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Star actress, Rachael Okonkwo, popularly known as Nkoli Nwa Nsukka, share these photos of her mum. She is so young that one would mistake her for her sister. What do Y'All think?

Source: http://www.latestamebonaija.com/2017/03/is-this-rachael-okonkwos-nkoli-nwa.html

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Actress Tonto Dikeh Details Her Domestic Violence Story - TEXT

Full text of Actress Tonto Dike's interview detailing how hubby beat her blue black and humiliated her....

Video Interview transcribed for SDK Blog
How did you feel when your son was handed to you after birth?

The feeling was really strange. It was like carrying my own heart in my arms. I heard his heart beat. I was so overwhelmed but I enjoy every minute of it till date.


When you had him, did you care about your career or it wasn't important at that moment?

Truthfully, I didn't have any other thought apart from being a mother. I just dedicated my life to going through my pregnancy, coming to terms with it and giving birth. I knew that I was not going back to work immediately because of the love I have for my son. I knew it was impossible to leave him at home. I have always told myself that when I give birth, I would like to breastfeed my child for a year and not go anywhere. I breastfed him for a year and a week.


What do you miss most about being single?

You really do not miss anything. Life is in stages. When it is time for you to be single, you'll be single. When it is time for you be married, you'll be married. When it is time for you to be elevated into another stage of your life, you will be elevated. I wouldn't say I miss anything being single. My single days were my single days. I did what I did during my single says, that was what was expected but now, I don't miss it.


What has been your greatest challenge as a mother?

I have never had any challenges with motherhood. I have a competent nanny that takes care of my child properly even when I am not there. Even if I didn't have a nanny, the welfare of my child would have been one of my greatest worries. I do have the best workers. I work with the best people. Anytime I am away which I am hardly ever, I know my son is safe.


There's been much publicity lately on your foundation. Can you tell us what it is about?

Well, my foundation wasn't launched recently. It's been around for 10years now. What you have been seeing is the "Tonto Dike Back to School Project". Basically, we are sending children back to school, focusing on the girl child , not forgetting the boy child too. There's a saying that goes "children are the leaders of tomorrow". I believe in change and if it has to come, we need to invest in the children who are going to bring about it. That's what the initiative is all about. I go to random schools that need me.


Is it marriage or motherhood that is preventing you from continuing your career?

I actually slowed down way before marriage due to personal reasons. I found myself thinking about what I really wanted. I was blocked emotionally and spiritually. There was this veil covering my face and I needed to identify with something greater which is God. I left my career to find God. I haven't gone back to acting because of my son. That's not to say that I am off the screen forever, I am coming back.


Lately, there have been many stories concerning the happenings in your marriage. What do you have to say about this?

I have heard and read about it. Words cannot quantify how I feel about it. Like you rightly said, the whole issue is out there because I am a public figure. In all of these, I am just praying for strength, wisdom and everything else I need to move in and grow. It is a bitter experience for me to air. It is not easy. I am here because I believe I'll be helping someone out there by sharing my experience.

Do you have any regrets going into the marriage?

I try to live a life of not regretting my actions. I see every stage I am in as an elevation. I feel like I am going through this fire to come out stronger than I was. For now, I do not regret my marriage.

What has been your most embarrassing moment as a celebrity?

There has been a lot of moments. I cannot pinpoint any particular event. Just sitting down and reading something ill about yourself is embarrassing.


If you had your way, what story about yourself would you like to delete from the Internet?

If I had a way, I'll like to delete my whole existence because of my child. I know that the Internet never dies, he's going to grow up to read my stories and it is going to hurt him.


Tell us something about Tonto Dike that people do not know
I think people do not know that I am born again. I have been born again for a very long time. I did backslide at some point but I found my way back to God. It's been amazing and wonderful. I attend Mountain of Fire and I have two great pastors from two good churches that pray for me all the time.


Who do you miss most as a person?


Well, it's hard for me to be away from my child. I have only been away from him twice . The first time was when I went to Warri. It's really hard to stay away from him because he's very clingy. That's why I have a picture of him that I take with me everywhere I go.


What has been your biggest life lesson?

It has to do with going through things and not letting them bother me.


What is that misconception about you that has brought you close to tears?

I have heard a lot of things about me. It's the same thing, it never changes. Something that has really hurt me recently was someone coming out to associate me with drugs, as a mother. It hurt me so much because no one sees how much of a good mother I am. Nobody knows the sacrifices I have made for my son. I have a file at home, I do a drug test every month. I write letters to my son, detailing how much his presence has changed my life. That rumour really broke and almost destroyed me.


