₦airaland Forum

sauceny:
Guys don't lie

Guys are the number one liars, ask your girl and she will tell you how a guy lied to her so as to deflower her. But I thank God for my life, I don't fall to your cheap lies

9jatatafo:
Virginity is over hyped!!!!

Says who? I pity you wella, don't like your type

sokera:
no blame GEJ and PDP don't blame Yorubas .... Were you dead when GEJ said Yoruba leaders are motor packs tout? All Yorubas wanted was to show Yorubas are the dictators of who will be Nigeria president anytime and anyday ...

Yorubas, dictators indeed. You are followers joor!

ireneony:
Slipped her finger inside her puni and turned non -virgin just like that.

The thing de pain me.
You go out on a date with a guy the first thing he ask is..are you a virgin.

This happened last april. ..i was at home bored when a call came in, i picked up my phone..saw a strange number and i was so reluctant(i dont go abt picking calls that are not on my contact) so i decided to answer the call. I heard a deep voice..#cut conversation short.
He told me he knew me from somewhere..
So we got talking. Oneday, he fixed a date we should meet which i oblige to.

On that sunny day we met at fancy restaurant. I won't lie, the food was one of the best i have ever tasted ..
We talked about ourselves.

This guy is from a wealthy family meh but very religious.
He Asked, are you are a virgin, i replied hmmmm nah"
His face was kinda sad. He told me he thought i was a decent girl. and i replied yes of course "I'm decent. .

He explained everything to me that he is a virgin and vowed to get married to a virgin aswell.; don't be angry, we can be friends you know, just friends. I was so furious in my mind. na wey i wan hammer na enemy don put sand for my garri.



To my question:
Nairalanders, do you think what he did was right?

Pls drop his number, someone is interested

Milonis:
Lol now this is funny, isn't it? It's just a poem, relax

A poem? Anyways, good for you.

Milonis:
So you said I should marry
Who should I marry?
Is it the vain girl who spends
an entire day campaigning online
with senseless selfies on instagram?
Or the one who posts semi-nude pics
on facebook for a thousand likes?
Is it the girl who has no interest in books and loathes the sight of a library and knows nothing of her country, economy, politics?
Or the one who wraps mounds of fufu
In a daily newspaper and dies daily
to wear brazzilian hair on an
empty-brained head?

Which girl are you talking about?
Is the regular 'TGIF' club girl who
knows all hits and chews gum for
a career and orders food cos she
will 'die' cooking?
Or may be the 'soji' girl who's a pro
In 'shakitibobo' and whose sense of fashion outweighs that of reasoning?
Please do not ask me to marry!

Why are you crying? I thought you guys love and admire the slutty ones more than the decent ones. You people even encourage them to be wild, slutty and hot as singles. Why are you complaining? If you are not aware, ask your fellow guys, if you like remain single for all I care.

SAINTSAMURAII:
Yeah i support it. no more social media for my wife. i might let her have her facebuk or whatsap account but all males apart 4rm father and brothers must be deleted.

Lol! I guess you too will do the same

princeakins:
Yea that ma baba in whom i am well pleased...

I pity you

anetuno:
What a story! You know we are such hypocrites that people are applauding you. The principles involved in marriage are becoming more and more universal and I wonder why you think these observations made in this article are out of place in Nigeria because you think our own women should be ready to take all the abuse and mistreatment that nineteenth century wives endured from characters like you so that their marriage will succeed while the men will excuse themselves and continue to pull in a different direction.
You have to realize that Nigerian women are now getting the kind of education that their western counterparts get and are now more gainfully employed like their western counterparts so the issues of marital challenges are similar and make this piece relevant.
People like you have to shed the toga of 'I am an African man and my wife must obey whatever I say and has no right to make any input and if the marriage fails it is her fault and I can go ahead and take another wife'. This is twenty-first century and we must learn and share ideas that will make things work out for us. Your idea that Nigerian marriages should be cast in iron and it is the duty of the woman to make it work is fantastically outdated.
I will advise those that are liking your post to read through the entire piece and take whatever they may find useful and apply it in their marriage and relationship, this piece doesn't claim to be a manual of how to make marriages work.

You are very correct. Ten gbosa for you

Noted. You are correct Mr Op. But I want to add that you need God very importantly in your marriage so as to avoid divorce.

Mine is July 24th

I understand you brother, its not easy working for a boss that does not know how to talk to his staff. Criticism is part of life. But I encourage you to believe in yourself, also believe in God, and don't let it get to you. This one will pass and everything will be OK, such is life.