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Just make sure Boko boys no catch you O. All the best sha African Queen

Shows how far Nigerian system and its police has decayed

Same thing some pastors are doing without remorse. And some will say touch not my anointed. Christians should be ashamed of those pastors.
It seems unbelievers are more honourable

Same thing some pastors are doing without remorse. Christians should be ashamed of those pastors.
It seems unbelievers are more honourable

kenodrill:
Please where are you from.I'm 39years old single and in search of a good woman to sette down with.

Mail -------------> wifelymail@gmail.com

njelrapheal:
He said he only plays bet. So I assume that maybe sustaining him for now. Who knows

Betnaija is an evil everyman must fight . The worst devil not worth depending on

Ebenezer2021:
the bolded is where the problem lies
Assuming they weren't doing well and paying their bills by now they would have settled.
Team independent women my foot

Don't you pray for your daughters to get a job and fend for themselves after you must have sponsored them to school?

njelrapheal:
Is he making money from it. Is he decent? Does he have plans to have something doing. You know it may only. Be his present predicament

Who makes money from Betnaija that is sustainable enough to cater for bills? Are you?

Sirchiboy:
Your two sisters dont they have bf?

I don't know, and I'm only concerned about marriage

Tinubu wey no geh certificate one wunjure us with long tax policy wey long pass PhD literature review..... How do we read and understand all that?

pocohantas:
And still not picked?

Maybe Shiloh next or you give it time. It will happen for them when other men get welcoming of their age group. They might ne dating and keeping it cool until it matures. Who knows?

Picked or not, it's up to them and hasn't really gotten to that.
I'm most content they are paying their own bills and facing their careers squarely, of which I'm proud of, since through their example I could as well see the possibility that their age group may not all be bad

pocohantas:
Congrats on that. I am really happy for you because we grow and evolve.

Sadly, your sisters have to wait for other guys to brace up and change their mentality. Tell them to join Nairaland and pick from the pool of eligible bachelors you identified here.

Of course they have no use for nairaland banter, they live a quiet life on Facebook, LinkedIn, only recently joined X.
It's amazing how you took on the beer banters so seriously... Those anonymous old banters makes Nairaland the unique comic playground we all loved to visit, cool off, and talk uninhibited.
Meanwhile you are old enough on NL to differentiate a serious post from satire . Isnt it the NL-Romance section gender war culture? ... It seems to get at you, and you dwell on it, for what reason I don't know

pocohantas:
Yea right, because your sisters are now evening🗞s, you realised you can give 29/30yo women a chance. How else do you convince your bros that your sisters (as expected), are premium evening newspapers?

Four years ago, below was the kind of woman you wanted and advised. A sharp contrast of your MSc wielding and graduate sisters

https://www.nairaland.com/6483414/why-decided-marry-uneducated-woman

By 2025, when it hit close to home, you moved on to this __ https://www.nairaland.com/8526810/most-important-criterion-when-selecting

I am not mocking your sisters, I will never do that to a fellow woman. But I love how life and reality humbles us all.

Yes over time, I've embraced and developed more mature spiritual values, However, I still stand by my stance that I can marry an uneducated lady so long she can read, write and express herself. There are a lot of secondary school graduate who can do that. And who are as well positive about life, business and God and less dramatic about inter-gender wars.
Even if my pool now includes graduates, it still doesn't consider vengeful, men hating, irreligious, selfish, hyper-sexualised ladies even if she carries PhD.
Of course my first criteria of judging a lady before anything else is her sense of dress...... And if had such taste be rest assured how much I inculcate it into them and none even gets fascinated by the fashion craze that sees young gal exposing themselves

Diamond098454:
you have said all

They should help themselves marry off their sisters

Well said
Good morning.........

All these noise by you and your ilk is not necessary. You should see how I highlight their positive trait which if I see in other 29/30 ladies I won't hesitate to give them a chance....Their life still makes me believe there are still cool 29/30 ladies out there
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If a man is sure of the family & upbringing a lady comes from, and meets a simple minded hardworking lady, of course 29/30 can still be attractive if the character and worldview is not messed up by current craze.
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What I mean by worldview is...... view about life, children, sex, marriage, men, religion and success

SuperOnyi:



You're not in touch with reality. Nairaland would make you believe nonsense until you touch grass. They said a lot about Igboland until I went to see for myself. Twitter banters makes me think all men think the same.

Social media would have you believe that virgins don't exist no more, until you touch grass.

Your right, I used to say I can't marry anything less than 26, but the case study of my sisters makes me want to give a chance to ladies of 28-29-30 to prove their worth, see what's upstairs and their view of life and marriage in general.

As it becomes difficult to see lady of 29/30 who still have manageable history so it's becoming more difficult to see ladies of less than 26 who has not Commoditize and hyper sexualized themselves in this era of Snapchat. Badoo, Yahoo boy etc. .... Since we know sexual history of a woman matters a lot in long term relationship/marriage

Oladimmm:
Gimme the light skinned one

Second wife though there is plenty money to go round

Second wife ke, what do you have to Bequeath them when you kpai. Are you a politician? Do you have a big company?

SixSeven:
I know this is a double edged sword. Is this why they have not been married? Are you the one vetting the men who are interested in them?

Are you also married? You know how we do things here. They could be waiting for you to go ahead first since you are the senior.

The post is more like sharing my feelings about their milestone age
I never actually envisaged that people wud ask about them. feels somehow though

Tohsynetita1:
Can I have your contact?

mail--------> wifelymail@gmail.com

Tohsynetita1:
Can I meet them?

