₦airaland Forum

Kobojunkie:
All of them lies, since there are literally no difference between your many spiritual/religious type and the non-religoius men out there... they all seem to see women are objects for their desires.

Is it men of God u came to serve? Abi God?
What stops you from becoming the true man of God who people can learn the truth about God from instead of always lamenting about so called men of God.
Cos it always seems u are trying to heal from certain trauma inflicted by your associating wit fake men of God in the past. Try and become a true man of God and your life can give meaning to other yearnings to meet real men of God

A lot of women can actually kiss a man like this. A lot of them on this platform at that. As long as he has money.
Nigerian women have no taste. No spiritual consideration. No virtue, no character check.. Just money. Kai
What a terrible devilish mindset that can lie with the devil himself.
If you are a man, you need to be extremely spiritual and sensitive to not attract those luciferous women, it's very important they don't come close to you and you don't receive them. They are only meant to suck u dry and destroy u. I will rather be single forever than share same house or bed with those women.

She has had two husbands who are both alive. Is that biblical? On what ground did she leave the first and marry the second.. Isn't that adultery for a woman according to both old and new testament?

Dpsychologist:
Wahala for the hyperreligious.

We are too superstitious in Nigeria.

There's difference between spiritual truth and superstition.
The day you start seeing the spiritual knowledge that underpins sexual purity, you will have deeper understanding of the whys of what you write about, and you will gain the power to live above the trappings of sexual snares laid by women of easy virtues. That's the true freedom

No spiritually serious man should be found doing transactional dating business on those hook up app.
It's like trading away your life force and sense of purpose with profane souls that have nothing to offer other than destruction. In fact feasting on those pictures is like focusing on fake damage product that are mere septic tanks of deceits. I

Wise Men would beware of those site peopled by women of coven spirit, marine spirit and soulless life sucking women... whose aim is to bring you down.

Mumu man
There are something u are not supposed to be told as a man..... Extending help when not told and when you have capacity to do is what makes you reasonable, honorable, and respectable.

When and where is the final burial ceremony..... jollof rice and one cow should go down for this

Dejaadsman:
Na asiwaju effect

Everything for this govt including the breaking news are just staged comedy... Meant to deceive the agbado fooools not me sha

Sanwo Olu the destroyer of people's home and properties... Because he's following destructive blueprint of Jagaban,

Medicine after drug, abi drug after medicine
Abi how dem dey talk am

Racoon:
I personally feel whenever the woman is physically, emotionally and psychologically stable to resume sexual activity

What if it's after 2 years, that's it....... Bbcbdbfbfbfbdb

Sunnyshinylight:
So tell me, what benefit ensued from doing those things that you’re now ashamed of? It left you with nothing but a legacy of shame and death.

Hope u are a married woman sha, because I hardly trust single women saying all these

If you quit because of insults.... By the time hunger wire you, u go know say to beg for food is the higher insult.
If u must leave save first..... And secure another work first

If you think it's Tinubu
U are likely to vote Buhari if he wakes from death to contest next election

Na Thug and political criminals dey enjoy for this our country o.
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Hundreds of houses demolished in Abuja by Woke the drunkard, and thousands of people are homeless in Lagos courtesy of the governor ruthless house demolition... Yet no compensation.
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But a thug is getting about 1Billion in compensation in another state. What a country

Even Buhari has released Kanu.
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But anyone who Thinks will release Kanu before 2031 is naive. Tinubu will never release him, because he knows he's a political force. It predict it will be the next president that will release him.. Probably an Igbo president.. .

Chinese are the most innovative people in the world
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The real truth is that, you have evolved above your environment. If you were in school campus, you would be able to find your type easily.
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What you must do is not chasing girls or looking for cheap sex, please don't start. Work more on your career, or on your business or any ambition you have so that it can take you to the next level, you are due for another level, don't remain there trying to bring down your value because you want the street girls, what it does to a man is retrogression, instead move up the social and economic ladder once u do that, it will bring you to a new level of interactions and environment where you can be close to people that vibrate at your frequency, and as such it will be better you date for marriage, your new environment should bring you closer to a woman of ur type.... Because that's where u will meet her.
If you try to come down to these girls level, and start having sex with them, it can bring set back.
Grow beyond ur current environment and move to another higher one by upgrading yourself, finance, career or job status..... Stop thinking about ladies that are below your level. Just stop it.... And move up

HRTOFAKNG:
Well, I agree with you to some extent, especially where you say " for a newbie". But I want to tell you categorically there are businesses you can actually put that amount and get something close to. But be ready to work your ass out😁

I still repeat,
The probability that 5x will happen is still close to zero for a newbie Oga in that so called business. Name it.
If he tries that venture 10 times, maybe he will make 5x only once. That's wasting 20Million on something that will only work once (10M) with a probability of 0.1 ... Think am... Is it worth it?
Is it not better he used the money to eat than chasing 5x?
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Tell us the business, and we will calculate the probability for you... And it will be close to zero

HRTOFAKNG:
This type of negative mindset will not allow you grow bro! 🥺 I bet you there are multiple businesses one can venture into with that amount and with consistency you make close to or more than in a year! All you need do is put your ears on the ground and ask questions you will surprise that there's money to be make in this country!

