₦airaland Forum

I am not surprised.

Politicians from South west regions are shameless guys. From their King's to elected men and women are into one nonsense drug issue or the other.

Sonnobax15:

How.many times will this tragic news hit Nairaland FP today?

Rip to her.

Because she is not ur sister that is why.

tundegan:
Tinubu is a master strategist. He will turn this around and come out stronger.

U should be tired by now.
Master strategist that cant revive the economy.

U should be ashamed of ur yourself.

Argentine President is a man in his 40,s or less,but he took inflation from above 200% to 3.5% under two years of being elected.

U are here still wishing for a sick man to turn things around for u. It takes a healthy President to turn around the economy.

I pity u and the future of many who still sing the song of failures.

The acclaimed lagos builder is busy damaging souls.

Better future from where?

When people have started committing suicide in their record numbers.

Mothers picking spoilt food in refuse bins and children following their footsteps.

We can't have a one party state and that alone would consume APC.

Nothing last forever.

Ynix:
keep it away. Go to your banks and change your phone numbers

After changing his number hope u will help him to change his BVN and even NIN at Credit Bureau.

The billionaire is talking and some people are still doubting him.

This new age requires hand work over degree except u are studying a STEM courses.

Hmm they are tired and weakened like drained abokis.

The money is meant for those signing petitions and nothing more...

My happiness is that,he is always crying everyday.

Today he attacked Peter,Atiku and Fubara.

A loser...crying everyday.

Wike is a thief.

U labelled a governor an illiterate governor all because he refused to bow to u.

Who brought the illiterate govt ?

What was ur mission in bringing up an illiterate in the first place?

Does it mean u brought him to be governor so that u can siphon the state ?

Hmm...this man has no shame honestly.

Same thing Oshiohmole said about Obaseki.

Shadomaan7:
The OP is just bitter about life.

How?...someone saw the future and foretold u and yet u called him all sorts of names and today,every everything he said has come to past.

It means u haven't learned anything from his warning.

Bebigiby1:
All of you leaving negative memes and comments will surely regret your utterances within the next 4 years. You and your families will bear the brunt of continuation of APC's disastrous economic policies. I can see that many of you replying to my post are Yorubas and you think abusing igbos, supporting Tinubu will favour you because he is your "brother" (Typical Nigerian sentiments).... It is unfortunate that many Nigerian youths are hopelessly and helplessly tribalistic especially on political issues. Tinubu will only serve the interest of the foreign powers (USA, UK, France et al) and the Nigerian political elites that helped him to secure power. He has no moral burden to serve Nigerians since he didn't win the people's mandate. Ask the average Hausa or Fulani man in your neighbourhood what he thinks of Buhari's government and it is the same feeling like any other Nigerian facing the economic realities of his government. They didn't benefit and infact many of them today regret supporting his campaign in 2015. It will not be surprising that by this time next year some of you here screaming "ipob wailers" and "obi-diots" will be the ones crying and lamenting over Tinubu by the time he begins to dish out his evil policies. As I said in previous post, Nigeria needs a foundational restructuring that will usher in a decentralized system of government so that peace, equity and justice will reign. We can't make any progress with the current system of government that only favours a few powerful people. We are only wasting our time and pretending.... Nigeria's current democracy is a scam.....

Ur predictions were absolutely topnotch...many have started committing suicide already and some are frustrated now than before.

MisterBanny:
Don't mind them. Let them continue to wail. They will wail for the next 16years at least because Shettima is sure to take over the saddle after TInubu's tenure elapses in 2031

How is life with u...?

U can see where ur Tinubu has left u?

tundegan:
Wike is a man of honor. He will speak when he needs to speak.

Rivers people will always feel his presence even in silence.

This was how u guys allowed a drug lord to govern u guys before it became clear that he was an empty can.

One man has fought the four former governors in river state.

Just one man.
Useless presence.

After Tinubu this guy go hear am.

This shout is just for the moment.

As a politician,u don't talk irrationally and stupidly...I remembered when Dino left PDP and said so many unprintable things against Jonathan...what happen next?

He later begged and regretted leaving PDP...today how far. DINO is now in the past.

Same fate await this loud mouth.

Those politicians who talk too much tend to lose relevance faster than those who talk less...

yyba:
Very true, the people that are milking FUBARA knew he doesn't know anything about governernce and the law.

Yet he Wike brought him to be governor.

Shame on u and shame to Wike.

Nonsense talk.

The honey moon has ended.

Almost every country including the US is calling for a stronger border.

Those guys made mistakes...u can't be following politicians blindly.

Yes,wike bought forms for u but not with his personal money,so why should u follow him blindly.

Now,u are a state law maker without a portfolio.

I can't be loyal to one man but the people u are meant to serving.

The hardship is spreading like wild fire...every where u go and any where u look. It is starting,but I hope the strong shall survived.

I really don't wish anyone bad these days. But don't be proud that u voted for a former drug lord. Don't ever be proud of it one bit.

The consequences is what everyone is going through...but to be honest,the north and the west is the hardest hit. From the complaints that comes from both regions,u will know how bad it is over there especially in Yoruba land.

Balancing:
Hello Nairalanders,

I need advice because I'm not sure if I'm being selfish or if my wife is acting unreasonable and out of line.