Of course, you might have to meet me first , while after passing the first vetting, you might be cleared to speak with one.

always247:
God has answered your prayers. thank him.
here is me a good husband to one of them if you can join me with one of them.
my only issue is dat i am jobless and i play sportyb for a living but I be confirm husband material

Bro, if na your sister, Shay you go fit recommend a jobless betnaija player. You can do better, I pray God answer your call next year

Jman06:
Honestly, at 29/30 yo, their chances of finding good husbands have become limited as no decent young man with his masculinity intact would want to wife any lady above 27yo.

Their best baits is to search from among widowers, single dads and polygamous men. That's the consequences of not setting one's priorities right and hooking up a decent man when they were much younger. They must have been deceiving themselves that they could get a man whenever they want to marry

Funny thing is we men are quick to generalize that any woman above 26/27 should not be considered again, I used to be so, but on a closer reflection, if I meet a lady of my sisters age, edu, outlook, character, job, religious & dating history, I will gladly marry her even if she's 30.
The reality of my sisters now makes me understand that not all 29 or 30 year old are Bad or Ashana...... But to know 29/30 year old who are still okay is the problem.... unless you talk and relate to understand their psyche

SpencerForbes:
I’m of the opinion that matters like this are better kept as a secret. Don’t be surprised if the 'Nairaland Feminist Association' and the toxic banter crew bookmark this post and start using it against you tomorrow. You know how this place can get when people look for ammunition.

As for your sisters, if they can just calm down and get their priorities right, they’ll definitely find good men. Just keep hoping for the best and stay positive for them.

Yes that's a concern but i hardly get into rough brawl with anyone here. I don't know why I feel so about them lately

Sonnobax15:

I can feel your pain bro..

It's not easy to see one's sisters come of age only to see them being chewed and smashed by different men for free of charge

God wil definitely send their own Moses to come and rescue them

Nairaland clown, I no say na wetin go come ur head be this.
Naso dem dey chew ur sister ba? Repent bro, and be good example to your younger ones

Jahwinaboy:
Syria, Iraq,Iran,Somalia,Sudan,Gaza,etc will inevitably be similar. Some don't know that Saudi ruler of old even sought for USA's security guarantee to reduce chance of fighting with it's Arab brothers. Saudi, Uae, Jordan,Oman, Kuwait, Qatar,etc are more learned, wiser, liberal and wealthier. Hence more peace and development there. Northern Nigeria can never lead themselves peacefully if they become one country. Shiites/Sunnis will likely clash

It's that their Sokoto Caliphate abi Sultanate that will sponsor the terrorism till dem turn Afghan

Who also get worried and hopes his sisters gets married off the street to a good man in no distant time? And not suffer the dreaded husband search syndrome of 30+ ladies.. Imagine that your innocent god fearing little sister

Omo how time flies, those sweet little sisters of 16, 17 of yesterday are now hitting 30. Looks unreal. Already graduates, one has Msc

Although they are doing well job wise for themselves paying their own bills, but I see myself praying for them to get good husband. Am I the only one having this feeling as a brother. More like I've started counting time for them.
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God abeg o, favour my sisters, They are too young for husband wahala abeg. Even at 29/30 , in my eyes they still feel young and naive.
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FaAbData:
If they become a county they won't do all these. They're doing these to distabilize the country.

They'll be no reason to fight as a country

I detest northern leader so much
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If Nigerians had collective sense. They should have blacklisted anything leader that has to do with North. because they are the Genesis of APC incompetence and insecurity in this country. They are now talking of Atiku. Rubbish. But some fvvlish southern mugu are hailing Atiku. Foooools

I can't wait to see North become a country and let see if they won't destroy themselves

Kobojunkie:
1. This is untrue for all. 🥱🥱

2. Also untrue! The moment you settle, you have lost the gamble.

It's very true for most men. I hope you are man anyway.
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The first heart break of a man is usually the most painful, most men get callous and become a player who see fine girls as game and trophy for sex..... That life makes them feel confused when it's time to marry that they just pick one gamble

BeautyV:
Hello Nairaland family,
I need serious help o! It’s Christmas soon and I want to get my husband something nice — but he literally doesn’t fancy anything. Not cake, not watches, not gadgets, not perfume — he says he doesn’t need anything, and I’m struggling o 😩.

He’s the type that will say “I’m fine, don't worry yourself” when you ask what he wants. I still want to make him feel loved this Christmas, so I’m looking for thoughtful gift ideas that hit emotionally and meaningfully, not just random stuff.

A bit about him:
• Calm, low-key guy
• Not into flashy things
• Appreciates sincerity but won’t say it out loud

I want to impress him with something he’ll actually appreciate because his so difficult with when it comes to gifting him 😅

Please throw ideas at me — from experiences, personalized gifts, keepsakes, meaningful surprises, anything y’all think would score points with a man who says “I like nothing.”

Thanks in advance 🙌💡

You want to gift someone a thing, you are asking what he wants....What do you expect him to say, to tell you he needs a car?
He probably believes you are not as thoughtful, otherwise you won't be asking him, He doesn't even believe you mean it. Lol.... Cos we are not used to women giving us gift cos they only know how to collect... And your asking is kinda proving that.

Nigerian woman buying things for her man still feels like a joke or movie to him. So let's see if you will proof him wrong. Na why he said he doesn't need anything.

There's nothing like loving relationship after your first heart break, ... other relationship after your first breakfast is mere games and role playing.
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Then deciding to settle with a gal afterwards is just a matter of chance or gamble

My question is: if I give girl Belle without marrying her legally and I assume responsibility of the kids and Lady, will that Lady be entitled to my wealth.


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I don't see why a sensible guy to get married in US/UK

Better you use asbestos than end up in hospital because of POP. Make we get sense