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Religion / Re: What If Christianity Was A Sham? by nferyn(m): 4:18pm On May 04, 2007 |
Papparassi:For which there is no conclusive evidence either way. Papparassi:This is as likely (or unlikely) as anything else in the Bible Papparassi:You really don't choose to believe, you either do or don't. There are certain things you can do though that will make it more likely that you believe in something, but ultimately, belief doesn't involve choice Papparassi:Is this relevant? |
Crime / Re: Beware Another Yahoo Boy/girl by nferyn(m): 2:34pm On May 03, 2007 |
I just find it funny how stupid they are. the person probably found my IM here on nairaland, didn't even look at who I am and just assumed that I would fall for his/her nonsense A 1 minute search on google exposed him/her for what she/he is. |
Crime / Beware Another Yahoo Boy/girl by nferyn(m): 2:18pm On May 03, 2007 |
Just had someone trying to engage me in a conversation on YIM. just to warn you all to be careful if you come into contact with a certain Sharon David (sharondavid1900 on YIM) I'm usually wary if someone I don't know contacts me, so I was first probing a little Here's the full transcript of our talk (including typo's): Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:20:54): yep, how are you? sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:21:11): huh sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:21:20): why did it take you the whole day to answer? sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:21:24): lol, Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:22:00): a twork Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:22:20): can't have my undivided attention, sorry sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:23:14): ok sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:23:25): its alright then sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:23:28): so how are you doing today? Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:23:50): ok over here Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:23:59): have we talked before? sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:24:20): not at all sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:24:26): so whats ur asl plz? Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:24:56): 34, male, belgium sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:25:25): ok sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:25:39): so what you do for a living? Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:26:18): project management coaching, training and support at the largest Belgian Bank (Fortis) sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:26:47): oh,your a banker? Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:26:53): what about you? Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:26:57): no not a banker Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:27:14): it doesn't exactly go that way over here in Belgium sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:27:14): i am a banker though Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:27:20): ah you are? Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:27:31): ur nigerian I geuss Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:27:39): found my im at nairaland? sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:27:42): yes i am sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:27:47): yeah sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:27:52): you have a problem with that/ Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:28:10): no, should I Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:28:14): Just curious sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:28:16): yeah Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:28:23): at work now? sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:28:36): ok sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:28:45): well,are you married? Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:29:06): yes, 2 kids as well sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:29:29): oh,ok Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:29:59): and you? sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:30:24): well,single Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:30:29): my wife's naija, that's why I'm on nairaland Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:30:43): made a few online friends there Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:30:53): have you been active on nairaland? sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:31:09): yeah sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:31:14): why you ask? Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:31:42): jus like to knoww who I'm talking to Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:31:47): is that strange? Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:32:12): I'm doing 2 things at the same time so there may be a delay in my resonse sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:33:26): ok Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:33:31): under what username are you active on nairaland? sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:33:55): sorry i can't give that out, Okay sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:34:00): bye Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:34:30): why not? sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:34:50): cos your a fool for life sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:34:55): lol sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:34:57): sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:35:05): your ? Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:35:24): I just don't get your reaction Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:35:59): If you see my profile on nairaland, you'll see I'm an open book sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:36:36): thats you, Okay sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:36:47): and you don't expect everyone to be like you either Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:36:49): haven't seen it before? Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:37:03): what do you mean? Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:37:38): You started this conversation sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:37:59): ok sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:38:02): bye sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:38:04): atleast,am ending it sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:38:12): bye At that moment I was curious as to why he/she broke off the conversation so abruptly, so I quickly googled sharondavid1900 And look what I found: http://www.urgentmessage.org/highlyconfidential/_l54510.html After that I quickly wrote another IM to sharondavid1900 Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:45:38): seems you're into 419 dear Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:45:47): have to report you to yahoo Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:46:07): have to find another email address Then waiting for a reply which promptly came: sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:46:26): YOUR FATHER THERE sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:46:38): YOU ARE VERY STUPID FOR SAYING THAT (all of that was in a very large font) So I copied the page I just found (only too the first part): Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:46:40): =0D Greetings to you,=0D =0D =0D This letter must come to you as a big surprise, but I believe it is only = a day that people meet and become great friends and business partners.My = name is MRS.SHARON DAVID, the present branch Manager of a bank here in Ni= geria West Africa. I write you this proposal in good faith, believing tha= t I can trust you with the information I am about to reveal to you. LikeI= said, I have a transaction that will benefit both of us, as your assista= nce is required as a foreigner.=0D =0D =0D I use to head the Accounts department in my bank head office, but last De= cember I was asked to take position of a Manager of our branch in Lagos w= ho passed on,so that was how I became the present Manager and discovered = a fortune. As I resumed duty, I di And another pleasant rejoinder from sharondavid1900: sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:46:41): ASSHOLE sharondavid1900 (3/05/2007 14:46:45): CRIMINAL LIKE YOU Niek Feryn (3/05/2007 14:46:53): classic advanced fee fraud 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Respecting Religions by nferyn(m): 12:21pm On May 03, 2007 |
Seun:It is. In Christianity the same concept goes by another label though, faith. Maybe our Christian friends could explain an atheist ignoramus how exactly Christian faith differs from Muslim submission, except in their different degrees of irrationality? |
Religion / Re: Respecting Religions by nferyn(m): 12:17pm On May 03, 2007 |
stimulus:The test of superior ethics you mean? I have no doubt you can find many unethical jerks among the non-theists. What you should look at however is the overall ethical behaviour of atheists vis-a-vis theists on a proportional basis. I don't think athiest would come out that bad. As a matter of fact, if you would take imprisonment figures as a basis, they come out as far more ethical (or maybe they're just smarter not to get caught) stimulus:They are both pretty intolerant towards non believers. If you would go to the organisational counterweight among the non-believers as represented by different secular-humanist organisations, that would imply a far superior ethical stance. I'll take e.g. the works of Peter Singer over any of the religious books at any time. |
Religion / Re: Respecting Religions by nferyn(m): 10:57am On May 03, 2007 |
stimulus:Probably kill me, just as the average pre-enlightenment Christian would have done. During that era I wouldn't have come out as an atheist anyway out of fear for my life. stimulus:With the current crop of Christians it's only that, yes (the dominionists notwithstanding though). We are progressing morally, aren't we stimulus:Talking about the persecutions of Stalin and the like are you not? Pray tell me, was it their atheism that motivated them? stimulus:I don't follow you here. What exactly is your point? |
Religion / Re: Respecting Religions by nferyn(m): 8:29am On May 03, 2007 |
