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EducationRe: Unilag Postgraduate 2020/2021 Information Thread by Nif3(m): 10:03am On Sep 11, 2020
Hello....Pls I Applied for the part time program in Computer Science, Is there going to be an exam for the part time postgraduate study as well? and if Yes, Can you please help with necessary steps to prepare adequately. Thank you
SportsRe: How Well Do U Know The World Cup??? Can U Tell Which Ball U Started With?? by Nif3(op): 7:34pm On Nov 09, 2017
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SportsRe: How Well Do U Know The World Cup??? Can U Tell Which Ball U Started With?? by Nif3(op): 7:32pm On Nov 09, 2017
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SportsHow Well Do U Know The World Cup??? Can U Tell Which Ball U Started With?? by Nif3(op): 7:30pm On Nov 09, 2017
Adidas have unveiled a reinvention of the iconic Telstar ball for next summer's World Cup in Russia.

The Telstar 18 commemorates 50 years since it was first used - for the 1968 European Championship - but how does its history intertwine with the World Cup itself?

CrimeWhose Client Is This?? Nigerians Really Making A Name Out There. by Nif3(op): 7:36pm On Oct 27, 2017
I was in love with him': Devastated woman, 64, is swindled out of $100,000 by fake Italian lover named 'Carlos' she met on Facebook

A 64-year-old woman has opened up about how she was swindled out of $100,000 after falling for a man she'd never met.

Patricia Meister, from Queensland, struck up an online relationship with who she though was a dashing middle-aged businessman after he sent her a friend request on Facebook in 2015.

Speaking to Daily Mail Australia, the woman revealed the moment she fell head over heels in love, before discovering her Italian lover named 'Carlos' was a Nigerian fraudster.

Ms Meister said the man seemed keen to share every aspect of his life with her when he messaged her every single day.

'I'd never been on dating websites, and I only used Facebook for business. So when I got the friend request, I thought it couldn't do any harm, can it?,' she said.

'I guess at the time, I was going through a period in my life where I felt isolated. I'd been single for a while and I'd never been on dating sites.

We started chatting. He was charming, smart and educated. He was very good with English and he was very romantic. I was very much in love with him at one stage.'

She said the man who claimed he was based in Brisbane had told her he was working in interior design and his heritage was Italian and Scottish.

The pair exchanged messages on a daily basis before he started calling her to have phone conversations.

'When I first spoke to him, I heard his voice but he had a different accent to what I'd expected. I remember thinking "what is that accent?" I couldn't place his accent.

'I wasn't familiar with his accent at the time, but thinking about it now, he was definitely African... He was Nigerian.'

Despite casting some doubts on him, Ms Meister continued speaking to him as the weeks passed.

Within eight weeks into their relationship, 'Carlos' asked her if she could lend him $600 because his credit card wouldn't work when he was in Malaysia for a project.

'It didn't feel right but I thought "well, it's not a huge amount of money to lose". It wasn't a huge request so I did a wire transfer to him,' she recalled.

'A part of me thought it was wrong so I questioned him, saying "you're a businessman, your credit card should work..." His story didn't add up.'

But his request for money didn't end there. He would make up a different excuse each time he asked her for money.

'Carlos' was planning a trip home to Brisbane when his goods were held up in Malaysian customs. And so he needed a payment to retrieve them.

'The first amount I sent him was $7,000. When he went to get the money, he told me he needed another $7,000,' she recalled.

'Everything he said was backed up by "documents" - and there was always a lawyer in the background when we spoke over the phone.

'When he tried to pay me back, he said his bank couldn't do the large international transfer so he arranged for a courier to deliver the cash instead.'

Ms Meister said she was given a link to a website with a 'tracking sheet', in which she kept a close eye on the parcel's movement.

But when the parcel reached Kuala Lumpur airport, there was a $25,000 fee to let the cash leave the country.

'Carlos had listed my business address on the documents so I was worried. I thought, "God, there's a brief case full of money with my name on it",' she said.

'By that time, I thought it might look suspicious if I let my money in my name sit there, I was kind of thinking "well I've got to pay this money to get my money back".

She made the big payment but when the parcel got to Melbourne airport, she was hit with another fee.

'I pretty much paid it. Money was getting hard to find. He pretty much picked up the last amount of my money,' she said.

On the day she was scheduled to supposedly get the parcel with the money she'd been promised, she received a phone call.

'I got a phone call from someone saying Carlos and his lawyer had been in a serious car accident so they needed money for medical expenses,' she recalled.

'My stomach dropped to my shoes. I knew at that point, I'd been scammed.'

She didn't pay for their medical fees - and the pair stopped talking for about a week.

'He then tried to request more money to cover his medical fees but at that point, I had gone through my last dollar,' she said.

'I couldn't pay him anymore and I even told him I wasn't going to send him any more money. Shortly after that, he made a "miraculous recovery" but I'd stopped talking to him by then.'

Ms Meister even tried to report the incident to police but there was nothing they could do after she was conned out of $100,000 in total.

And two months later, she received a text message from Carlos, saying: 'This is all a terrible misunderstanding.'

Without a second thought, Ms Meister fired back: 'You're a scammer'.

'After I accused him of being a scammer, he ended our conversation with: "Catch me if you can, my dear",' she recalled.

Ms Meister said she eventually found a support group called Romance Scams Now where women share similar tales of their ordeals.

'I used to hear about the TV stars who were scammed and remembered thinking "how can you send money to someone like that?",' she recalled.

'I think I was sort of aware but I had no idea these things could be so complex or how well developed they are. It's a worldwide business, it's very difficult to catch them because they're sitting behind a computer.

