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Romance / Why Is It Easier To Be Single? by nickyj19: 8:37pm On Nov 15, 2022
It's easier for me to be single because I don't have to take
anyone else into consideration when living my life. I don't
have to run my plans by anyone else and I can do what I
want, when I want. I can make financial decisions without
stressing anyone else's spending habits. I can cook what I
want, clean when I want, be alone when I want, vanish in
the woods when I want...I have freedom.

I'm a person who requires a huge amount of alone time in
order to be okay. Being single, I'm not making anyone mad
or hurting anyone's feelings when I 'hide'. I'm also not a very
emotional person, so I'm not hurting anyone by making
them feel alone when they are sitting next to me or when I
fail to show affection in ways that resonate with them. I
find liking people to be incredibly uncomfortable to me as
well, so I don't have to feel any discomfort in that way.
Less stressful when I'm single.

I don't like dealing with other people's problems as I find
they generally bring these problems onto themselves. That
frustrates me. I don't like other people's work issues,
facebook fights, friend drama or whatever... People can
often seem to feed these things rather than try to solve
them, and if it's a partner, those issues become my issues
unless I ignore them and become the jerk. I hate that crap.
Less problems in life when I'm single.

I don't feel lonely. I think that's important. It seems to me
most people I've run into want a relationship because they
want to alleviate loneliness or have sex. I have family and
friends who eat up a decent amount of my time and I have
nothing left for a partner time/energy wise. I prefer to
spend my spare time alone, with my dog. I have a fwb as
well, so I feel no need for a relationship in order to have
sex. Adding someone else to my life would exhaust me.
The people I have now exhaust me regularly as it is. I have
nothing left for anyone else at this point in my life. It would
be kinda crappy of me to even try to be in a relationship
right now. I cannot be a decent partner to someone else if I
have nothing left for that person. For me, it's not only
easier, it's also nicer to others if I stay single.

Standard disclaimer... the above is my opinion. I'm only
saying why I think it's easier for me to be single.


• Your decisions are your own: You never have to
compromise with someone whose decisions conflict with
your own.

• Your living-space is your own: The furniture stays where
you left it, and no one can move in without your
permission.

• Your money is your own: You know exactly how much
you have to spend on bills, how much to save, and how
much is left to have some fun.

• Your property is your own: When you set your keys down,
they will still be in the same place when you need them
again -- no one messes with your 'stuff'.

• Your secrets remain secret: There is no one to
'accidentally' inform the world about your favorite ways to
make yourself happy.

• Your time is your own: What are you going to do this
weekend? Whatever the hell you want!

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Romance / Re: What Is Worse Than Heartbreak? (your Opinions?) by nickyj19: 8:15pm On Nov 15, 2022
If you wan win 30million for bet9ja and last game
spoil ham.
na heartbreak wey pass heartbreak. or Over2.5. 1st ten minutes 1 1 full-time
1 1

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Romance / Re: He Denied Knowing Me by nickyj19: 8:14pm On Nov 15, 2022
this is supper story

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Romance / Re: Males Who Cook Are Suspicious: GAY!!!!!! by nickyj19: 8:08pm On Nov 15, 2022
DaddyCK:
Opinion poll result from yestaday finally confirmed what we all been suspeting: MEN WHO LOVE COOKING ARE SUSPICIOUS: They have Gay gene!!!! ((((accoring to Science Manual Report, 2022))) angry



Conclusion:
Real men dont cook. At most, cookin boil egg should be the only thing acceptable becuz it simply means we in a hurry to eat. So please, use Microwave, rent housegirls, go to restorant or simply order by UBER......NO excuse for coooking, you are Gay!!.. REAL TALK!!! !!(no oofeinse) angry




M.0.D - front page sir!!! angry
you are very stupid for all dis write up you wrote up there idiot werey
Sports / Re: Ronaldo's Interview: Man United Will React After Facts Have Been Established by nickyj19: 10:07pm On Nov 14, 2022
SKIDDOLEE:

Thanks boss may God bless u real good
You will not lack anything good I really appreciate boss ..
don't mention it's nothing
Sports / Re: Ronaldo's Interview: Man United Will React After Facts Have Been Established by nickyj19: 5:25pm On Nov 14, 2022
SKIDDOLEE:
Na 9mobile bami
ur number
Sports / Re: Ronaldo's Interview: Man United Will React After Facts Have Been Established by nickyj19: 5:00pm On Nov 14, 2022
SKIDDOLEE:

Abeg just reason me anything if na 100n own nothing spoil
Money no dey locate person offline.
which network u dey use my send card 4 u if I don close from work
Family / Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by nickyj19: 3:29pm On Nov 14, 2022
telling a fine boy like me, that I'm ugly undecided

me wey other girls dey rush

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Romance / Re: Should A Person Cut Off Their Single Friends Because They Are Now Married? by nickyj19: 2:22pm On Nov 14, 2022
No
Family / Re: Man Discovered He Is Not The Father Of His Children Through Wife's Chat by nickyj19: 2:09pm On Nov 14, 2022
grin

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Science/Technology / Re: Elephant Appreciates A Man With A Kiss For Advocating For Them (Video) by nickyj19: 2:00pm On Nov 14, 2022
lovely I like to keep an Elephant as a pet

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Romance / Re: Some People Definition Of Living A Life Of Fulfilment Is Buying A Car, House Hav by nickyj19: 3:57pm On Nov 13, 2022
long life prosperity and having the fear of GOD undecided

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Romance / Re: What Is The Highest Number Of Days You Have Gone Without Sex? by nickyj19: 3:54pm On Nov 13, 2022
EndSARS77:
And yes, masturbation counts too... what is the highest number of days you have stayed without having sex? And in 2022 what is the highest number of days you have stayed without sex? Thanks to the current medication I am using right now, I have been able to abstain from sex for 27 days now and still counting
4 years still counting undecided
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Fulham Vs Manchester United (1 - 2) On 13th November 2022 by nickyj19: 3:53pm On Nov 13, 2022
Thor father lord we are hear again answer our prayer
Fulham abeg
Romance / Re: Did I Overreact??? (screenshot Attached) by nickyj19: 3:35pm On Nov 13, 2022
brain54:
Praise da Lord!
hallelujah !!!!
Romance / Re: Did I Overreact??? (screenshot Attached) by nickyj19: 2:48pm On Nov 13, 2022
brain54:
Really…

What made you stop?
I repent grin
Romance / Re: Did I Overreact??? (screenshot Attached) by nickyj19: 12:13pm On Nov 13, 2022
brain54:
Sounds like you chatting with some dude…




A hairy balled yahoo dude!
exactly I was once a scammer pretending to be a lady and cash out on guys like OP

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Romance / Re: Lol Man In Search Of Wife List His Requirement by nickyj19: 12:57pm On Nov 12, 2022
grin
Romance / Re: SHELLSHOCKED! Saw An Igbo Man Selling Suya by nickyj19: 8:23am On Nov 12, 2022
LincolnOnyeabor:
shocked shocked shocked shocked

Just as the Heading rightly Suggests, this evening on returning from the Market, I was Shellshocked!

I saw an Igbo Man selling Suya!

A real Igbo Man oo, selling Suya with his kid.

At first look, he looked like an Hausa man, but later when he spoke, He said He was an Igbo man! I couldn't believe it.

So I bought Suya #500 naira own, and watched him slice everything, put in that pepper, added onions and Cabbage and wrapped it for me.

He then told me to keep coming, as he wants to give the Hausa guys serious competition. shocked shocked

My Foundations have been literally shaken. Isn't it in the Constitution that certain jobs/roles are for certain people ni??

What's this one again na?? cry cry

The Suya was really tasty and spicy by the way and it was well dried. He really knows his trade.
picture or I don't beliefit

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by nickyj19: 2:31pm On Nov 10, 2022
Report: Ansu Fati being offered to clubs by agent Jorge Mendes, waiting they happen self undecided
Romance / Re: If You Attend A Nairaland End Of Year Party, Who Would You Be Eager To See? by nickyj19: 12:10pm On Nov 10, 2022
Boogyman557 this man comments na die funny guy

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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by nickyj19: 11:17am On Nov 08, 2022
Osasuna will be without loan winger Ez Abde, as Barcelona have inserted a ‘fear clause’, preventing him from playing against them.
Romance / Re: Join Us As Has We Tie The Knote. by nickyj19: 9:02am On Nov 08, 2022
Orgasmgiver123:
I just hope the lady's English is good, or else, una pikin go hear whiiiiiiin


Damn... nasty... I'm out of here
bad pipu everywhere una no go kill person just correct him and leave nairalander I hail una grin

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