davidylan:Actually, both the Bible and the Qu'ran are far worse when it comes to atheist. What is somebody like me supposed to? Show respect for those that in their holy scritures never fail to insult me? |
Religion / Re: Respecting Religions by nferyn(m): 5:58am On May 03, 2007 |
davidylan:I know Islam is far more extreme in that matter, but Christians shouldn't get a free pas either. The anti-intellectualism in the Bible is staggering. (edited after posting) |
Religion / Re: Respecting Religions by nferyn(m): 11:22pm On May 02, 2007 |
Why does a religion, any religion for that matter, deserve respect? they deserve to be tolerated, but respected, no. Let's put it that way: your religion deserves respect in as much as your opinion that your children are exceptionally intelligent and your spouse is shockingly good looking deserves respect. Common sense dictates that people should not go out of their way to offend people, but never, ever should anyone hold back his or her mind just to prevent hurting someone else's religious feelings. |
Romance / Re: Interracial Dating by nferyn(m): 3:55pm On May 02, 2007 |
JustGood:On what basis? |
Religion / Re: The Truth About Existence by nferyn(m): 8:08am On May 01, 2007 |
Jen33:The only evidence you've presented is the overwhelming evidence for the existence of NDE's, not for the survival of the consciousness. I know you like to equate the two, but they're not the same. You're not allowed to define things into existence. Jen33:1. I really wouldn't need to present evidence, as it's your case to make, but, contrary to what you say, those two references come from published, peer reviewed research in reputable publications. You only seem to be able to find references to journals like the Journal of the American Society for Psychical Research 2. Susan Blackmore's arguments were not destroyed at all. The critique by Greg Stone was full of logical, methodological and epistemological errors. He constantly falls in the trap of the most common logical phalacy, namely assuming the consequent, something you seem to have a knack for yourself. Jen33:Assuming the consequent, that's what I was talking about, wasn't I? Jen33:Clearly you rants against religion are empty, as you dare not apply the same rigorous dissection of your own belief system, but who should be surprised, it's like watching Muslims and Christians in a catfight. Jen33:Have you ever wondered how closely your line of reasoning mimics that of the Christians you so much like to criticise? |
Nairaland / General / Re: Davidylan by nferyn(m): 7:37am On May 01, 2007 |
spoilt:They've already been erased from our collective consciousness, or to put it more prosaically, their posts have been deleted. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Davidylan by nferyn(m): 12:20am On May 01, 2007 |
I'm going to start in my usual 'quoting' mode, but I think that goodguy's contribution is worth it. goodguy:I would definitely not ascribe all people leaving to Seun's actions, although he did contribute to the fact that many of them did leave. goodguy:By no means is he solely responsible. He probably did much steering behind the screen to ensure that the forum didn't descend it total anarchy goodguy:Maybe, but things like changing usernames (e.g. DaHitler) to punish offenders isn't really the way to best administer the forum. goodguy:No doubt, and he deserves our admiration for that. What is less admiring though is the capricious manner in which he sometimes uses his administrative powers. While there are understandable mistakes, the least you could expect in such a case is an apology for such a slip. I have no doubt that most of these administrative actions are well deserved, but the saying goes that from whom much is given, much is is expected. goodguy:It's not about the understandable slips in judgement, but about the way they are dealt with afterwards. goodguy:An 'automatic' email when such a thing occurs would go a long way. There is a downward tendency visible lately regarding the quality of the posts, maybe more editing has become necessary now goodguy:I get your point, we all take questionable actions at one time or another, but then again, that doesn't only apply to the simple users, does it? goodguy:You are absolutely right here. Very few people are capable of accomplishing what Seun has with this forum and anyone demeaning him for such trivial reasons is a jack-ass. goodguy:I didn't even know that was the case and nobody would ever know from his write-ups. He's witty and intellectually stimulating. goodguy:Yes, but all the ones I spoke to were pretty clear about what caused them to leave, and it isn't the natural flow of things. goodguy:Is it hurricane Eve, you're referring to? goodguy:No doubt, but usually, their passing is only temporary goodguy:Your point? goodguy:There's no shame in being ignorant, we all were at some time and we all are regarding most things. There's plenty of shame though in empty intellectual grandstanding. People messing up interesting threads with vacuous opinions and actually proudly wearing their badges of ignorance is a real turn-off to me. goodguy:Good to finish on a positive note. I - almost - agree with you Seun, I truly appreciate your efforts in creating Nairaland, if only you could listen to some friendly advice once in a while as well, that would make it even better. |
