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Politics / Re: Accept Party Supremacy, Buhari Tells Senators, Reps by nkem123(m): 12:14am On Jul 04, 2015
baralatie:

and yet the APC went ahead to truncate your theory of party traditions in the 7th assembly.heaven did not fall.it has repeated itself and the are shouting party supremacy of which ideology contradicts the 1999 constitution and wants to ridicule elected officers of 8th assembly.
it is not done that way at all.
how did APC truncate d 7th assembly? cos I dnt get ur point bt I stand to be corrected.
Why didn't PDP elect Ekweremadu as SP? afterall d constitution didn't say SP must be from d majority.bt they respected d principle of moral ethos by allowing d majority to lead d house.there is a place of moral, and there Is a place of constitution,somethings can be constitutionally right bt morally wrong.when u allow selfish interest override ur sense of morality it becomes illegality? when u wake in d morning u greet ur parents 'goodmorning'....did d constitution say u must do that? bt ur sense of moral should tel u that's is d right thing to do.Saraki faulted, even himself knows .
Politics / Re: Accept Party Supremacy, Buhari Tells Senators, Reps by nkem123(m): 11:51pm On Jul 03, 2015
baralatie:

on may 29,2015 did PMB and Osinbajo swore the oath of office and allegiance to the federal republic of Nigeria or to party supremacy of the APC!
and does party affiliation supercedes the constitution of the federal republic of Nigeria 1999.
It's universally d party's jurisdiction to appoint principal officers bth SP and Speaker.all over d world that's d tradition including d past PDP regime, for 16yrs operated d same ideology.why would Saraki flout d party directives for selfish ulterior motives, stop holding brief for illegality.he is flouting d same process that brought him into d house, by merit Saraki wount even smell d victory at d primary, d party single handedly brought him into d fold, only to nw come to d house and start talking abt constitution.
d party appoints whoever they so wishes into d house, and principal officers as they deem it fit, that's d tradition including U.S and rest of d western country, and all over d world so why should Nigeria be different because of Saraki.
Politics / Re: Accept Party Supremacy, Buhari Tells Senators, Reps by nkem123(m): 10:42pm On Jul 03, 2015
justified19:
isnt dat tym different to now that he is d president? he probably agreed to run wit osinbanjo cos he needed southwest support during election.
that's also part of accepting party's dictate.Osinbajo was nominated by d party and nt his appointment.
Celebrities / Re: Kenny Ogungbe's Daughter Graduates Photos by nkem123(m): 9:18pm On Jul 03, 2015
fatdon2:
The babe no fine at all. She looks like a male undecided
is that hw ur male siblings look?
Politics / Re: Accept Party Supremacy, Buhari Tells Senators, Reps by nkem123(m): 8:04pm On Jul 03, 2015
justified19:
and will buhari agree to APC's dictations too? birds of same feathers
if he didn't accept d party's dictate, hw did Osinbajo emerged his vice?
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: His Encounter And Weird Process He Got His Dream Job by nkem123(m): 11:31pm On Jul 02, 2015
amokeme:
and you had to quote the whole thing? undecided





Anyways... I learnt one thing from this story which is PATIENCE!