You recently revealed that you have been treating STDs due to your husband's cheating ways

First of all, this interview is not meant to discredit my ex husband. It is not to bring him down or make people hate him. I am doing this for him to be a better man and like I said earlier, someone somewhere might learn from this. I did mention something about STDs. I am not taking back my words because they are not lies. I would not promote it, I would not embarrass my ex husband in that manner. Domestic violence is real. I do not understand how I went through it over and over again. I didn't stay back because of my son, I did it For myself because I loved my husband with all of my heart. I stayed because he begged me a couple of times to stay and I just didn't want to give up on my marriage. I believe people change. Anytime we had issues, my husband comes with a Pastor to beg. We have never had real counselling because he never admits his doings. I asked him over and over again why he kept doing it and if he felt no shame. I have pictures and videos of my domestic violence. I also have pictures at the Nigerian Embassy in Ghana because I had to run to them at some point. I didn't release the pictures because I was stark naked. My husband has really humiliated me so much. For anyone to tell me I am telling lies against my husband, it really hurts me more.


Were you on holiday in Ghana?

Yes, and he stays in Ghana.



Is it true that his mother once caught you with marijuana and you pushed her down after she confronted you?
That is a lie from the devil. I am close to my mother-in-law and she has never seen me smoke. Mum, if you are watching, you know there were times that I was really sick and you offered me drugs that would make me better that I rejected because I knew I was breastfeeding my baby. I was scared of taking as little as Alabukun because I didn't know what it was going to do my child. I am saying this with God as my witness, my MIL has never seen me smoke and I did not push her down. Mum, if you are watching this, please tell the truth. I know that Kunle, your son put this story out there. You are a woman like me, you know this is not true. I really do not want to believe you said this.


Recently, a lady named Rosaline Meurer made a video saying she's your husband's PA, that she knows you and you are very nice to her. She also celebrated him on his birthday on her IG page. What do you have to say to her claims?

First of all, I do not know her personally but I am aware that she's sleeping with my husband. I am aware that my husband is taking care of her and she is the reason why he abandoned his son. I'm aware that she's the reason he abandoned his family because he took her on a trip. She's not my husband's sister, he is not her brother. She doesn't know me and I have never spoken to my husband about her before. I know their story and I know that they are in love. It's not just a relationship.



Rosaline posted a picture of a car on her IG page

My husband bought the car for her. He is responsible for her upkeep. I have pictures of them on a trip together. That's something my husband has never done for me or his family. It hurts me because I watched him make every dime he has and I know the sacrifices I made. All I expected from him was to be good to his family. It's not his first time. I have practically dragged someone off my husband's private part before. The women are not my problem. I was once single. I am not a saint. I forgive all of them with the love of God in my heart.



Is it true that he has kids from other women?

Yes, it is. My son is not his first child. That was one of my major concerns in the early stage of my marriage because he lied about not having any child. I didn't even know he was married unto the day the pictures were posted online. Recently, two women have contacted me that they have children for my husband but I cannot verify it. Like I said earlier, this interview is not to throw dirt on hi, pm. One of them said her child is 9months old, the other said her child is two years old. Just as i can't verify the gay accusations laid out against him. There are claims that he's bi-sexual.I don't know if it is true or not.


Is there any chance that you both would work things out if he claims to be a changed person?

I don't know what the future holds. I just want this phase of my life to be over and to be strong for my son. I really want it to be over because it is preventing me from moving on to greater things. I read negative things on the Internet over this issue everyday and it is really affecting me. There are huge projects I am supposed to be working on now but the issue keeps dragging me backwards. Going back to my marriage is a big impossibility. I do not pray to go back. I just want a cordial relationship for my son. He has hurt me so much and it is crazy how he keeps hurting me. People from his camp keep saying nonsense. He brought elders all the way from my village down to Abuja to beg me. Two hours later, I saw a post online by one Mr. Paul who claims to be his manager, saying I lied about all the revelations I made about buying my own cars and all. I do not have anything that belongs to him with me. I left my home with nothing. The clothes I wear today were given to me by Utee because I left my home with absolutely nothing. Thinking of all my husband's verbal abuse, I felt ugly, unworthy, less human. Then I called Utee and told her I wanted to feel powerful and beautiful.


That was the lowest point in my life, having to ask for help. She responded 2 hours later. I do not want anyone saying I have any of my husband's property in my possession. I admit seizing one car and selling it off to give my son a better life. I have threat messages from him, saying the car wasn't mine and I have to return it. They have the Police searching for the car everywhere. I have proof of anything I say about my husband.



There's a picture of a car he claimed to have gifted your son for his birthday

There's no such car. That picture is an old picture. I take Uber to drop my son off at school and pick him up. That's how I run things now. We do not have any car belonging to my husband with us.


What advice do you have for women going through such?



