tee59:
You did well ,but can you do the same if she was single lady? With your description of her up there, you might not been able to overcome that temptation,if she was a single lady with big ass. You're one of the lovers of big ass women. I can sense that.

Yes. You sensed right. Just like most y'all girls out there fantasize about big dick guys, I love girls with big asses. But that isn't enough to make me go after another man's wife. It ain't mine to dig.

And her being single wouldn't make me just wanna stick my dick into any hole either. My line of work makes me meticulous.

It so happened that in August of 2020, I was sent by my company to go stand in for a colleague who was going on leave at our Branch at Ibadan.

Two days later, I arrived Ibadan from Lagos. As a normal procedure, and also of the fact I am a senior member of the company, all members of staff of that Branch had to be introduced to me as I will be working with them for the next one month.

During the introductions, I couldn't help but notice one of the cleaners who happened to be in her early 30s. Damn! She had one of the biggest ass I had ever seen. Despite the fact she tried hiding it, it was so obvious of what she was carrying. She was light complexioned and her body structure with that big ass was something that could make a man wanna go 3 rounds. Anyway, she introduced herself to me as Kemi (not her real name) and I couldn't help but notice instantly in her eyes that she desired me probably because she knew I was earning way more than half the staff there.

A week into my stay at the Ibadan Branch, Kemi did not miss entering into my office to say Good morning. As a matter of fact, she would come to work, change into her cleaning dress that was so tight on her that it made her big ass jiggle as she walked. Then she would come into my office, say Good morning, turn around and with audacity, twerk her ass as she walked away. Damn! It was some wonderful sight to behold.

Well, we got talking eventually. I got to find out she was married with 2 kids and that she was the one catering for the entire family as her husband was jobless. She told me she liked me because I was handsome and to my greatest surprise, she made it clear to me that she wanted me to bleep her as much I wanted cos she wanted to have a 3rd child that would look as cute as me.

To cut the whole story short, I couldn't do it. In as much as I dreamt so much about grabbing that fat ass, squeezing it and bleeping it so hard, I can't bring myself to live with the fact that I could get a married woman pregnant and watch her pin it on her unsuspecting husband who might be having sleepless nights on how he has failed in helping his wife raise a child that isn't actually his. I wouldn't want anyone doing that to me, why would I do that to any man?

Through out my final stay at that Branch, I totally avoided her by constantly locking my office door and forming busy.

Many of you can call me all sorts of names for not utilizing such opportunity but for me, I believe in Karma. What I would never want anybody else to do to me, I will never do it to anybody else. In that way, it keeps my judgement about things clear. I still so much believe in Heaven.

PUSSYHOE:
MOST NIGERIAN GIRLS.

1. At 14, they are the fine sweet teens.

2. At 16, they wanna roll with older ones. It's fun being the new hottie in the group.

3. At 18, they probably have had 1st sex.
They cling to this one guy & talk all about how they won't leave the guy.

4. At 20, they might be at the University. They make new male friends & slowly lose interest in the former guy.

5. At 22, they make friends with girls who wear more expensive clothes & who also date expensive guys. These set of girls use porsh phones, so they get intimidated & need to join
the elite school girls league.

6. At 24, they are now porsh! They now roll with rich male friends who they scam & take
money from for mere sex. At this point, if a random guy chats her up, she might snub! If you ask her phone number, she makes you feel like a stalker. They prefer guys who actually want to spend a fortune on them.

7. At 26, the trend continues...fun, porsh &
money remains the keywords because she has changed her mindset & increased the standards she wants in a man, money.

8. Between 26 - 27, she is a maid of honour for her friends. If she was lucky enough to be in a relationship, she'll leave if any misunderstanding should come up. She then sees herself as every man's spec, so she believes she'll be rushed like agege bread in Ojuelekpa.

