₦airaland Forum

Dejaadsman:
Na asiwaju effect

Everything for this govt including the breaking news are just staged comedy... Meant to deceive the agbado fooools not me sha

Sanwo Olu the destroyer of people's home and properties... Because he's following destructive blueprint of Jagaban,

Medicine after drug, abi drug after medicine
Abi how dem dey talk am

Racoon:
I personally feel whenever the woman is physically, emotionally and psychologically stable to resume sexual activity

What if it's after 2 years, that's it....... Bbcbdbfbfbfbdb

Sunnyshinylight:
So tell me, what benefit ensued from doing those things that you’re now ashamed of? It left you with nothing but a legacy of shame and death.

Hope u are a married woman sha, because I hardly trust single women saying all these

If you quit because of insults.... By the time hunger wire you, u go know say to beg for food is the higher insult.
If u must leave save first..... And secure another work first

If you think it's Tinubu
U are likely to vote Buhari if he wakes from death to contest next election

Na Thug and political criminals dey enjoy for this our country o.
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Hundreds of houses demolished in Abuja by Woke the drunkard, and thousands of people are homeless in Lagos courtesy of the governor ruthless house demolition... Yet no compensation.
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But a thug is getting about 1Billion in compensation in another state. What a country

Even Buhari has released Kanu.
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But anyone who Thinks will release Kanu before 2031 is naive. Tinubu will never release him, because he knows he's a political force. It predict it will be the next president that will release him.. Probably an Igbo president.. .

Chinese are the most innovative people in the world
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The real truth is that, you have evolved above your environment. If you were in school campus, you would be able to find your type easily.
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What you must do is not chasing girls or looking for cheap sex, please don't start. Work more on your career, or on your business or any ambition you have so that it can take you to the next level, you are due for another level, don't remain there trying to bring down your value because you want the street girls, what it does to a man is retrogression, instead move up the social and economic ladder once u do that, it will bring you to a new level of interactions and environment where you can be close to people that vibrate at your frequency, and as such it will be better you date for marriage, your new environment should bring you closer to a woman of ur type.... Because that's where u will meet her.
If you try to come down to these girls level, and start having sex with them, it can bring set back.
Grow beyond ur current environment and move to another higher one by upgrading yourself, finance, career or job status..... Stop thinking about ladies that are below your level. Just stop it.... And move up

HRTOFAKNG:
Well, I agree with you to some extent, especially where you say " for a newbie". But I want to tell you categorically there are businesses you can actually put that amount and get something close to. But be ready to work your ass out😁

I still repeat,
The probability that 5x will happen is still close to zero for a newbie Oga in that so called business. Name it.
If he tries that venture 10 times, maybe he will make 5x only once. That's wasting 20Million on something that will only work once (10M) with a probability of 0.1 ... Think am... Is it worth it?
Is it not better he used the money to eat than chasing 5x?
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Tell us the business, and we will calculate the probability for you... And it will be close to zero

HRTOFAKNG:
This type of negative mindset will not allow you grow bro! 🥺 I bet you there are multiple businesses one can venture into with that amount and with consistency you make close to or more than in a year! All you need do is put your ears on the ground and ask questions you will surprise that there's money to be make in this country!

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In this country? Or where?
Where you will turn 2Million to 10Million in a year. Oga, don't be naive, e no dey. If you try am, you will end up with risky ventures that will end up wasting the money.
Anyone with that mindset of 5× on ROI is not meant to be in business because he will lose all the money. Trust me. It's better to budget the money for food, at least it can last him a year or two eating and surviving than chasing 5X business model...... Which he hasn't even done before....
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The only business he can try is
MMM, betting, Crypto trading, stock trading... etc... And u know what, no novice or first timer can pull that 5x profit in a year, they will lose all that money at last.
. If he talks of 30% gain..... Or 50% gain highest... Maybe he can have the sense to pursue legit business.. But 5x ROI? E no dey for newbie, it's better e use it to eat chicken, which can last for two years, than losing it like a smoke. I hope u understand my pov

autoez:
Man Utd needs a high profile coach. No be all these chicken coaches. 🤣🤣

If you be Guardiola, Zidane, or Klopp, Shay u go gree go United Way go spoil your name wey u build for decades and stain your career record in less than 6month?
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No sensible high profile coach will open his eyes go enter United cursed wahala... The only high profile they should go and beg to help them is Alex Ferguson.

Oga, don't invest on anything.
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Just buy land and use the rest to be eating and enjoying your life. Must you live a stressful life? If you die, another person go chop. Just buy land... And Keep enough that can last you for 5 years, and be withdrawing fixed amount on monthly basis like salary.... Enjoy urself, leave investment. Just buying land is enough. Enjoy and focus on what you love to do instead of wasting money on investment that is all probability

cr7lomo:
People actually loose more money investing than flexing.... if u hear that someone blew 100m ...if u check the records...u will see that over half of that money was lost thru trying to invest

You will be shocked those people hardly spend a lot to eat quality food or enjoy themselves yet they will waste millions in trying to chase millions with nothing to show. I have been there.
It would have been better they just use half of the money to buy maybe land and use the remaining half to enjoy themselves while sleeping and waking doing nothing else with peace of mind... Other than losing the whole money on risky business..