First of all, to anyone who has been battered and bruised physically and emotionally, you are beautiful and God loves you. The truth of this matter is that most women live in self denial, they want to stay and make it work. They also want to pray and see changes. I advise that you seek help instead. In as much as you claim you are still in such marriage because of your children and wanting to give them a better life, you are actually hurting them. Most abusers grew up in hostile environments and I took my son away from such because I do not want him to grow up and become such a man. It is time for us to speak up for ourselves. The society doesn't help women because the backlash we receive from leaving our matrimonial homes is always horrible.


The society needs to give us a break, we are humans and we need to heal. I said earlier that granting this interview is not out of anger or to bring down my husband. If my story heals just one person out there, I am okay with that. I am speaking up for all women. Enough is enough! Love does not hurt. It is not supposed to hurt. Please speak up and seek help. I have a deaf ear from all that violence.


I just want to say to everybody that this really hurt me so much and I want it to die down. I want to move forward and stay strong for my son. In as much as half of you would not believe my story or that I am a changed person, I have nothing to prove to you.


I want to thank all the women that have been sending me messages and DMing me, you all have been my source of inspiration. I also want to thank my husband's first wife, Mrs. Bimbo Coker for all the love and support. She's been in that position and her advice have been so helpful. Thank you

Source :www.stelladimokokorkus.com/2017/03/actress-tonto-dikeh-details-her.html?m=1


Nigerians have taken to Twitter in reaction to Tonto Dikeh's interview video, trending the cyberspace for over 12 hours. Yesterday, Tonto Dikeh shared pictures showing evidence of domestic violence from her ex husband, Churchill. Part of the allegations made by Tonto include, Ms. Rosalin sleeping with her husband and that of domestic abuse.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mNyeCPzuT-E

In some of the reactions by Nigerians, most tweets, were channeled to her husband and men, for being 'cheats.' However, I think it's still early to conclude, until we hear from Mr. Churchill. See some of the reactions below

Source: http://www.latestamebonaija.com/2017/03/nigerians-react-to-tonto-dikehs-newly.html

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it gets messier. Stephanie just released a video where she claims Suleiman had three-some with women WATCH VIDEO

We all know that he loves to attack rich and famous pastors

Daddy Freeze has reacted to the saga between Apostle Suleiman and Ms Stephanie Otabo..Quoting the bible, he says

https://www.instagram.com/p/BRSjv4_AuV3/?taken-by=daddyfreeze

Psalm 105:15 KJV
[15] Saying , Touch not mine anointed, and do my prophets no harm.
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There is no hope for this generation, it is cursed with intellectual damnation. Do you think such a renowned law firm, will gamble its reputation if it didn't have a good case?
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I read the comments on @instablog9ja and @famousblogng, since many people tagged me, and I was mortified at the level of mental putrefaction displayed. ~FRZ
#FreeTheSheeple

What do you guys think?

Source: http://www.latestamebonaija.com/2017/03/daddy-freeze-reacts-to-apostle-suleiman.html

deriz nothing like assault there..i watched the video and Tboss was 'responding' to his moves..u can watch it HERE

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Jesus is truly the bread of life!

It's exactly a year ago since former breadseller, Olajumoke, had her encounter with TY Bello. That was the moment that changed her life for good. That was the moment that turned her into a star and a model. She will ever remember this great moment, and to mark the anniversary, Olajumoke took to her IG account to thank Nigerians and most especially, TY Bello, PayPorte, Shirley Confectioneries and others involved in her success story. Read what she posted below

https://www.instagram.com/p/BRSPT-JA1sa/?taken-by=olajumoke__o&hl=en

I woke up this morning feeling very emotional, it's been one year already since God used aunty TY to turn my story around, it's been one year since all of you accepted me,gave me a chance & celebrated me like I was born to be part of this system.
I look back to January 1st 2016 & realise where my life was & what my priorities were, but January 2017 was different for my family & I.
It is still like a dream to me at times and I can only say THANK YOU JESUS & THANK YOU TO EVERYONE WHO HAS BEEN A PART OF THIS PROCESS:my supporters, colleagues, fans,critics, my role models: God bless you all & grant your heart desires.
I will continue working on myself & try not to disappoint all those that believe in me. Please bear with my mistakes & inadequacies & keep praying for me. There are nights when my husband & I wake up to pray for you all without knowing you & we end up in tears... We appreciate you & we love you all.
Thank you @tybello for being the god that I see, a mother & big sister to me,creating A Star out of a breadseller, @tiniegram, thank you @sujimotong @sujimoto81 for being "my father" and taking care of me like your child without expecting anything in return, thank you @fewmodels & @bethmodels for the patience and effort to groom me at the beginning of my career, thank you Anty Azuka @zukiliciouz for believing in me and being my pillar through the part of the fame that I never expected, thank you Payporte @payporte for allowing an inexperienced local girl to represent your brand, thank you STANBIC IBTC for ensuring that my children get educated at the right age, a privilege that I didn't have, thank you @officialshirleysconfectionery for taking me back to the bakery but as A Star this time, thank you to my LAWYER who has always been ready to fight for me to ensure that I'm treated right, thank you @qtabyevents for my first hosting opportunity.THANK YOU TO ALL WHO HAVE CONTINEOUSLY DEFENDED ME, I LOVE YOU AND I WISH I COULD OPEN UP MY HEART TO ALL OF YOU TO SEE HOW I FEEL...IMPOSSIBLE IS NOTHING
It's your girl OLAJUMOKE ORISAGUNA: the breadseller turned SUPER STAR
#Olajumoke1stanniverssary #thankful #hopeful #blessed #overwhelmed #happy #determined

