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Some do not have the heart to, and some can not be bothered to.

As an active guy, you are supposed to look out for signs of interest or disinterest from the girl you are seeing. Some guys see disinterest but choose to stay because they want to woo the girl. If you know you cannot be bothered to wait, then after a while of seeing a lack of interest, hapu the girl and move on.

Why did you and your wife decide to have a baby if things are too difficult for you na?

May God help you. I wish you the best.

PhenomenalMorgan:
I guess you skipped the part of the article that talks about how he gave 150k to up to 30 widows...
You guys just always want to criticize Gospel Ministers, nothing more!!

How much was the jet?

Matthew 16:24 - Then said Jesus unto his disciples, "If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me."

Did Jesus say "keep some for yourself"?

Keep deceiving yourself.

Hunter2009:
He deserves it. He is a clergy who despite all gives generously to the less privileged

The money he used to buy this jet, if he donates it to charity, do you know that he would have uplifted thousands of poor and less privileged people?

Matthew 16:24 - Then said Jesus unto his disciples, "If any man will come after me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross, and follow me."

Has this pastor denied himself? Your brainwashing is complete.

Cuziy:
Try Growing up mentally bro.

But is it worth 20k?

Is this thing even worth 20k?

Both sides to this story. The court should do the right thing and dissolve the marriage.

Mekuze2:
Dear Nairalanders,

I was relaxing with my girlfriend wen her phone rang, she picked and was talking to a guy on the phone ND her voice changed to sweet voice dt she doesn't even use to talk to me.. I acted cool, so after the call I asked her who it was on the phone ND she said it's one of her toasters.

When I protested and told her dt I thought we are exclusive...she asked me if we are married.
Please guys what do I do cus I have not gotten myself since yesterday it happened... how do I pay her back Matured minds please

Be a better man.

It's obvious she does not respect you in the slightest. For her to ask you that question simply means she is ready to dump you at a moment's notice, which I am sure you know. Tie belt around your rod, raise your head high and walk out of the relationship.

If you take yourself seriously, you will regain your self-esteem in time and be financially better than you are now. When that time comes, she will come begging. But, for now, just leave her and go improve yourself. Don't let olosho destroy your peace of mind.

Preciousgirl:
There is a story trending of a man captured by the police after a woman he was sexing died

My question for you guys is, should a lady you are sexing dies in the act right in your bed, what will you do?

NB: When you are not married to this lady



Honest replies

It is a difficult situation to face. Some people would even find a way to dispose of the body without being seen.

Even if one panics and rushes the person to the hospital, the illiterate Nigerian Police Force, who don't even know how to conduct investigations properly and discreetly, will say it's the man that killed her.

In cases like this, you're doomed if you do, and you're doomed if you don't.

timmybabyface:
Dear friends

Greetings to you and please pardon my manners if my ways of writing isn’t that perfect!
I met my Gf about 3years ago after my youth service in Nigeria l! she was in law school at that time and things was going on well till I finally found out that she has cheated on me when she traveled back to continue her law school in Abuja, she told me that she thought I wasn’t too serious at that time and that she’s truly sorry I forgive her because I love her and because of the good behavior of her parents towards me. To cut the long story short, I have to travel outside Nigeria about one year and 8month ago to further my studies and things was really going on well between us both before I left, I always try to creat time for her out of my busy academic schedule and I still send her money according to my pocket. When I traveled down to Nigeria to celebrate Christmas with family&friends I ask her if she has ever cheated on me when I was away. She started lying till I have to force her to talk and give her the only bible to swear but she could not do that , she was scared so she told me that she has cheated on me twice, she said the first one was when she visited her friend in Ibadan for her sister wedding and a friend of her came in without her knowledge, that she was drunk and they have sex. She said the second one happened when she went for a job interview in Edo. according to her she said when the the interview was over that she could not go back to Lagos so her male friend log her in an hotel which both of them sleep till morning but nothing happened between them! I don’t believe a man and woman would sleep in an hotel room till morning and nothing happened! I’m a street wise and well oriented so such story is not a welcome story to me . I’m a Nigerian I study and live in the Netherlands
Please my dear friends kindly advise me on what to do, she has been begging me with her mom who is asking me to forgive her and that such would never happen again
Matured advice please! That I will appreciate

Don't be fooled. The same mother that is begging you is the same woman that turned a blind eye when her daughter was cheating.

If you believe that the girl only cheated on you twice, then your name is 'Sorry'.

She likes your money and gifts, but sharing nudes and having fone-zex is not enough to keep most Nigerian girls happy; their body no be firewood.

So, bro, if you like yourself, run! Run as fast as you can, without looking back.

You live and work in the Netherlands, so have some self-esteem. Don't allow one small 9ja olosho to play with your heart like this.

Work on yourself and shoot for white babes.

Remember what I said: run! If not, one day you will move back to Nigeria because of this girl, and when your money finishes, she will vamoose.

To be forewarned is to be forearmed.