Any
cos d whole thing is fiction
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: His Encounter And Weird Process He Got His Dream Job by nkem123(m): 7:22pm On Jul 02, 2015
onismate:
Few weeks later, I received a call from an anonymous number. The lady at the other end said that I was invited to their company for an interview which I never even applied for. But she called my name and even many details about me. Na so fear catch me. And the company is a big company in Nigeria and I was asked to come for interview in their headquarters in Lagos. But was surprised me most before the call was dropped was that the lady said I should come with fresh prepared port Harcourt chicken laps. I thought of it for once. An interview, that I should come with 3 freshly made chicken laps. Shey dis people no dey joke abi! I wondered. A day to the interview, I was still worried if I should travel to Lagos and I don’t have or know any close family member were I can sleep over in their place in Lagos. I thought about the chicken laps again. Abi this no be joke. Apparently, I am being fooled just like the previous incident. I changed my mind on going immediately but when I woke up early at about 2am the day of the interview, I wasn’t feeling too good. I was just moved to call the headmistress of my school, taking permission that I would be going somewhere which I was granted me. 5am, I borrowed N20,000 from my wife since I have used my salary to pay debt. I set out on the journey to Lagos. I got to the city By 10am and to the company by 11am after buying 3 chicken laps in Victoria island. Only for the gateman to tell me that there was no interview going on there. Chaiii, I felt like crying. I told him that I was called on the phone. The man sef no listen. As I was at the gate thinking of what to do and how to go back to Port Harcourt, I got a call from a number I didn’t save. The woman at the end told me that I should walk into the restaurant nearby. I started wondering, maybe be this was a scam and I was being kidnapped. I told the gateman about the call. “I no know ooo. That one na your business,” was what he replied me. I summon the courage and went to the restaurant with a straight face that anyone responsible for what am being going through, I would make sure he/she was arrested. As I entered the restaurant, a lady seated at one corner signaled to me to come. As I went to her, I wanted to start to para for this lady but I come cool down seeing the lovely ladies around her dressed corporately. Maybe that was were the interview was holding. I asked the lady if she was the one that first called me some days back but she said she wasn’t the one but one of the members of the HR team. She said I should sit and I sat. I told her that I had earlier gone to their headquarters close by and the gateman said that the company was not looking for workers. She said that indeed that was the instructions given to the gateman. But the vacancy was not made public. I watched as things became confusing to me. Something in me was telling me, “young man stand up and leave this place. You have been over fooled,” and another part of me was still telling me to still be patient.
“Were is the chicken laps,” the lady asked. I began wondering what ladies and the company are asking for chicken laps. Are they that hungry or broke. Or how am I sure that this was a set up to take chicken laps from me because all together they are 3 ladies seated. I asked them why they were requesting for the chicken laps. They said that was the instructions given to them. Na so I carry the 3 chicken laps give them. A voice in me said, “guy, you are just the fool.” Na so this ladies open the package come begin chop am. I was just watching. I don’t even know what to do, whether to react or still keep mute. One of the ladies asked me to tell the gateman at their office to give me 3 bottles of water. Chaiii, see insult, all because of say I dey look for work. I don’t know if I should stand up to go or stay. Everything was just being some how in my eyes. I checked my time and it was going 2:30pm and something was just telling me to stand up and go back to Port Harcourt.
I stood up and went out of the restaurant. I wanted to leave that vicinity but something told me to go and collect the water from the gateman because I saw him holding 3 bottles of water. At that time, I felt that might be a set up. I was about passing the gateman when I turned around and went to him. I told him what the ladies said, he gave the water and I went back to the restaurant only for me to discover that the ladies were no more there. I enquired from the waiters and waitress, they said had just gone out. As I was still standing there in shock, one of the waiters came towards me and handed me an envelop. I opened the envelop and read the content which said I have successfully passed the test and I should go and see the gateman. I was still gazing at the, when I looked up, a beautiful waitress was standing in front of me. She told me that her boss would love to meet with me. “Where is she?” I asked. She told me to go and see the gate man first. Well, na so I rush go meet the gateman. He allowed me in. Na so we climb elevator ooo. We got to the 4th floor and what looks like a conference room was were we entered. Na there I come meet the man that sent me 3 laps of chicken with N600. He’s apparently the boss of the huge company I have been hearing about. Immediately he saw me, “where is my chicken,” was what he said. He asked me to sit down. He said he admired my charisma. “Would you like to work with us,” he asked. Sure, who no like better thing. Why I no go wan work for that kind big company. I told him I would. That was how I got this job. Infact I was employed as an assistant financial officer and analyst in the company. My boss gave me a car and a house in Lagos. He even facilitated the transfer of my wife to Lagos because he said he is a friend to one of the owners of the bank. Na so my life change oooo. Thank God oooo.
This is the end of Job search ooo
http://www.hovabuzz.com/frontline/1016-the-hillarious-and-adventurous-way-i-got-my-dream-job

Fiction!
Romance / Re: The Daily Pains Of A Handsome Or Good Looking Guy. by nkem123(m): 4:16pm On Jul 02, 2015
naijaboiy:
Being a handsome or good looking guy is a very wonderful gift of nature which every body see as a good thing. People who are born good looking are always grateful to be created that way by their maker. The society always tend to think these set of people always get things done easily because of their looks. They are also believed to always easily attract the female opposite sex of any type. They are given some kind of special preference most times.

But one thing people fail to notice is that these set of people are just human beings who encounter some setbacks as a result of their physical features.