Mrpojj:
I cant even look prostitute twice
How una dey take do am

Many na Alcohol, smoking and drug dey give dem the morale, some na lack of direction in life dey cause am

KiNg0G:
how do I start genuinely

It's a marathon walk and battle my brother.
One of the things I hated then was to yeild my life and agency to God because it seems it would make me miss all the fun in the world. But by the time all the fun began to take its toll on virtually every aspect of my life, I had to take that hard decision of yielding before I began to see a shift in appetites and inclination. It all beg in with genuine heart. God loves dealing with people with genuine and honest effort......

Start a 10 days fast. Eat just once in a day. In that period, delete all the olosho contacts u have that you frequently call and all. Delete all porn in your phone, leave all porn channel or group you are on WhatsApp and telegram. Stop listening to music that are charged with sexual themes. And decide to stop Alcohol and smoking for all this fasting period then institute strict lifestyle changes to stop it after the fast. See, it's a real battle that will cure you of all sexual addiction demons once and for all.

Pray as you fast, read the scriptures like a new found interest. When bored, listen to men of God regularly on YouTube. Men of God like, Arome Osayi, Stephen Cephas, and Orokpo Micheal.
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All the best... And look for a church you will be comfortable going regularly. You will have to this for the next 6 months while killing the urge to collect number and talk to random girls .


Good luck

gbaskiboy:
First step is to talk to people about your habit not people who are in same habits of yours. Speak to mature person that is the first step to end your addiction on prostitution..

In my own case , I didn't talk to anyone, I only simply genuinely gave my life to Christ praying, fasting and stop going to bars totally, while going to church regularly as much as I went to bars these days.

We nairaland bro need to organize 7 days online prayer for you. Because we are sad that one of our real own is passing through this demonic oppression. Since u really come out unashamed I pray the Lord shall lose u the Lord shall set u free from the hold of oloshoism. Amen.

Nigeria always frustrating good things. Same refinery they can't build and maintain. Nigeria is a mess o . E no easy to succeed legit for here

ZombieDredd:
Unfortunately for them, the recompense awaits wether coping mechanisms or not.
Unless they change...

Will they ever believe? People whose worldview and rationale for doing scam and ritual is saying and believing politicians do same, and thinking politicians who do same don't seem to receive repercussion. Na the motivation be that most time..... Meanwhile, repercussion is the surest thing in life. .. And can come in any form.

It's a coping mechanism for them shaming people... Since their conscience is biting them that the recompense of their action is imminent. So they shame others to make others feel bad... Just as they also regretting their actions

laivwire:
You didn't add money for gas

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I swear.. make he go buy 50kg gas fill am.... If he can subscribe dstv for one year, e no go bad ajeh... At Least he go see where the money go

childofdoom don get younger brother

This Question is the fastest way to lose that money without enjoying anything out of it than tears, regret and heart attack.

See
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It's better you buy 2 big fridge, stock it with Titus, frozen chicken, turkey, crayfish, and grinded pepper...

Then buy 3 bag of rice, one bag of beans, tubers of yam, boxes of indomie, spaghetti, and a lot of cans of milk, Milo, egg, and enjoy your life till the whole foodstuff finish, at least you chop the money for ur head, than looking for how to multiply it by 5 to make it 10million in a year.....
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Oga, The probability is close to zero.zero that you will succeed in any business that will multiply it by 5x in a year for a business u don't even know yet..
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Speaking from plenty years of experience losing millions to this kind of thinking and question which will lead you to ventures that will make you lose the money in record time while u remain hungry.

I just say make I advise u. If u like hear

Remijuice:
How to get a better girl for marriage...

I'm not going to explain why but just follow it through
1) Find out if she is closer to her father than her mother or Make she get breast, even moderate. Girls with oranges dey heart for back
2) Approach her first but make sure she loves you first
3) She is not too religious. Going to church is different.
4) She has never at a point worked or own a bar.
5) Finally and most importantly, if your relationship start going to 'so if I don't call you, you will not call me abi'. Start looking for another one.

All these point is good, But I'm not interested in them until she first passes the dressing test. The dressing test is my first most important test. If she passes my Almighty WAEC test, then we can go to JAMB test, and then proceed to POST-UTME test...
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One step at a time.... person no pass WAEC, u one give am JAMB test?

Sometimes it's that call from home that gives you panic attack.

So we are giving secondary school pupil attention when we should be drawing their 2 ear and konking their head to go and read

Don't make the mistake of not knowing God intimately before marriage.

If you do, your woman will frustrate you without having who will console you.... You need God for wisdom, guidance, manhood framing and periodic consolations

frankblinkz:
you better believe in ogwugwu to have everlasting life.

People like your get to know too late with regrets