Man City, easy na! Small Watford na him una dey beat like this!

So, for six years, he did not have money to buy a lab coat?

Lying will not kill some people.

Deepfeel:
I get the point love is not for everyone, simple

Love Guru Deepfeel. I salute you

Deepfeel:
I called him a coward not really cause of tradition, I called him a coward cause of true love if really he loves that lady he will be man enough to face whatever challenge that comes their way, not by telling her to risk her health with abortion, or backing out like a coward, his a phony the love he had for her was fake,
And please I got no issues

For the umpteenth time, it is folly to expect someone to spend the rest of their life in regret and sadness because of love.

Love is not a death sentence, bruh.

He is no coward.

Sermwell:
you are here ranting about earthquake in China. what of hundreds of Nigerians killed daily by Boko Haram, Fulani herdsmen, armed bandits, bad roads etc.??

It looks like you are planning to sleep on NL.

People like the person you quoted won't see the facts, even if they get naked and start slapping him.

That's complete brainwashing. Just free him.

Donmedra:
I've been studying the idiot, he's a broke fraudster. He's not even a Christian

Studying?

How can you study when common sense seem to elude you?

Does prayer equal Godliness?

You that call yourself a faithful christian is there calling Freeze an idiot.

Deepfeel:
Feeling what just saying it like it is, a typical Nigerian tradition will say its wrong to father a child who's not biologically yours it's a taboo to father a child that's a product of rape, it's wrong to marry outside your tribe it's wrong to marry outside your religion etc typical people enslaved by tradition and religion

I never mentioned prohibitions or tradition.

I just said you can't expect everyone to do such a thing, and that's the truth.

Refusing to raise a child that does belong to someone in no way makes them a coward. That's a fact.

Don't let your issues cloud your view of reality.

Deepfeel:
Lol typical Nigerian enslaved by tradition

Haha. Please, where did get tradition from? You're just grasping at straws now. It looks like your feelings were hurt bad.

Deepfeel:
I know that's why I called him selfish and weak, end of story.

He is neither, bruh. You just have issues.

Deepfeel:
No I haven't raised a child who's not mine before, but I have been raised by a man who isn't my father and he raised me well, this man is a coward he might use the child as an excuse now but even if the lady abort the child and develop complication with her womb the coward will still leave , I hate people who use thier love ones predicament to abandon them, fake people

Throw the word 'coward' around as much as you want, there is still nothing wrong with not wanting to father a child that belongs to someone else. The man who raised you was not your father, but he did it anyway; good for him and you. That's where it ends. Don't expect everyone to be willing to take on what he did.

Apination:
You are obviously mentally incapacitated. Since common sense did not dictate to you that it was a mere opinion and doesn't define what will be, stop quoting me like a moronn

Again, keep quiet.

What you typed, is that an opinion?

Apination:
It was simply a suggestion, you don't have to be stupid in responding to it

C'mon keep quiet.

What you typed, is the one suggestion?

funmisticqueen:
well her mother is the one talkingher into it so yes, let them raise the child.

The decision seems to be based on religion more than anything else.

Nevertheless, expecting the mother to raise that child is asking for too much.

But, I do understand your point.

The OP was right to run. He can't come and kill himself.

Apination:
This is terrible, she should have gone to the hospital but as it stands, that baby has committed no sin to be given the death sentence. You say you love her but this is the time to prove it and you are chickening out, you don't have to be a father to the child if you don't want to but don't force her into a decision she doesn't want to make. When the child comes, she can leave him or her with her parents and you continue with your lives. Don't forsake her at this time when she needs you the most

So, her old parent's should raise her child while she goes about her normal life? Are you well?

There's nothing wrong with refusing to care for a child borne from rape -- and that's if she really was raped.

Love does not mean one should discard their happiness and choose to live the rest of their life in mental torment.

hulk616:
three years ago DC fans were saying marvel is running out of ideas. They never knew we were just starting.
Black panther 2 billion dollars is still coming.
Captain Marvel 2 billion dollars is still coming
Spiderman 2 billion dollars is still coming
Ant-Man 3 billion dollars is still coming
Guardians of the Galaxy 3 billion dollars is still coming

Ant man (2015) - $519 million
Ant man and wasp - $622 million

Spiderman Homecoming - $880 million

Not sure where your billion dollar projections for these two movies came from.

The only reason I did not include Guardians of the galaxy here, even though none of its films had crossed the $900 million mark, is because of the potential that could come from Thor's inclusion.

Just saw Endgame today. A few days late, I know, but I've been busy with work.

In terms of action, I prefer Infinity War; however, Endgame is were everything is fitted together.

No spoilers from me. I enjoyed it and will definitely go see it again when I have time.

Superb movie. It deserves all the success, money, and rave reviews its getting.

If Manchester City like, let it field 11 rugby players to play that match; they will still thrash Man Utd more than 3 - 0.

The team needs an overhaul. The club has money; let them spend on players that have sense.