Source: http://www.latestamebonaija.com/2017/03/from-breadseller-to-superstar-olajumoke.html

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good for him

Ibrahim Bukar, who resides in Borno state with his father, and earns a living by cleaning, is said to have outshone his classmates in Future Hope Private School in London Chiki area of Borno State, after being enrolled in the school by a good Samaritan, Ibrahim Yusuf.

Mr. Yusuf was moved with sympathy after he found the 12-year-old boy, said to be the breadwinner of his family and found wandering the city looking for shoes to clean, told him his story.

According to Daily Nigerian, the boy’s father was excited after he was told his son will be enrolled in a school.

“The boy took us to their house in London Chiki, but unfortunately the father was not at home. We were told the father is a trader around Custom area, so we decided to go and see him in his place of business.
“On reaching there, the father was not around also, but his goods were there on display and his business neighbours told us he went away, but will be back soon. We waited, and while waiting for him, I got to understand why he could not send his boy to school.
“We waited for about 45 minutes, and throughout the time, nobody came to buy the beans and the millet he was selling. When he eventually came back, we greeted him and informed him about our mission there. “The man almost burst into tears, he told us that he had wanted his children to go to school, but unfortunately he can’t afford to.
He told us that before the insurgency became worse, he had sent the boy to Almajiri school in Dikwa, but when boko Haram took over the place, the boy escaped and came back to Maiduguri.
“With the support of a philanthropist and my little effort, Ibrahim is now in Future Hope private school in London Chiki area of aiduguri, and so far he is doing very well. I visited the school today (Friday) to see for myself how he is doing.
“His teacher informed me that Ibrahim is already performing beyond expectations. She told me that he said he wanted to be the best student in the class, and every evening receives extra lessons from one boy in his neighbourhood.
Ibrahim can now recite the English alphabets from A to Z, just within one week. His is outshining his classmates,” Mr Yusuf said.

The school’s headteacher who spoke to newsmen, also disclosed that a decision to promote Ibrahim every year according to his level of comprehension, and receiving crash lessons to make up the skipped classes has been taken.

Source: http://www.latestamebonaija.com/2017/03/12-year-old-shoe-shiner-enrolled-in.html

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Dey should just park well

She wasn't assaulted Jare

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not needed tho!

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Seen

See these other photos and see y the Abachas can never be as poor as Dangote

http://www.latestamebonaija.com/2017/03/former-first-lady-maryam-abacha-turned.html

Money good ohh

Former first lady, Maryam Abacha turned 70 years old yesterday, March 4th. The Abacha family came together last night to celebrate their matriarch's birthday in Manhattan, New York. Photos posted by her daughter, Gumsu.

Source: http://www.latestamebonaija.com/2017/03/former-first-lady-maryam-abacha-turned.html

awww..lovebirds

lovebirds

Former Big Brother Naija housemate, Gifty was spotted once again with singer Mr 2kay, her rumored boo.

Source: http://www.latestamebonaija.com/2017/03/bbn-gifty-spotted-with-singer-mr-2kay.html

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awww... love is sweet

Annie Idibia couldn't hold back her emotions when she saw this photo of Olu Jacobs and Joke Silva at the AMVCAs....

Read what she wrote after sharing photo of the couple on her IG page

Omg love love this love ... when it isn't infatuation,when its deeper than the physical looks,when its so REAL than the bits on social media,when you understand that it isn't about who is wrong or right,when you work so hard to conquer together, when you understand forgiveness, when you understand that you r now ONE,means you can't hurt or destroy your own self, you Protect you(yours)..And yes,this takes 2 people,not just the woman or man...but both as ONE....It doesn't have to be perfect!!! this just melts my heart. I want 2 grow with u like this my "mine" .. Goodnight Fam.
#inspiration @ajokesilva

https://www.instagram.com/p/BRO7FUehPXl/?taken-by=annieidibia1&hl=en

Source: http://www.latestamebonaija.com/2017/03/annie-idibia-gushes-over-olu-jacobs.html

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WTF?!