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safarigirl:GBAM My admiration for her grew as I watched her control the game. I can remember the first day she told her group on Sunday night " by tomorrow I will know what to do" and by nomination I was like whoa this girl actually did it. Not to forget her she dealt with people that did not toe the line. She is my top game player ever in bba history |
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abuze:The fastest way is to send a tweet to @dstvng with your smart card no. It will be done b/4 2 mins |
Dathommie:Yes, just activate d bba channel which on Mobil is d Oscar p trial channel |
UniqueGem: Read again. I clearly stated that a man has to give up his opinion if he wants his wife to be happy. Moreover all this can be settled if the two parents where around.Ok. I just think the first time needs to be handled delicately I witnessed my best friend who I went to visit 2 days after giving birth and saw her down stairs fetching water by the well. I quickly rushed and carried the water For her, imagine my surprise when I reached her flat upstairs and saw her mother inlaw and sister inlaw in the sitting room watching film. I assumed they did not know when she went to fetch water. When I used long throat to ask her for my share of pepper soup she told me that she hadn't been able to go to market. Na so I start work no pat omogwu, the mother in law will birth the baby and carry the baby during the day. I had to go in the morning and sweep and wash clothes, go to market and cook, lunch for 3 and dinner for 4 plus pepper soup before I go home . I did this for 3 weeks before I started work by then she was able to adjust. The husband tried thanking me with money but I refused while explaining to him it's his wives rite and since no one was doing it I had to step in, he did not understand and cording to my friend he asked an Elder in the church who schooled him. By the second baby his mom came but her mom was there before the birth so it was so much better. There was so much tension that it nearly ruined her relationship with her in laws. I just had to step in. Thank God for a neibour that was a nurse who helped with the nursing of her wound. I never blamed the man's mom as she was elderly and did what she could but the sister ? |
UniqueGem: Okay the truth here (tradition aside): as a man, i will be more comfortable having my Mum around while my wife would undoubtedly be more comfortable having her own mother around. But in life, especially family matter, the male's are always subjected to giving up their opinion for the wife's just for her to be happy. So this leaves the man with no choice than allowing the wife's mother to take charge. I remember When my mum had our last born, my maternal and paternal grandparents both came and everyone was happy, though in such case, the husband must be financially balanced, which is exactly what i'll do when i get married because i really want my mother to be with my kid from the onset. As for the poster that said if the wife's mother is dead, den the wife's sister or any chosen representative frm the wifes family should take charge: This is a BIG NO for me. If the wife's mother is late, then the man's mother should be fully in charge. Any rep from the wife's side should be visiting and nothing more.At the end of the day u have to ask yourself some questions 1) will your wife be comfortable with your mom helping her with her bath as per hot water massages 2)will your wife be comfortable with sending your mom to the market and telling her what to cook 3) will she be comfortable with waking ur mom from a deep sleep late in the nite to carry the baby cos she is really tired and can do with a break. Omogwu is not just going to stay it's more like providing the new mom with support . It's not about who u the man is more comfortable with it's more about who your wife is more comfortable with , who will guide her in this new faze of her life |
Omugwo is an Igbo custom that celebrates motherhood, it's usually observed by women of both families, the woman's mother come before or after the birth of the baby. It is a way of easing the new mother to motherhood. Traditionally the ladies mother comes first. If her mother is late any woman the lady is comfortable with in her family will come. At this stage the omogwu is more like having a house help cos ur mom will clean, cook,for the house, bath and look after the baby while u recover from child birth and learn how to take care of a baby . The mans mother comes to "stay" after the girls mom has gone but if they live in the same town the man's mother can pop in and out. |
Congrats IyawoTm, thank God for safe delivery. Baby is really fine |
On that faithful day, I heard he was shot, then rushed to nL only to read he died in an accident |
Cr7 that how to reply critics ![]() |
I hope the Black stars have made it to the airport and are on their way home, |
BF, make una try score abeg. Good game hope dey sha the boys are playing well |
Psychedelia: Not just Africans; West Africans!Na typo, , Burkina Faso Lego Up west Africa ![]() |
Abeg GH no disappoint us we want Africans to rep Africa in brazil |
Reincarnated: Ehm guest number 1 AKA Lekpalicious, log on and see what's new on my signature. Guess what, it might not be about youI no get alt act lol, na coincidence , am always around for bba juice |
Jumong pan tnx xxxxxxxxxx Still expecting more pics Nb return that hug and kiss to Bimp asp ![]() |
wonlasewonimi: I produced Vic O's hit I didn't get credit for it. What's the fuss about?If u really did then u should know what the fuss is, it's like working hard to buy a car and armed robbers snatching it from u that's what it about, it has happened to me before , doing a term paper and ur lecturer uses it for his book |
Theif na theif this people should know that artistic theifery na serious theifing |
Plagiarism is a serious crime, |
Goooooooaaaaaaaaaal, |
Goaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaal |
Dat no bi offside na |
Why Beverly no wan do something about that fake act, abi twitter no dey close fake acts |
spade: By the way, something came up on Twitter oooh.That woman matter is another thing, Melvin don vex self |
Mistake |
jumong pan: Hahahahah....u don enter one chance be dat......bimp is mine dis weekend. Expect passionate pics of me n Bimp dis weekend, abge make I take am easy before bev go see dis post go block me for gate..hahahahahHahahaha, if not for the pictures we dey expect from you, bev for done block you cos I for report you kiakia make competition dey reduce small for that side |
jumong pan: "@DENRELE_EDUN: @beverly_Osu @TheBimp @BasseyOfficial &ME wil b struttin at d biggest Runway/Shoppin event live in PH ds weekend! #LvmFashionLifeStyleEvent"No snatch Bimp 4rm me when he comes to ph ![]() We dey expect pictures |
All dis people wan win $1k |
I can't forget the day I was in a shopping mall in London and one shop was just blasting this moo baba olowu song, I just felt proud |
Davido with life band, now that's what I call killing it |

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