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In this country? Or where?
Where you will turn 2Million to 10Million in a year. Oga, don't be naive, e no dey. If you try am, you will end up with risky ventures that will end up wasting the money.
Anyone with that mindset of 5× on ROI is not meant to be in business because he will lose all the money. Trust me. It's better to budget the money for food, at least it can last him a year or two eating and surviving than chasing 5X business model...... Which he hasn't even done before....
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The only business he can try is
MMM, betting, Crypto trading, stock trading... etc... And u know what, no novice or first timer can pull that 5x profit in a year, they will lose all that money at last.
. If he talks of 30% gain..... Or 50% gain highest... Maybe he can have the sense to pursue legit business.. But 5x ROI? E no dey for newbie, it's better e use it to eat chicken, which can last for two years, than losing it like a smoke. I hope u understand my pov

autoez:
Man Utd needs a high profile coach. No be all these chicken coaches. 🤣🤣

If you be Guardiola, Zidane, or Klopp, Shay u go gree go United Way go spoil your name wey u build for decades and stain your career record in less than 6month?
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No sensible high profile coach will open his eyes go enter United cursed wahala... The only high profile they should go and beg to help them is Alex Ferguson.

Oga, don't invest on anything.
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Just buy land and use the rest to be eating and enjoying your life. Must you live a stressful life? If you die, another person go chop. Just buy land... And Keep enough that can last you for 5 years, and be withdrawing fixed amount on monthly basis like salary.... Enjoy urself, leave investment. Just buying land is enough. Enjoy and focus on what you love to do instead of wasting money on investment that is all probability

cr7lomo:
People actually loose more money investing than flexing.... if u hear that someone blew 100m ...if u check the records...u will see that over half of that money was lost thru trying to invest

You will be shocked those people hardly spend a lot to eat quality food or enjoy themselves yet they will waste millions in trying to chase millions with nothing to show. I have been there.
It would have been better they just use half of the money to buy maybe land and use the remaining half to enjoy themselves while sleeping and waking doing nothing else with peace of mind... Other than losing the whole money on risky business..

Mrpojj:
I cant even look prostitute twice
How una dey take do am

Many na Alcohol, smoking and drug dey give dem the morale, some na lack of direction in life dey cause am

KiNg0G:
how do I start genuinely

It's a marathon walk and battle my brother.
One of the things I hated then was to yeild my life and agency to God because it seems it would make me miss all the fun in the world. But by the time all the fun began to take its toll on virtually every aspect of my life, I had to take that hard decision of yielding before I began to see a shift in appetites and inclination. It all beg in with genuine heart. God loves dealing with people with genuine and honest effort......

Start a 10 days fast. Eat just once in a day. In that period, delete all the olosho contacts u have that you frequently call and all. Delete all porn in your phone, leave all porn channel or group you are on WhatsApp and telegram. Stop listening to music that are charged with sexual themes. And decide to stop Alcohol and smoking for all this fasting period then institute strict lifestyle changes to stop it after the fast. See, it's a real battle that will cure you of all sexual addiction demons once and for all.

Pray as you fast, read the scriptures like a new found interest. When bored, listen to men of God regularly on YouTube. Men of God like, Arome Osayi, Stephen Cephas, and Orokpo Micheal.
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All the best... And look for a church you will be comfortable going regularly. You will have to this for the next 6 months while killing the urge to collect number and talk to random girls .


Good luck

gbaskiboy:
First step is to talk to people about your habit not people who are in same habits of yours. Speak to mature person that is the first step to end your addiction on prostitution..

In my own case , I didn't talk to anyone, I only simply genuinely gave my life to Christ praying, fasting and stop going to bars totally, while going to church regularly as much as I went to bars these days.

We nairaland bro need to organize 7 days online prayer for you. Because we are sad that one of our real own is passing through this demonic oppression. Since u really come out unashamed I pray the Lord shall lose u the Lord shall set u free from the hold of oloshoism. Amen.

Nigeria always frustrating good things. Same refinery they can't build and maintain. Nigeria is a mess o . E no easy to succeed legit for here

ZombieDredd:
Unfortunately for them, the recompense awaits wether coping mechanisms or not.
Unless they change...

Will they ever believe? People whose worldview and rationale for doing scam and ritual is saying and believing politicians do same, and thinking politicians who do same don't seem to receive repercussion. Na the motivation be that most time..... Meanwhile, repercussion is the surest thing in life. .. And can come in any form.

It's a coping mechanism for them shaming people... Since their conscience is biting them that the recompense of their action is imminent. So they shame others to make others feel bad... Just as they also regretting their actions