I've been married to my wife for about two years now, and we have a son. We're currently planning to relocate, and by God's grace, we should be out of this country in a couple of months.

My wife and I have discussed severally even before marriage about her getting cosmetic surgery after we finishe having all our children, which I’ve always felt is a nice idea. I've always mentioned that it should happen later, after she's done giving birth. Recently, she brought up the possibility of getting the surgery done sooner, and I thought she was joking. However, she kept repeating it and then I playfully said she could go ahead if she had the money, I didn't think she was serious and if even if she was , I didn’t think it was something that would be up to 3M( pardon my ignorance)

However, she brought it up again three weeks ago, and I realized she was serious. When I asked how much it would cost, she told me it was 8 million naira. I was shocked cause it was even way more than I expected. Now, My wife is a businesswoman, and while her business is doing well, I feel she can afford the surgery but it's really going to eat probably 90% of her savings.

She knows I have savings of about 25 million naira, which I've been accumulating for years for our relocation. Also, recently, I’ve spent around 5 million on processing the move, and I intend to use the remaining funds for travel expenses(flight,e.t.c) rent, food, and living costs for about 6 to 8 months in the country (it's a cheap European country) of which she is very aware cause I have informed her severally about.


I was shocked when she suggested I take some of my savings to help fund the surgery, asking for around 2 to 4 million naira. I found this request annoying and unreasonable. Although she didn't ask directly, but where does she expect me to get that kind of money if not from the savings?

To me, her body is still in good shape, although not as great as it used to be but I understand it was caused by child birth and I feel she is better than most ladies/ mother of one in terms of body shape( even though she feels the boobs aren’t firm anymore and the stomach isn’t flat anymore but I’m not complaining and it’s okay to me, she’s still very attractive to me ) , while I understand her desire for improvement, I think it should wait until we’re more financially stable. We should be focusing on investing and accumulating wealth, not spending on what I see as a luxury. Now, she's a matured lady as that was one of the reason I married her. We are both in our 30s also. So I really do not understand why this sudden frenzy about body work. Worst off, she doesn’t seem to have a sensible reason for wanting to do it now. All she says just doesn’t make sense cause the only thing I can grab from everything she’s said was she wants to look better and with the way Nigeria is going , it’s going to be way expensive in coming years.

Additionally, I feel it was unfair for her to bring this up suddenly, especially since she didn’t communicate this desire early enough. If she had, I might have been able to save up some money for her. Instead, it feels like she’s trying to make me touch the savings without saying it directly, which I feel is very disappointing.

I have told her point blank that I cant touch that savings and even if I want to give her something it won’t be substantial cause I really don’t see the necessity of the surgery at this time and it's coming very impromptu . Not wanting to sound like an unsupportive husband, I told her I can give her something but I don’t know how much yet. She asked for the range and I told her I'm not sure but it can't more than 800k and she said okay, but I know she’s unhappy with that amount.

Since our discussion, she's been trying to act like everything is fine but I know deep down she's angry cause she's been giving some kind of silent treatment which she knows I hate. Thinking about the issue just spoils my mood and makes me angry, no matter how hard I try to think about it, I feel even madder for even wanting to give her something as much as 800k cause i don’t feel happy about it and I'm sure she even feels it’s too small( which is what makes me angry cause I’m squeezing an unplanned 800k and she feels it’s way too to small or equal to me not giving her anything)

So, what do you guys think? Am I being unreasonable? Feel like I should discuss with someone but we have agreed not to discuss stuffs with third party that’s why I’m coming here to do this anonymously

I know if I try to discuss with her to ask if she’s acting this way because of how our last discussion ended, she’ll deny that it’s not it and nothing is wrong.

I apologize for the lengthy post, but I'm open to questions or clarifications.

Thank you for your advice.

Pray nothing happens to her...I feel both of u are not have hearts to think that u will allow ur wide to sit down and someone would cut her open just to make her breast firm is even shocking.

Oga,are u sure u want to travel or u want ur wife dead or sick as a result of such dangerous surgery that requires renewal often ?

Be careful.

Confirmedzombie:
Since Ipob flooded Abuja cos of hate for Wike.

So many bad things kept happening in Abuja.

Imagine wasting the life of this beautiful lady.

May Allah comfort her entire family and grant them the Fortitude to bear this irreparable loss

This is how u will use ur mouth to self confess yourself into prison.

He who controls his tongue,spares his own life.

I am very sure it's one chance people.

They are all over Abuja.

Mad people.

Consoling themselves in poverty.

LegendHero:
Peter Obi will never be president.

Hope ur parents are aware of this ur misbehaviour online.

Nigeria is sure to be 10% out of it.

Courtesy of Buhari and Tinubu wastages and mis-governance.

I lived in Lagos when he was governor...he failed then and he has already failed this time.

It is only fools that are still fooling thinking a man who is unhealthy would make the healthy strong.

A man whose life is full of filth.

Fatbam005:
Huñger has given ronus new walking shape. They now limp while they walk

Especially those girls doing abortion here and there.

The rate at which this menace has increased lately is beyond comprehension and one minister would say he has performed.

Noise makers everywhere.

A lady that narrated her story lately at Brekete entered one chance twice in two weeks in the same Abuja.

They almost killed her.

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