It's easier for me to be single because I don't have to take
anyone else into consideration when living my life. I don't
have to run my plans by anyone else and I can do what I
want, when I want. I can make financial decisions without
stressing anyone else's spending habits. I can cook what I
want, clean when I want, be alone when I want, vanish in
the woods when I want...I have freedom.

I'm a person who requires a huge amount of alone time in
order to be okay. Being single, I'm not making anyone mad
or hurting anyone's feelings when I 'hide'. I'm also not a very
emotional person, so I'm not hurting anyone by making
them feel alone when they are sitting next to me or when I
fail to show affection in ways that resonate with them. I
find liking people to be incredibly uncomfortable to me as
well, so I don't have to feel any discomfort in that way.
Less stressful when I'm single.

I don't like dealing with other people's problems as I find
they generally bring these problems onto themselves. That
frustrates me. I don't like other people's work issues,
facebook fights, friend drama or whatever... People can
often seem to feed these things rather than try to solve
them, and if it's a partner, those issues become my issues
unless I ignore them and become the jerk. I hate that crap.
Less problems in life when I'm single.

I don't feel lonely. I think that's important. It seems to me
most people I've run into want a relationship because they
want to alleviate loneliness or have sex. I have family and
friends who eat up a decent amount of my time and I have
nothing left for a partner time/energy wise. I prefer to
spend my spare time alone, with my dog. I have a fwb as
well, so I feel no need for a relationship in order to have
sex. Adding someone else to my life would exhaust me.
The people I have now exhaust me regularly as it is. I have
nothing left for anyone else at this point in my life. It would
be kinda crappy of me to even try to be in a relationship
right now. I cannot be a decent partner to someone else if I
have nothing left for that person. For me, it's not only
easier, it's also nicer to others if I stay single.

Standard disclaimer... the above is my opinion. I'm only
saying why I think it's easier for me to be single.


• Your decisions are your own: You never have to
compromise with someone whose decisions conflict with
your own.

• Your living-space is your own: The furniture stays where
you left it, and no one can move in without your
permission.

• Your money is your own: You know exactly how much
you have to spend on bills, how much to save, and how
much is left to have some fun.

• Your property is your own: When you set your keys down,
they will still be in the same place when you need them
again -- no one messes with your 'stuff'.

• Your secrets remain secret: There is no one to
'accidentally' inform the world about your favorite ways to
make yourself happy.

• Your time is your own: What are you going to do this
weekend? Whatever the hell you want!

Point noted but learn to space, use paragraph.

nickyj19:
It's easier for me to be single because I don't have to take
anyone else into consideration when living my life. I don't
have to run my plans by anyone else and I can do what I
want, when I want. I can make financial decisions without
stressing anyone else's spending habits. I can cook what I
want, clean when I want, be alone when I want, vanish in
the woods when I want...I have freedom.
I'm a person who requires a huge amount of alone time in
order to be okay. Being single, I'm not making anyone mad
or hurting anyone's feelings when I 'hide'. I'm also not a very
emotional person, so I'm not hurting anyone by making
them feel alone when they are sitting next to me or when I
fail to show affection in ways that resonate with them. I
find liking people to be incredibly uncomfortable to me as
well, so I don't have to feel any discomfort in that way.
Less stressful when I'm single.
I don't like dealing with other people's problems as I find
they generally bring these problems onto themselves. That
frustrates me. I don't like other people's work issues,
facebook fights, friend drama or whatever... People can
often seem to feed these things rather than try to solve
them, and if it's a partner, those issues become my issues
unless I ignore them and become the jerk. I hate that crap.
Less problems in life when I'm single.
I don't feel lonely. I think that's important. It seems to me
most people I've run into want a relationship because they
want to alleviate loneliness or have sex. I have family and
friends who eat up a decent amount of my time and I have
nothing left for a partner time/energy wise. I prefer to
spend my spare time alone, with my dog. I have a fwb as
well, so I feel no need for a relationship in order to have
sex. Adding someone else to my life would exhaust me.
The people I have now exhaust me regularly as it is. I have
nothing left for anyone else at this point in my life. It would
be kinda crappy of me to even try to be in a relationship
right now. I cannot be a decent partner to someone else if I
have nothing left for that person. For me, it's not only
easier, it's also nicer to others if I stay single.
Standard disclaimer... the above is my opinion. I'm only
saying why I think it's easier for me to be single.


• Your decisions are your own: You never have to
compromise with someone whose decisions conflict with
your own.
• Your living-space is your own: The furniture stays where
you left it, and no one can move in without your
permission.
• Your money is your own: You know exactly how much
you have to spend on bills, how much to save, and how
much is left to have some fun.
• Your property is your own: When you set your keys down,
they will still be in the same place when you need them
again -- no one messes with your 'stuff'.
• Your secrets remain secret: There is no one to
'accidentally' inform the world about your favorite ways to
make yourself happy.
• Your time is your own: What are you going to do this
weekend? Whatever the hell you want!

Gibberish..................

In summary, single life's the best.

Nia69:
In summary, single life's the best.

Yeah but it is Boring life.

Goldbw122:

Yeah but it is Boring life.

Boring brings peace of mind.

Format your post properly. Use paragraphs. It’s exhausting to read this without paragraphs.

Nia69:
Boring brings peace of mind.

Peace of mind comes from knowing what you want. Person born you abi so do the needful.

Goldbw122:

Peace of mind comes from knowing what you want. Person born you abi so do the needful.

K

You just listed my lifestyle for the last one year
It's cool just that you get this feeling when you see other couples (when you go out)... but I still prefer the single option as the advantages overweight the disadvantages unlike the other option

AfroKnight:
Format your post properly. Use paragraphs. It’s exhausting to read this without paragraphs.

thanks I just did that

Rainbow10:
Gibberish..................

As in eh

Single life=Peace of mind..

Nothing like being bored when I have music and phone with me...

Same for me, been living like this for a long time now, been in a relationship only once, so stressful and unhealthy for a Young Nigeria guy, after that not again.. its not boring it simply helps you in focusing in what you really want and how you want it.