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Tadeus:
Make your inquiries today

Sir Tade, you didn't get back to me again..

Chitumu:
Lol. U dont have to relocate. start with d fulani-yoruba mix. U can start with jebba, ilorin and gradualy to katsina kebbi bauchi adamawa etc. As for d religious. Saudi arabia is not 100% muslim so are fulani. I can refer u to #pretty050 she probaly has a fulani frnds who are christian.

Lol... This one na missionary journey o..

That would be lovely...

pretty050:
there are fulani Christians, I've met quite a few of them

Wow.. Nice.. So how do I meet them.? Can you help?

Chitumu:
its true fulani dont fight over land. I just dont understand my own dad's case. Naturally a fulani has d urge to protect his territory from intruder or tresspasser even if its his kinsmen. I think my own dad case is greed or megalomania. As for ur question on fulani marryin outside her tribe. Ofcourse they do. We already have it up north. Hausa-fulani, nupe-fulani, yoruba-fulani, tiv-fulani etc but i am sory to tell u it will be hard marryin a fulani girl unless u live with them for very long period just to gain their trust. Generaly fulani dont approve unfriendly tribe. Thats why its difficult or impossible for igbos to get fulani wife. Be very friendy tolerant and ready to intergrate urself in their culture. U will be feeling like a king afterward when u finaly get the girl.

You're right, Fulanis are Very territorial. Perhaps there's something dad isn't telling you. The whole ish might not even be related to land. I do hope you resolve the issue though and come,to a compromise with her family.

I'm Yoruba, that's soothing. But the fear of religion clashing still arises. I'm a Christian

About gaining trust, seems I have to relocate to Kebbi or Katsina state preferably. Reports coming from there suggest they have the prettiest Fulani girls..

donodion:
Good observation.Now I have an amusing question; Which tribe in Nigeria bares " Epa" (groundnut). Not Yoruba,Igbo,Hausa or Edo....or is he one of those foreign chaps with Naija passport?

Sire I've got no idea. Perhaps one of the minority tribes. And it definitely wouldn't have same meaning with the Yoruba word.

donodion:
That's y the general public need to make care before commenting on issue of rap.e .


Loverboy was having affair with the" Ugandian Madam Trolley "close friend.Unfortunately they took their Quickie sessions to Madam pimps crib and pumping away.
Pímp to another pìmp that's a huge disrespect and the vexed one took to applying the rule book by stabbing and slashing him badly.
There's no r.ape case here.

You feel me sire... As a matter of fact, the alleged rape victim and the police also have their own version of the story.

So in all, about five versions to this story. That of the attacker, the alleged rape victim, hospitalized Epa, the police and the "Truth".

We can be rest assured since the police we're talking about here aren't the NPF, they'll surely get to the root of the matter.

Chitumu:
yeah but u will need to go and study the difference between kinsmen and ethnic group pls.

Freecocoa don hear land she assume say na Igbo matter already... Not only her sha, me sef.. Yeye stereotype

By the way, Chitumu, I used to think the Fulani tribe don't fight over land or something like that? More like there's a general believe you don't fight for land since you came to this world and met it and world leave the world without taking it with you?..

Anyways, boss your kinswomen, do they marry outside your tribe? I've always thought of marrying a Fulani girl after an encounter with one back in school.. Sorry to digress.

pretydiva:
C as shame catch me as I read dis story..dat gal is a big disgrace not only 2 herself alone buh 2 womanhood n 2 her entire generation

Chaii..a whole corper having an affair wit a guy old enough 2 b her kid bro..dis life yaff spoil finish..wat a cheap w.hore she is...dont even no wat 2 say..

If you believe this crap then you'll believe Nigeria 1-99 India

Activa:
Hope this is not an exaggeration because this figure is high.

Meanwhile, the lady wants to settle down. Who wan do o?

While I have no problem with her settling down or up, my problem is She and other feminist would start saying its a past. Her new man should marry her and forget about her past because only the present and future matters..

Some would encourage her not to even tell her hubby of her past deeds.

On a lighter note, PDP don lose election, PMB don take over. Olosho no dey pay again. No free and careless money to be thrown around. Politicians don return to their wives.

Effect of baby mamarism and single parenthood. Probably doing this with intent of sending the pix to some dude she just met online..

Damn

Dude's face is screwed...
Meanwhile I don't know why I'm not buying the rape story. It could be true though, but I feel she only caught Groundnut (Epa) with her friend screwing..

Despite being a "PIMPtress" she still can't afford to share her man..

Anyways, when he wakes up, he'll tell us his own version of the story..

AnambraDota:
Did you bother to read this by NAPEP an authority in poverty in Nigeria

www.nairaland.com/554457/anambra-poverty-rate-lowest-nigeria

Read that and cure your ignorance

No one is fighting with you sweetheart.. If only you can pause for a second to read the comment/poster I quoted, you'll understand what I'm saying.

But assuming you don't, I'll do you the honours. While the research is flawed and I do not agree with it, I expected Raayah to disagree like she did without necessarily mentioning and taking swipes at other states and tribe.. Capisce?

raayah:
From an educational point of view , that reasearch is not properly conducted.

Maybe this should have been your opening paragraph in your first comment.

The researcher is Igbo and he based his study on Anambra, but you just found a way of mentioning Osun and Katsina...

This is what NL politics does.. Milady, you weren't a tribalist...

