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Kannywood Actress, Zainab Abdullahi, Asks Northerners To Kill Nigerian Activist, Aisha Yesufu



https://saharareporters.com/2020/10/24/kannywood-actress-zainab-abdullahi-asks-northerners-kill-nigerian-activist-aisha-yesufu

powerfulguy:
Previous thread: https://www.nairaland.com/6200125/hoodlums-residents-invade-warehouse-osun#95242938


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https://twitter.com/StateofOsun/status/1319656837491326976?s=19[/quote]Dumb and wicked explanation... Hunger was killing people and they are justifying the hoarding with not receiving instructions from Abuja... We are our own worst enemies.

Saao:
According to Fani Kayode:



https://m.facebook.com/story.php?story_fbid=10158907230857210&id=62188827209

ijustdey:
https://twitter.com/rutie_xx/status/1310855152946106368?s=20[/quote]Not true... The girls will just be forced to tone down on non essentials... They will feed and live... They will starve regarding new multiple phones, fancy clothes, human hair, fast food and top brand alchoholic beverages...

hansad:
Lol, PMB must have thought that salary cuts shall bring money to generate enough electric current, build more schools, bridges, roads etc. for Nigeria. Outdated PMB!!!

multicast:
I am a fervent reader on Nairaland and i dont miss this forum in 1 day, i have seen people share their concerns here and a lot of people have contributed through their comments, though some are hillarious while others are on point. i will appreciate matured responses.

I did not marry a stranger to start with and its why i am very pained cuz i come here on nairaland and see how people get frustrated about their marriage based on cogent reasons but mine is different.

first of all, I got married in february and am already very tired of my wife, not because she isnt very sexy or good in bed as other may experienced but because my wife starts arguments from little things as little as why did u miss my call, even if its a BBM call thats dependent of network, after hours of begging i have to end up with uncountable "am sorry".

secondly, my wife find it very easy to engage in malice for days without bothering to reconcile, and i have to talk to her over again and make her see reason why such act is not good in marriage, for which she will later apologize and the next day or same day she is back again in another episode.

thirdly, every man love to be respected, when my wife starts her drama about missed call or other flimsy excuses, she starts talking to me like am her junior brother, calling me names and after noticing how mad i am with her, she will apologize but always repeat such act.

i feel the amount of love and attention she gets from me is too much and i am beginning to think i should make her understand what it feels like to have a frustrated marriage. though am yet to do that.

i honestly am not perfect but i have never used any harsh word while addressing her even when she is obviously wrong, i dont do so because i know the feeling when she use them for me. i wish i could anyway.

i grew up in a place where women are highly regarded and well treated and maybe its affecting me because i also help her do chores and i dont push all the house work to her as most men do.

i noticed i am always very unhappy and depressed the moment she comes up with this episodes and it may be because i love her so much and this is beginning to affect how i study and i might be forced to push her away first by not giving her attention as i used to.

My fellow Nairalanders, i respect ur opinion, hillarious ones and reasonable ones, marriage is not a bed of roses, i love my wife and i am not cheating on her, i am 100% married to her alone but her attitude is frustrating and i might have to leave her in the end. i hope i get lucky and this make FP so i can learn from experienced members before i take a decision, as we speak she has began the malice episode with me and if i dont apologize to her in 3 days, she is ready to go that far too.

Princeojua:
Hi Nairalanders. I am a confirm elite of this great forum. I go by the name Sammy.

Last year I packed into a Self-Contained apartment near my school. Opposite me is a wonderful family with two daughters and two sons, with a strict and disciplinarian. father.

I was seating right in my veranda reading because I suppose that's my purpose of being there, when, a young girl of 17years old and in SS3 approached me with an exercise book supposing to be a Maths assignment. I didn't hide the fact that I know nothing about maths. I boldly refused doing the assignment, so she left.

Two days after, she resurfaced with English assignment,and I quickly did justice to it. after the assignment. I didn't know when I said "you're beautiful and I Love you."

She quickly reciprocate in strong affirmation I LOVE YOU TOO. So last week, she came to my house 6days after her menstruation and I had an unprotected sex with her.

Ever since then, my conscience has been disturbing me that the sex may result to pregnancy. Her Dad is a brutal and uncompromising man.

Please what should I do in case anything go wrong? Because I am already giving up on her due to her Dad. she told me today that she feel guilty ever since the day I deflowered her.