Now let's analyse some of these setbacks or disadvantages together.

1) Objectification: People tend to objectify handsome or good looking guys. They tend to define you by only your superficial attributes and fail to read you as a person,,because they miss to see anything in you besides your looks. For example,, they hardly think you are good at anything else other than just being good looking. Your looks will seem to over shadow every other quality in you. This issue has tasked good looking guys to work harder and prove their worth to people that they have other things to offer than just a mere good looking physique.

2) Topic of discussion: To the Handsome guys in the house. Have you noticed that you seem to be a topic of discussion in little groups especially amongst idlers. Those who don't really have anything doing other than gossip. They just settle down to discuss you and say all sorts of things about you. Even the things that you can never do.

3)Envy/insecurity: Sometimes people tend to get envious at you for no reason. Some get jealous by mere looking at you. You'll have your friends whom are less good looking than you being insecure whenever you are around them. They wouldn't let you follow them whenever they want to meet their girlfriend. You try to be nice and they accuse you of trying to snatch their girlfriends.

4) Loneliness: It is a very surprising Fact that some,,if not most good looking guys are lonely. Except maybe the extroverts who defy the odds to make friends themselves. Most people conclude that guys who are handsome already have so many people clustered around them. A girl would see a good looking guy but she will choose to ignore him because she feels he already has a lot of girls at his beck and call,,therefore it would be a waste of time getting to know him. When this keeps happening,,you discover that most handsome guys have little or few friends while some are even single without a girlfriend to call their own.

5) High Expectations: Some times people give a lot of high expectations to good looking guys. Most times they expect you to be the head or leader. They feel since you are good looking you should be able to make decisions and be charismatic. They would want to follow your every step. While this can be very difficult for the guys who aren't outspoken/introverted,,it could work out well for the confident ones. So it's a bit of an advantage and disadvantage. But the problem comes when you do something out of what your followers expect of you. There will now be a crisis between pleasing yourself and pleasing the people that expect so much from you.

6)Pretty girls play hard to get: Now this is a very confusing fact. But it is of a truth that girls who are also good looking will play hard to get and put up a higher wall of defence when you are trying to approach them. Have you wondered why a beautiful girl easily succumbs to the toasting of that your "not-so-good-looking" friend but she keeps posting you whenever you approach her?. It is difficult to get their sense of interest. She feels that her showing of interest in you is a massive conceit of power.

7) Intimidation: The case is not any better with a less attractive girl. When a handsome guy is talking to a girl less attractive than he is she may feel way too intimidated. She may also feel he just wants to use her for sex and she wouldn't want to date someone more attractive than her because she can't use her sexuality power. A guy also has to become careful of this type as they may become really clingy to him after they have gone intimate for a while. And any sign of dis interest shown by him automatically makes him a heart breaker and from there he's tagged a "player".

8 ) Confidence is misunderstood for arrogance: The sub heading has already explained the point briefly. Good looking guys who are confident and not shy of showing off what they have are considered to be arrogant and proud. They are looked at as condescending. It has become so bad that they don't even know of the best way to reply to a compliment again. There is no way a handsome guy will reply such compliments without coming off as proud and ignoring the compliment completely is not even an option.

9) excessive self-confidence might turn into vanity: On the other hand,,we have some set of good looking guys who become over confident and dwell on their looks for everything. They allow the praises get to their head and concentrate on their looks alone. They ignore other important aspects of life and depend on their good looks to get them what they want. They forget that everything is vanity at the end.

