Is it a crime to love and forgive someone. If not for God, i would have killed him, or paralysed him i am in deep pains. my boifriend of 2 years has dealt with me. have you ever imagined having nothing just so that ur partner has something? also when i cut my hand deeply that kept bleeding had to go to hospital, afer telling him, not even a "sorry" on the phone at least but tell me which guy was i with but when he was just sick, a common cold and cough, i never left his side.after he chased me shamelessly for long, i gave in and we were so much in love, u know how it goes afta a while, things begin to change. he has cheated on me on several occasions, i forgave him not because i'm dumb but i love him. when he had bills unpaid, i gave him all i had just to see him happy. on valentine's day, i went to see him, we did not go out but spent together, no gifts, nothing, i felt odd but didn't say anything. then evening time, he dropped me off though i had told him , we go out together, have a nice dinner or something, he was like he had stuffs to do. i met a friend of mine who had her party, she was showing me pictures and i saw this boifriend of mine in the picture dancing on that same valentine's day night. imagine.
i confronted him and we had a misunderstanding which i still pleaded with him to make peace and instead he broke up with me saying i like fighting, nagging. what is the best way to take revenge on such person? help.

move on just like that? when i feel everything has been ripped from me? have u ever been in such situation be4?

Very well, This is a complicated one, but since i dont advertise for break-ups,
I suggest that you relax your nerves and your mind first.

He cheated on you but i believe there is Part two of this whole thing.
Anyway, My advice is that you have to totally abandon the plans to harm him.
That could only cause more troubles for you.

When things quieten down a little bit, try to meet with him.
Try to ignore the Valentine party and what happened.
Focus on how much you love him.
Try to convice him that you love him if you love him.

He will eventually come to terms with that attitude.
And believe me , he will love you and start to learn how to stop cheating on you.
If you do anything stupid, i will simply say that your love for him was just that
You either wanted to get married desperately or You wanted to have him all by yourself.

AND,
Try as fast as possible to forget paying his bills,
getting poor so he could get rich and all those things you believe you did in the name of loving him.

damn that dood was cold but u gotta let it go hard as it may sound
i know it will take someone i very very very much respect to tell me to let it go b4 i would
dood will bleed from his hair roots if i have my way
thank God ur not me
so let it go and leave revenge to God (if u believe in him)
or karma if thats wat floats ur boat

and for the love of all things diamond! ur his girlfriend not his momma!
quit picking up his slack
quit paying his bills!!!

My dear u dont waste ur time on pple dat dont deserve. U shld only love pple dat love u. dont boda tryin to harm him he really doesnt deserve one second of ur time. Focus on making life more enjoyable 4 urself .

destroy his life. Teach that vagabond a lesson, so that he won't be able to do it to another woman.



Though, you have to make sure that you don't want to get back with him.

get at me for ideas, it depends on where you are, and how rich you are.

If you are in Nigeria, send touts to his house to harrass and beat him up, beat him to a pulp.

If you are inLondon/ America, get at me, so I can tell you safe and legal ways to teach him a lesson.  Revenge is sweet.



_{Forgiveness, no matter how difficult is the ultimate freedom.}

The best revenge you can give to him is to move on with your life as though he never existed. Men hate that. I had an experience similar to yours and I made the mistake of trying to get us back together. After 2 weeks, I lost interest and stopped. Now he calls with tales of love. And I'm just not interested in hearing that.

Revenge sometimes could be the best remedy.

According to the Godfather: you need to kill him, cos we don't have the power to forgive, only God has that power.
But then this aint the godfather. Just leave him and move on with your life , trust me, this kind of shit happens all the time.

Sorry though

use a MAGUN on him
works more dan ever

consult the nearest babalawo in the town

but if u need 0ne touch let me know

i got the bullet for u

babalawo won't work jo. I've tried it.



Disgrace him.