9. At 28, all those guys that were telling her how beautiful she is, how they love her even she was in a relationship. She decided to give two of them a chance. They came, explored her and after two weeks, stopped picking her calls. She decided to give many a chance, but same thing happened. She went back to her ex that was disturbing her while she was with the old good guy, but same thing happened. She then decided to have flings with anyone that comes her way.

10. At 29, none of those guys proposed...

11. At 30, night vigils, adoration ground, 5nights of glory, Uyo miracle crusade, Naija miracle crusade & Shiloh...

12. At 32, the same girl who refused giving phone numbers to some serious guys goes to
Linda Ikeji's blog, Rant HQ, Ibom Crush, Port Harcourt Rant, Ibom Rant, Singles Dating sites, & posts " Hi I'm Stephanie, I'm 32 & searching for a serious relationship. Call me on 0810000000800. God punish Satan.

13. At 35, they start running to churches begging Papas' to pray for them. Papas' will fast, pray and speak in tongues, roll on the ground, visit the mountains for special prayer sessions but no way.

14. At 40, they begin to see their family members as witches, wizards, principalities and powers.

15. At 45, they become the most active church workers with tears dropping from their eyes every morning and night.


16- At 50, they become mentors and public motivational speakers to young girls. They can even write motivational and spiritual books. That is how they'll tell you they decided to abstain from men so they could worship God in spirit and in truth.
My dear receive God's power to have sense so you don't cry tomorrow.
This is 2021 so be wise pls
take good decision today to enjoy ur tommorrow.

I don't know who this OP is but I must say your write up is on point.

I have this friend of mine that doesn't waste his time dating women from 28 years below. As a matter of fact, he has understood how desperate women from 29 years and above are that he finds it so easy to feed off their desperation and bleeps the living day light out of many of them. By the time they realize he isn't serious about them, he would have gone so many rounds.

Ladies should realize that they are like the sun. You rise in the morning, shine so bright and definitely set in the evening.

StennyB:
This week has been something else. I was thinking that cheating and passing off a man's child to another wasn't that rampant.

But I've been reading some posts that has made me have a rethink.

What's your take on all these?

Truth is, women are something else. One of my friends will always say, "If men are scum, then, women are filthy".

To get pregnant for another man and pin it on your husband is worse than murder. Imagine a man who going out every single day under the hotness of the sun and the drenching of the rain to find money to feed his family and all his wife does is to provide another man with freebies in-between her legs which he never worked hard. She eventually gets pregnant, pins it on the husband who doesn't find out until many years of working off his youthful life

Isn't that worse than murder?

Bornsinner7:
Something is wrong with this celebrities

This Yul guy smoked Benin weed..

Children molesting themselves in boarding school is never a problem of Nigeria.. There are numerous problems in Nigeria that need tackling.. insecurity for instance..

You are very stupid for making this kind of comment. You are one of those that indeed must always spew senseless trash in serious situations and don't even have the brain to know they are indeed senseless.

Dear Nairalanders,

This post was made by me on behalf of my cousin concerning a current situation he is in and would really love to get the much advice he can about this.

My cousin met this girl 3 years ago when he just finished Youth service and of course, didn't have much financially. He asked her out and the girl readily agreed. Ever since then, it has been a wonderful relationship for the both of them. This girl tolerates my cousin's flaws even when he might be in a bad mood. This girl landed a job before my cousin and through out the 8 months he was jobless, she always stood by him and never cheated once on him. She loves my cousin to the Moon and back.

After my cousin finally landed his first job here in Nigeria, he started applying for jobs in Scotland cos he really had the intention of relocating. He got frustrated after he couldn't land the Scotland jobs after 2 years and gave up. His girl always cheered him up and told him not to give up. She immediately took over the job applications for him which she made every single day from her place of work on her office computer. She, in addition, fasted and prayed for my cousin without his knowledge for him to land his dream job in Scotland.

5 months later, my cousin got an interview and landed the job. He is about relocating.

