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cooltola:
My own take . Many are not financially literate and many skip or do not take marriage counseling seriously before entry into marriage. Marriage is a certificate given without taking the examination. Two are better than one when u marry right. Marry a friend who is willing to have ur back and willing to work or hustle and vice versa. Do not rush to have kids except time and health is not on your side and make sure both of your incomes can sustain the yourself , spouse and numbers of kids you can have. Family planning is key, so know the number of kids you and spouse can provide financially . planning is also key, cut your coat according to your size and avoid living an expensive life or chasing clout on social media. And if you are poor, stop having too many children

babyfaceafrica:
You are neglecting societal input.. This is africa, if you marry and don't have kids withing two years, you will start hearing nansense from all quarters

babyfaceafrica:
True.. Its easy to say marry and delay child bearing. By the time they enter, they will know dating is different from marriage

Rubbiish:
Lol
Marry first before u start talking
We all sounded like this!
If u are not ready to start having kids, do not get married! A marriage without kids is not a blessed marriage! Not even your parents will support u on this. U must have at least one kid to bless that marriage. When u marry without a child, that marriage will so empty, only married people can relate. Why do u think everyone end up having kids after marriage?

Rubbiish:
Lol
Marry first before u start talking
We all sounded like this!
If u are not ready to start having kids, do not get married! A marriage without kids is not a blessed marriage! Not even your parents will support u on this. U must have at least one kid to bless that marriage. When u marry without a child, that marriage will so empty, only married people can relate. Why do u think everyone end up having kids after marriage?

cooltola:
Marriage is the only certificate one get without taking the exam. What about the case that a man was financially well before marriage, then he got sack or his business went down while married and he has not recovered financially. What should one suggest for those who are in this predicament?

babyfaceafrica:
Na family, friends and society dey cause am. You will hear 'are you sure they are fertile'.. Our society can gossip wetin no concern dem

freshalien:
The main issue here isn’t even all those things he specified; the main thing here is having children. Child bearing is what gets most poor or struggling couples stuck in that state forever. Most Africans don’t have the sense to wait when they get married till things stabilize before they start having children. Immediately they get married, they start pouring children out like a tap, further plunging themselves into perpetual poverty because every little money they make goes into taking care of the kids. No proper income, business or investment, yet people get married and immediately start having kids expecting miracles to happen.

MrBrownJay1:
all you people are looking at marriage with a failed vision.... you dont need money to get married, marriage is just an extention of a r/ship sealed by a useless piece of paper....if you guys were broke and could date happily, then there is no reason why you couldnt get married and still be happy. the problem here is that all you people are thinking that a broke couple should do exactly the same thing as one with money, while the couple with little money needs to ADAPT TO THEIR SITUATION until they have enough money to care for a family (aka children etc)

a lot of people are quick to call a man/woman broke because they only have money to take care of their own needs, but the reality is that there are many people who are broke because they paid their rent, put food in the fridge and paid their bills etc. if 2 broke people join hands, then they can EASILY live happily ever after (so long as they dont try to add to their family). so a broke married couple needs to take contraception, need to cut their coat according to their situation and they need to work towards getting a better life situation in order to have kids etc

it takes money for a single person to take care of their basic need... its called LIFE and everyone should be able to take care of their basic needs before thinking of marriage, same for married ones. you dont need "more" money to get married than the money you each had to take care of your basic needs, if your spouse cant/couldnt take care of their basic needs then you shouldnt get married and that person should sort that part of their lives 1st before thinking of getting married, as they are a LIABILITY

as for your hustle statement, no wonder so many men fail in marriage when they think that having money to take care of a liability is the solution to their problem....a liability is a LIABILITY whether you bring more money to the table or not.

AntiBalaka:
The river was named after the region which served as a hub for slave raiders especially the ARochukwu who occupied present day Afikpo on the mouth of the Ebonyi River.

The river served as a quick highway avoiding the thick forests by Jewish slavers hoping to bypass the middlemen in the lower Niger Delta area to deal directly with the Arochukwu slavers.