How do i disgrace him?

latch:

According to the Godfather: you need to kill him, cos we don't have the power to forgive, only God has that power.
But then this aint the godfather. Just leave him and move on with your life , trust me, this kind of shit happens all the time.

Sorry though

so because it happens all the time, that's why people continue doing this shit and go scot free?

Godmother:

The best revenge you can give to him is to move on with your life as though he never existed. Men hate that. I had an experience similar to yours and I made the mistake of trying to get us back together. After 2 weeks, I lost interest and stopped. Now he calls with tales of love. And I'm just not interested in hearing that.

how would he hate that? when he was the one that let me go after treating me like shit? i'm sure he is happy even breaking up with me. he did it in the meanest way

bluespice:

damn that dood was cold but u gotta let it go hard as it may sound
i know it will take someone i very very very much respect to tell me to let it go b4 i would
dood will bleed from his hair roots if i have my way
thank God ur not me
so let it go and leave revenge to God (if u believe in him)
or karma if thats wat floats ur boat

and for the love of all things diamond! ur his girlfriend not his momma!
quit picking up his slack
quit paying his bills!!!

very very cold i have stopped after all he had the nerves to break up with me after everything. damn!

Sam Milla:

Very well, This is a complicated one, but since i dont advertise for break-ups,
I suggest that you relax your nerves and your mind first.

He cheated on you but i believe there is Part two of this whole thing.
Anyway, My advice is that you have to totally abandon the plans to harm him.
That could only cause more troubles for you.

When things quieten down a little bit, try to meet with him.
Try to ignore the Valentine party and what happened.
Focus on how much you love him.
Try to convice him that you love him if you love him.

He will eventually come to terms with that attitude.
And believe me , he will love you and start to learn how to stop cheating on you.
If you do anything stupid, i will simply say that your love for him was just that
You either wanted to get married desperately or You wanted to have him all by yourself.

AND,
Try as fast as possible to forget paying his bills,
getting poor so he could get rich and all those things you believe you did in the name of loving him.

part two? how. according to him, reason, she tempted him wat was he doing there in the first place with her in his house? i wasnt stupid but overlooked it for peace. what other side. i am sexy enough to keep him and please him so what else. sacrifice, i have for him, everything u could think of, so what?

hun there's lil or nothing u can do

karma's a bitch no?
let it go
slashing his tyres or ruining his paint work wont make significant diff
moreso u could have a lawsuit on ur hands

hey, i totally understand u and feel that i can relate. To be honest move on, as hard as it is. Think of it this way, the time that ur using to think of revenging him he's most likely NOT even thinking about u! So although it hurts (trust me I know) move on with life and achieve all that uve planned beforehand, and trust me it will be one of those stories that concludes with him bumping into u one day and ur doing better than what he ever expected of u!

p.s guys like this NEVER realise that they wont EVER find such a giving, loving,affectionate girl again!!! they end up deceivin themselves with the chicks that pass them by, but trust me, altho they front, they do look back and regret their actions. By that time it'll be too late  

Im talking from experience! I know for a while ul feel bitter, hurt, betrayed and POSSIBLY silly for giving so much but dont let this mumu change u! Even in the future be as lovely and as giving as u naturally are!

topup:

Get a better guy. Not a rebound guy, but a man who will love and respect you. He will want to make a mense when you agrue and you won't even really have much to argue about. He will NEVER cheat on you, and will respect your wishes, if anything, he will only leave you if you turn out to be ungrateful or uncaring and not because he wants any excuse to disappear and live the single life.

