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Romance / Why Is It Easier To Be Single? by nickyj19: 8:37pm On Nov 15, 2022 |
It's easier for me to be single because I don't have to take anyone else into consideration when living my life. I don't have to run my plans by anyone else and I can do what I want, when I want. I can make financial decisions without stressing anyone else's spending habits. I can cook what I want, clean when I want, be alone when I want, vanish in the woods when I want...I have freedom. I'm a person who requires a huge amount of alone time in order to be okay. Being single, I'm not making anyone mad or hurting anyone's feelings when I 'hide'. I'm also not a very emotional person, so I'm not hurting anyone by making them feel alone when they are sitting next to me or when I fail to show affection in ways that resonate with them. I find liking people to be incredibly uncomfortable to me as well, so I don't have to feel any discomfort in that way. Less stressful when I'm single. I don't like dealing with other people's problems as I find they generally bring these problems onto themselves. That frustrates me. I don't like other people's work issues, facebook fights, friend drama or whatever... People can often seem to feed these things rather than try to solve them, and if it's a partner, those issues become my issues unless I ignore them and become the jerk. I hate that crap. Less problems in life when I'm single. I don't feel lonely. I think that's important. It seems to me most people I've run into want a relationship because they want to alleviate loneliness or have sex. I have family and friends who eat up a decent amount of my time and I have nothing left for a partner time/energy wise. I prefer to spend my spare time alone, with my dog. I have a fwb as well, so I feel no need for a relationship in order to have sex. Adding someone else to my life would exhaust me. The people I have now exhaust me regularly as it is. I have nothing left for anyone else at this point in my life. It would be kinda crappy of me to even try to be in a relationship right now. I cannot be a decent partner to someone else if I have nothing left for that person. For me, it's not only easier, it's also nicer to others if I stay single. Standard disclaimer... the above is my opinion. I'm only saying why I think it's easier for me to be single. • Your decisions are your own: You never have to compromise with someone whose decisions conflict with your own. • Your living-space is your own: The furniture stays where you left it, and no one can move in without your permission. • Your money is your own: You know exactly how much you have to spend on bills, how much to save, and how much is left to have some fun. • Your property is your own: When you set your keys down, they will still be in the same place when you need them again -- no one messes with your 'stuff'. • Your secrets remain secret: There is no one to 'accidentally' inform the world about your favorite ways to make yourself happy. • Your time is your own: What are you going to do this weekend? Whatever the hell you want! 4 Likes |
Romance / Re: What Is Worse Than Heartbreak? (your Opinions?) by nickyj19: 8:15pm On Nov 15, 2022 |
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Romance / Re: He Denied Knowing Me by nickyj19: 8:14pm On Nov 15, 2022 |
this is supper story 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Males Who Cook Are Suspicious: GAY!!!!!! by nickyj19: 8:08pm On Nov 15, 2022 |
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Sports / Re: Ronaldo's Interview: Man United Will React After Facts Have Been Established by nickyj19: 10:07pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
SKIDDOLEE:don't mention it's nothing |
Sports / Re: Ronaldo's Interview: Man United Will React After Facts Have Been Established by nickyj19: 5:25pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
SKIDDOLEE:ur number |
Sports / Re: Ronaldo's Interview: Man United Will React After Facts Have Been Established by nickyj19: 5:00pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
SKIDDOLEE:which network u dey use my send card 4 u if I don close from work |
Family / Re: The Most Painful Thing Your Spouse Said or Did To You That Still Hurts You? by nickyj19: 3:29pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
telling a fine boy like me, that I'm ugly me wey other girls dey rush 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Should A Person Cut Off Their Single Friends Because They Are Now Married? by nickyj19: 2:22pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
No |
Family / Re: Man Discovered He Is Not The Father Of His Children Through Wife's Chat by nickyj19: 2:09pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
3 Likes 2 Shares |
Science/Technology / Re: Elephant Appreciates A Man With A Kiss For Advocating For Them (Video) by nickyj19: 2:00pm On Nov 14, 2022 |
lovely I like to keep an Elephant as a pet 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: Some People Definition Of Living A Life Of Fulfilment Is Buying A Car, House Hav by nickyj19: 3:57pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
long life prosperity and having the fear of GOD 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: What Is The Highest Number Of Days You Have Gone Without Sex? by nickyj19: 3:54pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
EndSARS77:4 years still counting |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Fulham Vs Manchester United (1 - 2) On 13th November 2022 by nickyj19: 3:53pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
Thor father lord we are hear again answer our prayer Fulham abeg |
Romance / Re: Did I Overreact??? (screenshot Attached) by nickyj19: 3:35pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
brain54:hallelujah !!!! |
Romance / Re: Did I Overreact??? (screenshot Attached) by nickyj19: 2:48pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
brain54:I repent |
Romance / Re: Did I Overreact??? (screenshot Attached) by nickyj19: 12:13pm On Nov 13, 2022 |
brain54:exactly I was once a scammer pretending to be a lady and cash out on guys like OP 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Lol Man In Search Of Wife List His Requirement by nickyj19: 12:57pm On Nov 12, 2022 |
Romance / Re: SHELLSHOCKED! Saw An Igbo Man Selling Suya by nickyj19: 8:23am On Nov 12, 2022 |
LincolnOnyeabor:picture or I don't beliefit 1 Like |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by nickyj19: 2:31pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Report: Ansu Fati being offered to clubs by agent
Jorge Mendes, waiting they happen self |
Romance / Re: If You Attend A Nairaland End Of Year Party, Who Would You Be Eager To See? by nickyj19: 12:10pm On Nov 10, 2022 |
Boogyman557 this man comments na die funny guy 4 Likes 1 Share |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Fc Barcelona Fan Thread: "més Que Un Club" by nickyj19: 11:17am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Osasuna will be without loan winger Ez Abde, as Barcelona
have inserted a ‘fear clause’, preventing him from playing
against them. |
Romance / Re: Join Us As Has We Tie The Knote. by nickyj19: 9:02am On Nov 08, 2022 |
Orgasmgiver123:bad pipu everywhere una no go kill person just correct him and leave nairalander I hail una |
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