10) share yours. wink

Cc: Lalasticlala.
Ishilove.
U are absolutely correct bro, especially number 3, 4, 7, and 8.
I dnt know why I f***king find Myself in that situation.aside from d above, there is always this kind of embarrassing luk from ppl each time u appear in public and in d midst of crowds, especially in banks and social gathering or church, staring at u like fools.
Politics / Re: Why Buhari Rejected Wali As Acting INEC Chairman - PM News by nkem123(m): 2:22pm On Jul 02, 2015
UnknownT:
Both Zakari and Wali are associated to one political party or the other. Zakari I heard her tenure will end by July 31st. We don't need another acting chairman by then, rather a chairman that will be there to conduct 2019 elections. He better start now and be looking for a substantive chairman, not when this one retires and he starts delaying, people will start defending him by asking "what do we need an INEC Chairman for when one can act in that capacity"
By constitution d tenure of INEC chairman can be renewed if d president so wishes.so dnt bother abt that bro
Politics / Re: Vice President Yemi Osinbajo's Daughter Kiki Osinbajo Stuns In New Photo by nkem123(m): 11:12am On Jul 02, 2015
OREMUSSANCTUS:
I prefer to be a mere citizen, dan to be a vice-president(houseboi for tinubu cum Buhari)
see as I dey laff ur mumu comment.
u prefer to be a mere citizen than being a VP.hahaha ridiculously funny.
Romance / Re: All Pretty Girls Should See This. (pics) by nkem123(m): 8:16pm On Jul 01, 2015
tunnamania11:
I didn't say all banks, most banks though.
Noted!
Romance / Re: All Pretty Girls Should See This. (pics) by nkem123(m): 7:10pm On Jul 01, 2015
tunnamania11:

I don't know where u reside o, but in my state here, 90% of banks I have transacted with employs light skin pretty ladies.
I dnt know d bank u use, I have been transacting with different banks and haven't seen anything like what u are claiming.
bankers are mixtures of skin colours and both beautiful and ugly, nt all bankers are beautiful like u claim.u said 90% in ur area, which means nt all.
Celebrities / Re: Chioo Would You Allow Your Secretary Dress Like This To Work by nkem123(m): 4:25pm On Jul 01, 2015
realmedia:
THIS NAUGHTY BUT SUPER SEXY SECRETARY DRESSES LIKE THIS TO WORK AND SHE IS GIVING MEN SLEEPLESS NIGHTS IN THE OFFICE….ONE WORD FOR HER SEE MORE HERE >>> http:///2015/06/chioo-omg-this-naughty-sexy-secretary.html
only men without self control, and discipline get tempted by all this.I see more than this almost on daily bases without Been moved
Romance / Re: All Pretty Girls Should See This. (pics) by nkem123(m): 4:21pm On Jul 01, 2015
tunnamania11:

If u are pretty, i mean very cute, u would get 90% of all u want.
Have u ever seen ugly girl that works with a bank?
All u see in banks are light skin beautiful ladies that Mrcork dreams about daily . grin
not all bankers are beautiful And fair.cross check ur fact

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Politics / Re: APC Insists On Ekweremadu’s Removal by nkem123(m): 4:59pm On Jun 30, 2015
olutunde12:


In this case, even jbo or what do you call him cannot do anything. In the days of obj, pdp had about 80% of the members in both chambers, so pdp could do anything they like. Today, no party can do anything alone. Remember that obj used senators to remove who ever, he did not remove anybody by proclamation .
u are wrong bro, 51 is too much for obj to strike out Saraki, only 6 senators can do that.Aside from that, APC should expel Saraki, barricade d complex with security agents thereby preventing him from gaining access into d chamber when expelled.then use EFCC to pick him up and detain him.
what do u mean PMB can't do it, d president is only trying to promote democratic tenets wch is nt helping issues.
Nigeria is not ripe for absolute democracy, because political gladiators, and selfish ambition is still dominant in our political landscape.

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Agriculture / Re: What Fruit Could This Be? by nkem123(m): 1:47pm On Jun 30, 2015
Neduzze5:
In my farm, I saw this fruit/tree. Its been there for years but it just recently started fruiting.

I'm still wondering what fruit/tree it could be.
Wanted to cut it down but decided to ask before going further. Who knows, it could be a money spinning fruit cheesy

Who can help me out?

Pavore9, Farmtech and others please
Daura Weed.
money spinning in Malaysia.chukwundi con see o! business opportunity for Indonesia.
Business / Re: Bank Verification Number (BVN) And Crowded Banks (photos) by nkem123(m): 1:26pm On Jun 30, 2015
I dnt really see much need for d BVN, why subjecting themselves to much stress.mtcheeew!
Romance / Re: She Wants To Kill Me!!! **PICS** by nkem123(m): 12:25pm On Jun 30, 2015
I Smell Lies
Politics / Re: APC Insists On Ekweremadu’s Removal by nkem123(m): 12:13pm On Jun 30, 2015
humnsikan:
Why is the media posturing as though Saraki needs Buhari more than Buhari needs him. Truth be told, Buhari needs Saraki more than Saraki needs him. Antagonizing the Senate president could be the bane of Buhari's administration. As it stands, saraki has little to nothing to lose in not having buhari's support, but same cannot be said of Buhari. The headlines should ideally sound this way: SARAKI REFUSES TO SEE BUHARI. My advice to PMB is to go back to talking terms with the senate president, especially now that the window of opportunity is still open and the later is respecting the president's office and humbling himself. A time would come that the senate president would be tired of all these contemptous attitude from the president and APC and would then make both know the kind of power the head of the legislature, a seperate arm of government, wields.
Buhari is d one making Saraki look like untouchable, let him borrow a leaf from Obj.nuclear approach will solve all this brouhaha.throw that Saraki out of d assembly by nuclear approach and let him go to court.I trust Obj
Phones / Re: What Is The Best Airtel Subsription On Android by nkem123(m): 11:43am On Jun 30, 2015
Goldpeas:




I didn't dial any code but it was automatically renewed .

I called d customer service and they told me I had d subscription before that I just renewed...I. just found d line at home...I guess it's my brother's own

BTW ,how do I unsubscribe ?


Please it's still not working
power it on 3g, and check d access point name
it should be internet.ng.airtel.com
Family / Re: How My 10-year-old Demonic House Girl Was Having Sex With My 2-year-old Son by nkem123(m): 9:15pm On Jun 29, 2015
jbdasilva:
Hello guys, it another edition of the My Experience Segment on our Blog.. I was told this gist by a colleague, I managed to put all what I was told in writing just for you guys. Enjoy gist below.

This my colleague sister is married, she has two kinds, Twins. A Boy and a girl that are both 2 years of age. Her sister is in her late trimester so she need someone around to help her out considering the fact that her husband is not stable at home due to work. They decided to get a house girl. Someone referred a girl to them and they took her in as their own, also they quickly accepted her because they needed a hand to help take care of the twins because her sister will soon put to bed.

The house girl is a 10 YEAR OLD GIRL.. When she moved in with them, she always looks at her madam protruding tummy with an evil eye. The husband always notices this but he always wave’s it off. It is not as if her madam is wicked towards her. Her job is just to help bath the twins and keep them company because the woman is in her last month of delivery.

This my colleague sister gave birth to her baby and the child died. She was devastated, but God knows best. Anytime a strong man of God or someone that is spiritually strong comes into their house, they will feel the presence of a strange spirit in their home, immediately this their 10yr old maid will leave whatever she is doing and she will come to the palour to where they are, her presence will make those visitor to forget whatever they wanted to say about their strange feeling about their house.

One day the woman bath her twins herself, she dressed them up and told the maid to keep them company while she goes to get something across the street. Immediately she came back, she met the boy crying. She asked the maid what happened to the boy, the maid “Aunty I don’t know o, me I did not do anything o” the woman saw that her maid skirt was loosed and she asked “why is your skirt loosed?” and she quickly said “ Aunty nothing oh, I went to we-we”. The woman took her twins to her room, immediately she wanted to lock the door, this her 10 year old maid, quickly ran into her room and out of anger she slapped the girl, did I call you she asked her? She pushed her out of the room and then she locked the rom.

As a mother she then pet the crying boy and then she calmly asked him, “why are you crying? And the little boy said “Mummy my we-we is paining me” her mother was like “What happened to your we-we? Why is it paining you? Who touched your we-we? The little crying boy said “it is Aunty Blessing that is always playing with my we-we? The mother asked the twin sister, “Is it true that blessing is playing with junior we-we? The girl said yes. The mother became mad and then she asked her, did she always play with your own we-we too? The small girl said no. Curiosity and anger made her to pull off her baby boy trouser and she was shocked. The little boy small Pen!s is so swollen and red.

That was when she shouted for help! She quickly took the boy to an elderly woman across their street, when she got there, she was like “mummy I want show you something, she pulled down her little boy trouser and the elder woman saw that the boys pen!s is so swollen and red and she quickly asked, what happened to him? Her mother asked the boy in the elderly woman presence “junior, what happened to your we-we? And junior replied “it is aunty blessing that is always playing with my we-we?