INTROVERT:
the last pic is funny

ApcSucks:
Op na professional wanka

Lol.. How you take know... I be counselor.. Just wrote this from complaints from clients

Tadeus:
Wil get back to you later sir

Please quote me when you do.

Its a bit long.

Experts say that just about every man who can masturbate does, that solo sex feels good, relieves stress, and is a terrific sleep aid. But still, nearly all books about sex produced by the medical doctors, psychiatrists and others from the purely physical approach assert that masturbation is not harmful. They ARE WRONG! On the one hand, many boys have been told, falsely, that masturbation causes insanity, loss of virility, sterility, pimples, etc. this also is not true. Scaring boys with lies is not the thing to do. On the other hand, masturbation is a form of perversion.

This write up is an attempt an attempt at discussing the act of masturbation as it affects different aspects of our lives.

Health
Unlike sex with a partner, masturbation can’t give you a sexually transmitted disease. Nor will it subject you to the muscle strains, pokes in the eye, and awkward moments that can come with partner sex. But masturbation safety isn’t guaranteed. Frequent or overly vigorous masturbation can irritate the skin of the penis, as the average guy knows all too well. In certain extremely rare instances, masturbation and partner sex alike can cause penile fracture. This painful condition occurs when an erect penis strikes a hard object or is forced downward. Hard-ons may also be affected by masturbation as well. After each ejaculation, the firmness of the next erection may get slightly softer and spongier, depending on how close apart the erections are.

There’s little evidence that too many masturbating sessions will affect erection in the future, but there’s a wealth of evidence that points to age, diet, smoking, and cardiovascular health as factors that affect your beat-meat getting stiff. Another side effect of masturbation is abrasions or swelling of the penis. Some people have rough hands, use vigorous strokes, or don’t use lube. Ouch!

Relationships
For various reasons, solo sex (masturbation) can be a real boon to sex with a partner. It helps teach men and women about their own sexual responses, what feels good to them and what doesn’t, so they will be better able to explain to their partners just how they like to be touched. It helps men learn to recognize the “moment of inevitability” just before orgasm and helps teach them how to avoid premature ejaculation. Perhaps most significant, it’s a great coping mechanism for any man or woman whose partner is temporarily unavailable for sex (because of absence or illness) or has a sex drive that doesn’t quite match their own. But of course, some people become so obsessed with solo sex that they begin to lose interest in having sex with their partner. The resulting hurt feelings and alienation a partner feels can make it hard to sustain the relationship. But experts are quick to point out that masturbation is perfectly OK even for persons in a committed relationship.

Sense of worth
Masturbation can have a negative psychological impact on a person. Many people feel shame and guilt because of their masturbation habits. Whether it’s a cultural, religious or moral issue, people can be very hard on themselves. The tug of war between what feels natural and pleasurable versus what they were told to refrain from can have lasting harmful effects on a person’s self-esteem, confidence and self-love. Psychosomatic effects can also occur, where physical symptoms are the result of psychological factors (feeling shame, guilt, anxiety can manifest into things like headaches, back pain, chronic pain, etc.). Also it does harm the boy (or the man) physically; often a boy will experience absentminded proclivities following masturbation. The mind is on self-on-sex not a lovely wife. Invariably it produces a guilty conscience, and destroys normal confidence.

Religion
Sex is God’s invention. He is the mastermind behind it and His creation is worth far more to Him than it is to us. This beautiful expression of love was created out of His own heart, as a gift to be experienced between a husband and wife. It is only in marriage that this manifestation of intimacy can be fully enjoyed in the depth for which it was created. The more beautiful and unique something is (like sexual intercourse), the more power it holds over our lives, either for good or bad influence. When we become more in love with the gift than the one who endowed them, the things that were designed to bless us begin to destroy us instead. Yes, God cares about what we do with our bodies, in public or in private. He doesn’t want us to abuse our-selves in any way. You might now want to define masturbation as “self-abuse”

1 Corinthians 6:18 (NIV) confirms this, saying that unlawful sexual relations defile our own bodies. “Flee from sexual immorality. All other sins a man commits are outside his body, but he who sins sexually sin against own body.”

When sex is expressed in any other way, it robs one of a portion of that blissful, delightful and truly wonderful God-ordained experience. Remember love is giving – an outgoing concern—as well as sharing. Masturbation is neither. Masturbation is either plain lust, or else a desire to relief. But God provided for relief, through the means of nocturnal emission during sleep.

Who Does It
When you talk about masturbation, fingers are quickly pointed to the male folks. It is a perversion practiced by girls and grown women also. The difference in sex is only relative. A higher percentage of males practice it, but more females are guilty of it than commonly realized. Most boys and many girls get into the habit of masturbation at an age so young they simply cannot remember its beginning after growing up. A nasty habit, often almost impossible to break… this is where the parent comes in. The parent should be constantly on guard. Treat it, in infancy, in the same category as thumb-sucking, or putting a finger in his nose. Teach the child that he should not play with parts of the body. Do not frighten him. Do not lie to him. Just tell him his thumb, or his penis, or his nose, was given him for a different purpose and he must not misuse it. And remember such teachings should be backed up with discipline and punishment if necessary! It is a serious parental responsibility!

Source: Nitefury 2011.

Cc: Ishilove, Lalasticlala What do you guys think..

Sir Tade, please I'll love to know the price range of the following cars.

1. 2007 Infiniti G35 Sedan

2. Mitsubishi Grandis 2006/2007

3. Toyota Haice 2006/2007 .. Low and high roof.

Lagos delivery with complete customs papers.