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MadeINchenzen2:
get a nun form... u re expired already

You are just an unrepentant fool. You sorted out for opinions and have been given yet you are still unsatisfied. You had loved it if we all had gathered and condemned her. Stupid Igbotic fool. Mr protector, MadeInTheVillage. Anuofia, Onyenche UmuNwanyi.

MadeINchenzen2:
get a nun form... u re expired already

You are just an repentant fool. You sorted out for opinions and have been given yet you are still unsatisfied. You had loved it if we all had gathered and condemned her. Stupid Igbotic fool. Mr protector, MadeInTheVillage. Anuofia, onye nchedo umuNwanyi.

MadeINchenzen2:
u re the most foolish fool I ve seen writing here

Frustrated fool. Na woman go control you for this life las las. Mr protection. A kid's brain is even more functional than yours. Cos she decided to grow up, that's why killing yourself.
If a lady gets a job outside of her parent's place of residence, she should reject it cos of some fools like u who has refused to grow up.

This OP is sick and very childish. Please Mr protector, who protected these ladies while they were away in school studying... you I believe? Who protected them while they were away during NYSC, you also?
Some girls get unwanted pregnancies while living with their parents, some get raped before their parents during an attack, so what protection are you talking about?
Just leave matter for Mathias, pikin wey wan spoil go spoil. Period
Just be honest to yourself, you are simply overwhelmed by her strength, confidence and financial independence. You are looking for somebody's daughter to cage.

Not to over trust yourself, thinking you are infallible.

People please a man is not responsible for the gender of his baby. It's true that a man carry both the X and Y chromosomes but he doesn't determine the one that will fertilize the egg. Remember, he releases both chromosome at the same time.
From my understanding, conceiving male or female, is determinant on time of ovulation.
My fellow women, please read, read, read and study your body. God has already given human the knowledge, utilize it.
Peace

Madam, it's very true that God gives children and it's equally true that God gives knowledge. No wonder the books says that my people perish for lack of knowledge.
There is something called 'gender-selection', read it up, seek for a specialist to put u through. Better still, walk into any Catholic hospital, ask them to put u through. Most uses the BILLINGS METHOD' for gender selection, then combine it with ovulation kit.
Try to understand your body well (changes in your vag.na discharge and other body signs like abdominal cramps) in order to determine ovulation.
I'm a living testimony (first 3 girls and now a boy).
Please do not forget your prayers- when u want to pray, pray like it's your only hope and remind God that he made us both male and female for a reason, and so u need the both. Continuously thank Him for your girls.
Then when you're studying, do it like it's your only hope. Then the Almighty will perfect your efforts.
Peace

Pamilerin you must be found alive and returned to your mother. In Jesus name, Amen

Deandean:
I'm sorry but u are very stupid...very very stupid...if u had said these b4 me,i definitely would av hit ur mouth...

Hmmmm, pride and entitlements of African men. What is wrong with what was said. Please accept the truth, caution yourself and move on.
The woman in the second scenario didn't do well at all(her reasons best known to her though), but at the same time men should learn how to be both caregivers and providers- women have been doing it since the world began.

How do people even believe stories like this. So people actually go to sambisa forest to negotiate release?

Are you well?

Thanks all. I've sorted it out.

Good day everyone,
Yesterday being 28/1/2020, I made a deposit of 1million naira on behalf my husband into his current account. Later in the night, he received a debit alert of #10,000, being 'CBN limit charges'.
Please is this the norm now or should I follow it up? Thanks all.

Davash222:
After the day's toil, a married man needs the wife's cuddle and touches at night. It's essential in every young marriage. Coming back home at night to behold your sexy wife alone with lingerie at your wide bed gives joy and also elongates life's span. Wives should stop depriving their husbands this privilege.
One of the reasons for having children bedrooms is to create provisions for these things.


OP, I understand how you feel. Imagine a 7 month old baby dragging your breast with you.. Breast that you paid for. I know you dont have access to that breast again. Nawao

Abeg help me ask him how much he paid the breast.

It's well with all of you in this place. You should leave this priest alone and let be the judge.

Proudly Roman Catholic

eyinjuege:
You do know milk has to be kept refrigerated, otherwise it will get sour. While some mothers have the financial wherewithal to get a breast pump, have refrigerated milk (stored in special packs) with insulated coolers/packs and ice packs that can keep the milk cold or even warm in some cases, Not everyone can afford to do that.
Especially when travelling on a journey, it makes no sense to carry expressed milk that won't be refrigerated.
The child that refused cerelac must have been eating it at home before the mother will have the courage to travel with cerelac for child. Unfortunately, baby says " not today mother"

Breast milk is still the best for all children. However, bottle feeding (either with breast milk or formula) has always being discouraged since time immemorial in Nigeria even by health professionals because of the difficulty encountered with sterilising these bottles.
Not everyone will have access to potable water, not everyone will have access to proper sterilising materials for the bottles. Don't forget majority still live below the poverty level in Nigeria.
Mothers, pls continue to breastfeed your babies,so 5hey can grow healthy. There are aprons to cover yourselves discretely, so get one or sew some. Anyone not happy with it should go hug transformer.
I'm talking to mothers (whether single or married- as OP seems to think only married women are mothers) with children that still need the nourishment from boobs.

Thank you jareh. I don tire for this op.

We4all:
Thanks for your input! But why didn't your sister express the breast milk into a sterilized bottle before her departure? She knew she had a baby, but was not proactive enough to come up with a back up plan in case the baby rejected the cereals.

The truth is, most parents know next to nothing about parenting and think they can just jump right into parenthood. Like I said in my post, it is wrong and distasteful to expose boobs in public all in the name of breastfeeding a child. What about kids who lost their mothers during childbirth? How do you think they cope?

As for your last point: Well, no one wants to be told that sex wasn't created for pleasure. But that doesn't change the fact that it is, what it is!

Alright, continue to dwell with your assumptions. He that wears the shoe knows exactly where it hurts.

My dear op, U see that your number one, there's nothing anyone can do about it. When duty calls, you just have to obey diligently and on time. I was once in a bus traveling from east to Lagos with my elder sister and her baby, about an hour into the journey, my niece started crying. The mum prepared cereal but the baby refused to eat but continued to cry. A guy sitting beside us got irritated and began to yell at my sister to throw that 'rubbish' (the cereal) away and breastfeed the poor baby. She had to shamefully put away the food and breastfeed her baby and at last there was peace again.

What I'm saying is that sometimes these women are left with no choice than to breastfeed (publicly). Though the breast could be covered with a piece of cloth.

On married folks having 'pleasurable' sex. Oga I beg, don't use your own hand to condemn your self. Thank you

agrowell:
@ toba1909, only if the mofo knows how much time, money and stress I underwent to acquire the information am passing across free of charge in order to contribute my quotas to the growth and development of others.

I am not selling e-book

God bless you for the free knowledge you are passing across here. I'm also a pig farmer (3months into) and these information are hard to come by. Thank you.