Religion / Re: Infidel By Ayaan Hirsi Ali by nferyn(m): 8:27pm On Apr 30, 2007 |
pilgrim.1:They can't fault her work, yet they still consider her to be game during hunting season. How can anyone ever liver with him/herself following such a way of thinking. pilgrim.1:Actually, the murderer was arrested and convicted. Luckily the Netherlands doesn't follow sharia. It makes me understand the passive tolerance of the muslims in Europe regarding the Jihadists in their midst. What they don't seem to realise is that this attitude is going to come back to them with a vengeance. Europe has reached a point in it's history where it embraces liberal democracy as one of it's one of it's core values. If the radical muslims in Europe don't change their tune, Europe may very well slip back into it's old habits. I dread the moment where there would be a real confrontation, because there is no way the muslims could hold back the European beast once it's unleashed. It took us Europeans two very bloody world wars to come to our senses. pilgrim.1:Absolutely unbelievable. Islam is even far worse than Christianity in that regard. pilgrim.1:Damned if you don't , damned if you do. There's no way to escape this dilemma of intellectual dishonesty. pilgrim.1:I'm eagerly waiting. |
Religion / Re: Infidel By Ayaan Hirsi Ali by nferyn(m): 7:17pm On Apr 30, 2007 |
What baffled me were the completely disproportionate reactions to her film Submission. The director of the film Theo Van Gogh got shot, stabbed several times. After the last stab, the killer left a note with a death threat to Hirsi Ali stabbed to his chest. All of this happened in broad daylight in the 'liberal' Amsterdam. And then hardly any Muslim came out to condemn the murder. Why don't the muslims go out to fight the lunatics in their midst instead of preaching that Islam is a religion of peace. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Davidylan by nferyn(m): 6:02pm On Apr 30, 2007 |
There's another troll. Why don't you try to find a rock to crawl under? |
Religion / Re: Infidel By Ayaan Hirsi Ali by nferyn(m): 5:54pm On Apr 30, 2007 |
What do you think about the fact that she clearly states that the subservient role of women in Islam is ordained by the prophet and that the abuse those women receive are part and parcel of Islam. |
Religion / Re: What If Christianity Was A Sham? by nferyn(m): 5:50pm On Apr 30, 2007 |
GeeCee:What if the God you find isn't yours but e.g. Ra (unless of course you do believe in Ra )? |
Religion / Re: What If Christianity Was A Sham? by nferyn(m): 5:48pm On Apr 30, 2007 |
sisimose:You have exactly the same attitude as my wife to these things. Much respect. As for me, I despise proselitism and the normalisation of religious faith as if the non-religious are some kind of freaks. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Davidylan by nferyn(m): 5:41pm On Apr 30, 2007 |
sisimose:You may be right. What I find most sad is that the sense of community is really gone and there are only a few people left with whom to have a challenging discussion. It's like in the beginning (I'm thinking about 2005 here) we all chatted among each other. Once Seun cut off the message functionalty, that initial spirit was gone. Shame you weren't here during that time. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Davidylan by nferyn(m): 5:06pm On Apr 30, 2007 |
dayokanu:The problem right now is that those teens are messing up serious discussions with their brain dead interjections. Maybe some people should pass an IQ test before posting in certain subforums |
Religion / Infidel By Ayaan Hirsi Ali by nferyn(m): 4:42pm On Apr 30, 2007 |
has anyone read Infidel [/i]by[i] Ayaan hirsi Ali. I'm especially interested in the reactions and observations of the nairaland muslims. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Davidylan by nferyn(m): 4:36pm On Apr 30, 2007 |
Bolarge:You're bang on with that observation. When I just joined (august 05), this forum was the most invigorating thing I encountered on line (and I've been on the net for about 14 years), now it's just one of the many places where teenage kids run the show. There's hardly any more depth to the subjects and most of the interesting people have gone. You don't find people like like Ijebuman, Cinani, layi or Vexxy anymore on nairaland. Either they left in disgust or have been banned by the postmaster supreme, the yielder of the big stick. I wouldn't say that it's all Seun's fault, some of it was bound to happen, but his capricious actions certainly didn't help things either |
Nairaland / General / Re: Pictures of My Children: Tom & Aicha by nferyn(m): 2:51pm On Apr 30, 2007 |
spoilt:Yeah right, I guess that's why you put a Lara Croft picture in your profile I'm just guessing, but it probably doesn't have anything to do with a need for revamping. |
Nairaland / General / Re: Pictures of My Children: Tom & Aicha by nferyn(m): 2:49pm On Apr 30, 2007 |
And this one's a few weeks old
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Nairaland / General / Re: Pictures of My Children: Tom & Aicha by nferyn(m): 2:47pm On Apr 30, 2007 |
Here are 2 more recent pictures. This one's from yesterday.
