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Sexual urge is a natural thing but hw we handle it is a different ting. To avoid always being in d mood or feeling. Just put ur mind off it.
Personally, I handle it by engaging my mind nd tot wit reading, reading of interesting books.
Avoid phone intimacy or sexual chats.

Many are d afflictions of d righteous but d lord delivers dem from dem all. Ur breakthrough is on d way.
Still be persistence, don't despair.
U will over some

Also d nigga fortifies himself!

obasiken:
Sahara Reporters can just wake up and say what ever they like. Is this a quote or statement ? Tomorrow they will deny this. Dasuki said dis dasuki said that. I smell propaganda.

U must b living in anoda if u don't blive dat there s no smoke witout fire! Wake up

1. For whatever reason, the best people have all failed
Just because you’re a good person doesn’t mean things always work out for you the way you’ve planned. It’s good to remind yourself that: “At 23, JK Rowling was broke. Tina Fey was working at the Y.M.C.A., Oprah had just gotten fired from her first job as a TV reporter and Walt Disney had declared bankruptcy.”
With failure comes baggage. That doesn’t make someone a bad person. It doesn’t make them undateable. It just makes them human.
2. ‘Baggage’ makes people better
Where would you be without the hard things that have happened to you? A divorce, a trauma, a severe setback from the life path you thought you were going to take — none of these things are fun to go through, but they make us stronger people. We are more adept at navigating life and more resilient people exactly because of what we’ve been through.
3. People without baggage just haven’t been tested yet
Anyone who’s tried for something difficult to achieve has failed. Try and fail hard enough and you’ll end up with some kind of baggage. If you’re looking for someone to date, someone who might whether good and bad times with you, you don’t want to choose someone who’s never had to face a hardship before, you want to choose someone sturdier — someone you know will rise to the challenge.
4. They are better at showing you love when you need it most
Some people can be heartless or self-centered when those around them experience trauma. People with baggage are empathetic when others struggle because they have struggled. They know that failure, hurt, and loss are an unavoidable part of life and they will help you get through it — because they’ve navigated these waters before.
5. They know what they want
Dating someone who has been married before, for instance, means dating someone who knows what they want. They know what they are not willing to put up with and which “deal-breakers” are simply minutiae when it comes to something as big as a marriage. They are educated by experience and won’t waste your time.
6. Girls with ‘baggage’ are the opposite of people with ‘drama’
When life gets tough you realize exactly how insignificant little dramatic squabbles are and how much you don’t care about them. Your loved ones are alive? Your relationship is working? You have a roof over your head? Great. That’s really all that matters to a girl who’s been through something tough.
7. She will love and accept you for who you are
Just like she doesn’t have time for drama, the girl with baggage doesn’t have time to worry about someone else’s superficial flaws. They aren’t the girl chasing random guys anymore. They are mature and they will judge you by your substance, not your stature.

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queenoflafia:
Nothing is health nowadays

nothing is HEALTHY u mean?

misspicy:
seriously which kind of reasoning some guys get sef

How does having sex corrolate with material or financial things

Do you mean you exchange sex with money?
because its only prostititutes i know that sells their body in exchange for money

not exchange sex for money. its abt a lady saying no sex b4 marriage but she still expect u to be helping her financially.

saasala:
A girl doesnt want to have sex with you, you invite her to your house, she comes, you try to make move, she denies you, you invite her another day, she comes, you make move, she denies you, you invite her again, she comes.....WHY THE HELL IS SHE COMING?

she does not come around. she just said it should be a pure no-sex, less visits relationship.

Looks lik d guy is an intolerable type. I wound nt want to pass judgement. Ve u asked y has kept deleting u each time? Ds attitude s usually associated wit ppl dat met online.
Apart from deleting from social ntwk, does he exhibit any other negative traits?
If no, then tink abt it

Most times I hear ladies say no sex b4 marriage. Its fine. I support dat but wat surprises me is when she still expects u, d guy to be giving her money, gifts, recharge cards etc in d name of caring.
can no sex b4 marriage be witout money or gifts given out?.

I don't need to read the trash, d nonsensical sh*t comin out from Fayose because of the following:

1) Its coming from d mouth of a tout.
2) His party, PDP must benefited from d stolen money.
3) The accused thief Dasuki must made to answer questions.
4) Fayose is an alleged thief.
5) Alleged thief defending accused thief.

Difficult to answer! If I change religion because of her then she has bcom my lord!

If Dasuki fails to roast in jail then I will set ds country ablaze.

11) they are in all the social network- badoo, 2go, eskimi, etc.

12) They change their profile pix every minute.

Cherlene:
Good morning

How are you?
Super WRITE-UP.

Cherlene

Big commendation to u! Nice profile

it must b quite a hard time. I feel ur pains. Its nt easy. All u need to do is more prayers, u can search for jobs online, it may nt b so easy bt I knw there many job sites u can search nd register for jobs, God wil help u Madam.
I must commend u for standing by ur man despite d challenges.
Its well Madam!

Closed

vooks:
Am asking why do you think paying dowry is marriage?

WHY?

Tradition demands payment of dowry!

If u had written ur complain in english language I would ve understood u.
Anyway, for my advice on dat monster, its simple, get guys nd kill d nigga.
We had sadist lik dat during my days nd we dd nt allow dem survive.
If u no get mind no try ds.

Which is the best of these mobile browsers? Especially for blackberry phone.

vooks:
Why would dowry suffice? Do you mean absence of dowry means no marriage

I mean once u pay d dowry u r traditionally married to d girl. And dats wat I tink is marriage

Freewoman:
You see ur life, after talking with you, you still come here to complain abi?, ok , go ahead and tell all that cares

Come bck to me babe! U knw I luv u bt lik material tins

I commend d bold step u took to voice wat u want. Hope u r nt desperate. D biggest problems u ladies have s dat u r nt ready yet. After posting this wit ur bumber, I bet u gud guys will call u nd will nt respond well because its either u lookin for d guys wit d deepest pocket or u ladies ve some issues wit ur attitude.

Atimes I think dat doing white wedding is just an optional ceremony. My take on marriage is: pay the lady's dowry nd u r a married man or both of u r married.

Is dat ur size. Am sure u lik doggy.

I luv ds forum. It has really helped to inform and educate most ppl especially the younger generation of this country and even those outside d shores of ds country. Here is d story:
I met a girl on this forum as she posted dat she needed a matured God-fearing man as a husband. Afta exchanging contacts, we startd chatting and talking on the phone. She looked ok. She told me dat she wishes to settle down b4 d end of 2016 which coincides wit my target. But her questions ds days makes me think she s not serious.
Here r some of her questions: do u ve a car? Hw many cars do ve? Hw big is ur apartment? Hw fat is ur salary? Wia do want us to spend d honeymoon? Etc
My question nw is is she be a gold-digger under the guise of a husband seeker? I need ur answers pls