Now that is the honest truth about the origins of the term Ebo aka Igbo.

AntiBalaka:
This is OC as in Original Content and was researched solely by me.

I will soon write a more detailed researched paper on it.

Time to make Nairaland zombie free and get rid of the attention deficit pissure demanding celebrity gossip and Almajiri BMC horde.

AntiBalaka:
Does Ebonyi meaning anything in the Igbo tongue?

Start from there and you will see how it was a term used to describe Igbo slaves stacked side by side in the hauls of Jewish slave ships.

AntiBalaka:
The river was named after the region which served as a hub for slave raiders especially the ARochukwu who occupied present day Afikpo on the mouth of the Ebonyi River.

The river served as a quick highway avoiding the thick forests by Jewish slavers hoping to bypass the middlemen in the lower Niger Delta area to deal directly with the Arochukwu slavers.

Now that is the honest truth about the origins of the term Ebo aka Igbo.

AntiBalaka:
The origins of the word Ebonyi.

The reference to Ebonyi being ''black wood''.

Jewish slave merchants operating out of the port of Marfa spoke Latin and Portuguese.

Just as they referred to Forcados and Escavros to their slave venture, so also was Ebonyi made to describe the cargo of black slaves stacked side by side and on top each other in the bowels of their slave ships.

The Jews viewed their Igbo slave cargo as nothing more than cargo akin to black wood.

AntiBalaka:
I have stated severally here in the past that the Igbo Zionists will align with the Jihadist north to keep Nijeriya one.

This led to a lot of predicted backlash from IPOB touts and their apologists but when I drew to increasing anti Christian sentiments growing among IPOB touts and how they have been condemning Christianity as the religion that was used to enslave and conquer them.

The funniest aspect about growing anti Christian sentiments among Igbo Zionists aka IPOB is how they tend to not know who the real slave traders that dealt in, sold and enslaved their ancestors across the Americas.

I have presented tons of material to show that Jews and NOT European Christians were behind the slave trade.

The Jews so much dominated the slave trade that virtually every slaving vessel operating out of Marfa (a small port town in present day Portugal) was owned by Jews. The port of Marfa was the first slave raiding rallying port in Europe. That small town will later become very wealthy and also saw to the naming of the present-day Bight of Guinea to Bight of Marfa which after many years of bastardization will become known in simple form as BIAFRA!.

Now imagine, Igbos naming their Zionist state after a slaving zone?

Also, consider that Jews opposed the abolition movement and were in the forefront defending the illicit trade by claiming Darwinism to describe Africans as nothing more than higher apes. They also used the curse of Ham by Noah to declare that Africans have been condemned to a life of slavery by God.

But IGBO Zionists still worship the Jew despite every fact pointing to how they were sold and brutally enslaved by Jews.

There is a state in the SE known as Ebonyi. The name Ebonyi means ''black wood'' in Latin and was used by early Jewish slavers to describe the region where most of their slaves came from. From Ebonyi we got the word Ebo as short hand. So just as the Yaribanza got their name from the Fulani conquerors (meaning deceitful bastard) so also did the Igbo aka Ebo came from their beloved Jewish slave masters.

Pic related:

How Ebo slaves were stacked like logs of wood in the haul of a Jewish slave ship

Frontail:
... Who go Obey Zoo Prisoner order

Simplehuman:
Saving or investing? Savings can't make any one rich but investment.

TOPCRUISE:
And you are so quick to identify yourself as one. Congratulations on that

TOPCRUISE:
Smart woman. They really disrespected the woman by pressing such demands. They did not even consult her.
The Husband's family are very useless, very stupid and very wicked. Same applies to all those who ever support the demands of the family.

kikake:
Story.

Imo state university functions, why can’t tiny IMSUTH function? From 2007 til today, IMSG has reconstructed the roads to Imsu in Owerri, road to IMSUTH have never been practicable.



A state consumed by state capital.
A state where its people deceive themselves.

Other states have teaching hospital but Mpu and aru and deception besieged the teaching hospital in Imo state.

BigSarah:
Money marriage