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octagon

Thanks Max  but its a she what do i call her 

Elisha

John the apostle or John the baptist

april to september 2005, when the world seemed to stand still for me

when was the last time you used the F-word on someone

profane

Zahy-US

am i supposed to remember that?

when was the last time someone used the F-word on you

procaine

furnace

someone just called me a nerd and a scum bag 

swisslady have you seen this? more advice and diverse opinion for you there

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-16.96.html

_{at least say thank you for my research}

blackbeauty

the deep blue sea _{the sea would part but the devil wont budge}

David or Solomon _{ancient kings}

Clothes. I dont do jewelries

Lagos or Johannesburg

Movies

tea or coffee

@ope_emi, you have a point but also don't forget that everybody needs love, everybody needs a shoulder to lean on, shes in her 40s haba, allow the woman some male comfort and company now and wish her well please  

As for me i don't qualify for your vacancy so i wish you all the best in your search  

interesting 

and what have you contributed to that country of yours aside hump another woman's husband? your country? which country? you seem to have some form of identity problem, maybe you should reread your first post.

well remain on the same level or whatever you call it, and remain in the same bed with your married man.

so much for someone who wants to do the right thing 

MouthAction

missionary or doggie

a little rough sometimes but im sure you'll love it

tpbm loves Myke 4 eva  

just brushing my teeth getting ready for breakfast

tpbm is young, hot and sexy

yes sir 

blacknbold,from the s**m bag and nerd of Nairaland; sorry if i jolted your boat too much _{i only meant to rock it a little}    (and i meant it) if my words came out like i condemned you i didnt mean it so.

hey 2C, i confess i can do with that warm hug of yours again.
I confess ive been dreaming about it since the last time

my brother you no like the post? abegi leave my oyinbo out of this o, she got enough to think about 

Zee baby i am speechless  your unflinching support for me touches my heart.

If i decide to run for a political post in future _{(God forbid)} you'll be my campaign manager and Kola will be my,erhm  "chief guard and royal a*skisser" 

blacknbold:
Just read your statement , where in the message I posted did it read I was seeking approval , are you so low in standard and just jump into conclusion like you are what ……,  or you just don’t understand English I can send you a TOEFUL course pack.

Actually its called TOEFL not TOEFUL, youre writing it as youre pronouncing it  by the way i don't think i will be needing your pack, i have excellent grades in both TOEFL and IELTS if you know what that is. I have been a master of words before you started to learn to speak.

As per your response, i can see you prefer the gentle words and the kid gloves. Since i am not in the mood to give you that because in my opinion that is not what you need, in my opinion even though you didnt say its your motive is to seek quietude and "absolution" as i have written in my afore posts, so since it didnt go down well with you because it touched you at the very root of your malady, id just stop.

A scum bag? a nerd? me? ha ha ha 

change the name nicetohave? you wont accept it now but if i happen into your life you'd be too glad your obssession for me will drive me nuts 

you asked for advise, and you have practically responded to everyone based on your state of mind and tried to explain away/justify everything youve done so far and yet you said you are not seeking approval? well as i said, sawrie o from this scum bag who doesnt do scum like you.

And point of note i am not better than you and youre right everyone have got their issue but something separates us; even though i do wrong and i receive both gentle and harsh words on it as they both will come, i dont explain away my fault and lash back at my "advisors". Thats what separates us. Thats what matters: your attitude to your action. ever wondered what God requires? a broken and a contrite spirit, not a sinful and conceited spirit.

I have said the prayer for you before i read your post declining it. You'll find the strength to do what is right, somehow.

"Mo ka nle"

whitesox

as at today, we're the best team in the world and we shall reign forever!

Akolawole:
Ok, now the statistics shows that American based Nigerians supports Gay/Lesbians and do not agree with OBJ on the five year's jail term.

Canadian based Nigeria as well.

We are waiting for Uk based now.

Nice2have, whats your take on this?

hmm, well i have said it also before that being gay/lesbian i hate and as b_e_b_e has said why the 5 years, wont they practise it in jail unrestricted and then come out worse than when they went in.

In Trinidad homosexuality is also punishable but i dont think its a 5 year jail term, i believe the givernment approach towards homosexuality should be a reformative drive and not one for punishment, so something in the form of community service or a correctional facility will be appropriate.

thats my take on it.

Akolawole:
Quoting from you: Most gay men have impecible taste and would therefore not bother with somebody like you

Yes, we know they have excellent taste
Thanks for your "word of knowledge" on this thread, only the deep can call to the deep

both

Vanessa Williams or Nia Long

I am helping her.

Helping does not always entail treating with kid gloves, remember. Harsh strong words sometimes is all is left required to jolt someone back to reality and who says she'll commit suicide? please.

blacknbold, sorry blacknwhatever stay away from this man.

By the way, the longer you stay with him the longer your misery and the grave you digging for your future home, if you ever have one by the way youre going.

blacknbold first and foremost you need a change of name, so chose among these:

blacknstupid, or
blacknsick, or
blacknselfish

one of those will do you well because they all fit you and your case. Lets face it, you are not helpless but heartless and selfish, you are merely here to garner some quietude to you ailing mind because you feel Nairaland will understand and condone you, sorry ma no way!

Youre sick because you know what is right and you are insisting on doing what is wrong and yet seeking approval for your actions, so there are no more caring single men?

Youre stupid because you know what? married men DONT leave their wives just so, you want to bet? he stays(ed) by you? thats a big laugh, you'll soon realise what a loser you are if you don't retrace your steps sharp sharp.

rubbish. Someone saying its hard to let go, what is hard to let go? with a married man and you know youre hurting someone else and persists? if you think education is costly try ignorance for size.

God help your soul, nevertheless i'll say a prayer for you. you need it 

bake