Now, my cousin is in a dilemma. He has strong intentions about marrying this girl but doesn't know what his moving to the Scotland may result. He can't marry her right now not make arrangements to relocate with her due to the high financial cost. So he intends on leaving first to later come back for her. However, he is absolutely oblivious of what being away from her for too long may cause and would not wish to stay away too long, get entwined with too much work that he forgets about her which will break the girl's heart. Although he and the girl has talked about this, she has said she would wait for him no matter how long it took but has said that the ball is in the court of cousin to decide.

So, my cousin came to me and I have come to you dear Nairalanders.

He is asking if there is a greater advantage in him continuing with the girl all the way from Scotland, defying a long distance relationship or if he should simply end the relationship by the simple reason of not breaking the girl's heart in the long run.

Note: My cousin lives this girl sooo much but wouldn't want to see her get hurt by him.

Yours opinions are very much needed.

Opinions can be given without need for sentimental insults please. Thank you.

Robertgreene1:
oga u avnt seen anything in life...u think life is a bed of roses... one of my uncles that was traveling d whole world enjoying life nd women back then..always bringing diffrnt white women home wit him during Xmas those days now has stroke at js 48...nd he's currently bedridden in London...he's now regretting why he never married nd asking us to look 4 a wife that's gonna b taking care of him...even when my mum had ovarian cancer nd waz bedridden 4 3 yrs..it was my dad that was taking care of her..oga u will never b strong nd bubbling forever...when age nd his troubles coupled with loneliness nd depression sets in...every other person gonna abandon u except ur loving spouse..that's y people marry..4 support nd companionship in their time of vulnerability nd weakness...d richest men I know world over all married...a small boy will Js hammer small change these days nd feel like he doesn't need a wife cus he can afford any babymama he wants 4 sex nd kids..oga marriage is not 4 sex nd kids alone. it's 4 support..companionship nd family bonds...only elders know this...kids don't...so grow up man...

Oga. You can actually share your own opinion without adding so much hate to it. You've kept hammering on me not being richer than Dangote, Otedola; making small change and feeling I don't need a wife etc

But guess what, it's my life bro. Not to rub it at your face but I am rich even at my age. Go deal with it. And my brother, I owe it all to Almighty God!

The essence of my original post is to at least air my opinion and then see what other opinions are like and how I can benefit from them.

It is maturity to give a constructive argument without backbiting or throwing insults at anyone bro. Such acts like yours can be misinterpreted to frustration.

HRHQueenPhil:

Essence of marraige is
1. Companionship..covid and curfew has shown d benefit of marraige. U will be still lonely though if u married d wrong person
2. Partnership. ..this means u come together to bear a child and train,u come together to build that house, come together to make heaven and make more strategic decisions together
3. Sex.. if the both of u are faithful to each other, there is no fear of disease. The act is even a blessing and u can explore all u want..not devilish acts of sex like anal or group sex

It's majorly these but if u don't want to marry..it's perfectly ok just don't do baby mama. That child will be a curse to U and lead to ur death. It's an assurance..Go the right way by getting maried

My dear. I appreciate your opinion but the truth is, the kind of girls that are found these days even in churches are nothing to write home about. I dated a girl some years back and believe me, the craving to have a partner died in me. Though it never stopped me from being nice to ladies.

As for the sex part, I am glad to tell you that I spent 5 years in medical school without fucking nobody. What do I mean? Sex is not among the basic needs for a man when he wants to find the right person. Whether na your babe or your wife, you go Bleep tire. And after you've bleeped tire, seen everything seeable about the person, what else will be enough to keep the person valuable before your eyes? Think about it...

Sometimes I ask myself what is so fascinating about marriage. The joy at which some people sing and dance at your face about the joy of being married amazes me.

I am a 29 year old male. I do have a good job. I can cook by myself any kind of delicacy I want anytime I want it. I very much can clean my entire apartment and do my own laundry impeccably. The joy I get going home everyday knowing that I am going back home to my apartment without any girl to bother me about this and that is just heavenly.

