Afrobasic:


@OP, please answer this.

Like I said is not as if am scared of him or there is a communication gap or something...just that I care for this man's feeling deeply and don't want to hurt him consciously or unconsciously.

mutter:
The test for a woman are more complicated and more expensive. A man just has to do one test. It is the procedure that both get themselves tested. He can test himself just to exclude that so that they can focus on you. You need to tell the doctor that this is your fear. He will send for your husband and explain it to him the right way.
The doctors have seen many of such cases and know how to handle the men.

The problem Sir is that we are in different states...had it been we are together we would have gone to the Doctor together but that's not possible.

ileobatojo:


Why?

So that I can take in immediately

Chiefpriest1:
I am not a medical doctor,but I know that low sperm count has nothing to do with the physical lightness or thickness of the semen. So,get that out of your mind.

I am happy you know that men are very egoistic and do not take it lightly when it is bruised. I would advise you take care of yourself first before confirming the suspicion whether he has low sperm count.

And I really do not think its something you should discuss on phone. By the way,though he's 19 years older, at 40 his system is still 'fresh' unless he has had untreated ailments.

Find time, meet him one on one, most likely in bed and put it like this'honey,dont you think you should go for a test just to be sure both of us are okay? I am not saying anything is wrong with you oo!'

You guys might laugh over it,but he ll get the hint. Its a sensitive issue,handle it as such. It us well with you

Thank u sir for d advice

Richy4:


I am not a doctor, but I guess since you guys are living in different part of the state, he might be doing some self service alot due to your absence. that could be the reason for the watery sperm. if he stays for a week or two without that, it might be normal and ok.

For the fact that he is older than you does not mean he got low sperm count. as others advice, tell him what you are facing and also tell him to check himself with you to make sure there is no problem

Ok thanks for the advice

Kimoni:


Oh I see. Encourage him then to go see the doctor with you and tell him ur observations. The goal is not to ridicule him cuz you are talking about ur own challenges as well, the goal is for you guys to start a family asap. Moreover, age is not so much on his side.

Thanks for the advice

lofty900:
u have not solved ur own prblm u want 2 carry his own on ur head. find solution 2 ur prblm 1st b4 talking about his own

Is it bad if I (we) want to solve both his and my problem simultaneously?

Cutehector4u:
Honey I think u hav a low sperm count..let's go c a doctor.. Was dat so hard?

Hmmm...easier said u speak as if u are not a male, dnt u know hw u guyz behave

SUV:
Does he know about ur own problem? Involve him in seeking for solution to ur own problem. In d process tell him to also hv himself checked, if possible talk to d doctor he trust, n let d doctor request for d examination frm him.
Hope this helps. Goodluck!

Thank sir for d advice, he knows about my problem, but the problem is that we are not in the same state...he told me he went for urine culture after a bout of fever and was told he has E. coli infection

Kimoni:
But how do you know he has low sperm count?? #just wondering.

Tell him about ur problems and invite him to see the doctor with you sometimes. From there, encourage him to also check himself so that both of you are rest assured nothing is hindering you from conception.

Good luck!

His sperm is very watery and transparent

The last time I "stylishly" hinted the idea to him on phone, he was silent for some seconds and told me "honey I don't think am the one with the problem, take care of yourself first" tho since then I have never raised the issue

Same with you, Koreans films emphasise more on character in relationships unlike HW movies which is all about sex

Marc9:


Well, metformin simply manages the insulin disorder associated with PCOS, but doesn't really correct the endocrine disorder.

There's more to getting pregnant than just inducing ovulation. Clomid would induce ovulation, and the egg may likely get fertilized, but would there be an optimal progesterone, with estrogen secretion to sustain implantation, and placentation?!

I'll advise you consult a gynae.

I consulted one and he was the one who prescribed metformin

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