Help me out please. I think my Dad will not support me either because he's more brutal than her Dad. God, help me.

Aviero:
We met last October . She helped me with a project and since then we got talking. I really liked her because of her nice qualities. So it happened that we started dating.

Now the problem is she is just too good to be true. I really don't know how to put this, but she's overly concerned about my well-being. All of a sudden she is just too nice and I'm somehow scared now. Whenever there is a misunderstanding, she will begin to apologize and start crying even though I'm the one at fault. That is just one.
Whenever she texts me and I don't reply, she will call. If I fail to answer her call, she will start coming over. When I ask her why she is so bothered, she will say she thought something has happened.
Recently, I no longer have my space. She is always around. She always want to be there when I hang out with friends. She doesn't even give me any chance to miss her. Now it seems I'm getting tired of her.

She doesn't let me do anything for her when I try to. Now it is as If I'm the babe.
Recently she jokingly told me that if she sees me with another lady she will poison me and she will kill herself. She wasn't looking serious but I became scared.

Now we have not even dated for more than 4 months and she has started talking of settling down.
I do not know if this is love or obsession. Because this is not the kind of love I asked God for..

lagos360:
A friend has been into music for like eternity. He'd always sing for us (friends). He's an IT guy, not that he's making millions but fairly comfortable. He was into a very serious relationship last year and composed a song that he meant to be played on his wedding day. Unfortunately things went sour and the relationship was ended. He finished the song about two weeks ago. We convinced him to put it online and the response has been small but exciting. Thing is, he got an email, then a call from one of the current top 10 artist in the Nigerian music industry offering to buy the song for 5 Million naira cash.

He has it in him and can always write another one... He should sell to the artist, make friends with the artist and build social capital for his music career.... How many songs has he written?
Point is, cos of the response he's been getting from the song, he's thinking of recording an album. We've been talking of taking the songs to radio stations (we understand it's not going to be free and we could pull it off to get a fair amount of airplay).

I don't want to sound arrogant but 5M while quite an amount isn't enough I think. This song in question is the type of song that's just different and unique in its own way. I think my friend's song can shape his music career just like "African Queen" shaped 2Baba's career.

olamonsor2:
Apc will lose ss , se and taraba. He will win others. Victory to Apc. Sokoto,bauchi will help Apc so much

prettydiva89:
of course why won't he beat you when your kid together is out of wedlock,why won't he take you for granted..
But that's a bad thing to do anyway

Billyonaire:
You cant take your mother out of your marriage. You can not have another mother. A mother is who you run to, for advise, when you face difficulties in marriage. What type of man will abandon his kids and wife because of his personal ego ? There is no love there. Love humbles a man.

Billyonaire:
The man beats the wife, the mother-in-law called the cops and child protection and the man hates the mother-in-law. The wife and the kids are at the center of a mor0n and the mom.

That man is immature and unstable. The mother did the right thing. The wife holds the key. Love has to be pushed aside. If your man is not coming for you then where is his own love for you ? That's a loveless marriage. If a man does not love the wife and kids ienough to visit the mom in law to settle his nonsense, I can only advise that the marriage be ended and someone has to pay for child support, you can even report to police to strip him of his papers, he simply married her for the papers and is probably planning his steps.

He was wrong to lay hands on her but they have past that and that is not what is causing the problem now... Its funny how we easily support marriage breakups.., yes the mother in law was right to call the cops... And he resents her for it... But it is childish of the wife to move out because he didn't attend her mothers party.... Come on... If she had moved out when she was beaten I would insist the guy begs her to come back with his family and friends... But party... Haha... She should go home abeg...

umulobi:
They knew the Holy Catholic church would have exposed them.......after d ignoramous 'll start ranting catholic did this,catholic did that....Born a Catholic,living a Catholic faith & 'll die a Catholic....Proud to be a Catholic!!!!!

Mogenerous:
Ok, sometimes last year, my friend's niece was asking for goodies from her grandma, and the grandma told her she wasn't going to give that she'd enough already. The girl started crying and i was like "awww, crystal is crying, oya sowi", immediately she wiped the tears off and said "stop telling me sowi, i'm only faking it"... This girl was 2years old as at then, but she speaks like an adults and those words of hers made me wonder till date tho i busted out laughing after i realized i was punked