I have dated lots of girls just so that I can understand what is so fascinating about having them around but since I can do many personal stuffs myself, I hardly have any need being a relationship cos I noticed that it either requires more of your energy, more of your money, more of your peace of mind especially when you jam a girl that's constantly feels insecure. The worst encounter you would have as a young man looking for true love is to go into a relationship with a girl who doesn't know what she wants. You might die sooner than your maker planned it.

I know some people will say that I haven't met the right girl. But my question is; who exactly is the right girl

For me, there's this joy being single and free. Being able to run your life without a girl pinning you down about how old she's getting and that you need to come fast to see her parents. Shit! Being single and free leaves you living with a clear conscience of not committing to nobody and breaking nobody's heart.

For those that will say, marriage is good for the sake of child bearing, you are absolutely correct but I rather go into a contract with a girl I know about being my baby mama. There are so many girls out there who love such idea too.

So, asides these, what exactly is the essence of marriage

Ibechris2:
Most handsome guys are brainless and poor. In fact,there was one I grew up with in Lagos. Naso the guy dey die for one girl then,we leave am enter university, even after we don't graduate e still dey pursue the girl. Go school e no gree go,learn work hmm na another story.

After everything,na another man marry the girl and funny enough,the girl was my primary school classmate.

In conclusion,most of these fine guy are sick in the head. Them think say na fine guy go build house,pay rent,pay bride price and cater for children.

This is the most brainless answer I have ever read concerning a post.
Surely, you must be an ugly fellow having an unnecessary hate for good looking fellows.

[quote author=NDSMELODY post=92359505]Pls check your grammar before posting anything next time...........it should be Nigeria and Her youth not Nigeria and it's youth.[/quote


Thank you so much for your correction. But can you give me a very good reason why it's Nigeria and her youth and not Nigeria and his youth
If you can't come up with anything tangible asides the fact that it's what you were thought in school then you are nothing but conventional.

Anyways, thank you for reading my post Mr/Ms autocorrected ( that is if you actually read it).

Most times, I wonder where things have really gone wrong! I keep wondering if there's actually any other side of morality attached to any religion we confess, be it Christianity, Islam, pegan worship etc.

The rate at which evil, promiscuity, adultery, fornication and all their likes have been torn and rebuilt into a more appealing structure is just something I can't fathom. Things that used to be appalled years back are now been preached and encouraged. Videos with love making scenes that our parents would chase us out of the living room so that we don't watch and get morally corrupted is now like a must watch for every family and it's included age brackets. And yet nobody is actually seeing any thing wrong in all of these!!!?

How on Earth can a show like Big brother Nigeria, with all it's mediocrity, promiscuous virtual, unintelligent and non-educational contents, be a program that's being enjoyed and prioritized right now above the news of looting and stealing of billions by our politicians!!? What in God's name is happening to our youths!!!? People who are supposed to be fearless and stand up with raised voices to demand a better life from our greed bellied politicians who are continuously cartering away with monies that could turn our Lagos into Dubai, our Universities into Oxford, our roads into the roads seen in Sweden, our environment into that seen only in Disney Land.
No wonder an unintelligent fellow somewhere could act a fainting drama for all of us on National television when questioned about billions entrusted into his care for the development of his own people!!!!! And I have been waiting to see the noice making Niger deltan rally through riots to voice their displeasure and demand justice. Up untill now, the south south still remains cold as ice! This cold response is what still gives our unintelligent leaders the impetus to play us anytime they like cos they know we prioritize our own bodily pleasures than long term physical developments that would let us breath for generations to come.

However, am not surprised that our youths are not responding like they should when majority of them have been overtaken by big breasts and sex scenes on Big brother Nigeria, unclad girls on Twitter and stories that must have an icing of sex.

