thats just to show that the lawlessness in the country is rising since we liv like animals well we should be treated like animals.Its funny that the laws in the country does not apply to the people of the country.

hmmmmmm, 2unde you are welcome in nairaland site










such is life!!!!!

hmmmmmm, 2unde you are welcome in nairaland site










such is life!!!!!

@tunde

such fresh energies, please more

@2unde

good start man, but the journey on nairaland is a long one, and it is still very far.

@Topic.
Well what do you expect?

A girl would date a guy; whereas deep down within her, she knows that nothing positive can come out of that relationship, yet she clings on to it; then when her plastic heart gets broken, she would cry, starve herself and the few that still have some iota of strength would start a topic on nairaland and tell you of how they have been going out with their fiancée for fifty years or even hundred years and how they got dumped.

And we guys would have nothing to say rather than to sympathize with them; and before you say Jack and Jill, another girl has fallen victim of the same problem.

Now do you think the problem is from the guys? No I don’t think so; I think they’ve got a very big problem that only they themselves can solve.

The reason is that must gals rush into what they know notin about bet mi.

don't scare anybody away zignor.
let them post whatever they want to,we would find time to reply 

@topic well SUCH IS LIFE 

It is called "yahoo" romance!!!!  Emotional 419!!!!  Most people go into relationships---especially women--without understanding why they are in the relationships in the first place.  One word--DESPERATION!!!!

Most do not even love themselves not to talk of love others! A terrible notion of "lack of direction" at its highest form.

Most do not even love themselves not to talk of love others! A terrible notion of "lack of direction" at its highest form.

You are not far from the truth

*i said it too. . . . . have always been suspicious of them*

Like someone said, there's alot of desperation in the Nigerian society, it's not even funny. I guess it's as a result of the pressures of the society. A decent girl in her twenties suppose don marry or planning to; hence to keep status quo, she tries very hard to cling onto anything not to feel left out.

Because of:

[list]
[li]most schools lack of provide the prevention of getting pregnant, AIDS/HIV, other diseases in health or sex education course[/li]



[li]most grandmothers, mothers, aunts, and female adult relatives never sit down discussing or educating to give girls for relationship/marriage advices[/li]



[li]Too many bad media, school peer pressure, false teaching and bad influences they learn the wrong ways[/li]



[li]Too much fantasy, vivid imagination, or daydreaming by reading too much romance novels, movies, and TV including soap operas they thnk these are real things.[/li]



[li]Where are "Nigerian" magazine giving lot of relationship tips, marriage tips, and dating tips just like US black American magazines such as Ebony, Essence, and Jet---that will help them learn the mistakes to prevent getting wrong man to be fall in love with[/li]



[li]Most girls/ladies who never been in married, being singles, are lack of relationship experiences---like first time dating only one man---too much cling on one man----forgot about plenty of men out there.[/li]
[/list]

*point taken*

Because of:

[list]
[li]Most girls date bad boys (ghetto, criminals, yahoo boys, illiterate, secular/non-Christian, stingy, high-egostic, mama's boys)---neglect all nice guys, geek guys, brainy guys, God-fearing guys behind that are real romantic guys, some are matured ones.[/li]



[li]Most girls look for guys who have nice car, lot of cash, and nice house---those girls are MATERALISTICS and GOLD-DIGGERS---neglect guys who are hardworking jobs (low pay jobs not the ones high-paid jobs like professionals, engineers, doctors, lawyers), good sense of financial management, conservative[/li]



[li]Most girls look for THE MOST ATTRACTIVE guys that look like male celebrities to be clingy too long. Forgot about inner beauty, personality, and good characteristics[/li]

[/list]

saucekid:

*i said it too. . . . . have always been suspicious of them*

you guys wont stop making me laugh 

sauce who have u been always suspicious of ?

uspry 1 and AJ that you guys did justice to the topic.
we are learning.

uspry1
You appear to have a PHD is this, why dont you right a book??
you could make a lot of dough _{Dating 4 Dommies}

Nautillus:

uspry1
You appear to have a PHD is this, why don't you right a book??
you could make a lot of dough _{Dating 4 Dommies}

LOL, I ain't PhD as well as writing a book "Dating 4 Dummies" making money. Bec there are millions, millions, and millions of books on "Dating 4 dummies", "Getting Married 4 dummies", "Relationship 4 dummies" EVERYWHERE in the world.

But the problem is most book publishers/vendors in the world would not accept Nigerians ordering books via credit/debit card online. that is sadly. I myself am internet savvy as well as web developer prefer using online electronically.

I saw somewhere here this NL posting on failed marriage. The Nigerian authors wrote this book on marriage/dating advices for only Nigerians and friends of Nigerians, i lost track of getting the name of this Nigerian author, they were very popular both in the US and Nigeria bec both couples are PhD and both are doctors raising their own children, both agreed to share their own experiences by writing this book. I forgot the name of title but it emphasizes talking about marriage, dating, and relationship.

As of the result the poster of NL, their marriage were saved by this book lot better than church pastor's marriage counseling because of culture differences.

@topic,

such is life.

happens at one point or the other. . only makes us stronger.

then again------- a lot of men are jerks

wasup BUSTA loooong tym babes, how it be?

@moondust

sup sweetie, how have ya been? missed ya loads!

been so caught up with the new job thats why.

*it be like udeme*

@busta
missed u 2, hun, BIGTIME!
gotta ride. . .was just abt 2 sign out b4 i saw ya!
L8erz!!!