ops:

Actually don't think they qualified as honorable.Think I prefer lovestruck and a wee bit stupid.
For the sake of censorship,i will once again call you an Aristo!

I think I will rather take my chance with a revolver than risk losing so much money. You Aristo.

Greed is the adjective. When you are contented with what you have,why do you have to look else where?

Well the fact remains dat on average ,most women(or ladies) are somewhat more mature than their peers,so men'd naturally go for younger females.

But when it comes to >7 years,I no de o !

@ pennywise, thanks for withdrawing your comment. I was just joking and i definitely did not want to start up a diss thread.

@ops and pennywise,
you guys are funny! Nope, i am not a damsel in distress and certainly not a minor.

I was just being curious that why would an older man want complete dominance or absolute control over a young girl? Isn't that slavery? Or a sign of low self esteem on the part of the guy to want a girl he could command to massage his ego.

Ah,mademoiselle.finally
me and mon frere pennywise have been jostling for your attention and of course the better man won!
yeah,it might mean low self esteem on either part but usually, me thinks its just about variety and like some1 earlier mentioned,greed.
So,ma chere,when do i claim my prize?

Scopium:

[size=13pt]Some guys go for them mainly because they believe these younger girls are less demanding, easy to manipulate, fresh, less stressful, etc. Sometimes these guys pay dearly as a result of the girls' inexperience. [/size]

Omo, these days, girls even in secondary school don open eye o!

I even know of a girlfriend who was in her early twenties dating a guy in his thirties and despite the lurvy dovey, the guy spent a whole lot of quid on her, took her shopping, gave her money 1000 naira credit on her phone every wednesday, and so on but she wasn't greedy. Infact, he was the one doing the chasing before they eventually fell out.

@ ops,

Which prize is that?

ma chere,get with the program.
we had duel for your sake and my worthy opponent saw fit to bow out.are you saying our manly jousting was in vain?stop am oh!pennywise go take me laugh!the randy old aristo!

*i'm cracking up here*

You call that a duel! I can't see any blood and guts. I'm sure you can kick butt better than that!

@opeluvly

Let it be known to the whole world that you have requested that I dismember my good freind pennywise.I am at a loss why you woold want me to kick an already defeated (and tired) old aristo.I refuse to hit a man while he is down(most ungentlemanly!)

I wonder what pennywise would have to say about that.

Anyway, as Destiny's Child says, Can you handle it? I don't think you can handle it.

No you didnt!I'll pretend you didnt just say that!The question is can you handle me!just gave you my mail and you chickened out!shame on you.will tell my good friend pennywise (the old aristo that he is)that we were jousting over a lil mummy's girl!

Opelovely, hi ya.
I have to warn you to beware of strange, smooth talking men advertising e-mail addresses on internet. They are never up to anything good.In particular one called ops.

Welcome Pennywise,
Thanks for the advice, he's just a momma's boy.

@ops, did i hurt your ego? Eya, come, let me pour pepper on it.

MMM,just imagine,called you my brotherfromanothermother and you stab me in the back!shame on you mon ami,mudslinging is not the stuff of gentlemen!
Anyways,you are an aristo so whats to be expected?
No foforofo fight oo!I can't stain my outfit!
and for you my sweet,try another line.sure you can be more imaginative!
And i'm sure you got the digits,you just fronting!lol

@opelovly
Talking about dating a younger girl. I have often found myself in situations listening to guys talk about these things and I have learnt from their experiences for instance that the anatomical advantage you mentioned indeed is a myth and cannot sustain a relationship. What is important is what you have how creative you are and how prepared you are to use it. These don't have a lot to do with her age really except she has gone way beyond.

Its no secret. Ops and I are married men.He has 4 children, 1 have only 2.

Thanks once again, pennywise. Pls tell your bro, Mr. Ops to stop sounding like a broken record. Talking about being imaginative, you sure sounded like a 12 year old. My 18 year old brother does a better job of toasting.

As a rider to the above, we are discussing younger girls because they are the ones that are available. No gentleman would like to risk monumental humiliation going after one that is married. Or is there?

OpeLovely:

Thanks once again, pennywise. Please tell your bro, Mr. Ops to stop sounding like a broken record. Talking about being imaginative, you sure sounded like a 12 year old. My 18 year old brother does a better job of toasting.

I figure you would prefer one that is more matured and accomplished. Generally speaking?