It's funny how we seem to believe that everything we gave into relationships are wasted because the relationship ends. I don't think that way, I'm happy with the love I gave, the things I shared because it made the relationship worthwhile. I learnt painful lessons from the breakup but I will never deny that whilst I was in the relationship that everything was worth it.

how do i know a better guy? this same shameless guy was so loving and sweet in the beginning while wooing me and i hadn't given anything yet. i know some pple would say there r 2 sides to a story, but from my side, i just minor issues that we settle or more like faults from him, i try to confront, he turns it to me and at the end i'm the one to apologise. it is wasted all i gave because if it wasn't he would not have the damn nerves to b so so cold to break up with me in such way and manner after i found out all he was doing and i still pleaded at the end. damn

gloriuss:

hey, i totally understand u and feel that i can relate. To be honest move on, as hard as it is. Think of it this way, the time that ur using to think of revenging him he's most likely NOT even thinking about u! So although it hurts (trust me I know) move on with life and achieve all that uve planned beforehand, and trust me it will be one of those stories that concludes with him bumping into u one day and ur doing better than what he ever expected of u!

p.s guys like this NEVER realise that they wont EVER find such a giving, loving,affectionate girl again!!! they end up deceivin themselves with the chicks that pass them by, but trust me, altho they front, they do look back and regret their actions. By that time it'll be too late 

Im talking from experience! I know for a while ul feel bitter, hurt, betrayed and POSSIBLY silly for giving so much but dont let this mumu change u! Even in the future be as lovely and as giving as u naturally are!

like i sai if not for God, only God, i would have killed this guy and send him to the grave. or better still punish him, paralyse him, let me see how he would live his life. i just cant help thinking just move on, just like that while the wicked one is roaming free.

ABEG if u want to kill him then KILL HIM afterall na jail u go go for 8years ahhhh

Understand wat i am saying lady kool, if not for God, meaning that i don't want to suffer the aftermath which includes law and all, i would have killed him, that's the extent of pain he has caused me. i did not say i would kill him

Where are you and how much do you have ? In Nigeria? America ? London ?

If you are in Nigeria, sending touts to beat him up to a pulp.

If you are in America, call immigration or police on him, hahaha! Fill out one of those "Criminal forms" like the ones on the "America's most wanted" and put all of his personal information. Say that he was involved in credit card fraud.

If you're in London, send me an email, buahahaha! He will never treat another woman badly again.


Treat fools like the fools they want to be treated.

@poster
shakes head in pity


i pity ur next BF

U think revenge is the best way right? Trust me its not and infact, it will hit you back one day. Am sure of that.

So please, move on with your life. Just try and find someone whom will not trat you like that again.

Am sure he is going to find a girl whom will suck his blood dry for what he has done to you. Thats just it about life.

Everything in life has a price to pay and nothing is for free.

Nesia:

How do i disgrace him?
so because it happens all the time, that's why people continue doing this shit and go scot free?


how would he hate that? when he was the one that let me go after treating me like shit? i'm sure he is happy even breaking up with me. he did it in the meanest way

If you were trully there for him like you said, then he will hate it if you move on without a damn. He may not hate it now but he will later on.

You got alpha-owned. Mind you, the sweetest revenge you can possibly have is to better yourself by learning from the experience.
Going the eye-for-eye route will make you no better than him. Imagine how cruel, manipulative, hurtful, deceitful, and conniving he was. . . is that the kind of person you envision yourself being? If not, then forget about doing anything cruel to him in return. And please do not try to salvage a friendship or anything with him. Move on with your life, get over him.

I assure you that in a few months you will look back on this proudly and you would be thankful that you didn't do anything stupid to jeopardize your image, all because some useless guy scorned you.

C2H5OH:

You got alpha-owned. Mind you, the sweetest revenge you can possibly have is to better yourself by learning from the experience.
Going the eye-for-eye route will make you no better than him. Imagine how cruel, manipulative, hurtful, deceitful, and conniving he was. . . is that the kind of person you envision yourself being? If not, then forget about doing anything cruel to him in return. And please do not try to salvage a friendship or anything with him. Move on with your life, get over him.

I assure you that in a few months you will look back on this proudly and you would be thankful that you didn't do anything stupid to jeopardize your image, all because some useless guy scorned you.

OR better STILL. . .break a foot in his ass!