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Cerebellum:
[s]From the Mumu OP down to the commenter on top me...your mumu no too Much?

Posting mumu bbn upandan

To give una hot slaps dey hungry me self >[/s]

See this brain dead man mistaking me for his mumu fada

AntiBalaka:
[s]Olosho detected.

So you will rather remain in this shithole and continue your ashawoe work than live in a peaceful prosperous society.

This says a lot about most Nigerians who when they go to saner civilised climes never seem to be able to assimilate because of their criminal agberoe mentality.

You see why dem dey deny una visa?[/s]

Looks like you mistook the young lady for your olosho moda.even northern Nigeria is 1 million times better than Afghanistan

cosse:
Lol.....guessed as much..educate urself on these pls..i no fit shout
https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.nytimes.com/2019/09/21/world/asia/china-islam-crackdown.amp.html&ved=2ahUKEwjJvo7b9rfyAhUCEWMBHQsCAvIQFnoECBkQAQ&usg=AOvVaw3_IbfBu1WCQ19nQVjj5fyk&ampcf=1

https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-china-22278037.amp&ved=2ahUKEwjJvo7b9rfyAhUCEWMBHQsCAvIQFnoECAsQAQ&usg=AOvVaw0AAQZGgQStABqURTMI55zn&ampcf=1

You know nothing ,bye

Jerryherd:



[s]All this boys on Nairaland that can't afford GOtv or DStv subscription sef....


Alpha male koor. Insecure fool nii

Whitemoney went full gangster mode and Pere went all soft puppy

I have always suspected Nairaland Alphamale bullshit were just weaklings who can't behave like a real old school men, bitching all day and hiding under Redpill[/s]





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Not everyone is poor like yourself and the retched family you crawled out from fvck off

cosse:
Lol......define recognize first.....b4 i talk...i dnt like wasting my time

I dont have time to waste either,seems you dont know what is going on

inumidun2010:
If CHINA catch these FOOLS with these FOOLISH STATEMENT, NA BODY go tell them.,.
CHINA no wan hear anything ISLAM OOOO

Same China that has recognised them?

Skillsnigeria:
Useless program for useless people

Yet u carried your useless m jobless and worthless self here,atleast we now know the useless person

Ishilove:
Na wa. So they cannot abstain for up to a month? What is wrong with people?

Can you abstain for a week yourself?

Soffyh:
I know, most people shouting bbn is nonsense are only jealous of those guys running into successful life stop hatred for you to make it also

You de mind them.funny enough they're always the first to rush to comment

[quote author=shawante post=104886904]Remain out with your stupid post[/quote]
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Ejlove4u:
am I the only one that do not enjoy this year's BBN... I don't seem to like the faces in there. apart from white money though

Yes you're the only one

pere is all things exuding masculinity in the bbn house.Some of us aren't sentimental to things and don't see things on tribal level.I'm igbo yes and white money is igbo too but the guy man come show go sit down for kitchen as a strategy to win but got bursted ,lmao

What you all forget is that everyone of them there in the house came for the money and there is no sentiment when it comes to making money,I'm out.

Rubbiish:
I say again u are not married & u are the one with poverty mentality here!
If u can jump into marriage when u are not financially buoyant, is it in marriage u will be able to stay without kids?? If u don't want to spread poverty stay single till u have moderate inflow of cash enough to cater for the basic needs of a family like op rightly pointed out & not rushing into marriage with the hope of staying without kids when your wife can even take-in from frequent sex or u want to continue abortion in marriage? People rush into marriage because they want kids considering their age, so they can start raising kids. U that don't want kids, why will u be rushing into marriage with poverty? To have constant access to sex that the end result can only bring about children? Use head for once!

I know you're a married man suffering in poverty and regretting why you got married. Kpele

Rubbiish:
U are the one spreading suffering!
I am with the op!
A man should avoid marriage until he have a moderate inflow of cash capable of providing the basic necessities for a family. You are promoting entering marriage with poverty with the hope of not having kids? Who is with poverty mentality here?

I see how you have been misunderstanding me, no wonder. Of course why do you want to marry as a poor man. Makes no sense

24brains:
this is africa, Nigeria precisely. if you marry you no get pickin na sympathy and taboo for my village oo.

imagine say your mama dey look your wife say she no dey fertile! i swear she can't stand that shame people will say its the sin of abortion hunting her, some will say you are not man enough, many will say its demonic, and nobody will listen to your contraceptive storey.

the valid point is make money before geting married so that when bills and kids come, you're all prepared.

Well you're still backward in your own Africa. Igbo people have moved ahead and practice what I just stated

Klass99:
Lol, enjoy.

I stopped reading at Page 1, because I know how the thread will go........

There'll be two factions and comments will be divided along the lines of practicality (or sensibility if you like) and religiousity.

Or am I wrong? As you have followed the thread, tell me if I'm right or wrong.

What makes a thread lively is simply what you stated. Without contrary opinions then it is worthless and time wasting to have same views.

lexy2014:
How did u arrive at ur conclusion above? If d man in question isn't d only son, what then happens? Since u are relating d "predicament" of an only son, how many married men fall into d category of only sons and how many don't?