'People think you're stupid but they're not walking in our shoes. It's not a matter of being stupid. Even the most intelligent, educated women are getting scammed.

'I know I'll never get my money back but all you can do is raise awareness. There's a lot of lonely people out there, the dating websites are riddled with scammers.'

Source: Dailymail

EducationRe: UNILAG Student Rusticated For Twerking With The Statue Of Former VC by Nif3(m): 8:00pm On Oct 08, 2017
SportsRe: Nigeria Vs Zambia: See What Was Spotted In Ibadan, Oyo State Before The Match by Nif3(m): 11:05pm On Oct 07, 2017
Na todayhuh
CrimeRe: Man Knocked Unconscious By Passerby After Attacking Lady In Public. Photos by Nif3(m): 11:27pm On Sep 29, 2017
[quote author=EliteBiz post=60947460]And beat her in the other room cool
Serious beating! Then you ask her dis question"who is ur daddy" tongue[/quote)
Lolss...ode somebody
FashionRe: Lady Buys Python Skin Handbag In Port-Harcourt, Neigbour Sees It & Faints (Photo by Nif3(m): 5:42pm On Sep 12, 2017
I smell lies
CrimeRe: Teenage Fulani Herdsmen Attack Delta Man With Ak47,get Caught(pics,videos) by Nif3(m): 11:14pm On Sep 11, 2017
Eh ya..fine boy like this undecided undecided
CrimeRe: EFCC Arrests 7 MAPOLY Students And Others For Yahoo Yahoo With Juju (See Photos) by Nif3(m): 7:02am On Sep 06, 2017
This ones still they hungry now...see dem faces. Mtchew. Abeg go for the real criminals jo
CelebritiesRe: #bbnaija : Bassey Shows Off His Muscle In New Picture by Nif3(m): 4:25pm On Sep 03, 2017
Hehehe....hide your wives
Christianity EtcRe: "God Stopped Bullets From Entering My Body"; Man Attacked By Armed Robbers.PICS by Nif3(m): 10:10pm On Sep 02, 2017
Lols....okay
SportsRe: Oluwafemi Balogun For World Chess Cup 2017 In Tbilisi, Georgia by Nif3(m): 10:09pm On Sep 02, 2017
All the best bro.... victory!!
CultureRe: Olori Wuraola Reverts To Her Maiden Name After Confirming Marriage Breakup by Nif3(m): 5:33pm On Aug 30, 2017
Lolsss...
buygala:
Hmmmm..

Hope the royal magun placed on her puna has been removed.

Before we start hearing stories of men somersaulting and dieing in the process of tasting Ooni's leftover sad


This is one Tokunbo Vehicle that every mere mortal should be wary of driving.. .


I wish both parties the best in their future endeavors cool
Christianity EtcRe: Woman And Her Drugs At Apostle Johnson Suleman's Church For Deliverance (Photos) by Nif3(m): 7:55pm On Aug 28, 2017
The woman na junkie
NYSCRe: Female Corper Wears A Long NYSC Khaki Skirt In Ibadan (Photo) by Nif3(m): 3:37pm On Aug 23, 2017
maxdosh:
She won enter heaven
Na you be the gateman abi?? Olodo!!
RomanceRe: Man Refused To Pay Prostitute For Service After All Night Sex (video) by Nif3(m): 3:14pm On Aug 23, 2017
Rawbish undecided undecided undecided
CelebritiesRe: Multi-coloured Eyed Girl, Peace Omana, Stuns In New Photos by Nif3(m): 1:05pm On Aug 22, 2017
Una don do now.. mtchew.
Christianity EtcRe: The Power Of God’s Word – W.F. Kumuyi by Nif3(m): 10:39am On Aug 20, 2017
Thank God for you sir
NYSCRe: Female Corper In Delta State Was Not Missing - Brother Tells Okay.ng by Nif3(m): 11:00pm On Aug 13, 2017
Rubbish
NYSCRe: Female Corper Slays In Her NYSC Khaki Skirt (Photos) by Nif3(m): 4:57pm On Aug 11, 2017
Mtchew
Rubbish
Nonsense
Next!!
CelebritiesRe: 'Homosexuality Is A Sin' - S-Dot Replies MI Abaga by Nif3(m): 3:48pm On Aug 08, 2017
Kk bro.... everybody knows
AgricultureRe: An 'ewedu' Plant That Is Almost Twice The Height Of An Average Female Being. by Nif3(m): 3:47pm On Aug 08, 2017
[/b]Seen....Next!!! undecided undecided[b]
CrimeRe: Underground Ritualist Den Uncovered At Obadeyi Bus Stop, Lagos by Nif3(m): 3:44pm On Aug 08, 2017
Chai... shocked shocked

Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Check Out This Amazing Perfectly Timed Real Life Photos by Nif3(op): 3:40pm On Aug 08, 2017
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Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Check Out This Amazing Perfectly Timed Real Life Photos by Nif3(op): 3:38pm On Aug 08, 2017
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Art, Graphics & VideoRe: Check Out This Amazing Perfectly Timed Real Life Photos by Nif3(op): 3:37pm On Aug 08, 2017
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Art, Graphics & VideoCheck Out This Amazing Perfectly Timed Real Life Photos by Nif3(op): 3:35pm On Aug 08, 2017
When it comes to photography sometimes its all about good timing to get that perfect shots. Trust me this aint Photoshop

HealthRe: Peace Samuel Omana: Multicoloured Eyed Girl At Mile 12 Market Cute Photoshoot by Nif3(m): 2:56pm On Aug 08, 2017
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