That was when they started Beating the maid to tell them what she has been doing with the boys peni!s that made it so swollen and red. despite all the threat and beating, this 10 year old maid refused to talk. All she kept saying is that “if una like make una kill me, I no do anytin, I no go talk anytin”

While all these drama was ongoing, the boy’s father was not around oh. He was called on phone and he rushed home from work to see his house full. He quickly went to kitchen and carried a knife; he threatened to kill the maid if she did not confess, that was when the maid confessed. She said “I did not do anything to junior, I was only fucking him, I always Bleep him anytime I like” the whole house was shocked, they asked her how she manages to do that, she said “I will hold his pen!s and I will be chuking it in my bum bum” that was when they pounced on her again and started beating her. Despite all this beating, she showed no act of remorse. That was when people started telling her "Aje ni e" (You are a witch).

She latter started bleeding, they rushed her to the hospital… After a day at the hospital, she returned home and their family pastor came visiting. He wanted to counsel the girl. He was like “why did you do something like that? You are too young for this, this people take you as their own, they are planning to enroll you in a school next term” The ten year old girl interrupted the pastor and told him “What? Wetin I do?! The woman and her husband wanted to beat her again for being rude to their pastor, the pastor told them to leave her, that she is under a strong demonic influence.

All the people that took part in beating her were faced with one misfortune or the other. This my colleague that told me this gist had a serious accident on an Okada where her knee was badly bruised. She spent almost 2 weeks at home to nurse her wound. The boy’s father whom has never been sick before was faced with a strange illness that made him a vegetable for days. Other people that took part in beating her too either had an accident or fell sick suddenly or were faced with one misfortune or the other.

How I wish I can steal the pic of this entire gist from my colleagues phone, but she will have my head if I go near her phone without permission, also she won’t want to release the pictures to me because she knows my part time job is to do Amebo on my blog. lol

So as I was saying, the pastor did a deliverance session for the twins and the entire family but he refused to pray for the 10 year old maid. He told this my colleagues sister and her husband to return the 10 year old maid to where they got her from. The man took the maid to another pastor again and immediately that pastor saw the 10 year old maid, he told them to return the girl to wherever they picked her from too. That one too refused to pray for her. That was how the maid was returned to the woman that referred her to them.

Ha! Nkan Be! So my dear Twidas, Make una dey very careful o. The devil can possess anybody irrespective of their age or gender. If you are to pick a maid or any other domestic staff, do a thorough background check about that person before welcoming them into your home so that you won’t end up bringing Doom into your home.

From: http://www.talkwithdasilva.com/2015/06/how-my-10-year-old-house-girl-was.html
I smell lies
Phones / Re: What Is The Best Airtel Subsription On Android by nkem123(m): 8:58pm On Jun 29, 2015
Goldpeas:




still not working boss
remember, u can only do all ur browsing through opera mini.then with time all other application will work.moreover which code did u dial for d subscription?
Family / Re: When The Wrong One Loves You Right!!! by nkem123(m): 7:52pm On Jun 29, 2015
irishCream:
Dear Family I'm in deep shiiit, so confused on what to do right now.

I just turned 29 few days ago and have been out of a serious relationship for over a year now.

Have been waiting patiently for that right man to come along but unfortunately it only the wrong ones that keep coming my way, they just want to have a feel of my sweet body and off they go, no genuine intentions.

Now there's a brother that have been friendzoning for over two years now yet he keep persisting, good a thing I'm not the type that pretends so I told him from day one he asked me out that I'm not interested in him except on friendship level, I told him I don't feel him emotionally but he keep hanging on hoping I change my mind with time, my reasons for rejecting him is cos to me he's not presentable enough and I can't be proud introducing him to my people and again he got no good paid job (why on earth must he be poor and ugly at the same time, what kind of torture is that angry). He's just managing in a private firm that pays less than 50k.

But what makes me have a rethink is the character of this my friendzoned brother, he keeps in touch despite my rejecting him, he even offer little financial assistance when I'm in need, when I asked him why he's doing all these to a girl that openly reject him he claims he has faith that I'll consider him one day, sometimes I'm forced to suspect if he has cast a spell on me so another good man won't come my way.

Now he has called to schedule a date tomorrow and I know as usual he wants to remind me that the year is running that I should consider his request since he hope to settle down this year.