I have told you that guy probably have multiple kids he can't take care of and wants people who will join him in his miserable life. I can detect frustration in his tone and bad choices he has made and now wants to blame the society for his failures. Do not fall for that.

Rubbiish:
[s] Oga u are not married so u will not understand!
Ask married men around u![/s]
If u don't want to eat meat, do not use your teeth to share it! If u do not want to have kids, do not get married, it is very simple! Only married people can relate! Even your wife will mock u & question if u are fertile when it gets to a point.

What's your tribe first let it not be I'm arguing with someone whom I have no cultural similarity with.
And again you lied about me not been married and that invalidates all you've said already. Enjoy your suffering in peace

babyfaceafrica:
how?

I have few friends with babe mama, most them their babe mamas no de take good care of their kids and mostly into drugs and other vices which a child should not be brought up from. To me instead of a babe mama I won't think of having a kid

babyfaceafrica:
This should be the normal, but it isn't reality in Africa. Society always rears its head

It's the reality, it more depends on your tribe and how you want to suit yourself and if you prefer poverty over what the society says of course

Rubbiish:
[s] U are not married!!!
No married man will spend more than 6 months in marriage & his wife will not start pestering him for kids in this part of the world[/s] ! Someone that is unable to stay single even when he is not financially buoyant because he sees her mate getting married, is it in marriage when she sees her mate carrying their kids she will stay without kids? Family will use talk to finish your life & u will begin to doubt your fertility.

Again you judged from the poor and miserable population you know and for you to say I'm not married without even knowing the reality makes everything you've been saying void. I have colleagues who delayed conception till they made arrangements for the babe financially. I guess you're very much low on the social class and that's what happens amongst you all. Continue to swim in your poverty and miserable lives.

babyfaceafrica:
In this part of the world, the decision pass you especially if you are the only Son. My brother, your family and wife won't let you rest

Forget that nonsense, it depends on whom you are. Nothing pass you, nobody give money to marry. What tribe are you exactly where the village people demand for babes, nawa o

babyfaceafrica:
Fact.. The notion that 'God will help u take care of kids should be disbanded' ' we are too religious and sentimental in this country... If you no get money, pause child bearing!

The emboldened is same thing I'm saying naw

24brains:
you that is saying you dont need money to get married, have you seen a marriage list before? Abi na belle you give your wife?

People get married to have children. So why get married at all if the aim is to take contraceptives & waiting till money comes to raise children?

Oga hustle hard, make money before thinking of women at all. They are the WOES of man

The part I rightfully marked out is false. People marry for different reasons and giving birth is just a part. Besides most Whites even just marry without aim of having kids including some Africans. We're explaining to you how to reduce or avoid suffering in marriage by delaying the time of giving birth so far you're all still fertile and healthy so you don't suffer much. Do you guys so much like suffering over your sanity? Nawa o

babyfaceafrica:
True.. Its easy to say marry and delay child bearing. By the time they enter, they will know dating is different from marriage

Tell me exactly why you can't delay child bearing. Did any god ask you for a child for sacrifice?
Are there no contraceptive? Why make your life miserable for no just reason. Just set your priorities right.

FreeIgboho:
NNIsuper, listen to experience.
Also, dating someone does not involve wedding ceremonies and pride prices and aseobi and inlaws and visitors, and various expectations. etc.

What the guy said made no sense. For one you're living your life for yourself and not the society, explain to me how it makes sense to start popping out kids in poverty bc the society expects you to do so, meanwhile they won't partake in your suffering. Make una open una eyes and stop suffering yourselves

Rubbiish:
What many of u don't know is, it is very difficult to sustain love without finance! No matter how genuine that love is! When u start failing in everything that is expected of u as a man, that love go begin dwindle, no matter how good that lady is. Any woman wey like her man, means the man is trying, he may not be very rich, but he is able to provide the basic necessities like bills, shelter, feeding, education, health. If any of these things are missing in a home, even your kids will not be happy with u, let alone your wife. In short, u will not be happy with yourself if u have conscience!

Funny enough you made so much sense here, why are u then contradicting yourself to start popping out unnecessary kids and living a perilous life

Rubbiish:
Oga u are not married so u will not understand!
Ask married men around u!
If u don't want to eat meat, do not use your teeth to share it! If u do not want to have kids, do not get married, it is very simple! Only married people can relate! Even your wife will mock u & question if u are fertile when it gets to a point.

You're assuming Wrongly, what makes u think I'm not married, I guess you will now change your line of argument to suit u. Leave talk, plan it with your wife, no one said u should plan it alone. I Don tell u if u prefer poverty due to what society will say or not Goodluck to u

Vultron101:
no mind the senseless guy.

Stop abusing people, everyone is here to make his point. Without him too there will be nothing much to discuss. Learn to stay civil even when one doesn't agree with u, that's maturity

Rubbiish:
U do sound like an unmarried man!
Ask your elder brothers & married neighbours, money solve 70% of marriage issues. Without finance, the rate at which that tingling love feeling will decline will shock u. Ask your parents!

You know this and yet you want to pop out too many kids to come suffer, abobi

Parisian:
Wahala for who dey reason babymama.

Babe mama is the worst sha