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Who also get worried and hopes his sisters gets married off the street to a good man in no distant time? And not suffer the dreaded husband search syndrome of 30+ ladies.. Imagine that your innocent god fearing little sister

Omo how time flies, those sweet little sisters of 16, 17 of yesterday are now hitting 30. Looks unreal. Already graduates, one has Msc

Although they are doing well job wise for themselves paying their own bills, but I see myself praying for them to get good husband. Am I the only one having this feeling as a brother. More like I've started counting time for them.
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God abeg o, favour my sisters, They are too young for husband wahala abeg. Even at 29/30 , in my eyes they still feel young and naive.
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FaAbData:
If they become a county they won't do all these. They're doing these to distabilize the country.

They'll be no reason to fight as a country

I detest northern leader so much
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If Nigerians had collective sense. They should have blacklisted anything leader that has to do with North. because they are the Genesis of APC incompetence and insecurity in this country. They are now talking of Atiku. Rubbish. But some fvvlish southern mugu are hailing Atiku. Foooools

I can't wait to see North become a country and let see if they won't destroy themselves

Kobojunkie:
1. This is untrue for all. 🥱🥱

2. Also untrue! The moment you settle, you have lost the gamble.

It's very true for most men. I hope you are man anyway.
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The first heart break of a man is usually the most painful, most men get callous and become a player who see fine girls as game and trophy for sex..... That life makes them feel confused when it's time to marry that they just pick one gamble

BeautyV:
Hello Nairaland family,
I need serious help o! It’s Christmas soon and I want to get my husband something nice — but he literally doesn’t fancy anything. Not cake, not watches, not gadgets, not perfume — he says he doesn’t need anything, and I’m struggling o 😩.

He’s the type that will say “I’m fine, don't worry yourself” when you ask what he wants. I still want to make him feel loved this Christmas, so I’m looking for thoughtful gift ideas that hit emotionally and meaningfully, not just random stuff.

A bit about him:
• Calm, low-key guy
• Not into flashy things
• Appreciates sincerity but won’t say it out loud

I want to impress him with something he’ll actually appreciate because his so difficult with when it comes to gifting him 😅

Please throw ideas at me — from experiences, personalized gifts, keepsakes, meaningful surprises, anything y’all think would score points with a man who says “I like nothing.”

Thanks in advance 🙌💡

You want to gift someone a thing, you are asking what he wants....What do you expect him to say, to tell you he needs a car?
He probably believes you are not as thoughtful, otherwise you won't be asking him, He doesn't even believe you mean it. Lol.... Cos we are not used to women giving us gift cos they only know how to collect... And your asking is kinda proving that.

Nigerian woman buying things for her man still feels like a joke or movie to him. So let's see if you will proof him wrong. Na why he said he doesn't need anything.

There's nothing like loving relationship after your first heart break, ... other relationship after your first breakfast is mere games and role playing.
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Then deciding to settle with a gal afterwards is just a matter of chance or gamble

My question is: if I give girl Belle without marrying her legally and I assume responsibility of the kids and Lady, will that Lady be entitled to my wealth.


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I don't see why a sensible guy to get married in US/UK

Better you use asbestos than end up in hospital because of POP. Make we get sense

Maybe inspiration to work hard.
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Most rich people have wife, or wives

ThunderFireAgba:
Really?
So what would you say about the massai people in Kenya or the Zulus in South Africa that ransacked the natives to claim it as their land?

There's no tribe in African that's as notorious as the Fulani.
They are in almost all or half of African countries causing trouble everywhere they are

food4tot:
My very dear one, please take a second and evaluate your goals in this coming year.
If your goal is to have a comfortable life, there are several ways this can be achieved.

However, it seems your goal is to japa. which is a totally different thing. There are Nigerians in the diaspora doing well but a lot end up doing menial jobs. Imagine living a desperate life as a second class citizen.

Una fit advice goat if goat give una chance.
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Tell me out of all the people who japa what's the percentage of the people who preferred he was home and felt he wasted his life compared to people who are at home frustrated. Make una dey think cos this advice dey always vex me.

It's as if witchcraft dey worry all of una.
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Cos..
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Nigeria has over 75% of his population in multidirectional poverty..That's 75% of your people in abject generational penury and u get mind dey advise people not to japa? Even the 30% wey remain, the people living good life among them can be more than 5%

Come and advise me when we have 75% of people who japa fall into abject poverty and suffering occasioned by their japa... ... Critical thinking is really far from you people. Nonsense

Nwaikpe:
But what are you guys looking for here exactly?

Is there something Nigerians get here that I am not aware of?

If you there, then ask yourself why the hell you are there before kpaing me bulabic Apc question

hassinho707:
you a not serious. common sense didn't ask you to listen to what she said in the video....

You only commented on seeing headline of the news

no vex, na junkie news , na why I no click am

KingOfAmebo:
Just 200 Naira data to load on your phone to watch the video for clarity would have saved you from this public embarrassment you brought upon yourself out of ignorance.... being broke is indeed risky and a threat to life.