When I mistakenly come across short videos of our girls dancing in just their panties and bra to the songs of celebrities, I keep asking myself what has really gone wrong. The impetus at which they show off their bodies, without remorse or remembering the fact that they have a father, a mother, younger sisters, younger brothers, church friends, school mates etc, out there who could actually see these uploaded videos just alarms me. Well, that is a big part of the reason why rape will be staying with us for a long time.

The most painful part of it all is how many young people will attack you on social media for speaking out against these alarming immorality in the society just like many will read this post and term me a novice or a JJC because I don't flow with ideology of entertainment.

Anyways, it's well. No matter how much black is painted on white, underneath, the white remains white.

chatinent:
This is a very commendable piece. Thank you. Meanwhile, I would like to buttress a few things. First, any girl who claims she had sex to prove love is very stupid (quote me). Why? How can you throw that one expensive thing with a so-called boyfriend who doesn't even plan to marry you? Even if he does, so what? You opened a surprise for him before it's being given to him and you expect him to value you? You sold yourself. Your sold your trust before delivery. Fool!
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Second, guys who all they research about is seeking the next gullible girl to have sex with is stupider. Of course, he feels he's a trophy getter. He doesn't also know he has tainted his reputation -- she used him too. Many of these sorts of idiots only do it to boost their ego, and self-esteem hence they resort to the alphamale-simp disparity and sugarcloth their unmanliness.
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Third, anyone trading their body in exchange for money is the worst of all and should not be mercied. Whether or not it is a recompense for the money/time wasted on her/him during the relationship.
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Once again, nice piece.

Thanks so much

It has really become a common thing to hear from guys that women have nothing to offer asides sex. They go ahead to paint women as intimacy gadgets and worst of all label them as pit toilets. In as much as I wouldn't deny the fact that most women actually deserve those name tags, I vehemently refuse to exclude men from being among the major cause of such names . And this brings me to my advice to guys about dating random girls.

Don't ever expect anything asides sex from a girl that has nothing to offer intellectually. Such girls will never contribute to telling you how to make your life or finance grow as a man. They don't ever think or make plans concerning the future. All they care about is how to live for the moment, look good enough to be whistled down or stopped by a man in a car. All they care about is how to offer you the one thing they know you did part with your money for and that is sex. These girls are the kind I term random girls. Because these girls are so much out there, men are left confused and without hope of if there are actually still good girls. Because the majority of girls you did meet are random girls, you may be forced settle with the general cliché about women offering nothing but sex.

But the truth my fellow men is that; we actually meet good girls on a daily at every point but our quest and determination to test that lies hidden between her legs and underneath her clothes blinds our senses to at least go beyond trying to know who this girl is, what could be peculiar about her that I might come to love so much that could be of great importance to me in future at least as a wife (that is if that's where you want to go). The moment you hit it two or three times, you run off screaming like a little boy that you've done it. Many good girls have actually turned random cause when they encounter these kind of guys, they develop the mentality that all what guys want and would die for is the apple they carry and hence give it to you and nothing more in exchange for cash, jewelries etc

Many good girls who really don't want to be involved sexually in a relationship most times can't cope with the persistent request for sex from their guys who they really love so much that
they give in. As expected, the guy gets what he wants and in most cases tells the girl it's over after some more exploits. The girls who experience this are left hurt and many times evolve into random girls except for few who believe so much in God's word.

Therefore, it is important to advice my fellow young men out there that in your bid to count census, you might have actually met that one girl that would have been of great importance to you in so many ways if only you can at least try to control your magic stick and look well into her soul to see how beautiful it is as a person. If she agrees to your woos and tells you 'no sex', no matter if she's still a virgin or not, please respect her decisions and try building something with her. Such girls are no random girls. Some disvirgined girls have lost their virginity due to naivety and peer pressure and when they realize their mistakes, decide to make a better use of their brains than their bodies. Please don't ruin their life resolution just because you wanna count census.

Well, I do hope this piece helps someone out there and enlightens them.

You sure say no be their house maids them dey send give una?
;DYou sure say no be their house maids them dey send give una?