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Religion / Re: The Truth About Existence by nferyn(m): 1:18pm On Apr 30, 2007 |
Jen33:There is no incidence of any of these experiences to include information they couldn't have come up withBecause their mental modes include those entities to start with.Not always. Some experiencers have reported meeting relatives they'd NEVER MET on earth, such as great grandfathers, great aunts etc etc. Only to return to this life and have their identities confirmed by other relatives. Jen33:How credulous can one be? through suggestive interviewing techniques. Ever hear of the so-called satanic abuses psychiatrists uncovered or the alien abduction stories. You might want to read the Demon Haunted World by Carl Sagan, it will go a long way of peeling the shells of credulity from your eyes. Jen33:Playing semantic games, are we? Apart from the stories, there is no independent confirmation of the truth of these experiences, while the hunger is real in many different senses. If you stop eating, you will die. Jen33:Defining things into existence, are we? Where's the evidence of these realities? Jen33:Exactly, and atheists don't give any divine interpretation to that 'being of light' when they undergo a NDE. What does that tell you? Jen33:Something that can be invoked by administering ketamine. Do learn a little bit about the working of the brain before you draw unwarranted conclusions. Maybe you can read some Pinker. Jen33:Lying, no, because they don't have the intention to deceive. Making things up, definitely. Jen33:Because they did have some profound experience and without the mental mode whereby the self is in control over it's body as far as the senses is concerned, they interprete that experience using their existing memeplexes. Besides, why is not really a relevant question, because they're no ultimate reason for that experience Jen33:Yes, but I know that's the wrong question to ask. Jen33:Pot, kettle anyone? Jen33:Personal incredulity is the answer, then? Maybe, you can read up on the works of Susan Blackmore, who investigated NDE's scientifically, very much in opposition to the 'believers'.If you go through such an experience, it will affect you, regardless of what the ultimate cause of the experience is. Maybe we should all go through such an experience, if only to rid ourselves from the shackles of religionOh of course it wll 'affect' you - but WHY in the manner it does them? WHY does the experience engender greater spirituality for instance, or end the fear of death? I would think it takes FAR MORE than some random chemical reaction to induce such radical, near - uniform, and apparently permanent personality alterations. Jen33:Once more, I don't deny their experiences, I question the explanations given to them. If their realities are anything more than a result of their brainstates, then there also must be some supporting evidence thereof from different sources. There is none.Prove? Why? My explanation is far more parsimonious than yours, thus it is objectively more credible.It takes the most astounding arrogance to arrogate to yourself an ''explanation'' that flies in the face of the reported experiences of millions of people, even more unforgivable to relegate their accounts to the status of mere tales lacking in 'objectivity'. If LSD can make one hallucinate, why wouldn't a profound altering of the brain states, caused by a NDE not be able to do the same thing? You just bring in unevidenced entities without any sound reason. Jen33:OK, why don't you bring your first piece of undeniable evidence for that spirit world and I will start listening. There's nothing illogical in my approach. You assume that the universe owes you meaning and presuppose it in those NDE's, rejecting a merely materialistic explanation of the same phenomenon on emotional grounds, because it lacks 'meaning'.The universe doesn't owe us meaning or an explantion. It's not because you have an emotional need for meaning that there is ultimate meaning. Jen33:It's merely faith, i.e. belief without evidence. it's no better than the explanations from the religious creed. You're tied up in naive essentialism. Jen33:Argumentam ad populum. Try again. And do read the research of Susan Blackmore, she did have such an experience but didn't jump to unwarranted conclusions. Jen33:Is it now? Maybe you can start a new branch of philosophy, using imaginary logic as wellAll experiences are merely chemically induced hallucinations, all of them. Some however have more resemblance to reality than others and that resemblance has nothing to do with how real they feel, but rather with the context of these experiences.Ok, I know what you're driving at here. All matter is illusion as all we're doing is interpretating electro-magnetic waves which appear to us as 'solid' objects. Jen33:So, and? Jen33:But, contrary to my paradigms, yours are completely unfalisfiable and scientifically utterly useless Jen33:Where's the evidence, my dear, the evidence? |
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