Please dear Family advice me accordingly is it advisable I say yes to a man I don't feel a thing for emotionally? Can I ever get to love him? I do hear love grows but I don't believe in such!!!
forget abt hw u feel abt him for nw.focus on d qualities he posses, does he posses d quality of an ideal man? if he posses d quality of an ideal man roll with him.if nt presentable teach him how to dress
with time d feelings will come gradually.I met a girl through Facebook late last year, she was ugly, nt presentable, looking primitive.my initial plan was to lay with her and then dump her.bt her character and attitude caught my heart, I started to take care of her gradually.as am writing to u, she is one of d most beautiful girl In my area nw, men are running after her , am d one scared of loosing her nw.it's 8months of relationship nw and our luv is growing stronger everyday.
anybody is cute and presentable depending on hw they are being taking care of.
50k a month is nt that bad for young couple, most big family u see today started even worst than that.

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Phones / Re: What Is The Best Airtel Subsription On Android by nkem123(m): 6:17pm On Jun 29, 2015
Goldpeas:


I just subscribed oh but it's not working for any of d apps ....help a brother!
remove d battery of ur phone while d phone is on just for 10sec and insert back.it will work
Phones / Re: What Is The Best Airtel Subsription On Android by nkem123(m): 3:52pm On Jun 29, 2015
Goldpeas:



are you sure it's reliable??
it's reliable bro for more more than a year nw I have been using it.and it's very fast
Romance / Re: . by nkem123(m): 3:45pm On Jun 29, 2015
Krystalxxx:
Helllo every body. It's a beautiful morning in Nigeria, hope everyone slept well and you all feel refreshed this morning. Well, ireneony created this thread about pointed noses and I allegedly have one of the nicest. I want to know what you think........I have always been reminded of mine wherever I go, so do you agree?


Pictures coming up soon
u need to see my own pointed nose.ur own dey learn
Romance / Re: Heartbreaking Story Of Nigerian Lady Her Fiance Married Another Woman Yesterday by nkem123(m): 3:27pm On Jun 29, 2015
she might have done same to some other guy.maybe karma came knocking
Politics / Re: Boko Haram Suspects Arrive Ekwulobia Prison, Anambra by nkem123(m): 8:15pm On Jun 28, 2015
EasternPride:
Contrary to the APC South East's denial that there was no intention to bring Boko Haram suspects to Anambra.

The Federal Government has brought in first set of Boko Haram suspects to Ekwulobia prison, and information from the prison says the indigenes have blocked the prison gate, also there is a high presence of soldiers and prison guards, with armored cars all across the prison yard.

More details later.
Pinshure pls
Family / Re: See What A Lady Posted About Husbands & Wife Battery: Women Do You Agree? by nkem123(m): 7:34pm On Jun 28, 2015
gen2briz:


Me too no go marry touts.
gud! so next time u see Efosa dey panel beat Osarhime, no yan okpata.cos u no know d gbege wey she burst.
Politics / Re: I Respect Tinubu, I Will Meet Him Soon, Says Saraki by nkem123(m): 4:53pm On Jun 28, 2015
Wildrage:


Educate me? I think you overestimated you own understanding. Of What benefit is to me as a Nigerian if Lawan or Gbaja eventually becomes the SP/speaker of HOR? The constitution specifically states that the members of the national assembly, not the party , shall elect the leaders of the house amongst themselves . This presupposes that external interference is an aberration. In which other clime with stable democracy do you hear of political parties exercising an overbearing influence on the elected representatives of the people. In places like United states, you hardly ever hear about party officials, once the election period is over they recede to the background
u need to update urself on hw party politics is been played.in saner climes that u claim, principal officers, and senate president/speaker in case of bi-camera system is d jurisdiction of d party.
forget constitution, there is a place of constitution, and there is a place of moral.somethings can be constitutionally right bt morally wrong.what Saraki did is an aberration of moral ethics and norms.
I once supported saraki for SP bt d way and manner he went abt it is not short of cowardice and greed, this has made him loose support from even those that once supported him.
Saraki is in for a long thing.
Family / Re: See What A Lady Posted About Husbands & Wife Battery: Women Do You Agree? by nkem123(m): 4:31pm On Jun 28, 2015
gen2briz:
I'll never and never beat my wife and the mother of my unborn babies. MAY GOD HELP ME.
she never break bottle for ur head before, na em make u dey yan akpiti!
Career / Re: Pls How Much Are Graduates Paid At NSCDC ( Civil Defense) by nkem123(m): 4:18pm On Jun 28, 2015
ugoezeik:
hahahaha nkem u r a wicked soul
he needed an answer so he got d best answer

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