Bros,when did two kids become "only"?Anyway,opeluvly,he meant he has been to the delivery room twice,his mrs had quintiplets the second time hence his early aging and stuff.
Yeah,its all about creativity but i believe it,creativity,doesnt have to be inherent.everyone can learn to be creative.while some will catch on faster even the small details will sometimes be the stuff to light the dying embers of a relationship.Its all about being spontaneous and I believe only a callous man will prefer a so called younger girl to his wonderfully imaginative,totally receptive to fresh ideas better half at home.
Pennywise do i detect a touch of guilt?

Let me ask a question,

We all say age is just a number and maturity is key, would you be happy if you see your daughter marrying a man 20 yrs her senior? Be honest.

Because whatever we say or do, we should be able to apply it in our lives. In other words, practice what you preach.

Which do you both prefer to date?
A young girl with the assets to make a man shiver but no brain.

Or, a matured single lady say 38 yrs old, with no assets but brains.

ops:

Pennywise do i detect a touch of guilt?

No hint of guilt at all. Dont forget pennywise is only relaying experiences of the masters.

Most guys myself inclusive like very young babes but then i'd want to be sincere we prefer young chicks not for serious relationships but for sex.
Naturally we expect that wen a babe is still very young then the tendency that she is still a virgin is very high and let me tell u this we all like virgins, they are still very TIGHT.
But then she is boring and her maturity level and development is still low and does not match up, so it still boils down to the same thing we like the young chicks but just for the sex.

@opeluvly
about " matured single lady say 38 years old, with no assets but brains",cant help you there,dont do older women.but if we were to rephrase,say late twenties as against a girl say eighteen with a killer bod?well,the dog in me would go for the eighteen year old but after all is said and done,the late twenties chick would probably be better.dont forget its all about maturity howver.
and I'm sure you really didnt mean the 38year old has no assets at all!dont even want to think about it,even wise king solomon thought the idea deplorable!
and pennywise,you are on your own on that virgin stuff!tight is ok but cant keep going throughthe rudiments everytime!

OpeLovely:

Which do you both prefer to date?
A young girl with the assets to make a man shiver but no brain.

Or, a matured single lady say 38 years old, with no assets but brains.

Prefer to date? Initially I will say most will go for the young volouptous girl. But those big asses and boobs will be no more than masses of flesh if there is no reasonable communication from her. On the other hand the one without much assets can add tremendous value to what she has through communication, personality and character (I dont mean it the way my grand mother understands character).

What I want is a different matter. My connection is rather slow today

Funny enough, i hear guys complain that they have a chick to die for, with the maturity and all that but is rigid or frigid in bed.

Now, what do you want to say about that?

Anyway, without digressing too much, there are a couple of stories about a guy going for a young chic and then after the sex, he finds that he just can't let go as he's already hooked and stays with her till she's pregnant. No juju or voodoo, just the oomph!

OpeLovely:

A young girl with the assets to make a man shiver but no brain.

Or, a matured single lady say 38 years old, with no assets but brains.

The whole idea of making choices preparatory to dating is very complex. The most powerful computer in the world I believe cannot analyse the many different things going on when I guy meets a girl. People try to sum it up by calling it chemistry. To guys who are interested in big this big that they may be instantly put off the moment they see the person vice versa. But I understand that there is no other way to ask the question as to which a guy will prefer. The variables are waaay too many. But you just know when you like someone.

OpeLovely:


Anyway, without digressing too much, there are a couple of stories about a guy going for a young chic and then after the sex, he finds that he just can't let go as he's already hooked and stays with her till she's pregnant. No juju or voodoo, just the oomph!

Looks like this thread is a tribute to young mistresses. They all have their usefulness. Whether they come in as adjuncts to the procreative machinery of the home or remain outside while exerting stabilizing influences by making the man constantly happy. Y'all give it up for young mistresses.

R the younger girls complaining?
Like they don't need the older men than vice-versa. Go to the campuses & figure.

@Niyirocks,

Yes, the girls may not be complaining in those campuses but the male students are. Once, some Unilag boys protested that ha! it was too much and rounded up some Aristos.

Unfortunately, some of these men capitalize on the naive and gullible girls.

OpeLovely:

Unfortunately, some of these men capitalize on the naive and gullible girls.

Dt's where I disagree. Naive where? If u want to do it u want to do it. QED. I have girls in my area dt fetch water for a living. Only 2 days ago did I discover one of them is actually a polytechnic student sponsoring herself through a part-time course. This particular one occasionally comes around to do the laundry too. I'm sure some older men would pay her a lot more than the pittance she's makin presently. She has more than made an impression on me. Nothing about being naive and gullible. We all do what we want to do.