Idioota. Broke ke?
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Im just allergic to clicking unwarranted videos, cos nairaland sabi push rubbish for our views

Mtcheww. I've written two IELTS in the past that all expired because of legit reasons and disappointments. And that won't stop me from writing another one again soon.
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If dem like make japa fee be 500million , who God destined to be there will be there even if he no get job for naija

bluebay:
Nothing always Dey vex me pass that him husband for every background of the woman picture with his cap like Watin them use for Vietnam war.

Oga you are evil. So you don't want him to be proud of his wife and act supportive. Na why urgent 2k girls fit una be dat

How are they related. What exactly has the young guy done for Senator Natasha to warrant her giving him a whole house... Hmmm. Hope it's not what I'm thinking sha.. ... . And even seeing how the guys bicep is thick and fat.....May God sha have mercy

Kobojunkieee:
I would ask you if you go out there seeking your mother in every woman you are interested in. That is more of a concern to me.

2. How many foreign women do you know of? Let's start with that.

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One of the most foolish question an adult would ask.
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Even if you assume I'm resident in Nigeria. Ur head should tell you. I should have friends and relatives abroad. And if your head doesn't do that, then you should know I should have foreign friends online and belong to foreign platforms. And if that is too intuitive for you, at least you should know I read books and watch movies, and I also belong to a global community. How you don't see an irrelevant question bothers me

Why was this vetting not done on Tinubu before he use Lagos and one village in Osum as his ancestral home

Kobojunkie:
Wrong! Women have a right and reason to bill men for their attention and energy. It is simple as that.🥱🥱

2. You are always free to find yourself only those ladies who are cheaper to engage with. That is how any market works. That don't make the costlier ones bad; just means they are those you cannot afford. 🥱🤐🤐

How many times did your mother or her generation billed your father for initiating conversation.
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Foreign women don't behave this way. Its a cultural problem that got worse over time.
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IgOga:
Aponle o si fun oba ti o lolori

Well even though I don't care or believe in birthday, I don't think you can use wife to judge a Christian
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Jesus never married
Paul had no recorded wife... So it means a wife is not a criteria to measure the identity or honour of a man of God

missjekyll:
It does sound somehow,doesnt it? At least buy her a fanta just to show willing.

I would have done the same thing in Nigeria

Na this attitude from the start dey make woman dey disrespect and bill una. Any lady who behaved like this lady becos a guy dint buy her thing on first date can never amount to anything good in relationship. I can stake my all.

Nigerian women have destroyed the essence of relationship.
Kai. No wonder I stopped collecting number. You look me, I look you back, you go your way, I go my way. Just not worth it

A cat will win. That's all matters

I'm not impressed at all and will say this
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The culture of birthday celebration is a worldly and not a christian culture.
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No apostle of Jesus ever celebrated themselves for anything, they always laboured and kept human celebration away while focusing on Christ.
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Jesus was celebrated once during the triumphant entry, where he rode on donkey, and it was a symbolic event to fulfill prophesy. Not a yearly practice.

The only two places birthday was mentioned in the bible was done by Gentile Kings, not by Israelites. One was by Pharaoh, the new testament account by King Herod led to the beheading of John the Baptist.
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Where did the Christian of 2025 got the culture of elaborate birthday celebration.? Where?
Are we to be celebrating earthly achievement as Christian? When we know this world is not ours and whatever we call legacy is just poo that will be wiped away and we will be left with judgement in heaven

I'm never impressed for all these birthday self glorification. Oyedepo does it, Adeboye does it, Oyakilomeh, almost all of them.
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To me it's not a Christian practice but a copy of unbelievers pride of self glorification which are fleshly affairs.

Mistersolar:
ive detached since a month plus

Then move on. Face your new girl , career, hobby or any ambition.

If you have detached then you will do everything possible to limit connection or interraction with her which might trigger your affection or emotion

Nothing anybody one tell me
There's something evil and satanic about crypto
It seems like a rabbit hole where hope is sold and most people are only being used and stolen from.
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The worst thing that ever happened to me is buying into the dream of crypto and getting into it since 2016 and always committing the largest chunk of money that comes into my hand
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And since then, I can't even tell you how much I've lost. Regardless of the level of trading skill you attain, No matter how much I gain or make, the system just know how to collect it back.
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If I must say Crypto is advanced gambling and it's as addictive and degrading as the hopelessness compulsive gambling can do to anyone..
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The system is already rigged against us to exploit our ambition, hope, greed, patience and even reliance on the so called chart tools.


Crypto. Is a system the devil uses to take from us.

Run from it. And treat it as nothing less than betnaija

That's why I actually see them as very foolish and brainless. I've know this since I was young.

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Apart from jihadist and kill for their demon God, the next set of human being I have no respect for and I literally believe are foolish and dumb and childish are actually cultist
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