you are seeing marriage as something that will tie your freedom down.
3:you don't love her enough for marriage, if you do,you won't vomit all those trash in her presence.
Once you genuinely love someone, the only thing that will occupy your mind is how to spend the rest of your life living with him/her.
There are better ways of presenting your case to her than sounding childish.

listen I don't have a paying job I'm just hustling I can't promise a gal marriage when I know I'm not ready to get married now. It's not something you rush into and beside even if I have a good paying job I just won't rush into marriage I'm on my 20s this is time I work hard and invest and. Secure a better future. than just jumping into marriage with a gal whom I know if things go side way I will be the one to be blamed I need to build my ground

we all know women age faster than men. Just yesterday my gf said sumtin that she would like to get married 2years from now that she's a gal,she's the only child of her parents,and very soon pressure will come,she said she want to know if she's wasting her time or not ,and I replied her that actually marriage is not sumtin u rush into and that I don't see my self getting married in 2yrs from now .
This are my reason 1 I'm not financially stable,2 I look it as a trap . now our relationship is already going down every seconds so I just want your opinions if I did wrong telling her the truth and I'm happy she asked me

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LifeIsGuhd:


If you have made up your mind, why exactly are you on Nairaland right now?

I hope she's able to see this post and leave you. You're not married to her, you're not obligated to pay her fees or give her money. You did all that out of the abundance of your heart. She saved the money, didn't use it to flex or buy hair... you need a loan and she's there for you.

If you feel bad for giving her the money then you should be blaming yourself for making such decision.

Anyways you're still in school, you have a long way to go. Moreover, I'm 96% sure the lady will not settle down with you.

this gal have been demanding from me have been buying things for her .to cut everything short I think I'm the one who paid her school fees

bigt2:
This is a frivolous matter. Give her another chance, that is an order. Do you know why?
The reason is not far fetched - you were able to break through her resistance, she borrowed you out of her savings out of trust - even after lying.
2. She can help build your future. Just save with her.
This is because you didn't mention her to be a lavish spender o. Take note!

I have spoken.

this are money i gave to her that she save and also some message I sent her maybe market and supermarket and she doesn't bring change that's what she save so its all my money

Prec1ous:


Did you not see that the guy is already spending anyhow when he Is not her father, uncle, brother or husband?

She is a full ass liability who even hides money!

She is a self motivated and conscious liability, the type every man should run from.

exactly I'm not married to her I'm not related to her but I'm already spending for her like I'm her husband

LifeIsGuhd:
She's a liability yet you borrowed money from her?

Maybe I didn't get that correctly.

I mean... whether it is her money or her mother's, you were able to borrow from it. Go to all these loan lending apps and find out how uneasy it is to borrow money.

I though it was her mum money.but after she confess I now know its my own money I borrowed which I'm not paying back

Prec1ous:
You are already staying together.

That girl is not fully keyed in to your future, so that cash is her rainy day buffer. How would you even believe such lie in the first place?

Anyways, I don't think this issue is serious so give her another chance but know that, you will always be the one spending as evident already.

I'm an ND graduate she's just in Nd2 and she live with me in my house in school I think if I give her a second chance it will become worst it seems she's just a liability to me

Have been dating this gal for the past 8months now we live together she's has been hiding a secret from me there's a money on her account which she lied to me for almost 2months that is for her mum we've had issue about this money I suspected it was her money but she always denies that it was money given to her by her mum to hold for her (sorry for my English) she haven't paid her school fees so I insist that I will help her with 30k and she should call her parents to complete the rest .anytime she call her parents they always prospone her that they will give her and at the end they may only send 3k .so I complained to her that why is her mother like this,what kind of a mother will give her child money to hold for her and can't even tell her to use from the money wen the child need money . so just yesterday she said she have something to say to me and DAT pls I shouldn't been angry with her. That's when she's said the money is not for her mother that is for her ,that she was covering up for her mom and now that even her mum she's covering for don't even give her up to 5k .the money that she lied to me about that it was for her mum I borrowed a little amount from it which I told her I will pay back �till she say the truth yesterday and I was very disappointed in her and she's begging me now for second chance does she really deserve it this is a gal I have plans of marrying [color=#006600][/color]